How To Deal With Difficult People Or A Difficult Family Member

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Are you dealing with difficult people? A difficult family member, perhaps? Here are some ways on how to deal with difficult people. I have shared some wisdom from the word of God. I hope you will find this video helpful. Blessings!
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@christianbanks7458 2 года назад

I find that this tends to happen to those who God wants to use. Satan doesn’t attack those who are of little or no threat. Our words are so powerful when God choses us. When we are unaware of our anointing we misuse it and attract enemies. Use wisdom my brethren, when a man’s ways are pleasing to the Lord he makes his enemies at peace with him! 💙💯🇬🇧

@zamiwenkosi6810 3 года назад

My husband was very difficult person, every day shouting at me, no supporting our children not paying rent buying groceries, I was doing all myself, I thank God I didn't stop prying asking God to change him, for now I see change, I really thank God,

@emeliaannan7340 13 дней назад

Wow, great to hear.❤❤

@divinetruth2423 3 года назад

God pulled me away from them as they were distractions. Love them from a distance. Have peace now, send cards. When I see them again, will be healed & God will speak thru me, in LOVE.

@gracemwakyoma383 3 года назад

I really need the power of silence becoz I found myself saying things I later regret, May God help me in this area

@agnesmumbi 3 года назад

His grace is sufficient for you.

@thokojere1128 3 года назад

Me too. Eeeeey I do have anger issues... Holy Spirit fill. Me up oh Lord

@consolataoketch1575 3 года назад

This is really true my dear sis. Sometimes i think i am tha bad one coz how can a family of 8 all be against me. We reside in the same counntry but i have never met all of them for the last 10 yrs

@laokwatta 2 года назад

I am dealing with a very difficult boss who keeps over working me and discrediting my work even when I work well. Idont talk back but he gets me very angry. I needed this word. Thank you Jesus

@zikaekwu7277 3 года назад

This message is exactly what I am going through, my in-laws has dealt with me and my household we’re alive today is by God’s Grace. Today God is fighting my battles. Hallelujah

@jerisaandon1565 2 года назад

I'm thankful and teary. Im in this too.

@sunflowerpwr.8821 3 года назад

This is an area I need improvement because it's hard to bridle my tongue so I keep to myself. I don't have a lot of conflict because of my decision...but I go through this when I allow people in my life.

@tsietsanerampai4691 3 года назад

My sister- in- law always throw shades whenever we talk. I get so shocked that I can't respond but I thank God I managed to put her at arms length.

@agnesmumbi 3 года назад

God’s grace goês beyond our natural in situations like that.

@cecilia4103 3 года назад

God bless, very thoughtful 99.9%

@anisiamiller2039 3 года назад

Hi good evening my name is Anisia beharry I live in Trinidad and Tobago my mother and my sister is going again me

@beauchateau480 3 года назад

I had a sister in law who caused trouble from very early in my relationship. It eventually went on to the other members of the family, and my marriage ended in divorce. i'm better off without them.

@robinahnambuya3398 2 года назад

Yesterday I was watching you preach the gospel of blessings and at night 3pm I get back to sleep I had a lot of money go somewhere like church and I asked her how much can I offer in the same time I said no I know what I am going to offer that is a first one the second one I got one the stage asking boda boda I got a motorcycle and I leave the place to our country

@jennifernzioka81 3 года назад

I was asking God to give me directions on how to handle my rude son ...and I am sure I didn't come across this message by mistake...I thank God for this revelation

@carolador6742 2 года назад

A similar situation with my Son. I pray for God's mercy upon us.

@juleeninspires 3 года назад

Thank you sister for those important points, I was thinking the same. Instead of complaining to others about what they are doing, I tell it to the Lord in prayer and ask Him for wisdom, strength and grace for each day.

@amymwape2686 2 года назад

I have difficulty with bro in law from day one. I don't known why he feels threatened. He is very mean and hurtful.

