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How To Dress Modestly and Still Look SMOKIN' Hot 🔥🔥🔥 || You don't have to look frumpy to be modest! 

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@lillisrealm6110
@lillisrealm6110 4 года назад
Am I the only one who kinda, from a male perspective, would feel very offended if people tel women what to wear because we couldn’t “control ourselves” like how degrading is that? Like I would be so offended if someone thought I only talked to them because they were wear *gasp* shorts. That’s also why I don’t like dress codes that much
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
Ladies, gents, and non-binary people alike--this one right here! Thank you for seeing from the opposite sex's point of view. 👏👏👏
@jjgems5909
@jjgems5909 4 года назад
Why would we? She’s not forcing us to dress anyway. This is just her opinion and she’s saying it. It’s offensive if you don’t agree I guess
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
casually cruel 🤩👏 Oh, and nice side note. :)
@ChiisaiStar
@ChiisaiStar 4 года назад
It also assumes that women are only trying to attract men like lesbians/bi/pan/etc don’t exist at all lol
@lillisrealm6110
@lillisrealm6110 4 года назад
Nameless i understand that and I think it’s perfectly okay if you want to do that because you want to. But I’m just saying that It’s kinda insulting to assume men are only talking to someone for there body
@RayyRayy150
@RayyRayy150 4 года назад
What is the purpose of still trying to look “smoking hot” if your purpose in dressing modestly is to not draw attention to yourself? I’m confused.
@ladyrepunsel4567
@ladyrepunsel4567 4 года назад
It’s to draw a different kind of attention, not no attention at all
@redzin8818
@redzin8818 4 года назад
While I can't speak for her, I think she means not to destroy or take away from your good looks.
@bstmeg5237
@bstmeg5237 4 года назад
She’s being vigilant because she knows she is being a hypocrite
@Cocosalamander
@Cocosalamander 4 года назад
Especially cause it didn’t look “smoking hot” at any point in this video 😂
@wandaprather1960
@wandaprather1960 4 года назад
Duh!!!! She means the WRONG kind of attention!!!!!!!!!!!!
@delaneyorzol8178
@delaneyorzol8178 4 года назад
isn’t “smokin hot” a pretty sexual term? and isn’t the appeal of modesty to not be sexualized? why is this woman in my recommended and who is paying for this to be advertised?
@KJB0001
@KJB0001 4 года назад
yeah, she's a hypocrite ten different ways. "Looks nice" is subjective too. She's been shamed her entire life by her religion and believes that the human body is shameful and women should hide. But wears makeup to be more attractive.
@script_0529
@script_0529 4 года назад
“Ma’am, men are going to be looking at your feet with those shoes. Too much skin showing, please cover up.” 😔😔
@user-lk9wy7hi1d
@user-lk9wy7hi1d 4 года назад
shes obviously using the phrase "smokin hot" to catch peoples eyes to watch her video. what she really meant is she want to be attractive but not overtly sexualizing herself in the process. theres a difference.
@nayaindenayal9196
@nayaindenayal9196 4 года назад
Script _0 “Ma’am, I’m gonna ask you to step aside. You’re gonna attract 20999900 men looking at your fingers, please cover up 😔”
@script_0529
@script_0529 4 года назад
​@@nayaindenayal9196 OH MY! I can't believe I was so indecent! Thank you for telling me, I must cover up to live my true modest lifestyle. 😔
@ed8329
@ed8329 4 года назад
I am like 99% sure this girl is a computer generated simulation
@CompanionCorbs
@CompanionCorbs 4 года назад
Lulu Dropo I’m concerned this whole thing is going to be spun as a “SJWs and LIBs were mean on my channel. See - proof that they’re a-holes”.
@LoveMala__
@LoveMala__ 4 года назад
Aren’t we all
@wandaprather1960
@wandaprather1960 4 года назад
Yep she's different alright but for some of us it's a good thing!!
@madelinemaney2284
@madelinemaney2284 4 года назад
them crusty ass pants💀
@kelseyp600
@kelseyp600 4 года назад
We can only hope
@ccmarie6027
@ccmarie6027 4 года назад
For a second I thought she was gonna say “ hey cool cats and kittens-“ I-
@hammysauce
@hammysauce 4 года назад
I'm crying 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@graceschmechel7657
@graceschmechel7657 4 года назад
@iit’2 2ollux bruh killed her husband...
@ccreina9472
@ccreina9472 4 года назад
Hahhahahahahhaha
@jocelynsolis5907
@jocelynsolis5907 4 года назад
I chocked💀
@reign7920
@reign7920 4 года назад
ME TOO WTF YALL
@poo7240
@poo7240 4 года назад
or just wear whatever tf you want
@poo7240
@poo7240 4 года назад
Miss Kay or just leave me alone if you disagree
@yunocomment3349
@yunocomment3349 4 года назад
How can you watch something else when ads for this video keeps popping up?!?! NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES YOU BLOCK THEM?!?!?
@poo7240
@poo7240 4 года назад
Hot Cheeto bruh- why do you care so much
@poo7240
@poo7240 4 года назад
Hot Cheeto hon you’re over here telling me to stop giving her comments and views- wtf are you doing...?
@rosie_corner
@rosie_corner 4 года назад
She does, while being comfortable within her values and beliefs
@kenzie2427
@kenzie2427 4 года назад
why aren’t there videos for men to dress modest that say that women can’t control themselves?
@Mudbunjr
@Mudbunjr 4 года назад
Hot Cheeto I looked up “how to dress modestly” and unsurprisingly NONE of them were for men 🙃
@beequeen2556
@beequeen2556 4 года назад
@Hot Cheeto sauce?
@beequeen2556
@beequeen2556 4 года назад
@Hot Cheeto nice.
@Nellierg
@Nellierg 4 года назад
Because men already dress modestly. I want to see more short shorts on men. But unfortunately men’s fashion is typically just not focused on showing the goods. Because they don’t have to be sexy to be seen or heard. The real sexism is in what we are “ allowed” to wear because we have been “ liberated”. Give me a break men are still in control of what we wear and what they get to have access too. It’s a mans world still. And dressing immodestly is really only putting us right where they want us. Rise up ladies.
@kenzie2427
@kenzie2427 4 года назад
Hot Cheeto Because women have basic respect for men and won’t force them to dress a certain way because THEY cannot control themselves.
@saralbruno
@saralbruno 4 года назад
I want videos teaching men not to sexualize and fetishize women, but rather see them as human beings, not videos oppressing women.
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
😤👏
@meeshnguyen
@meeshnguyen 4 года назад
YESSS GIRL!!
@rosie_corner
@rosie_corner 4 года назад
I’m sure those videos exist. However that has NOTHING to do with this video😂 if you don’t like the content, don’t watch. Watch what you do like. I’m glad there is a conservative influencer. I don’t know any other youtubers that follow my values and I love these videos and I am NOT oppressed nor do I dress for anyone but myself.
@gabbymckee7509
@gabbymckee7509 4 года назад
No one is being oppressed! You and only you have the choice to dress the way you want to dress. This video is merely a suggestion.
