What irritates me the most about nosey people is the fact that they're to stupid to know when they're over stepping a boundary...being disrespectful by asking inappropriate questions. I have zero patience for that type of ignorance.
My co-workers keep asking me how much money I make. Because I'm Part time and they are full time. I keep telling them in a nice way to stop but they won't listen to me. How can I tell them to stop in a firm way but not rude?
GJJH Wanderer What kind of place u work at? You might have to ask the supervisor they to nosy. Ask them what ur SSN number, how much is ur rent, etc . Sorry to said no more Mrs Nice girl because u said they want stop. It time to go up level. Some people was raise being nosy adults that normally for them. When u see they don’t like it tell her just like u don’t like it stay out of my business. U got a lot gossip people at ur job.
It's funny because I looked this up because my grandmother is the nosy person in question, but the thing is she tells me a lot about what's going on in her personal life too, I honestly just wish that she would leave me be and stop trying to talk to me every five minutes, she talks a lot and repeats what she already said too, but she's at the age so I guess she'll never really understand
When someone ask you a nosey question just ask them " why do you want to know?" That usually will shut them up quickly. I also like the uncomfortable feeling they get with the unexpected question.
I like to say to nosey people.. “what’s the long number on your debit card, and the last 4 digits on the back? They don’t say anything else after hearing that. Works a treat. Good talk
Hi Tyler, nosey people don't have no life to much time on they hand.Instead of minding other people business they missing out on there own business.There miserable people.
Someone from my past was brillant at answering these questions. He would usually answer "why?" to every question, and then again "why"? Hhehehhehe loved it.
Nosy people are the reason why Iam PRIVATE. I refuse to tell my business to anyone. Nosy people are gossips. If people attempt to get in my business I let em know it's not up for discussion. Or if its mild I give them a vague answer that they cant run and spread rumors with.
Ill intentions seem to be the motivation. No respect for boundaries or basic human rights for privacy. Lazy and manipulative. Unsettling. Thanks for the insight.
I hate all questions... Honestly I'm getting to the point that I don't want to communicate with most ppl... I don't care what they got going on and I'm always taken back by the fact that they even care to ask my personal business in the first place...😑
@@karinam4115 I have mastered creating the solitude I desire while having selective/limited contact with any/all in my life... I don't care who that somebody is. Their comfort NEVER overrides my personal comfort...
Thank you for ideas to deal with these nosy people! I cant stand obnoxious rude nosy people!!! I treat people with respect and don't intrude on others life!!! My brothers friend was at my house the other day snooping around my house and going through my trash and I swear to God he was snooping in my bathroom!!!! He then had the nerve to try to invite himself over my house the next day to do yard work that I never asked him to do!!! I am furious that people think they can invade peoples privacy!!!
You don’t have to say all that in a robotic voice. When they ask nosey questions just say “unhuh” and don’t even look at them. Works like a charm. Eveytime some ask you a personal nosey question that you don’t feel like answering just say “unhuh” can keep it pushing
nosy people want to be in your business because they have know of there on .so that's why they nosy about your business.nosy need to take 6months to mind there own business and leave other people business alone.great video Tyler.✌✌✌✌✌
Thank you this was exactly what I've been looking for and for a very long time. It took me getting older, smarter, angrier, and too tired of some of the same people casually asking stuff they have no business knowing. I realized these types of people need to not only be called on their inappropriate behavior but straight up hung out to dry by embarrassing them. No one owes anyone personal info about their lives, not even family who may think they have the right when they don't. It feels good to not only be as serious as I need to be and smile only when I feel like it, but putting people tactfully in their place, assertively, and sweetly can be a joy if it's effective and and reduces stress knowing that those nosy people are taking it somewhere else because we let them know they won't be getting their thirsty, desperate gossip from me or my life. Thanks for the help to be more assertive.
You keep it so Real. Love it. So grateful to have found your channel. Dealing with family looking at my bank receipts asking me about my MONEY! Absolutely insane. I'm a grown woman.
I work with the ultimate nosey Parker, liar and gossiping backstabber. Always asking did I meet a girlfriend? Wanting to see pictures of my female friends. I don’t know how to answer it.
The nosy type I'm dealing with is the one that the more you stray away from the more it gets interpreted as "please keep asking me more questions and talk to me more" for some reason. I got to the point where I just completely ignored their presence. Exhaustion of teaching the untaughtable is unbearable.
Perfect timing my biological father always wants to know about my business I am running, trying to give me advice I didn't ask for like he's helping me. But hasn't even started his own when he said he would. He's has been jealous of me my whole life.
This is the best advice Tyler I needed this lesson. I might bring up the fact I got diarrhea and gotta go 🚶🤣 as that's the type of subject nobody wants to talk about!! LOL. Your ideas are great. Thank you
GM , and Thanking you for the reminder that there are polite and tactful ways of handling these situations. A person may give themselves over with out editing before the words come out . 🙏
Nosy people that hide the fact they are nosy is more irritating than anything, at least someone that's obviously nosy you can say straight up, mind your own damn biz, but when they're nosy on the dl you have to leave them notes😂
This is interesting, because intrusive people are everywhere! I happen to live in a town where gossip travels at the speed of light. My favorite response to intrusive people is as follows; " I am so sorry, I realize you may be asking a simple question, but with all due respect, I take my right to privacy very seriously and you should do the same.
What do I do with housemate who is sitting for hours in the living room and the minute I step in the kitchen, they come running and stick their nose to what I'm cooking.. WTF
My neighbour doesn't understand boundaries, I get her talking through my hedge and I have had to block of my hedge. And when I go out of my house and she sees me I say I am busy and walk on i am now getting a Do not Disturb sign #uk
I’m just going to put this out there but in my case I’m in such a happy relationship with my girlfriend of 3 years. Most disturbing is that now this gives more nosey people more ammunition to pry into my love life that is generally happy and these nosey people are miserable with their spouses or partner or whoever.
We have a nosey neighbor, who spies on me and my wife. I could see him his shadows peeping on his blinds at night when we come home. He always says he is a vegetarian which means we can't do barbecue.
I’m having that problem right now. They complain about everything we do. We can’t even put a pop up gazebo in our own yard without them telling us to take it down.
Listen I got this one nosey ass neighbour who's always watching people outside his window always getting into people's business and asking an hour others! Nosey as hell! 👃The man just can't keep to himself
I hate when my roommate goes looking around in my space and through my stuff every time I leave the room. What's worse is when she stalks my RU-vid history also and monitors absolutely everything I do that she can, I hope you see this and stop your bullshit Cassy, it's none of your business, get your own life- your own hobby.
I was in the car with my bro at home and my NN turned up and started talking to him and being nosy. I said to my brother hurry up we do have to go, keep going on at him to move. My bro talks to anyone, but I think he told him too much already in 1 minutes, but I watched her start her next nosy question and shut her down and she moved on, most of the damage had been done but she certainly made it clear that I was unhappy. #england
The uninteresting stuff. Fantastic. Otherwise known as 'grey rock'. Boring, lacking in drama, it bores them stupid. Then they go elsewhere looking for trouble
I also tell these bozos to mind their own business. If they get offended by that, good! It serves them right, and if they were to touch even a hair on my head, oh, boy, would they be sorry!
Tell them straight up Wow you're Nosey You need to mind your own business im going to keep reminding them stay out of my business. Didn't i tell you to mind your own business?