You really make great points that make me think. Could you please make a video on determinism, its a concept in philosophy which states free will doesnt exist hence our choices are out of control. I find it very frustrating as it insinuates we are victims of life. Its an interesting concept and been debated since years
A masculine man will still resist this because you are in judgement and control. Which is masculine. My advice is to share the raw feeling without any agenda or expectation or outcome. For example... "I dont like john. He makes me feel anxious. That he may encourage you to leave me." This will trigger his masculine instinct to take care of you as long as theres no agenda in your energy.