@jacqueline6135
@jacqueline6135 4 года назад
That’s not Conservative logic.
@Behdjcjckxjsendbcj
@Behdjcjckxjsendbcj 4 года назад
Sis sounds like a school principal
@Behdjcjckxjsendbcj
@Behdjcjckxjsendbcj 4 года назад
Yasmine Kattan god this video was so frustrating
@Behdjcjckxjsendbcj
@Behdjcjckxjsendbcj 4 года назад
Hot Cheeto to understand other people’s views
@Iamestherr
@Iamestherr 4 года назад
Your dead mean lol
@ImmaPerson23
@ImmaPerson23 4 года назад
She sounds so much like her brother
@jaliaj2244
@jaliaj2244 4 года назад
Literally my principal in catholic school. Luckily this catholic school was chill compared to others in regard to religiosity. But my lord tge dress coad was shameful.
@karenfrutos1286
@karenfrutos1286 4 года назад
Don’t dress to attract men dress for yourself queens
@SS-ry5yv
@SS-ry5yv 4 года назад
If we actually dressed to for ourselves we’d have no issue dressing our best when alone at home. No one that says they dress for themselves actually does, they’re deceiving themselves I mean this as general, yes there will be some girls who do dress up for themselves as well. Tho even then they may not do it every day and may not wear anything too fancy like heals. Point is, most do it to impress others. And even those who dress up for themselves may also have another intention to impress others. I truly wish most women didnt dress to impress society, there would be a lot more modesty and self-worth
@ramita3788
@ramita3788 4 года назад
R S you don’t dress for yourself* lol lots of people dress up at home ik plenty
@ashleyburbank3129
@ashleyburbank3129 4 года назад
@@SS-ry5yv I actually dress really nice at home.... regularly... people don't do that I do it even if no one is coming over and no one's going to see me.... I just feel yucky if I don't like I'm sick or something because those are the only times I don't bother
@sashaelisemusic
@sashaelisemusic 4 года назад
I love your name Karen really suits you
@rosie_corner
@rosie_corner 4 года назад
And if that means dressing modestly, do it proudly!
@parkerparker7299
@parkerparker7299 4 года назад
“and still not dress in a way thats inappropriate” to YOU.
@default3040
@default3040 4 года назад
First of all it’s inappropriate in general- To YOU.
@cootencendy
@cootencendy 4 года назад
iit’2 2ollux bruh ikr, i’ve commented on so many of her videos just asking whyyyyyyyy, why are you so close minded and ignorant!!!! also just her “facts” are WRONG, they are her opinions that she is forcing on people as facts. Omg i can’t believe she is this ignorant. 😒
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
Hot Cheeto we just want answers. 😪
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
Hot Cheeto in my opinion, yes, to get the message across. It won’t kill you, will it? :)
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
Hot Cheeto no but we’re asking questions- and not rhetorical ones either
@victorias.6270
@victorias.6270 4 года назад
take a shot anytime she says “modest”
@laelladickerson5905
@laelladickerson5905 4 года назад
Andddd.. you’re dead 💀
@abbyreaves595
@abbyreaves595 4 года назад
Classic ladies don’t drink 🤫😉🤡
@reva1204
@reva1204 4 года назад
Abby Reaves lmao
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
"Unidentifiable body found in room with approximately 136 empty whiskey bottles"
@mugiikari1641
@mugiikari1641 4 года назад
Take a shot every time she makes it obvious that she’s never had an orgasm
@briseydachavez7502
@briseydachavez7502 4 года назад
Why does she think so much about how men think about us. I don’t dress for men I dress for me
@marcynainiger3475
@marcynainiger3475 4 года назад
Briseyda Chavez you and me both! (>ω
@nicoleasmr3442
@nicoleasmr3442 4 года назад
Did it cross your mind that maybe she likes to dress like this because she likes it?
@briseydachavez7502
@briseydachavez7502 4 года назад
Nicole Asmr what does that have to do with anything I said I said I dress for me not for men I never talked about how she dresses
@gijijia
@gijijia 4 года назад
Nicole Asmr she can like it but she doesn’t have to share her it like it’s a fact and that everyone should follow.
@oodlespaos
@oodlespaos 4 года назад
Same
@alexisfiske7427
@alexisfiske7427 4 года назад
She literally has an open back dresses framed behind her wtf. Thats not modest lol
@joselynsalazarbuendia8331
@joselynsalazarbuendia8331 4 года назад
Literally the comment I was looking for 😂
@bstmeg5237
@bstmeg5237 4 года назад
Didn’t even say anything to see if anyone else caught on. She also said she herself doesn’t dress modest.
@vanessat7758
@vanessat7758 4 года назад
That’s pretty modest. They remind one of ballgowns.
@OffWithReligion
@OffWithReligion 4 года назад
that's elegant.
@kaamn1829
@kaamn1829 2 года назад
ooohooo, what a detective you are, lol. those are just pictures of classic and elegant ballgowns, like c'mon sis, those make sense to someone who's into fashion, not an actual gotcha or a discount to the point of the video.
@noelleaparte3870
@noelleaparte3870 4 года назад
Why would anyone want to dress for other people? Who determines what you’re supposed to wear? So suffocating.
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
Why you gotta dress for others, though? To be accepted In this toxic society? The country I live in is based off of conservative views. The freaking United States. 😤
@rosie_corner
@rosie_corner 4 года назад
To each their own
@youbeforeme3799
@youbeforeme3799 4 года назад
Hot Cheeto Her video on dressing modest, she made some strong points imo
@noelleaparte3870
@noelleaparte3870 4 года назад
Hot Cheeto hi! I just want to point out that she (Abby) wants to have a voice on this platform in order to talk about her opinion. That’s what RU-vid is for. People of all walks of life are here. Telling someone to ‘leave’ as you have done ( no disrespect, just saying) is not opening up this convo. We should be able to express our opinions, differing or not without being told it’s not our place. Abby has done that in the video, and I expressed that I disagreed here in the comments.
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
Hot Cheeto fine. I have an opinion, then. This is toxic and encourages rape culture. Got it?
@carawalker7307
@carawalker7307 4 года назад
she’s not forcing her ways to other females. she made this video for people who WANT to dress like this. people really have the audacity to say it’s okay for other girls to show hella skin but when a girl prefers to cover up, it’s an issue? come on 😩
@tenny7937
@tenny7937 4 года назад
she keeps using the words should and shouldn't...
@Hellokittyhearts222
@Hellokittyhearts222 4 года назад
Gabi Glenn ikr it’s like she’s forcing meh 😫😢
@tenny7937
@tenny7937 4 года назад
Chrisline Osengeo 🧍🏽‍♀️
@Hellokittyhearts222
@Hellokittyhearts222 4 года назад
Gabi Glenn ?
@stephanietan4817
@stephanietan4817 2 года назад
nah man u should watch her why u should dress modestly vid by sixteen leo
@lizzyleefree1593
@lizzyleefree1593 4 года назад
Legging advocate here. Just wanna say that it totally depends on the legging. A thick, high quality, structured pair of leggings is just as modest as your first pair of pants.
