How To Deal With Loneliness 

no shit. shit.

I guess we all aren’t so alone if there is so many of us.

@@bigkarl6367 yes we are. Divided into small beton boxes and unaware of each other. Not to talk about fb or google...

RU-vid knows everything

😂😂😭😭😭

Well maybe there isn’t; you know, being alone isn’t a direct cause of there being something deeply wrong about someone, and in any case, if there really were something deeply wrong about you, there still exists the possibility of fixing it

I've been there before, it sucks, you start to question your mental health, perhaps you're more introverted than others around you and that isn't bad in any sense, however I should recommend that you develop a hobbies and invite others to do play with you, I can assure you that there are a million people out there who also feel lonely, waiting for a friend, someone to share their lives with so be there for them and you'll have plenty of friends

@@lliw4934 I agree. My few close friends were made from sharing a hobby with an acquaintance.

SAMEE i had this question all day running through my head, but sooner or later we will find someone, don't you worry stranger :) we will get through this awful feeling together!

Remember theirs a diffrence between lonelyness and neglect. Why are you lonley. is it becuse you chose? or are you being neglected. Really think about and i hope you well.

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your 160k subscribers would disagree

@@amnesiac5429 My channel is dead I don't think they care anymore

@@القناةالشاملة-ث5غ well if you make use of your subscribers count and make content that deserves to be cared about then why wouldn't they like it

Thanks man! I love your stuff too!

Man... I can't either, but these videos intrigue me.

lol

its so tough when the comfort of being alone is what makes you stay in that room despite that the feeling of being alone is what is breaking you from the inside. sometimes i'm scared that this loneliness will last forever since its all i've ever known. its been three years since you've posted this comment but i hope you found a way to escape that room just like how i hope i will one day escape

Hope things are looking up for ya. Good luck man

@@thebelletoll7033 wow

Thanks man

Thanks dude. Hope y'all have a great day :)

💖

No.

thank you, you too

me too

Same lol

Dear fellow humans! I'm sorry you feel this way! I wish I could help. Know that a perfect stranger somewhere far away feels empathy for you, hopes you're okay, and hopes you all find peace!

@@johnmanno2052 you made it seem like you are an alien. Bro?

I'm not an alien. But I do feel sad that so many people are alienated.

Or an animal

@@user-gy4we5rt4y no

@@hexcrotentanum407 yes

ain't it man...

People treat me like a god as well, they ignore my existence until they need something.

True words.

What?

dear mikel, english is not my mother tounge ... can you (or sby else here) explain to me the meaning of the word "strongly" in connection with "existing" and "things" ... or is it a famous quote ... just curious and mostly always eager to learn something new.

@@guzz1965 To me it expresses really nicely the existentialist position towards life. I'm pretty sure the protagonist of Sartre's "La Nausée" uses it at some point and it struck me as a perfect way to express being born from no fault of yours yet having to make sense (or not) of your immediate present.

@@fenn1729 awesome ... thank you!

Well me and you And probably many other's I feel the same But it stinks real hard when i learn something new and want to tell it to would and discuss how I feel about it no one is there

Same

Same

Same

Same

Hope you are ok dude.

It's been a while since you posted this, hope you're doing okay.

I feel you. I was a very introvert person but covid makes me want to see people.

I relate to this so much it’s not funny

And yet instead of giving advice on how to deal with lonlyness I got a physiology lecture

assuming we are the directors of our lives ... and i am pretty sure we are ... in combination with "fate" ... or how ever "the uncontrollable" ;-) is called i can tell you that e.g. i myself directed countless "walks of shame" in my live. maybe that has a little to do with what you are describing above. self acceptance and even self love saved literally my butt... though i am still pretty bad at the second one ;-)

