Actually for all those who took her incorrectly all she meant was opposite attract each other so if you behave like a man protective and strong then the people who are not strong enough will be attracted to you so that you can protect them, and then you will complain i don't feel like lady i need to be strong always.. So if you wanted to attract the strong and protective man then you should learn how to be protected, and for that you need to say that my man is hero so that it is his responsibility to protect you like you are awakening his inner strength for that. MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE TOO!!
Perfectly summarized! And indeed some women might be happier with men who are less strong, especially if the woman is very career and goal driven. Then he can balance her, but at some point she can burn out and become discontent. Then she needs to consciously build up her feminine power to feel happier
@@LadaDuncheva perhaps you should help her phrase things differently. this video was downright offensive at some points and im giving her the benefit of the doubt but others might not.
@@LadaDuncheva yeah that is true.. Even i am very goal oriented and career driven and the man i am with is very shy and very feminine like, i am happy with him but when i need him he is never there for me, thinking that i can handle it alone always.. I always told him i can do things with my own, so he feels he is not responsible to help me when i need him.. So i understand what natalia meant exactly..!! 😊😅
@@LadaDuncheva I felt offended and I did not felt like giving the benefit of doubt. Even my beloved deceased grandmother displayed balance between male and female energies, she worked a lot and had a big family. Basically she expressed a balance of being a great matriachal figure and a boss. Lots of cardinal healthyly balanced signs on her chart. This felt to me a shadow libra aspect really focused on appearences and image and surpressing female energy and inviting inauthentic behavior for plenty of women. ( 1)True energetic balance is not achieved by downplaying energy that is already there, surpressing a side of you leads to inauthentic behavior that leads to loss of balance and energy and a relationship that won't last, (2) Surpreessing active cardinal chart energies on the chart of women means surpressing a side of you...and this could make themselves feel resentfull...even in on old age. (3) Also the so called men could resent the woman that is surpreessing their energies on dealings with them because they may very well feel even unconsciously this and lose an opportunity for growth. (4) Finally being female means being sensitive, empathic and intuitive; and on my book even if sensitivity is seen as weakness even whem men this day and age express is .....it is actually a form of energetic intelligence; empathy means holding space for other's feelings and not soothing the fragile male ego, and being intuitive means being wise and not surpreessing your self and actually being authentic and striking for real grounded balance in this cenario. Lada Duncheva would you please address this concerns ? I feel this is all shadow libra, my Venus in libra and cardinal signs on my chart feel this to be poor advice all around, I love your channel but I'm afraid women that have male signatures on their chart or male oriented signs on their north node won't take this well at all and within reason.
I really want the money one asap. I don't think some ppl understand the spiritual aspects of the sacred feminine energy and the chakras and the imbalance a lot of us have. English is not her first language and Bulgaria/Russia have a different understanding of certain sayings. I don't believe this woman meant to be stupid, she and Lada are very intelligent. I believe she is trying to get women to invoke the spirit of surrender and to value it. I am a warrior and have always been proud of that. It makes me feel strong but it also makes me push myself to the point of ill health. I learned about surrender this year. It's about allowing the natural essence of the Divine Feminine to flow through you. This may not be for everyone but I am glad Lada brought this lady to her channel because women need healing. Not just to get a man or money but to fulfill their highest purpose which in some cases may include relationships and financial power. Thank you Natalia and Lada.
I want to know how many of the women disagreeing a) are in a happy, long term heterosexual relationship and b) not on a path to burnout. Women are meant to be FREE SPIRITS, not bound to duty. Only by mastering our feminine energy (in a balanced way) can we truly be free.
Reminds me of the book think like a man act like a lady,, it’s all about how you make the man feel,, the man knows youre powerful but he wants you to allow him to be the power and support for you,, we need to Allow/trust
This is so necessary today. Women need to rise again, and i mean to get into their feminine energy. Men are here to profess and provide and its our job to be feminine. This does not mean we are weak. The opposite in fact: we use our gifts well, we are smart and allow men to be men, rise up status with them to reach more influence and be able to spread our base chakra with the man giving us the stability. The man in return benefits from our feminine, creative energy and gets even stronger. I keep saying this, but most masuline women are so extremely negative about it. Its crazy how much impact the male dominance has brought them! Keep doing these videos lada and natalia! please and lets spread the word. Tanja - dating coach
Yes! Yes! You too, so right, thank you, I am with you on this one as I commented earier on Miss Lida's message.. some woman are soooooo stupid and do not get it!!! Sometimes I am embarasad that I am women...and no wonder that some are without any success in their lifes as they can not understan basics!