@christinahaight6394
@christinahaight6394 4 года назад
Why do you care so much what men think of you
@asteroidartistry9297
@asteroidartistry9297 4 года назад
@Anglo-Saxon In Asia Alright then do I, along with other lesbian and gay people, just not exist? Definitely not gonna be reproducing, and I can't say that I want men's attention. Also, a lot of people don't give two shits about attracting a partner lol, a lot of people care more about making themselves happy and comfortable than showing off to the opposite gender
@sophie-rl2sb
@sophie-rl2sb 4 года назад
Anglo-Saxon In Asia do u not understand that gay people exist
@hudsonsteere2069
@hudsonsteere2069 4 года назад
Exactly, just wear what YOU want to wear
@Behdjcjckxjsendbcj
@Behdjcjckxjsendbcj 4 года назад
Anglo-Saxon In Asia I’ll attract men or women lmao
@haleyp6680
@haleyp6680 4 года назад
Anglo-Saxon In Asia lol what kind of statistic is that
@laundryclean911
@laundryclean911 4 года назад
Girl if I’m going to wear lingerie as my supermarket attire mind ya business
@nattie22
@nattie22 4 года назад
Agreed!😂❤️
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
Lol yas 😂
@rosie_corner
@rosie_corner 4 года назад
She’s not saying not to. She’s creating content for people who relate to her. If you don’t, find a RU-vid you do relate to. Lol do you boo.
@hn2861
@hn2861 4 года назад
Row Benn she said you shouldn’t...lmao
@Zeldagirlartist
@Zeldagirlartist 4 года назад
Row Benn we can’t get away from her. She’s buying ads constantly and they’re filling up every bodies recommendations. The amount of times I clicked to remove her ads is astounding to me. I finally came to her channel to see what everybody else is saying about it. And the point of this video is for her to convince somebody of her point of views, as are most of her videos. So you are extremely wrong, this video is not for people like you who agree with her
@artistinalice4826
@artistinalice4826 4 года назад
Men should learn to respect us without us having to change how we dress.
@abbyalvarez9549
@abbyalvarez9549 4 года назад
Period!! Men should learn how to keep it in their pants without us having to change how we dress.
@jazzy1835
@jazzy1835 4 года назад
Yes, you are so right!!!
@vladimirputin9272
@vladimirputin9272 4 года назад
No.
@cancerchristine929
@cancerchristine929 4 года назад
@@vladimirputin9272 you *don't* think men should respect women ? for dressing the way they feel good?
@rosie_corner
@rosie_corner 4 года назад
Modesty isn’t disagreeing with that. Modesty involves dressing in a way that represents how you want to be seen on the inside. If you don’t want to, why are you here? Lol
@hudsonsteere2069
@hudsonsteere2069 4 года назад
Whether the boys are distracted isn’t my problem- I’m wearin the mini skirt if I want! But if you want to dress modestly go you!!! But there is no “should” or “shouldn’t” there is only whatever every woman wants!
@milopeaches
@milopeaches 4 года назад
Nameless that’s valid as hell! if that works for you more power to ya ! just remember that other people in the same situation might want to do differently and ya gotta remain respectful of that!
@rosie_corner
@rosie_corner 4 года назад
This is for women who do want to follow modest ideas. Do your thing. I like modesty.
@Sunnysidestoriesandmusic
@Sunnysidestoriesandmusic 4 года назад
Yes, and if the prostitutes at the club want to give married men lap dances, do what they want right??? *eye roll*
@mindflayer0319
@mindflayer0319 4 года назад
Sunnyside Storytime Married men shouldn’t be in those clubs in the first place. Also, what does this have to do with it being guys’ responsibility to watch themselves??
@spongebob-vg5iq
@spongebob-vg5iq 4 года назад
Sunnyside Storytime says a lot more about the married men than the prostitutes
@gardensnails12
@gardensnails12 4 года назад
her: heres how to look smoking HOt!!! also her: you cant be sexy or youll never find a good husband
@samtula5946
@samtula5946 4 года назад
Lol right
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
FR. 😤
@aliburke4593
@aliburke4593 4 года назад
Keep this B off the internet
@rebeccafrances7709
@rebeccafrances7709 4 года назад
i can’t even with this video there is so much internalized sexism
@nuclearwessels2078
@nuclearwessels2078 4 года назад
This is about her religion. For the Abrahamic faiths, men and women are called to dress modestly.
@lisdavila3049
@lisdavila3049 4 года назад
Nuclear Wessels and?? It’s still super sexist
@rebeccafrances7709
@rebeccafrances7709 4 года назад
Hot Cheeto I actually do know it’s for faith reasons, she’s an Orthodox Jew. I’m not saying the way she dresses is the sexist part I’m saying the phrases she uses and mentality she has is sexist. I’ll respect anyone who dresses modestly for any reason. What I won’t respect is the sexist micro-aggressions she uses. In one vid she says “dressing modestly is about facing the reality that men are visual creatures” this basically implies that women’s bodies will always be sexualized and women are okay with that. In the same video she ends by saying “so ladies let’s dress like the *ladies* we are” she is invalidating women’s identity and implying that only real women dress modestly. Her videos are pushing a mentality that perpetuates rape culture. There are so many creators that make faith based videos about dressing modestly without doing any of what I mentioned she is not one of them. As for watching her video I got an add for one of her videos. I watched the whole thing and decided I couldn’t make my opinion off of one video so I watched this one, and it was enough to make up my mind.
@reva1204
@reva1204 4 года назад
Rebecca Hobson I totally agree with you!
@vladimirputin9272
@vladimirputin9272 4 года назад
good
@liunknownil2072
@liunknownil2072 4 года назад
These are not “smokin hot” lol. They’re just basic.
@alexaselness7398
@alexaselness7398 4 года назад
you're rude
@neojisoa
@neojisoa 4 года назад
Alexa Selness shes being realistic, miss 😻
@TheOuissala
@TheOuissala 4 года назад
😂 amen 2013 basic
@mindflayer0319
@mindflayer0319 4 года назад
In her opinion....They are.
@looperfamily10
@looperfamily10 4 года назад
Way to build another woman up.
@charleneschmidt8840
@charleneschmidt8840 4 года назад
Dress however you want. "Modest" is just a term to shame women. When have you heard someone tell a man to dress modestly?
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
hmmmmm... never. 😔 😤
@cdyrod1010
@cdyrod1010 4 года назад
I dont ever see mens butt cheeks hanging out or half their nipple out their shirt lol
@IzzyDaGamer321
@IzzyDaGamer321 4 года назад
Betty White women should dress however the fuck women wanna dress
@mindflayer0319
@mindflayer0319 4 года назад
To be modest isn’t shameful. Although the definition of modest varies so much. I agree with dressing however you want though.
@sararistow6137
@sararistow6137 4 года назад
Biology. Different reproduction strategies based on sexual dimorphism.
@laurend7624
@laurend7624 4 года назад
Do you look at every woman wearing a dress, leggings, anything that shows shoulders etc. with overly sexual eyes? Because if you're creepily staring at someone for wearing something hardly revealing, I think you need to check your minds judgment.
