HOW TO DEAL WITH TODDLER TANTRUMS 

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

I hate tantrum.

Bless you your amazing 🤍🕊️🌷

GIRL BREAK THE GENERATIONAL CURSE! Im hispanic as well and our culture is so TOXIC in parenting! Let's be the change! It comes so hard for us because we are used to a different style!

@@LAYDEEYASMIN girl yes! i’m doing the best i can 😮‍💨

@@bluuprojectbaby9389 I'm black. African specifically. I've been witness to parents slapping their toddlers whenever they get tantrums. My parents decided to get a child in their late 40s and believe me when I say, I am not supportive for how they deal with my brother when he gets tantrums. They don't slap him, but they raise their voices at him. I'm watching this so that I can learn to deal with his tantrums too.

@@lastseenontuesday6040 yess my parents did that with my siblings and I and now that i have my own daughter i’m doing my best to help her with her tantrums ❤️‍🩹

Thank you.

Thank you

Get that woman a coffee!

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

😂😂

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

Did u ever find a way to calm yourself asking for myself I'm going through the same thing

@@cassiengoddard4510 I don’t have a super sophisticated process and it can depend on the day but yeah… I pretty much think about how I feel when I’m crying about something important to me so I can relate to her and tap into some compassion first. Then I try to breathe with her, tap my chest and say we’re gonna breathe and count to 10. If she can’t focus and breathe (she usually doesnt) I ask her to please tell me or show me what she wants because I can’t understand her when she’s crying. If all of that doesn’t work, I just sit there and wait until she’s done, and tell her I’m here for her. Sometimes she’ll hug me after. Sometimes she’ll tell me to go away. It’s a lot.

Same here

Thats what I'm trying to train myself too. I can't stay calm everytime when she starts crying out of nowhere 😔 Trying to be calm most of the time, but not happening everytime. It is sometimes so stressful to have a toddler and being a pregnant. But this tips helped me a lot to keep in mind

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

All you need to do is do your best and not physicly abuse your son. We all learn and this videos first part is really important: They arent doing it bc they want to be mean they do it bc their brains cant do anything else. Its difficult, i know. When my daughter screams and lays on the floor it makes me want to turn to the methods that my parents used.. But i know better! It has gotten better! Slowly shes starting to reconise her own emotions and shat causes them and has started to calm herself down before the big tantrum. We will get through this!

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

Most of this does not seem realistic when a child is having a tantrum.

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

Yes I tried it and it didn't work. I'd like to see how this actually works in action

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

I was wondering the same thing

I agree I've cried my eyes out because I'm like what am I doing wrong

@@vanessa386 same situation right now

Totally. I’m about to lose my mind, so is my husband.

There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo RU-vid channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

It’s not a man thing, it’s a hard path vs easy path thing. It’s your choice

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo RU-vid channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

You are welcome. I hope it helps. It's such a hard time but as long as you can keep your cool it will pass eventually, I promise!

I would like to see a video of you modeling this please. Thank you!

I agree I have a 3 1/2 year old also.

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

SAME LOL. Same age and we started throwing horrifically huge tantrums a few days ago. 😱 Full out shrieking, biting, hitting etc. Haha.

My 18 month old grandson does the same

17 month old grandson... Same way

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

Same

I’m there with you . It’s mentally exhausting . My son is about to be 2 . 😩

I thought it was just me my son is 11 months

My daughter is about to turn 3 but it's killing me .l even sometimes think its just this generation 🤣🤣

@@marymann6407 exactly & he's getting worse! Smh

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

Yeah right! 😂 And you remember everything that you did from the day you were born? 😂😀

😂 dr visits are the worst because it be so quiet there and everyone just be looking lol Awkward

Lol my stepmother being blond and caucasion would just walk away at the store 😅I would left my siblings when I was a teen as we all looked similar . it was embarrassing that people stared . But they all grew to to be amazing humans .🤩

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

Why would a loving mom or dad EVER give their kid pus and blo*d filled milk? What kind of snacks are you giving? Hopefully nongmo organic food... no poison for the kiddos, right?

I don’t think regulation with food is a nice foundation, very easy to resort to and have a messed up relationship, sometimes the need it and the tantrum was about being hungry or whatever but not all the time probably

There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo RU-vid channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

I feel your pain mine too, I thought I was patient… now i don’t know

In the exact same way

Lol

You don't deal with that at all. Adults are not children. It is also not your child to worry about. You just remove yourself from the situation. If your son chose that woman, that is his wish and he will deal with it himself. It's not your place to even talk about it, it's their relationship and their family.

Did tou have him checked out? I heard high functioning kids could be difficult to deal with

My godson has autism and throws petty fits 😂 what i do is leave the room for a bit and let him cry til he stops and cocomelon works too

There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo RU-vid channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

Yes, but we all learn, make mistakes and grow! Its hard but you can get it done and become quite a master at it

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

Dad's rock. We need you to show tough love sometimes to balance the woman's overindulgence. We can't help overindulging...Something about birthing ties us to our children.