@motolomaria3292 2 года назад

Thanks once again I now know how I can deal with my in-laws now 🙏

@juleeninspires 2 года назад

@@amymwape2686 You have to just continue be the person that God has called you to be inspite the discord. Sometimes we are praying asking God to grow spiritually and then we are faced with even more difficult people, in most cases that's the method God use to grow us.🥴 You will grow personally and spiritually stronger through this if you allow God to help you.

@juleeninspires 2 года назад

@@motolomaria3292 It works, I use to get caught into arguments and end up feeling sick after, but the Lord told me to talk to him before I speak to anyone and that my friend solved a lot of issues without me saying a word to them. Proverbs 21:1 The king's heart is in the hand of the Lord, as the rivers of water: he turneth it whithersoever he will.

@agnestalu8525 2 года назад

I thank God for Blessing me with the wisdom of keeping silent

@redq1641 3 года назад

I appreciate the wise instruction. I have to admit, it's not easy for me to be silent when offended or being mocked. Nevertheless keeping your cool is always best. Thanks sis.

@agnesmumbi 3 года назад

Amen! Keep your cool 😀

@janiasophie7237 2 года назад

Thanks so much for your piece of advice

@joannekalloo4161 2 года назад

GOD BLESS YOU, THIS IS PURE WISDOM SPEAKING STRAIGHT TO MY SPIRIT, I HAVE A LOT OF CLOSE FAMILY AND FRIENDS COMING AGAINST ME, AN I AM ALWAYS DEFENDING MYSELF AND QUESTIONING IF IT'S MY FAULT, BUT THEN I TOLD MYSELF GOD MUST BE SEPARATING ME FROM THEM,,LOL, BUT LISTENING TO YOUR VERSION, I NEED TO TAKE IT BEFORE MY GOD AND ASK HIM TO CHANGE WHAT NEEDS CHANGING IN ME TO MAKE ME A BETTER PERSON TO OTHERS AND TO GIVE ME THE ABILITY TO SPEAK KINDLY TO OTHERS FIR HIS NAME SAKE,,

@meltahmolefe865 2 года назад

@@agnesmumbi Am humble and my ears opening,so far I have to try and do some changes abt our people who can't wait to gossip abt others at church,now we were in confrence,but we learnt a lot ,by few minutes we went back home,they started to say odd abt the others and I was angry,I said a word to keep them calm, now no one talks with me,I do see that maybe my God remove them away from me,to do gud,I have learn something here,Yu motivate me great pleasure I'm appreciate the teachings stay blessed 🙏🔥🦅 I have been wanting these inspires me 👍🙏🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️

@yowanamistry5620 2 года назад

The Holy Spirit is ministering to me through you...i have been experiencing strife during my fasts and reacting negatively to the situations and today I am being set free...Praise Jesus...thank you so much Mumbi😍

@racheledwardstarawalie3060 2 года назад

Hallelujah !

@musimentapamera1970 2 года назад

Thank God for that message I have a difficult member also,but thank God

@simangelemthethewa559 Год назад

Amen

@simangelemthethewa559 Год назад

❤

@annclaxton5964 3 года назад

You're like a breath of fresh air what an inspiration I receive this blessed word in Jesus mighty name amen and amen

@Mercylynn254 3 года назад

Thank you for sharing this encouraging message, I work with a very difficult colleague, but by the grace of God I do overcome all.

@adekanyejoy8125 2 года назад

Thank you so much 🙏🏽🙏🏽

@tiangoseke4657 Год назад

Haleluya,this massage is so powerful and filled with the wisdom of God the God of heaven and the earth,thank you very much, keep on helping us with this kind of videos…

@fernandojackson7361 3 года назад

Difficult ppl/Spirits at work and in the family! I keep pressing!

@agnesmumbi 3 года назад

Amen! Way to go

@alsalls300 3 года назад

This is my message,i work in an arab home and they are very difficult sometimes,kindly be praying for me

@agnesmumbi 3 года назад

Pray all the time. God will take control of them.

@sharonakello9407 2 года назад

I'm an orphan bt all my family is against me but I chose to make God my family and I thank God for connecting me to this channel right when I was so broken deep inside.