@celeste7687
@celeste7687 4 года назад
Yesss Lauren you tell her!
@wandaprather1960
@wandaprather1960 4 года назад
Don't hate bc she's classy/sophisticated lady!!!!!
@nikip5246
@nikip5246 4 года назад
wanda prather she’s not classy at all, she’s close minded and ignorant and that’s not cute
@ninilovenana
@ninilovenana 3 года назад
Perverts are everywhere and they may be watching. I would choose to play it safe and dress right rather than have all my stuff out. That’s just me though. I don’t got nobody to impress and I don’t want eyes on me. But some women do so...
@sarahshon7035
@sarahshon7035 4 года назад
Why would you want to present your self as smokin hot if that’s IMMORAL LOL
@TaraHower
@TaraHower 3 года назад
How are you this stupid to ask a question like this..
@wendydelacruz2229
@wendydelacruz2229 4 года назад
no drip...every single outfit was trash.
@maellalemon4927
@maellalemon4927 4 года назад
on meee like she’s coming across as so old fashioned, and ugly inside and out. giving me very suburban mom.
@xenzorygames4116
@xenzorygames4116 4 года назад
@Champagne davy they will only not hate if there are feminist telling them to wear modestly xD. Period
@sakatiii5074
@sakatiii5074 4 года назад
I know!
@sav9918
@sav9918 4 года назад
LMAOAOS NO DRIP
@xenzorygames4116
@xenzorygames4116 4 года назад
@Brookelynn 24 well if they wish .But they shouldn't come back and demand man to like them and then think we are "Evil" for not liking them.
@Behdjcjckxjsendbcj
@Behdjcjckxjsendbcj 4 года назад
Men can keep their eyes to their selfs *^* also not all women want to look feminine
@rarad.3793
@rarad.3793 4 года назад
Thank you !!!!!
@Canev821
@Canev821 4 года назад
Hmm good point
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
😤👏
@autumn1605
@autumn1605 4 года назад
EXACTLY
@beepboop4595
@beepboop4595 4 года назад
And not all men want to look masculine and that’s on periodt i can’t stand that women oof
@Blessedbyvypercc
@Blessedbyvypercc 4 года назад
.....pictures in the background were a little confusing to me.
@rosie_corner
@rosie_corner 4 года назад
They’re dresses... ???
@BlendedBarbieDoll
@BlendedBarbieDoll 4 года назад
How?
@lrc3197
@lrc3197 4 года назад
Cause they are showing the women’s back and this moron is talking about how we should all dress like her and be more “attractive”
@Blessedbyvypercc
@Blessedbyvypercc 4 года назад
Raine A yes, that was sort of my point. That she seems to appreciate the female form in a more “revealing” dress....so it seems to me at least. Maybe she feels it’s ok on the wall, just not on an actual person? I’m not sure. I feel there’s some wiggle room dressing as a conservative, dresses such as the ones on her wall I feel would be perfectly suitable for certain occasions. I suppose the rule is....just don’t go overboard. Don’t show too much cleavage or anything too short. That’s basically what I would go by no matter what I believed. Many places you can be asked to leave if your outfit is too outrageously revealing.
@TheOuissala
@TheOuissala 4 года назад
That shows hypocrisy
@mararry777
@mararry777 4 года назад
wear whatever the f you want. edit ish: i said this because some women might feel pressured to wear modest clothes when you can wear whatever you want.
@iandiriri
@iandiriri 4 года назад
Hot Cheeto you’re on every comment damn... just chill.
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
Bruh this is targeted towards liberals but aight 🤷
@mararry777
@mararry777 4 года назад
zoye love how is this targeted at liberals? is it because we wear clothes we are comfortable and proud of wearing?
@faithr2715
@faithr2715 4 года назад
COVERING YOUR ELBOWS-
@maclainenoxon4586
@maclainenoxon4586 4 года назад
That’s a Jewish religious standard, and it’s completely out of line for you to use it to make fun of her.
@javencummins1426
@javencummins1426 4 года назад
@@maclainenoxon4586 If they didn't know it could a mistake.
@bstmeg5237
@bstmeg5237 4 года назад
Don’t accidentally show your ankles
@aphill3588
@aphill3588 4 года назад
I’m sorry, did you just objectify yourself? “Smoking hot”. “Modestly and catch a guys eye”. Ok let’s stop there. Your previous videos state women need to dress to keep men’s eyes off of them and not distract them. Now we want to dress to be “smoking hot”?
@elamiri858
@elamiri858 4 года назад
She contradicts herself with every video😂
@helainarogers1457
@helainarogers1457 4 года назад
She's trying to be funny and relatable.
@viiviolet
@viiviolet 4 года назад
My personal view on leggings: good for working out. But I’m anti wearing leggings for pants normally on a personal level because I like being the fashion police to myself and I refuse to be basic. I’d wear a ball gown to the grocery store if I had the confidence.
@Ivylikethevine
@Ivylikethevine 4 года назад
Gosh why isn't acceptable to wear ball gowns anywhere T_T I feel the NEED
@hammysauce
@hammysauce 4 года назад
Wear a ball gown to the grocery store! You can do it and will rock it!
@b.mcknight8686
@b.mcknight8686 4 года назад
I wore a massive 1980's wedding dress to a Marilyn Manson show like fifteen years ago, it got torn to actual pieces. Like it was hanging off of me by the time it was over, but it was fun to wear a gown for no reason. You should do it if you want to.
@daniservice3803
@daniservice3803 4 года назад
Whatever is considered “sexy” is subjective. I could be in sweats and my boyfriend would still say I’m “sexy.” Or, you could be dressing “modestly” and still be sexy. Now are there types of clothing that may be too revealing for certain settings (work, family events, etc.)? Absolutely. But to say that sexy and modest are on the opposite ends of the spectrum is not accurate.
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
🤩👏
@Yarami920
@Yarami920 4 года назад
Can I get a time stamp in the video where she said Sexy and modesty are opposite end of spectrum...? 🙃
@daniservice3803
@daniservice3803 4 года назад
0:37
@eyesofnight
@eyesofnight 2 года назад
That's because your boyfriend has no standards
@acutiepieb2011
@acutiepieb2011 4 года назад
What’s wrong with “looking distracting”? Lol, being noticed every now and then is fun!
@hVaeh
@hVaeh 4 года назад
Anglo-Saxon In Asia Just because you’re not falling into what some people call “modest” doesn’t mean you’re being inappropriate.
@acutiepieb2011
@acutiepieb2011 4 года назад
Hot Cheeto huh what? Idk why she thinks conservatives have ownership on looking good without being inappropriate. I dress quite modestly, I’m just saying she is making it seem like it will ruin your life to wear a tight fitting outfit or w/e.
@acutiepieb2011
@acutiepieb2011 4 года назад
Hot Cheeto that is not who this video is for. This video is targeted at people whose minds she wants to change. She wants a discussion!