There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo RU-vid channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

Thanks for your comment Devon. I agree, parenting these days is different for many people than is was in generations past. It can be very lonely, exhausing and overwhelming if you don't have the benefit of an extended family or community to support you. I think it's great that people have a range of options for seeking support and finding new ways of handling situations when they feel that they aren't parenting they way that they would like to, or when they feel they want to do things differently from how they were raised. Parenting is hard work! I do not profess to be an expert, but I do like to share what I've learned from my studies and experience, in the hope that it can help others.

@@PlayfulPathways Please, you don't have to defend yourself and your work. My comment isn't directed at you, it's the phenomenon of this present time, that internet creates more than ever a tendency to grasp for solutions, answers, and advice from the outside in, while the inside is the DIY reservoir for self-reliance, and authentic personal solutions. Besides, it breeds resilience and confidence, in an inner foundation, an embodiment. Nowadays, parents' confidence is paper-thin, easy to tear apart by a comment or opinion that is different than their own. Thinking for oneself is out of fashion often. I'm an experienced nanny, and I've observed this trend.

I totally agree with you. As a sahm of a deaf toddler true support systems change everything. And in today's society other adults just stand back and judge your parenting if a child is struggling.

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

They actually smart enough to understand. Yes you need just to tell them more than once, but they do get it.

Everything is cause and effect. So just pay attention to your response to their behaviour. Change the effect to the cause 😜

@@kennyputri3202 yes indeed.

There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo RU-vid channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

Thank you so much!!!

@@VangKevinCatfish your welcome :)

The first part is also important in understanding whats physically happening with them!

Thanks!

There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo RU-vid channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

This is abuse.

@@salandersalgado4038 haha you don't know jack shit. Mind your business.

There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo RU-vid channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

Dont say no,dont,stop. Rather say what is expected and coregulate

Don't give up!

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

Wait until 3-3.5 years old. That's when sh*t hits the fan! 😂 18 months old tantrums are nothing compared to those

Then don't give them everything.

There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo RU-vid channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo RU-vid channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo RU-vid channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

Thanks for your comment. Dealing with toddler tantrums can be very frustrating and exhausing, but it's important to remember that at 2yrs 8months your child does not yet have the ability to manipulate or understand long term consequences/responses. Offering comfort and sympathy to a child who is upset or distressed is the best way to get them back to a regulated state and help them learn to understand and cope with their feelings. You don't have to change your limit, rule or expectation, and in fact it doesn't help your child learn to cope with disappointment/ frustration if you change the boundary because they are struggling to accept it. You can maintain the expectation AND offer them comfort - this is the way to support children to learn to self-regulate.

Most likely the mom said it to the child before, it could have been even said as a joke to another adult: "When he is throwing tantrums, I feel like I want to k*ll that child". Children don't understand jokes and they don't understand sarcasm, they will take everything literally and then repeat it back to adults in a different situation.

Thanks for the question. Tbh, if a child is screaming so loudly that they can't hear you, then they are unlikely to be in a condition to understand what you are saying. The best thing to do is to make sure that you are calm and regulated (modelling deep breathing can help you both), sit with them (if you can) and offer comforting gestures or sounds (think low, slow and quiet) until they have started to calm down, then you can start to use words to connect with them. Leave all the more demanding talking stuff until they are fully calm and back in their thinking mind.

Same here hayssst

Usually if my kiddo is crying after a nap thats his way of telling me he needs more sleep. Now if this is a morning where we need to go at a certain time, rocking him and giving him his water bottle might work. But usually i just have to accept the attitude he gives 🥲🥲🥲

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

Thank you!

Thanks Heather!

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RU-vid, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

Really lost because my dad used to whoop the ever loving mess out of me. Different times.

There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo RU-vid channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

Take him to the doctor dumbass you don't need to be a genius to figure that out.

Take him to doctor to get checked!

How is he?

There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo RU-vid channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

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There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo RU-vid channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

Pay attention to your reaction when they do that. Sometime they do certain behaviour looking for attention, doesn’t matter if it’s a good or bad reaction.

There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo RU-vid channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions

Hahaha, ice water! 😄😅 ... Really? 🤔

Hi, but how do you use the tank?

You dunked him in ice water? Did you pour it over his head? Did you throw it at his body? How old is he now? Is he a good human now?

@@torreycat7716 Thx for your concern. All of my children are very accomplished in their fields and love God and Jesus Christ. Peace

Horrible lol. Imagine that whenever u had emotions someone poured water on you. Ice water doesn’t teach self regulation. It doesn’t teach them to distinguish their emotions. It shows that their dad is lazy and doesn’t wanna do the work with the child and help them through it

There is permanent herbs to improve autism. It’s a medicine you can get from Dr Oyalo RU-vid channel, his herbs have made my son improve perfectly in his speech and social skills. He is now verbal, responding to name and instructions