With all due respect, I think there are different types of women. I want a man to see me as his equal. Not behind him, not ahead but equal. I refuse to cater to the male ego just to have someone. We work together or we don’t work. I’m fire and air dominant so maybe that’s why this is a harder concept for me to grasp. That being said I really like Natalia’s energy and I think there is something to learn from her. Thanks Lada for bringing her to your channel!
@@tamlynn786 you were saying you want a man to see you as his equal. Nataliya did not say you should feel unequal to the man, only that you should tap into the female energy you have to bring out his male energy and create balance.
I am grateful that you have crossed the language barrier. I feel so proud of you. U did awesome.soon none will come to know that English is not your first language .keep it up natalia.
I watched your last video Natalia and it has already changed my life. And I'm about to watch this one.. Thank you! Just a few things you said really made me turn a switch. (Afterward I met someone and it feels really aligned..) I think it was mostly you talking about the parent relationship.. I cant imagine what a seminar with you would bring for me.. But I hope I can participate in one in the future!! You and Lada are truly amazing gifts THANK YOU!!!!💖
I loved most of Disney movies when I was a kid but no movie moved me as much as Mulan did! Where the woman was a hero! I can totally say “I trust my man, my man is strong , he’s a hero” but I also know that “I’m strong and I’m a hero and more than anyone I trust myself because I’m the only one who will be with myself for the whole life and everyone else will come and go!
Beletrista Bennett right? Also they’re many powerful women in Hollywood and they didn’t attract weak men because you can still be powerful and feminine at the same time ! Also we need to encourage men to be more in touch with their feminine side so they would stop operating from their ego which results in creating wars!
@@cherryblossom585 There are powerful women e-v-e-r-y-w-h-e-r-e THANK GOD!But I agree with you call energetically from your vibration your male counterpart. Don't even mention Hollywood bc I'll think about Harvey Weinstein and how the toxic male ego DOES exist and how is dangerous to inflate it....by surpressing female energy or downplaying it! You will create a monster! That's why I felt offended by this speech, I really like Lada and respect this channel but this speech? Very toxic and got me worried.Even so as Lada (who is a Libra north node) mentioned that Nathalia is a moon in cancer and venus in Libra. That made no sense to me as those signs are cardinal and drynamic and imply movement, action, resolve and determination. So I talked about exactly your point on other comments women should have all of that old fashioned female traits recognized as strenght and empowered. Empathy is seen even United Nations as important in the information age, intuition is even reason for envy between businessmen (not that they will recognise as female energy they will call it instincts), and sensitivity (that many men display and are unfortunatelly called as less than a man which is rediculous) is a form of energetic intelligence. But my point is that we need balance between men and women and between male and female energies on our natal charts and within, but this can only come from authenticity.
Also in relathionships I was talking about authenticity and calling vibrationaly what is truly meant for you without pretense, fool mind games or fake balancing a so called relationship. When you stand in your authentic highest vibration that is composed by your chart you will call your divine male counterpart that sees you for who you are flaws and all and that respects you enough as truly an equal and when your energy is balanced and his is too then the relationship can grow and evolve. Otherwise I feel like this is coming from the shadow libra aspect really focused on appearences and image and surpressing female energy and inviting inauthentic behavior for plenty of women. ( 1)True energetic balance is not achieved by downplaying energy that is already there, surpressing a side of you leads to inauthentic behavior that leads to loss of your energy and balance and a relationship that won't last, (2) Surpreessing active cardinal chart energies on the chart of women means surpressing a side of you...and this could make themselves feel resentfull...even in on old age. (3) Also the so called men could resent the woman that is surpreessing their energies on dealings with them because they may very well feel even unconsciously this and lose an opportunity for growth. (4) Finally being female means being sensitive, empathic and intuitive; and on my book even if sensitivity is seen as weakness even whem men this day and age express is .....it is actually a form of energetic intelligence; empathy means holding space for other's feelings and not soothing the fragile male ego, and being intuitive means being wise and not surpreessing yourself and actually being authentic and striking for real grounded balance in this cenario.