@josephinemuthoka362 3 года назад

Amen.Heavenly father give us grace to talk to them graciously, pray for and love them too instead of raising against them because for sure a time for turnaround is coming.

@agnesmumbi 3 года назад

Amen! Blessed weekend!

@keamogetsemokoding8873 3 года назад

Amen 🙏🏼

@ellenmweemba9684 2 года назад

Thank you for this video...my own husband is a difficult person who always wants things to be done his way and ever complaining about me...I have learnt that somehow even me am a difficult person but thank God I have learnt that I need to season my words with salt I pray that God gives me the grace to carry on and win battles that am fighting right now...

@sarahterer Год назад

Dealing with a difficult husband, but God is dealing with him right now.

@vickydpaulo2964 3 года назад

Woman of God, your teachings are blessing to me, definitely...amazing, it is true all what you say...praise the Lord. ..God bless you!

@agnesmumbi 3 года назад

All glory to God and blessings to you!

@puritymwikali-gl5ol 2 года назад

@@agnesmumbi i love your chanels so much agnes

@umurungi1 3 года назад

Thank you Woman of God.I have learned a lot from this family .God bless you.

@koliswapbakada4877 2 года назад

Thank you for these wise words. I am in a situation with my daughter right now😭Nothing I do seems to be ok with her. She even denies that she is where she is because of me , her achievements, education etc. It's hurting me when she says I did nothing for her, whereas I raised her and his brothers single handedly 🙆💔I am unfortunately staying with her because of old age. This hinders my prayers a lot😥but I have noticed one thing : That she is someone who takes her frustrations to people around her😥and I happen to be her soft target. I avoid her as much as possible. Please I need prayers.🙏

@insaintv 2 года назад

They don’t always say things in a nasty way, they cover it with pretty words but their words land on your heart in a different way. Your spirit recognizes they’re not genuine in their interactions with you. You feel it but you can’t put your finger on it cause they come across as so nice and giving but you find yourself walking on eggshells around them.

@deborahjones6286 3 года назад

Your encouragement is so very much appreciated 🤗. Thank you for giving examples and reminders with scriptures about different situations and what to do when certain things difficult people say or do!😁

@shenellthomas7522 3 года назад

Right on time, I needed to hear this thank you🙌🙏

@nozukodlisani Год назад

Thank God I’ve come across the video I’ve been trying but struggling a lot to deal with a difficult family members It hurts even more when you know you have been or are so good to this person I found myself thinking do they not remember the good I’ve done? Then God reminded me to not stop doing good it’s him who sees and repays. Keeping quite has been helping me I just pray now not only to keep quite but not to harbour the offence in me. I’ve lost so much to anger outbursts and I thank God for his mercy and Grace as I recover it all in Jesus name. God bless you Agnes

@japhethmusyoka 3 года назад

Wow what a great teaching, I've such struggles with my family and workmates but I've the answer now, be blessed

@rosyditlhareng6538 3 года назад

I thank God for just putting you on my screen 2 days ago I'm almost healed by listening to you woman of God. I tried to apologies to my partner today through the phone but i think it's still not enough,i still have anger and unforgivable,but i think there is a certain demon working against my life because i cant close my mouth I'm even aggressive and physical abusive to my partner and jealousy is raining my life

@agnesmumbi 3 года назад

You have just diagnosed yourself. The best place to start is knowing enemy. Now go ahead and fight this demon until you are out.

@BibleBytes444 3 года назад

Praise God. This is so helpful... thank you for this word! 🙏❤️

@mojimosimane811 2 года назад

Halleluya,🙌 It's true sister,Difficult people are HURTING.I work with such. I prayed,I kept quiet,I'm calm,that behaviour worked for me.READING SCRIPTURES helped me a lot and praying for them🙏🙏🙏🙏Pray without ceasing,God is 💪💪💪Almighty!👏👏👏 THANK U SISTER,U uplifted me more🤗

@jenifferkinuthia5317 3 года назад

Thanks for this video. I enjoy listening to your teachings/preaching. Indeed God is using you.