@annagerwe4243
@annagerwe4243 4 года назад
Hot Cheeto lol u really made a whole fool of urself in the comments section huh? maybe its time to take a little break and go for a walk
@Zeldagirlartist
@Zeldagirlartist 4 года назад
Hot Cheeto because her ads keep popping up on every bodies recommended like she’s some kind of virus. Eventually somebody is gonna click and tell her what they think
@sweettaterfries
@sweettaterfries 4 года назад
Funny you think we dress to “catch a guys eye”
@beepboop4595
@beepboop4595 4 года назад
Lmfao who needs that we can show whatever we want we no need of men’s attention 😌
@aoifegarvey8853
@aoifegarvey8853 4 года назад
ikr
@Sunnysidestoriesandmusic
@Sunnysidestoriesandmusic 4 года назад
You dress to stimulate men.
@spillhorchata755
@spillhorchata755 4 года назад
We dress for the girls and the gays ✨💖🧚‍♀️
@wandaprather1960
@wandaprather1960 4 года назад
Then who's eye are you catching then???? Be for real woman, man who?
@NehaSingh-ry4br
@NehaSingh-ry4br 4 года назад
I should be able to wear whatever I want. If I'm distracting, that's not my fault. Like a child who isn't paying attention in class, that's their fault. Whoever is distracted by the way I look, that is their fault, not mine. I'm wearing clothes.
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
Neha Singh this. 👏 People choose to sexualize anything and everything, so we constantly get told to "cover up!" I hate that so much. Your comment just made my day. ❤️
@victoraxelalonso4434
@victoraxelalonso4434 4 года назад
Literally nobody telling you to dress a certain way, she is just offering an alternative that is true to her. 🤷
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
Victor Axel Alonso this was targeted towards liberals. That’s why there are so many hate comments. Nice observation, but it’s not that correct.
@ninilovenana
@ninilovenana 3 года назад
@@s2c1mw7mP5l no it wasn’t I am not a liberal and I’m trying to find modest clothing that arent $100. What I find is that it’s either $100’s or it simply shows everything I have and more. It angers me that covering myself up vacuums my wallet away. It shouldn’t be like that.
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 3 года назад
@@ninilovenana 👍🏾
@ScreamElsie
@ScreamElsie 4 года назад
My conclusion with her channel is the she's uncomfortable with being sexy. In my humble opinion the way she channels being "modest" she should get comfortable with being sexy & learn that part of herself
@Zeldagirlartist
@Zeldagirlartist 4 года назад
There’s some people who would never dress sexy. And that’s her choice 🤷‍♀️ just like our choice is to choose if we care about dressing modestly or not. Not everybody is made to wear crop tops and shorts with their butts hanging out and that’s fine
@Heena6790
@Heena6790 4 года назад
@@Zeldagirlartist Thank you!
@Dennis-nc3vw
@Dennis-nc3vw 3 года назад
Female: I feel sexy. Male: You *look* sexy. Female: OMG STOP OBJECTIFYING ME I DON'T DRESS FOR YOU!!!!111
@celiameek
@celiameek 4 года назад
me lookin at my profile pic as she speaks 👁👄👁
@prabhleenreen3594
@prabhleenreen3594 4 года назад
LMFAOOOO
@RandomPerson-rv8fu
@RandomPerson-rv8fu 4 года назад
As u should
@aliiiichum
@aliiiichum 4 года назад
Blue Crusader are you seriously this bored to tell a teen that she isn’t “marriage material” just bc of her style choice in one photo ☠️. you have no idea how damaging this is, yikes. 😬
@TheOuissala
@TheOuissala 4 года назад
Blue Crusader seriously get a life dude 😂😂😂 it’s a shame for any gender to have you But seriously tho get a life
@mindflayer0319
@mindflayer0319 4 года назад
Blue Crusader EW!!! Why would you say something like this?? Keep your nasty opinions to yourself.
@yunocomment3349
@yunocomment3349 4 года назад
You're telling people how to think, act, find a husband and now how to dress. You sound like my mother.
@yunocomment3349
@yunocomment3349 4 года назад
Update: comment might get more likes than this video. Thanks guys! 😂
@iandiriri
@iandiriri 4 года назад
Hot Cheeto you’re talking about validation in comments....but you’re on EVERY comment thread it seems like.
@TheOuissala
@TheOuissala 4 года назад
Like my mom too 🙄 n i fucking hate it
@ninadreams127
@ninadreams127 4 года назад
I think she would find being called motherly a compliment lol
@Dennis-nc3vw
@Dennis-nc3vw 3 года назад
Cry me a f***ing river. If someone posts a video called "Why you should invest in Bitcoin" I don't say "My money, my choice! You're not the boss of me! REEEEE!"
@bubblybrainiac2925
@bubblybrainiac2925 4 года назад
So what do you wear to the beach?
@heliotype9591
@heliotype9591 4 года назад
She be wearing a wetsuit lmao
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
iit’2 2ollux bruh dang sneak 100
@lrc3197
@lrc3197 4 года назад
She don’t go to the beach it’s against her religion lmao.
@cristianabraham384
@cristianabraham384 4 года назад
A Burka
@heavenschneider7133
@heavenschneider7133 4 года назад
Dang, girl. Those shoulders are too hot. That’s not “modest” at all. What will the men think of those shoulders? Cover up 😤
@InkyBlueberry
@InkyBlueberry 4 года назад
Betty White damn grandma calm tf down
@jennifer386
@jennifer386 4 года назад
Betty White you look gross❤️
@LaurenPruittMusic
@LaurenPruittMusic 4 года назад
@Betty White um ur like 70? You literally grew into being linda ugly. That afro isnt it, sweetie. Thank you.
@rebeccascarlet2680
@rebeccascarlet2680 4 года назад
Analise Evalise OOOOOHHHHHHH
@heavenschneider7133
@heavenschneider7133 4 года назад
I’m just confused as to what Afro you’re even talking about???
@GH3STMODE
@GH3STMODE 4 года назад
I cackled when she said the first pair of shoes was "very interesting"
@savior5225
@savior5225 4 года назад
👽
@lunarcraves
@lunarcraves 4 года назад
I’m cryingggg. These outfits were so ugly wtf
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
Grace Ashley GIRLLLUSHSBANUASFAFSF😭
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
FR.
@rosie_corner
@rosie_corner 4 года назад
To each their own
@w1nch3ster1
@w1nch3ster1 4 года назад
A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman regardless of her clothes.
@870Slager
@870Slager 4 года назад
Ehhhh i dunno m8
@eyesofnight
@eyesofnight 2 года назад
No
@sidneyf5807
@sidneyf5807 4 года назад
you do you but no need to think about what men think, dress for yourself
@elamiri858
@elamiri858 4 года назад
"modesty is dressing in a way that doesn't sexualize your body" "how to dress modestly and look smokin hot" Make up your mind sis 👁️👄👁️
@ninilovenana
@ninilovenana 3 года назад
In a basic grammar book you’ll need to look up the word hyperbole. I understood what she meant.
@jakewebster7635
@jakewebster7635 4 года назад
Only thing I like smokin hot is my steak on my grill amen
@ajohnson82454
@ajohnson82454 4 года назад
sis i-
@laurenwinscot9678
@laurenwinscot9678 4 года назад
Have you seen parks and recreation? You're the Ron Swonsen. Amen steak brethren.