But men could very well have the right to display empathy, sensitivity and intuition (without calling it by any other name) and women can very well be heroines with determination, dynamism, resolve and being a B-O-S-S and badass ;-) I feel we need to undertand that like atracts like, women that disempower themselves by surpressing their male or female energy will create an unbalance and could very much attract a toxic male ego....of the likes of men like Harvey Weinstein. I hope we evolve as a colective. Thank you for sharing what you believe in....you are not alone! Oh and by the way... Have you seen Mulan live action trailer? The actress is beautiful as she is fierce ;-)
I watched this video. Thought about it and came back. I’m struggling to understand why is it that when a woman wants a career/has goals and wants to be independent it is seen as a lack of femininity. And it is only by submitting to a man she can some how gain back this “loss.” I’m honestly tired of this kind of rhetoric. I don’t know if that is what she is trying to say but it is coming off that way. If she is simply implying opposites attract it should be stated and it would do best not to base it on feminine and masculine qualities. Saying things such as “women are nurtures and caring.” Implies men inherently lack those qualities which is simply not true. These stereotypes are harmful and have to end.
My feelings and thoughts go out to you I even asked Lada to review all this. This rethoric is toxic and it seems to me it calls the shadow side of libra that can donwplay its energies on the shadow side just for sake of appearances and trying to balance something while outspending your own anergy and having it backfire on your own ass. Stating that women can't be the boss and that men can't be empathic or sensitive is awfull. This rethoric is old and it should die and not get any praise. I was talking about authenticity and calling vibrationaly what is truly meant for you without pretense, fool mind games or fake balancing a so called relationship. When you stand in your authentic highest vibration that is composed by your chart you will call your divine male counterpart that sees you for who you are flaws and all and that respects you enough as truly an equal and when your energy is balanced and his is too then the relationship can grow and evolve. Otherwise I feel like this is coming from the shadow libra aspect really focused on appearences and image and surpressing female energy and inviting inauthentic behavior for plenty of women. ( 1)True energetic balance is not achieved by downplaying energy that is already there, surpressing a side of you leads to inauthentic behavior that leads to loss of your energy and balance and a relationship that won't last, (2) Surpreessing active cardinal chart energies on the chart of women means surpressing a side of you...and this could make themselves feel resentfull...even in on old age. (3) Also the so called men could resent the woman that is surpreessing their energies on dealings with them because they may very well feel even unconsciously this and lose an opportunity for growth. (4) Finally being female means being sensitive, empathic and intuitive; and on my book even if sensitivity is seen as weakness even whem men this day and age express is .....it is actually a form of energetic intelligence; empathy means holding space for other's feelings and not soothing the fragile male ego, and being intuitive means being wise and not surpreessing your self and actually being authentic and striking for real grounded balance in this cenario.
youare misunderstood . she is saying that a female body is meant to create and in todays world she is jugggling career that is extra and thus she is ignoring her own health and chakras . so she is needs to work harder on her chakras as she is a working women and it rarly gives her time to relax .same with men but they sleep with so many women that they take that womens energy and become successfull . wheras womens body is designed to create so incase even if she is giving lot of energy she needs to make sure that she balances and creates more energy atleast for herself
I don't know even what's the point here bc she will probably delete my comments too....again if her view has actually evolved on other videos....great! But do apologize and correct this one. It's easy just say that she will correct the language of this particular video being so many people commented negatively on the video (mind you I was not alone but maybe she deleted them too). And start the other video with fresh equalitarian language ;-) anyway. .hope this doesn't get deleted now....sad that I had to unsubscribe from lada but my venus is in libra and I do not recognize this video's advice as true energetic work towards balance. Hope that makes itself clear to lada as she is a libra north node. ..sadorry for the rant but deleting comments is akin to surpressing energy and that isn't healthy libra or even more so indicated shadow or chakra work....
she is saying be a women first and dont try to be a man by increasing masculine energy when you can be successfull with your own feminine energy . kylie jenner is great example . just increase the feminity .