@priscillanaitakangayi5144 3 года назад

Thank you so much sis Agnes! What you are talking is what happened to me. My siblings and my mother attaked me just when I prepared to go on fasting. I think God really tell you exactly what people are going through 🙏🙏

@agnesmumbi 3 года назад

I hope that didn’t stop you from fasting , my sis

@carlashelton7682 3 года назад

Amen... You have really helped me with this situation. God Bless you and Thanks... I give God praises for using you to open up our eyes to this difficult problems.. Amen🙏🏽

@lovelycherokee_2616 2 года назад

Confirmation 🙌 My sister Agnes. This video is still Powerful today a month later. Love Peace Blessings Prayers to you💜 You're Awesome..you're in my prayers thoughts and prayers..I thank God for you.🙌💛🙏PS. Your delivery is so Peaceful , Spiritual, so on point 💯 Hallelujah 🙌🙌🙌I had to learn to guard My Heart in The name of Jesus 🙌

@annettebrown1820 3 года назад

Grand rising to You Queen and thank you very much for this message God bless you

@derekharrison8889 3 года назад

I'm dealing with a difficult situation with my stepson right now. It's not easy but I'm growing through it in Jesus mighty name amen 🙏

@agnesmumbi 3 года назад

I get you. May the Lord give you the grace and make a way in your. Situation. Have a blessed weekend!

@deborahakinyi Год назад

I don't fight for my self.I will always be positive to this people ,silence,and pray for them to change

@daciaprince2277 3 года назад

I am careful with what we talk or discuss because they tend to throw it back at you.

@agnesmumbi 3 года назад

Exactly! Get wisdom always...happy weekend!

@francinefiedtkou8020 2 года назад

My husband had a stroke it affect his mind . My in-law told the hospital social worker that I was abusing him . I Visted him with my children twice. I felt so uncomfortable by following me around when I am with him . I stop going to visit him . I left my phone number no one would call . I was told by my husband twin I have to make an appointment to visit him . It’s has been four years now we have seen or here from my husband. I was told by my brother in law’s takes my husband to visit his ex : wife . I leave this whole situation in the hands if God . I am very thankful for this message. I have no anger against my in laws . Amen 🙏🏾

@fefemukawa Год назад

Right on time🎈🎉💃Thank you so much sisy Agness....now I know what to do with such people....stay blessed!

@ChishK 3 года назад

This message is liberating. Thank you so much sis

@carolinesharvest2532 3 года назад

Wonderful video! Thank you, Agness. I also suggest decreeing Isaiah 54:17 over such people and situations, "No weapon formed against me shall prosper and I shall refute every false accusation that rises up against me in judgment." I like to hand then the battle over to the Lord because His Word says, "Not by might, nor by power, but by MY Spirit says the Lord." Blessings 🕊️💜🔥

@agnesmumbi 3 года назад

Powerful! Amen 🙏🏽 Thanks for sharing

@evanatheonly6965 3 года назад

I discovered this family today 3/8/2021 and guess what I can't move from there, and just glued there video after video I thank God for you my sister I feel empowered, God is working in me 🙏🙏

@bekaogoro7071 3 года назад

Awesome message. Thank you sister Agnes

@patriciaaberdeen5598 3 года назад

A pleasant day to you and your household. There is this sister in the household of faith,who is always forwarding to me negative material to me . This upset me a lot. told her about this, she would stop for a few days and will do o the same thing again. I am praying about this. I have put this matter in the hands of GOD.

@eunicechikwavarara8437 8 месяцев назад

Yes thank you sister Agnes. God bless you. May God help us and give us wisdom. There are difficult people out there. But may help us!

@simplykenyan2645 2 года назад

Silence is powerful. Take everything to the Lord in prayer in the secret place. I had to ask for forgiveness from God so that my prayer life is not hindered. I also pray for them also daily

@gloriatosima5764 2 года назад

Love ur self first❤️‍🩹💝❤️‍🩹!!! Know who you are❤️‍🩹💝❤️‍🩹🙏!!! Give love and pray for them 💝❤️‍🩹💝!!