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
Amen periodt
@yippehanako
@yippehanako 4 года назад
How to dress like you're 60
@bstmeg5237
@bstmeg5237 4 года назад
Nah my grandma has style
@shitlord54
@shitlord54 4 года назад
@Mrs Kay I respect myself by wearing stuff that I wanna wear and feel confident in myself. I like short shorts. I like tops that reveal cleavage. My body is mine, I'll wear what I want, thanks.
@wii3willRule
@wii3willRule 4 года назад
if you're trying to dress modestly, why tf would you be concerned with looking "smoking hot"? doesn't that defeat the whole point?
@ryleebienhoff9382
@ryleebienhoff9382 4 года назад
Don’t let these negative comments keep you from sharing your ideas on this topic. She even said she understands women who do not choose to dress this way. It is good for young women in this day and age to see that dressing in crop tops and mini skirts is not the only way to fit in. That is mostly what you see on social media nowadays. Not all women feel comfortable dressing that way and would like to not feel alone in that aspect.
@allisonkrapf5605
@allisonkrapf5605 4 года назад
Thank you for speaking out. It really bothers me how all of these comments go off on how we shouldn't dress for men...when she never said those words even once. So thank you so much for getting and understanding what she was trying to do.
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
Allison Krapf implied
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
AOh and it was said directly in a different video
@BrookeTherese
@BrookeTherese 4 года назад
These comments do not pass the vibe check. She’s just vibin! She’s not forcing y’all to dress the way she is! Let her live!
@bellbell966
@bellbell966 4 года назад
this is so sad. i hope young girls don’t see this and think that this is how it has to be. instead of teaching us how to dress modestly and cover ourselves up let’s teach men not to sexualize, objectify, and rape women. dressing “sexy” doesn’t make you any less of a valid, “feminine”, and “lovely” woman. seriously shame on you.
@Sunnysidestoriesandmusic
@Sunnysidestoriesandmusic 4 года назад
How silly. You dress provocatively to turn men on. Do strippers wear burkhas?
@bellbell966
@bellbell966 4 года назад
Sunnyside Storytime i’m sorry what point are you trying to make?
@redwolf5555
@redwolf5555 4 года назад
@@Sunnysidestoriesandmusic No I dress the way I want because it gives me confidence and makes me feel good about myself, not for anyone else and especially not for men
@kjo150
@kjo150 4 года назад
STOP PUTTING ADS I DONT WANT TO SEE YOU HONEY❤️
@shorteststraw123
@shorteststraw123 3 года назад
Then don't click ! Easy
@prabhleenreen3594
@prabhleenreen3594 4 года назад
she think she looks smokin hot LMFAOOOOO. but also isnt the whole point of dressing modestly not to be smoking hot?? to be "beautiful" not "hot"
@Lucia-yc9zj
@Lucia-yc9zj 4 года назад
While I do not agree with some of what she said, I do respect and admire how fearless she is in expressing herself.
@wickedgaming91
@wickedgaming91 4 года назад
Clothes can represent good or bad intentions??? Tf???
@rebeccascarlet2680
@rebeccascarlet2680 4 года назад
Yeah Cause I came in with a belt that had A HUNDRED GUNS ALL AROUND IT CONSTANTLY FIRING AT EVERYTHINGGG. VERY bad intentions....
@Dennis-nc3vw
@Dennis-nc3vw 3 года назад
Yes. The whole goddamn point of fashion is to communicate who you are. If I wear all black, people assume I'm a goth. If I dress preppy, people assume I'm posh. Etc.
@journeycalled_life
@journeycalled_life 4 года назад
i’m going to be a positive comment. and literally all these women commenting here are probably the same ones who are like “we need to bring up all women! feminism!” yet hate on this woman when she’s doing her, and helping other women who want to be more modest, like myself. I appreciate you, dont listen to the hate girly.
@GC-fj4lc
@GC-fj4lc 4 года назад
If I may speak for a large portion of the comment section, most of the people here don't really care what she wears. Personally, I don't care if you wear a burka, I don't care if you wear a bikini. The criticism of Abby is that she does, and she degrades all women who don't agree with her. She relates a woman's value to her relationship to men, which is not helpful to anyone.
@Zizzyrae
@Zizzyrae 4 года назад
Hey people who are hating on Abby and her values, this channel isn’t for you. Please leave this space for likeminded traditional woman, and we will leave your spaces alone :). Everyone deserves to have their own values, that is the principle of free speech
@jrms1576
@jrms1576 4 года назад
She paid for her ads to show on my feed. How is that respecting my space? 🤔
@dawnhamilton5649
@dawnhamilton5649 4 года назад
Tbh if she wants to follow these types of views then I don’t see a problem as long as she doesn’t look down on others for not following her views and doesn’t try to change the way others like to dress.
@reesespuffs4869
@reesespuffs4869 4 года назад
yep
@purplepolarbear5052
@purplepolarbear5052 4 года назад
i would love to dress modestly i guess to please my parents, but the main reason why i stopped being that way is because it made me incredibly insecure about my body. i don’t want to be frumpy but i also want to be comfortable in my own skin and show it off for myself.
@sofiaguerrero0969
@sofiaguerrero0969 4 года назад
I think how to dress classy and elegant is better. Modest clothes are just covered but not necessarily fashionable.
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
Girl, I- watch some best dressed videos and report back to me. You can dress classy and elegantly if you wish, but I'm just sayin, like
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
Heck, even a AlexandrasGirlyTalk one
@sofiaguerrero0969
@sofiaguerrero0969 3 года назад
@@s2c1mw7mP5l Girl you- what? I still stand by my comment lol. These outfits are ugly as hell
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 3 года назад
@@sofiaguerrero0969 ok 💔💔
@chaesaurus
@chaesaurus 4 года назад
As a young girl (im 12) I feel that’s it’s important that woman should be able to dress how they feel. A woman shouldn’t have to hide her body because a man can’t “control” himself. Woman shouldn’t and don’t dress up for male validation or attention. They dress up because it makes them feel good. Covering up doesn’t make you safe from men and nor will it stop some of them from harming you. It’s not about what you have on it’s about what the men picture you with it off.
@juliad3657
@juliad3657 3 года назад
I dress modestly because I am uncomfortable dressing in short or revealing items. Also I find there is something beautiful about loving parts of you that only you can see, without the added complements. I do not care how other people dress. Dress however you want. I only have a problem with what you wear if it’s extremely inappropriate for the occasion. For instance going commando, wearing a short skirt, and a clear tube top, at grandfathers funeral.
@juliad3657
@juliad3657 3 года назад
*my grandfathers
@elizarandolph50
@elizarandolph50 4 года назад
I don’t understand all the hate. She’s just making suggestions, feel free to accept or refuse it.
@rebekahmiller8120
@rebekahmiller8120 4 года назад
Abby, thanks so much for sharing and breaking down the outfits. I came from a very conservative background and totally get it. Love, love, love the ideas. Thank you for sharing. I feel inspired. I have a friend that always looks put together and after watching your video I realized she is doing exactly what you are talking about.