Omg i needed this!! ♥️I will allow myself to be like a princess and not like hero.. All my life i struggled so much that i became one women army.. And true i attracted man that don't know where they are going in their life.. Because i am strong enough to show them the right way.. Now i know what to do..
The mindless subordination and blind idolization of men do not make women more feminine, just more insecure, co-dependent and needy. It's the mindset of self contentment and inner peace that makes a woman blossom like lotus from inside out. As an Asian woman coming from a society that emphasizes cultivation of feminity as art of mastering harmony and peace within oneself and with others, I would suggest viewers take this message with discreet and explore feminity in worldly context rather a single perspective.
I welcome different opinions and the fact that you are trying to empower women. However, I beg to differ with the idea that all parents want a boy and women should pretend that their partner is a hero. This may be a cultural difference, which I understand. My dad encouraged me to be a self made independent woman. My husband wanted to have girls, and we ended up having 2 strong independent daughters. Playing small and weak to make your partner feel important has kept many women from fulfilling their potential, and continue to rely on their husbands for financial and emotional security. I don’t need a prince. I want someone who loves and respects me as his co- equal in life. I enjoyed your talk but I humbly disagree with that part of your teaching.
Sequoia Taylor , I don’t think it’s a language barrier. I truly believe that it’s a cultural disconnect. Having said that, I am not disputing that her way might work for some women and that is great. It does not work for me, and I wouldn’t want it for my daughters. I’d rather be alone than to have to pretend and coddle a man into thinking that I am helpless without him!
She never said you can't be loved and respected as a co-equal without being the "female" in the relationship. You shouldn't rely on the husband for security, she talks about that specifically in another video, that the first step to having a loving man is loving yourself and doing things for yourself. The point she is trying to get across is that there should be a balance between doing things for yourself and rubbing into your partners face that "you can do it alone and don't need his help." That is the issue with a lot of women. They close themselves off from their man that way and make the man feel useless.
You have taught thus 62 year old so much and why men do not want such a string accomplished woman. So, I can still be that, but it us important to make sure your man FEELS like a conqueror, a King!! How they feel has nothing to do with who and his WE are,it actually shows his smart we are! I will be there on the 14th!
I have been feeling like I overwork because I have held ideologies opposite to my feminine nature. My intention is not necessarily about getting a man, I just want to live a life where I embody my nature not fight against it. I believe I can be successful and feminine, I don't have to be a man yet I am a woman.
You are 100 percent accurate. I have been the hero far too ofren an it just doesnt work. Believe me as I write you just even helping the man financially the slightest in retrospect proves disastrous on multiple levels. 1 thing is certain i have learned what one thinks of themselves on the inside is what you ultimately pull in a man. If you think anything negatively about yourself....that is precisely what a man will reflect back to yo 10 times over. FACTS. right on lady you hit the mark an those that disagree with you must reflect on the exact nature of previous downfalls ie where the pain comes from most an in that place is the key....that doesnt fit to the proverbial castle. Nice Work sis
It is interesting that for me doing science and integrating yin science (channeling, interprating symbology) and yes also making money and even competing and understanding war is very important. BUT: at home I am daddy's little girl. So when in the world I am doimg big masculine things like science and want to be like Da Vinci - I balance it with my little girl child energy - that is extreme yin and need my man to be my supportive daddy, and also have incest kink. So I am more humble about judging what seems "not feminist" like women who want to be princess and have the man take care of them financially and be hero. So there are many ways to harmonize yin yang, but to be honest with ourselves - even in same sex relationships - we need to find our unique way of harmonizing yin yang energy. Like for Lada - she makes more money bit her husband takes care of accountance. Thank you so much for this insight. It is not easy. We can still be feminists, yet we will find that naturally in other aspects in our lives, we desire to very yin naturally. So I will ask myself how am I naturally yang and how am I naturally yin. What will the yin yang harmony in my ideal relationship be like and in this way I will find the partner to complete me. Thank you so much and your speaking in English helps as I only know a few words in Bulgarian. I am sure you will have amazing success worldwide Thank you Lada for promoting very talented people as you promote yourself. Very inspiring women. ❤
@@sheeanabrugh thank you! I channeled something just this moment and it came up with Natalia's voice and tonation The deep message was "I am a woman, I am a girl I am a princess I allow a man to take care of me If his heart is pure My sexuality is beautiful My sexuality is a way to connect with the divine I lean into my femininity and discover I am well protected I am well nourished I am a Goddess inside" :) so I channeled Natalia. I wonder if she relates to the message. It is beautiful to have inspiring consciousnesses of people I actually have seen coming through in my meditations.