@sandratalpade35 2 года назад

This message has opened my eyes and given me the antidote on how to deal with this difficult individual in my life. I didn’t realize that I too played a role in it. That was in the way I responded. Thank you for your words of wisdom gleaning from The Word of God which is the voice of God🙏🏾 I will, going forward, put into practice the wise advice. God bless you!

@mmhmm9910 3 года назад

Wow,Woman of God! I THANK HIM FOR YOUR FAITHFULNESS! BLESSINGS TO YOU SISTER 🌝

@jacquelinestephens5387 2 года назад

Such blessed advice Sister. Thank you for your calm presentation 🎁🎁 it is truly a gift. Thing is I am so for family. Love to be with them, want to be close to them. The more I tried to be in harmony, the worst it gets. But God keeps reminding me, Hold your peace, let me fight your battle. Wheeee it’s so hard, but I am obeying Him. Love your post! Blessings to you.

@carinadevos6576 2 года назад

Thank you for this Word. It blessed me so much. It's my challenge but meekness and gentle words is the solution. Thank you Jesus 🙏🙏

@panodyamakaipa1392 3 года назад

Amen my sister. Thanks for the wisdom. Instead of wanting the people to change God wants us to change first.

@agnesmumbi 3 года назад

Absolutely!

@ArtwithclassByTina 3 года назад

Thx so much for this Powerful word!!! It was much need😊

@florencemensah8357 3 года назад

Prophetess Mrs Agnes Mumbi we salute the God of Abraham Isaac and Jacob for your life.we bless His name forever n ever amen .May the good Lord bless you abundantly in Jesus name.

@agnesmumbi 3 года назад

Thank you.. All praise and glory be unto our God who makes all things possible. Abundant blessings to you and your family 🙏🏽

@zelnaslabbert3018 3 года назад

Praise God,for this teaching.I learned so much of your videos.May God bless you.

@julianaabraham606 2 года назад

Agnes you are an inspiration to me, i bumped on your video, just so i know that it was God's doing. Thank you Agnes for your kind words of inspiration. God bless.

@usisahaunahii6501 3 года назад

Oh hallelujah, thanks so much woman of God; am blessed with this massage. Hope everything will be fine in ma family through this knowledge.🙏🙏🙏

@marthamokogoti7431 2 года назад

Thank you Agnes for the timely message i really really needed to hear this. Baraka

@christinahsambo9687 2 года назад

Hi Sister Yes I have learnt something. Thank you for your teachings. My prayer life is revived. God bless you.

@sicibell 2 года назад

Thank you! I am agreement with this, we all just need to get the mind and mouth connection in sync with God’s grace. God bless!

@gwendolynpowell3596 2 года назад

Good Morning 💞 This Video is speaking to me because I'm going through this... Thank You ❤️🙏🏽 with my Family 💗

@denisetobiasadinnu2370 3 года назад

Thank you so much for this message

@susanemora687 2 года назад

You're doing a wonderful job my sister Mumbi, God bless you

@TheMerrigal Год назад

Thank you so much for this message...only yesterday I was trying to get my son to assist me with an issue I am dealing with...and he took me through an interrogation with a borage of questions that left me feeling humiliated and small...up to this moment he have not assured me how and if he would assist. I sense his unwillingness...and when I told him so he shouted off at me with mean talk...this kind of behaviour left me upset and concerned. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on how to deal with difficult people. God bless you beloved woman of God.

@lucricia_mokgolo 2 года назад

These are very valuable points. Thank you!!🙏🏾

@lorrainenyathi3645 2 года назад

Great word on a blessed Sunday. Gracias

@monicahchepchirchir2728 3 года назад

So powerful am much encouraged to love myself more than waiting for someone else👌

@trinityfynesskondowe78 2 года назад

Wow! Am so blessed to hear this am experiencing such situation at my church.Now I know how to handle God bless mama

@juliantumwine7360 2 года назад

You are a blessing to me. May God give you long life so that you can continue expanding His kingdom.