@rubyboland5235
@rubyboland5235 4 года назад
hey guys if you clicked on the video then leave a bad comment that’s just rude not everyone wants to be modest but she’s trying to promote it for girls that do so be kind pls❤️❤️
@LauraLakov
@LauraLakov 4 года назад
I LOVED all of your outfits, but that last outfit was my favorite. That dress is gorgeous! I really appreciated your take on modest attire, many people can view “dressing modestly” as frumpy when it’s so far from it. I’d loved to see more content from you on this topic and more outfit inspirations!
@ClassicallyAbby
@ClassicallyAbby 4 года назад
Absolutely! 💙
@mindflayer0319
@mindflayer0319 4 года назад
Classically Abby While I don’t agree with everything you do, I admire you for being able to put up with the hate. Everyone is entitled to live how they want and I feel a lot of these comments are uncalled for. Anyways...God bless you.
@aimiswimmer23
@aimiswimmer23 4 года назад
I like how she felt she had to specify "these aren't leggings these are PANTS"
@hotjanuary
@hotjanuary 3 года назад
Lol. They look like coloured leggings to me.
@natashasmith6193
@natashasmith6193 4 года назад
My mom would love these outfits
@rere_ig
@rere_ig 3 года назад
That says a lot about her "fashion" style 💀💀
@laylaburton8083
@laylaburton8083 4 года назад
i wanna see her react or give advice to the punk world, i wanna see her criticizing the punk fashion or grunge fashion just to humor me
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
Layla Burton interesting. Nice idea.
@rere_ig
@rere_ig 3 года назад
Yeah lmfao, I'd love to hear her opinion on techwear and cyberpunk clothes 💀
@katelynlannom440
@katelynlannom440 4 года назад
sis why you always worried about what men think of you
@sydneynicole8947
@sydneynicole8947 4 года назад
I feel like this is hypocritical to say you’ll look hot but then say that wearing a shorter dress is wrong and not okay to be hot.
@savannapantoja8876
@savannapantoja8876 4 года назад
OMG she is literally catering to one type of woman (Conservative women obviously) if you don't agree you should not be here. It's like a homophobic person going to a gay persons page just to post negative comments. I agree with a lot of what she is saying from a religious perspective and I completely understand people who disagree with her but she has a point where people like to degrade women who like the idea of having a husband and caring for them and dressing modestly. She has her ideals you have yours and lets try to be respectful to each other.
@eveb3856
@eveb3856 4 года назад
Eve B If a woman wears a shirt that she feels confident in, why judge her?! she feels comfy with her body. stop telling woman that you can’t wear clothes that show skin. they are CONFIDENT. support the woman don’t tear them down! also, men aren’t distracted by clothing. :(
@clairecakes9860
@clairecakes9860 4 года назад
Ok ok I understand your point about leggings but don't get how your tan pants are any different? Could you explain it?
@P_bee
@P_bee 4 года назад
Maybe she’s talking about thin leggings that bare it all? I had bad impressions with leggings initially but nowadays there are really good options of leggings, and the high quality ones (not necessarily expensive) aren’t super thin yet still super comfy
@clairecakes9860
@clairecakes9860 4 года назад
@@P_bee Thank you!!
@bstmeg5237
@bstmeg5237 4 года назад
Double standards.
@s2c1mw7mP5l
@s2c1mw7mP5l 4 года назад
bst Meg FR. 😤
@miarenchi4041
@miarenchi4041 4 года назад
Hey offended people. You realize you don’t have to watch these videos. It’s for people who want to dress modest for themselves and feel more comfortable doing so. Just like a woman should be allowed to wear revealing clothing and it’s disrespectful to judge her, the same applies for modesty. She’s not hurting you by sharing these tips and trying to look good while making sure not to get attention she doesn’t want. If you don’t like that there’s no need to try to ruin it for people that do. Maybe you be happier if you got a life and stopped harassing women you don’t know on the internet. Thanks.
@PenelopeDarkDragon
@PenelopeDarkDragon 4 года назад
Maybe if she got off everyone else's RU-vid recommendations and her videos stopped getting shoved down everyone's throats? I don't like getting ads that tell me to dress 'modest' and be a good housewife EVERY damn day.
@allisontucker906
@allisontucker906 4 года назад
Thank you! My point exactly. These people waste so much time trying to drag her down or knit pick her words And just because something shows up on you're recommended or ads DOESNT MEAN YOU HAVE TO FUCKING CLICK ON IT! You have the ABSOLUTE ability to scroll past. Just like I DO Everytime I see a videos or ad I don't like or give a SH about. It's also called self control.
@Heena6790
@Heena6790 4 года назад
Gotta be honest, not a fan of how everyone is coming at her for her opinion. I admire that she's expressing her thoughts about it. Not everyone is going to agree with dressing a certain way, and that's okay. So in that aspect, everyone coming for her decision to dress this way is wrong.
@jeminatamminen
@jeminatamminen 4 года назад
all of these outfits are most definitely what 99% of people would describe as frumpy. this video is the definition of that word.
@bunnyirl
@bunnyirl 4 года назад
Girl- it isn’t 1608 you can wear a mini skirt and not be shunned. It’s okay.
@Craycrayforcupcakes
@Craycrayforcupcakes 4 года назад
she’s the middle school teacher who would hall monitor girls and their outfits and report :))
@bocolife
@bocolife 4 года назад
She legit said covering your elbows is a beautiful rule 😂😂 im dead. Damn those sexy elbows!
@GabiJonas93xoxo
@GabiJonas93xoxo 4 года назад
I’m still distracted by the shoulder cutouts in the first outfit. Those sexy shoulders are just so eye catching I can’t think about anything else. 😂
@SammiJade04
@SammiJade04 4 года назад
I notice a lot of negative comments here and I'm not usually one for modesty but I do try to look nice and not inappropriate. I understand what she is saying and love the classic feminine nature of her outfits. It's something I would like to steer a little more towards. Just because it's modest doesn't mean it's not beautiful. Favorite outfit would be #1 that's definitely my kinda style. The one with the casual dress and Jean jacket was the next for me. I really like having a balance so I'm definitely following you here and on Instagram now so I can take some inspiration from you! Be blessed! 🙏
@adoptada12
@adoptada12 4 года назад
Thankyou for sharing, I've been looking for different ways to dress modestly but not "frumpy"
@Babysuncreen
@Babysuncreen 4 года назад
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@rstroh2105
@rstroh2105 4 года назад
Lots of comments from women who want to be accepted but have made a decision NOT to accept that some women may have different opinions than theirs.