I’m glad that my dad wanted me to be a girl but I was conditioned to be “hero” .... if I watched this video years ago I would’ve taken offense to it “ because in my mind I was saying I don’t need a man” I attract men good men but are intimidated and then they run... so I’ve been working on receiving. I was working a lot as a manager but I was guided to Leave my job and had an energy session with another practitioner and my advise was to Pamper myself, so I gave myself a massage.I’m 41 and never had one. I realized I was working and working even in my previous marriage.... because he was fixer upper... I’ll say that When my father died I had a dream with him in the dream he told me the right man will make you feel like your being rescued and in my dream I said I don’t need a man to rescue me. And then he started to go into cardiac arrest and in my dream I said why is he pretending to die he is already dead. I know that what you say in this is true sure as single woman we must take care of us our dreams and each individual has different ones but don’t forget the fundamentals woman are creators the nurturers so we need to be more receptive our bodies depicts this.. I could be wrong but that’s why I enrolled in your webinar how to keep mr right. Also I would like to expand on how to make money because in the same old way isn’t working for me I use to have this belief I have to work really hard to get money but it doesn’t work because I was neglecting me and not making enough. So I would like to tap into my female energy and do it from there... I feel I would have more success. I use to feel guilty for thinking I want a man to take care of me and give me gifts and so on but I’m at a point where I am a bit confused because I want a man to love me give the life I want to experience and I just want to focus on loving him and me being happy? Which is taking care on my body going to the gym which I already do. My kids and focus on my spiritual journey and although I’ve used my techniques to achieve balance and clear myself energetically it would be foolish on my part to think I can heal myself all by myself because this would be arrogant but I’ve been looking for some one who is on the same wavelength . a year ago. I received a message from spirit saying in Order for a man to have the power to create his dreams and more money he must first give to you and the more generous he is the more he will receive because you will naturally give him the power of creation through love making. I never heard anybody actually say it!!! But at the same time I just want to make sure I’m not developing co-dependency. Because honestly I’ve been looking for work and usually in the past I would get a job fast and people would hire me on the spot... but I have to be honest apart me is just done I don’t want a job. I’m really happy in the gym and taking care on me doing my meditations that I create for myself and feel much happier. I even feel like dancing at the gym and sometimes I dance while lifting 😁 Am I??? I don’t believe I am? Anyhow i am Looking forward to my class with you. Thank you.!
I really resonated with your comment and have been following the same blueprint. I used to pride myself on working 70+ hours a week. I now rest way more and enjoy taking a slow-cooked approach to life. Kudos to you for finding your happy medium to life. This road is not often traveled in our society today. Wishing you all the best!
My takeaway from this is that men and women are different and have their own strengths. We women complement men and vice versa. It's not a competition.
@lada duncheva - I would have a separate meeting with this woman before the April 14 and 27 webinar and explain the rise of the western woman and feminist ideals that we live by in this country. I just see this going the wrong direction and she may need some different talking points and be able to get her message across in a different way. I personally believe that the rise of the divine feminine means that men should also tap into their feminine side too...However she is making it seem as if we are supposed to accept toxic masculinity and the burden is on us to not be mistreated.
Open your heart u must come from luv♥️🌹♥️ omg I luv this beautiful girl. Thank u dear LADA someday I must do her happy woman webinar 🌹🌹♥️♥️I am a princess hell yes♥️♥️
I think this is the Queen archetype which you need to develop. There are 4 archetypes and and each women usually has one or two dominant at the time. So we need to be balanced and consciously incorporate the missing archetypes
Lada Duncheva thank you lady I appreciate your reply .I think I have the girlish and the lover qualities although I have family and kids .I left my job seven years ago and my husband is the bread winner I feel so bored now and unable to achieve anything important ..I will be grateful if you make sth about balancing femmine and musculine energies in our body as women. Thank you beautiful Lada I love you😗😍
You may have an energetic block, drain or restriction at your solar plexus or sacral chakras. Solar plexus blocks, drains, restrictions are where we are restricted from taking actions a lot of times.. that's where we assert our willpower into action to accomplish. If there's not enough of your energy flowing through that center your willpower won't be asserted into action for you to DO anything. So you just WON'T do anything.