@consolatawamatu4549 Год назад

Oomy God iam happy to be here. God bless you agness you are really touching the hurt of many

@chantejones9825 3 года назад

You have great videos. Praise the Lord. I thank Him for you Sister auntie ☺️

@ebbykandjeo5324 2 года назад

Thank you so much for that information so much wisdom, is very very helpful, I'm so blessed!

@munahjesuslove9296 3 года назад

God bless you so much for this upload. You're such a blessings to me.

@agnesmumbi 3 года назад

Thanks to you for being in this family. Blessed weekend!

@munahjesuslove9296 3 года назад

@@agnesmumbi thank you.

@zbetela9022 2 года назад

Wow,You are so true. God bless you!!!

@valangstatolbert6775 2 года назад

Good evening. You're a breath of fresh air. You're so anointed May GOD continue to bless you, my Si

@guhirwadeborah8420 2 года назад

I asked God so that i can look foolish by keeping quite and having peace at all that / anyone speaks toward me the LORD has helped me right now i see things working out for me.

@joycelinejaywagaia5308 2 года назад

Thankyou for this message ..I'm blessed to have been motivated .

@robina1147 3 года назад

Such wisdom and Godly advice. Thank you so much 🙏💕

@agnesmumbi 3 года назад

Thanks to you too. Happy weekend!

@robina1147 3 года назад

@@agnesmumbi You as well 🥰

@beautytembo9430 3 года назад

Thank you so much for this powerful message I'm blessed. May the good Lord continue using you.

@agnesmumbi 3 года назад

Amen! Glory to God

@eleanadurham1712 2 года назад

This is the Most uplifting Teaching I have ever come across. You’re So Anointed. And Gifted to Bring Such Uplifting Message to us. I am learning So Much From your u Because I have gone through really Bad Times Dealing With Family members who have done the Most Evil things you can Not cannot imagine I do Greatly Appreciate you and I am so blessed to have found your Channel Praise God Who Send you here 🙏🙏😇 Hallelujah Amen 🙏 🙏

@nombulelozulu602 2 года назад

I am at a point of despair but watching your videos made me lifted🙏❤thank you

@petronellasikaaze-qt7zv 8 месяцев назад

Thank you for the this powerful.word that has come at a right time

@thandekazwane3985 2 года назад

Amen woman of I'm so blessed to be the part of this family its was during my fasting.My Aunt is so difficult to me and lead to not even want to talk to me I feel so bad about her attitude when I great her she will keep quiet. I love her.

@emilysang2759 2 года назад

Thank you Sis this is what I Just needed,My in-laws and my Rude Son have been a night mare to my prayer Life,but thank you for this Video, kindly continue praying for me,am also praying.

@lovelycherokee_2616 3 года назад

Thanks for sharing such A Powerful Message Confirmation. You didn't miss a Step 🙏 GOD continue Blessings to you 💛🙏

@agnesmumbi 3 года назад

Praise the Lord! Blessings to you too

@sarahtalidda6244 2 года назад

Thank you dear. This is very important to me and my children.

@peninahkanario2735 2 года назад

Thank you Agnes ,I got the answer to the current situation am going through,,,l honor the LORD,,,,, bless you and your ministry

@rosemaryehonwa4620 2 года назад

My sister more grace upon you, I have been so blessed with your advice , may God Almighty continue to empowering you IJNA Keep on the good work .

@lindaackaa8575 2 года назад

Thanks...I really needed to here this...am most grateful

@christinemukami8307 2 года назад

Have listened to your teachings and I thank God for you.You are God sent may God bless you so much have learnt alot and still learning much

@asumbelaclarisse5357 3 года назад

Thank you , this massage has uplifted me, I feel blessed 🙏🙏👍

@Cynthia89671 3 года назад

This message blessed me! I’m a victim of difficult siblings. Praying for peace ♥️

@agnesmumbi 3 года назад

Amen! Praying for peace. May the Lord give you the grace and make a way of escape for you, in Jesus’ name.

@danilaroche1156 3 года назад

I'm in a similar position with family. I don't attend all the holiday/ birthday events. I use discernment and only follow God's instructions concerning very toxic family. Put some distance between you and difficult, even dangerous people.