@AnaTorres-gn3sl
@AnaTorres-gn3sl 4 года назад
Fun quarantine drinking game: take a shot every time she says “modest”, take two every time she says something misogynistic or sexist I’m about to be plastered in about 15 min🙃
@emilia-qm1xz
@emilia-qm1xz 3 года назад
**5 minutes
@2awsomechicks323
@2awsomechicks323 4 года назад
These outfits are what I’d wear in high school. Which was 5 years ago. Not to mention I had a very strict dress code. Now I wear whatever I want. Now if you wanna dress modestly cool go ahead but don’t judge ppl who don’t. 👌
@megwaters252
@megwaters252 3 года назад
Abby: “Leggings are inappropriate” Me: wearing leggings while watching this video
@x0angelica98
@x0angelica98 4 года назад
I'm 21 and a conservative. I think it's ridiculous to dress modestly so "men dont stare" that's ridiculous. I'm going to wear my mini skirts with ripped up fishnet stockings with ridiculously huge platform heels. If I think I look cute that's all that matters also who says I'm dressing for men? I WANT COMPLIMENTS FROM CUTE GIRLS NOT MEN!
@abigailfuller8240
@abigailfuller8240 4 года назад
Thank you for this wonderful video! I am a Christian and I make it a goal to make my entire closet modest. In this modern world, it is really hard to find modest clothes that don’t need to be layered. I loved this video, and I will definitely be watching more!
@Leamichellefan2244
@Leamichellefan2244 2 года назад
I love this I absolutely love this I mean I love all of your content but your content on modesty as well as your singing videos those two categories are my absolute favorite.
@sarac1957
@sarac1957 4 года назад
Seriously what is wrong with everyone in the comment section!? I was raised in the church and grew up a pastors kid. So what if she is more covered up. She is giving HER opinion. I wear leggings ALL the time and tank tops and I wasn't offended by this video at all.
@rebeccafrances7709
@rebeccafrances7709 4 года назад
Sara C I think the problem is the way she phrases it. If you look at some of her other videos there are so many sexist micro-aggressions. In one at the end she says “so ladies let’s dress like the *ladies* we are” this implied that only real women dress modestly and she was invalidating women weather she realized it or not. Also a lot of people simply don’t agree with the idea that instead of teaching boys to control themselves we should teach girls to cover themselves up to avoid being sexualized. She also said “dressing modestly is about facing the reality that men are visual creatures” this tells young girls that no matter what they do their bodies will be sexualized, so they should cover up to be sexualized as little as possible and that is toxic. I will respect anyone who dresses modestly weather it be for religious reasons or not but I expect the same in return. Her videos are full of implications that “immodest” dressers don’t deserve respect.
@sarac1957
@sarac1957 4 года назад
@@rebeccafrances7709 You also have to remember that you are viewer. You do not know her personally so there is no need to get upset or offended if what she is saying is not harming you.
@rebeccafrances7709
@rebeccafrances7709 4 года назад
Sara C im a teenager and this video is pushing the mentality that my body will always be sexualized and that’s okay. the same mentality that goes with thinking women who get raped were asking for it. the same mentality that tells young girls that it’s okay to disrupt their education because a boy was distracted. the same mentality that tells me if i get raped i can’t abort the baby. so yeah it’s hurting me. i am in no way saying the way people dress is hurting me, im saying the micro aggressions and the thought process she encourages hurts me. i don’t mean that all people who dress modestly agree with this thinking i just don’t approve of the implications and micro aggressions *she* uses. like i said i respect people who dress modestly for whatever reason. what i don’t respect is this mentality and the micro aggressions, sexism, and rape culture that often come with it. there are *so* many creators who dress modestly that don’t encourage this mentality and she is not one of them.
@ed8329
@ed8329 4 года назад
She's pushing a harmful narrative and she comes across as very holier than thou. It's more prominent in her other videos.
@lynncai587
@lynncai587 4 года назад
The title of this video is really misleading and an oxymoron.
@Lil_Tweeter
@Lil_Tweeter 4 года назад
It’s great If you want to dress conservative but women’s outfits don’t have to revolve around what men think We should be able to wear what makes us feel beautiful and confident. If a man is really worth your time he should be able to see you in short shorts and still be able to love your personality. And wearing a top that’s a bit cropped or a dress that’s on the shorter side Doesn’t mean you’re trying to get male attention it could just mean your dressing for yourself. If dressing conservative makes you feel more comfortable don’t feel pressured to dress revealing but if you’re someone who likes to dress less conservative sometimes that’s ok too. Sorry this was a long paragraph I would love to hear other opinions on this topic :)
@rebekahmiller8120
@rebekahmiller8120 4 года назад
I didn't see all the thumbs down until after I posted my comment. I just wanted to add that at first I was really upset and thought, "That must really hurt." After thinking it over for a few minutes, I realized that the thumbs down, even though I am sure they are terribly painful, they show how desperately needed the message is. Thanks for being brave and putting yourself out there. Please keep it up. There are ladies out here would love to hear your content, the push back shows how desperately thirsty us conservative girls are for more influencers with similar values.
@MsDragontooth
@MsDragontooth 4 года назад
Funny thing is that this would be still considered immodest by more Conservative people. Showing a bit of leg, jewelery, flashy colours, high heels, tight pants could all be considered immodest. And believe me your still attracting the "male gaze". There is a whole fetish for that. So why worry so much and dress just for yourself however that might look. modest or not.
@katieskraftedkreations
@katieskraftedkreations 4 года назад
What are Orthodox Jewish rules on dressing modestly? You briefly mentioned elbows covered and skirts at the beginning of the video but I’d be interested in knowing more!
@godpilledzoomer7245
@godpilledzoomer7245 4 года назад
Become Christian accept Christ
@doniellenberg5300
@doniellenberg5300 4 года назад
@@godpilledzoomer7245 that's all a bunch of lies, sorry
@thelandoctopuses1020
@thelandoctopuses1020 4 года назад
godpilled zoomer mans really took the blue pill
@estee260
@estee260 4 года назад
In general, Orthodox Jewish women (like me) cover the collar bone, elbows and knees with a skirt. In addition, the clothes shouldn't be skin tight. Some women also wear tights or pantyhose as well.
@eileenmarie1652
@eileenmarie1652 4 года назад
Esther Neissany Thats very similar to the Catholic Marian modesty standard. Covering two fingers below collarbone, three-quarter length sleeves and skirts below the knee.
@marissaagun9590
@marissaagun9590 4 года назад
Everyone is hating on her, but like you came to this video knowing what your getting. She does give her reasons on why she’s modest, but she’s not criticizing anyone who doesn’t follow her style choices. She’s just giving advice to people who have that same lifestyle as her. You can dress however you want. So why can’t she want to dress modestly? It’s kinda similar to women who choose to wear hijabs. They can if they want to, and give advice to people who want to do the same. I feel like people are holding her to a different standard because she’s Jewish or Christian.
@emmanelms1933
@emmanelms1933 4 года назад
unlike most of the people in this comment section i liked this video i’m an independent baptist so dressing modestly is a big thing for me even though it may not be a “cool” thing to be doing at 15, so thank you for some more ideas!
@alleycatthemagnificent6847
@alleycatthemagnificent6847 4 года назад
i rlly dont like dressing modestly by your standards but i never dress to show off or try to look hot or sexy. i dress in whatever i am comfortable in. i am a conservative but i dont agree with a lot of your modest fashion advice. that being said, i think its amazing that you dress in the way that you like and youre not conforming for anybody and i do agree with a ton of your other views. god bless and much love :)
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