Jiwon thank you your answer is helpful I think it resonates with my situation..If you have any suggestions for me to improve the scarl I would be grateful.
@@rasham1774 you might do some chakra work through yoga, reiki or find someone who does soul healing that can specifically pinpoint something like that. I do healing for those kinds of things through the akashic record, to find out the soul situation going on behind it, and then removing the issue and healing it, so if it is something that you really want to address, you can email me if you want to.
Yes I think the most clever woman is able to attract and hold a man! If you are a strong intelligent woman you understand the power of your feminine energy. I love that in this life I embody the divine feminine. Perhaps in the next life I will be a hero!
T South You set the standard. What are the qualities that you want in a man? Money is not everything, but I know I made a list of the things I wanted in a man and one was that he was a good and generous provider. I married my hero. He is not rich, but we are very comfortable and I haven’t worked in years. I am now studying astrology, which has been my passion for years, but never had the time to pursue. He works very hard but is very happy to provide for me and I let him know often how wonderful he is. We as women set the standard.
The times on April 27th are confusing to me. It says “Live on Saturday April 27th at 10 pm Pacific time, 1 pm ET, 6pm UK time, 8pm BG time”. Is the time for ET supposed to be at 1 am? If 1 am is that on the 27th or the 28th? Thank you.
There are so many offensive aspects in her rethoric....I felt offended....Women are heroines being empathic, intuitive and sensitive in a world that needs empathy and compassion every single day .....and learning how to do a queen Bloowjob and "just women" are awfull things to say. Even if she presents different archetypes to balance female energy this speech is toxic....it seems she is downplaying women and female energy by those words....! I asked Lada to reply to these itens bellow....but no hope....so far... (1) True energetical balance is not achieved by downplaying energies that are already there (2) supressing a side of you leads to inauthentic behavior that leads to loss of energy and it will make the so called balance dissipates , so it won`t last. (3) unconsciously you may resent this men on the long term because you are giving up a part of you!!!GOOD LUCK with that on the old age! (4) unconsciously this men may resent you because he knows deep down that you are actually downplaying yourself and you are stilling him an opportunity for growth (5) As I mentioned before women DO NEED HEALING....but healing in the sense of understanding the female energy as strong....understanding that being empathic is holding space for people to actually feel their emotions (not to sooth the male ego by the way) and that is STRENGHT ALREADY and being SENSITIVE (which is seen as a form of weakness by many even when men display sensitivity) actually is energetic intelligence!
Those times have passed long time ago. Nowadays, women can be both strong and "hero", as well as empower her femininity!! I really do not believe in what she says. Especially, not all men are like that how she describes them!!
I disagree with your comment . The way God orderd things haven't changed . Feminine and masculine is polarity. It balance you cannot change the dynamics of things that has been for millions of years. Look at the the animal kingdom. A female will choose a mate based on how he proves himself to the female . Males are providers and protector. Women are nurtures and encouragers they incubate life.
fantastic video! really this stuff is just fantastic. I also love how you incorporate work with the parents - it is true that our relationship with our parents will mirror those we have for the rest of our lives as ultimately the sun and moon are the two luminaries that represent us and our parents! A lot of natalia’s teachings are striking parallels with the methods and teachings of a french author called Lise Bourbeau who is a fantastic spiritual teacher and deals a lot with these traumas or ‘wounds’ as she calls them. I wonder if maybe Natalia has heard of her?
Debbie Rulh I disagree, there are definite differences in being a man or woman not only physically but energetically. Our brains also work differently. We are different because we are suppose to work together as a team and complement each other. We both have strengths and weaknesses. None is better than the other. Yes, both men and women should have the same human/civil rights, equal opportunities, pay, etc... but that doesn't mean there are no notable differences between the two sexes.