@@guzz1965 Heh... I can't say for certain if I've ever had such a walk. Shame is more-or-less my default state... But really, I don't think that's what this was. I told my roommate I would get him back his groceries, and I did. And, that's the whole story, to that particular day... Now the next day... Oh boy! Deeply disturbed by what seemed to me, a clear shift in the attitude around my town, I set out on another walk. I approached people in a few different ways, but eventually I found a good opener - "Hello, I am not trying to collect petitions, and I am not a member of any political group. I am literally a crazy man who has wonderered out on the street, after watching too much television and seeing too much youtube. Now I am simply trying to have a conversation about all the things I've seen." The faster I could say it, the better. People like a good laugh after all. During that day, I was able to chat with a few different people, although the conversations tended to go the same. (It seems I dominated every interaction, which I must say I do regret...) What we discussed, started with the black lives movement, then shifted to argumentation over political domination... Now I'm using the word argument very loosely here... Maybe I'm just THAT intimidating... But for most for much of what I said and asked, I was uncontested in response... I DID get into one argument with an ex-vet over the nature of urban warfare, and although we could not agree, he complemented me for having studied the subject. I have not studied urban warfare. We are approaching something of a crisis I think. Although, it has since been brought to my attention, that I could have prompted people into giving me this response. I'm not crazy, I guess. Although maybe people were just being nice to me. If this crisis is real I will not survive it, as I am an individual who requires an extreme investment of resources to keep alive (and this is constant shame to me). Before I go out I have a duty to perform. Although, I do not know what this is. At this point in time, I am attempting to better myself, as I strive to find some way, at providing myself as a resource, for whatever this crisis is to come. I am not strong enough to provide myself physically, at least not once I start missing a few doses on my medication. Fortunately, I do seem to have some mental capacity, and I know a person's thoughts can survive the person who first thought them. However, at this point my thoughts are too tainted. I doubt they will be of much value. So I am now working to better myself as a person. Or maybe I'm just panicking...

Also, thank you for sharing your experience on this. Much cool, my man XD!!!

Nikolas Boyd that was pretty entertaining and insightful, im happy to hear that youre taking steps (literally) to better yourself, and i applaud you for interacting with people in an interesting, somewhat out there manner, im sure it worked well as a conversation starter

@@killanzuxxu8675 Thank you for the time, took to respond, as well as your supporting words. I just hope no one got (too) weirded out. Trying to build up a bit more social awareness before doing it again...

month later...u doin any better bro?

Ricky Good Yeah. I’m getting better mate. I appreciate it. I started seeing a therapist through Better Help, am able to see friends a bit more now that the world’s started to open back up, and am learning to understand the importance of self talk and thought. Gotten into law of attraction (from a scientific, psychological viewpoint) and positive affirmations. Over-all I’m doing better. Things are still rough at times and the loneliness gets to me every now and then but mostly getting better. Learning to love myself as well. Perhaps for the first time ever. Thanks for checking in ✌🏻🖤

@@CAVFIFTEEN I'm also hopeing to improve my self talk and stop being my worst enemy..im glad i " connected" w someone goin thru the same things..best wishes..ur bro in Alabama..

Ricky Good thanks man. Same to you. Your bro in Florida

Christian Verstappen ah wholesome

are you ok? n-n

Hello?

@@neastfrank1774 nope life is still bad

@@cryptogf :( I hope things get better for you

nothing is permanent, ever. find an outlet to release those emotions and then go back into the world, in small steps. maybe online with people you don’t know, then in person. i feel your pain, sorry man. you’ll get better soon.

Loneliness is different than being alone. You don’t have a choice when you’re lonely, otherwise you’d just be alone for a while.

Wanna get along?

Theres a lot to sift through until you get a good deal, if not all interactions are the lowest common denominator/opportunistic/climbinng or flexing socially approved ladder

Me too but I think usually I was the problem. Too much focus on my feelings and not enuff on other ppl's interests. I was immature and lonely then.

Birds of a feather.

lol so truu, this cracked me up.

i feel u lmao

Thanks

I think this is the premise of Neon Genesis Evangelion

Do the things I will mention now, or stay in this tiring cycle: Toss of your internet friends, say to them you have decided to stop with all of this, at the school/your work/the street, it do not mattrer where, you will talk with a girl you found interesting, you will do it with 3 girls. One after another. You will laugh and and joy with each, leaving the moment and only the present.

@@animevoice17 thanks bra but i can’t cut off my internet friends cuz i need some cuz i make music lmaooo, there is no girl i find interesting tho cuz i know literally NO girl zero girls 😭😭 this crazy

me too

That's because you expect too much out of yourself. Make peace with loneliness, not became an enemy with it.

You sure got my attention with your comments. Can't help but laugh out loud.

You're okay friend, I too don't have many friends or a partner, but you have independence. I'm unemployed and very unmotivated to move in life, but you have a job and a house of your own. I think you should be proud and maybe don't worry about it too much, it would be a natural thing to happen. My best friend only happened because i said hi to him when no one in the class did. We're still friends to this day, and i portray him as one of my only true friends. I hope you find someone and take care of yourself.

No complaining here! His videos are so excellent, I just think they deserve to be heard in the highest quality audio! Somebody start a GoFundMe or something 😂

@xLucky Sinz thanks hope you are doing well too 😊❤👊✌

You wanted to settle down since you were 14? That's something. It's feels so good to know you have got great kids now. I hope they doing okay?

I feel you

yo i can relate competelt besides the dog part,they are "at school friends",like most of em you only spend time with at school and thats where it ends,but at home you're lonely af