How to Drop the Masculine Shield & Be Magnetic Again

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Hello my loves!! In this video we dive deep into the powerful journey of dropping your masculine shield, feeling safe, and reclaiming your inner magnetic energy.
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(00:00) How To Drop The Masculine Shield
(01:09) Putting Up The Masculine Shield
(05:03) Why Do You Put Up The Masculine Shield?
(07:17) The Physical Elements Of The Masculine Shield
(10:08) Mastering Our Own Inner Masculine Energy
(13:02) 4 Steps To Drop The Masculine Shield
Main themes
Masculine and Feminine Energy
Awareness
Practice relaxation
Affirmations
Journaling Prompts
When have you felt the need to put up your shield?
What was the first time you felt yourself putting up your shield? How did that feel?
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@ryrose3431 Месяц назад

The only woman I trust to give energy advice

@KaterinaNago Месяц назад

Literally

@Helencrisel Месяц назад

Her and Abraham Hicks 💗

@priyankaadvani4943 Месяц назад

This is so precious. Melts my heart!!!

@tashaannelopez3483 Месяц назад

Take some of her add points but root then in Christ ✝️

@teenafrench7236 Месяц назад

Isn't she beautiful 🎉

@aspiringrootwoman24 Месяц назад

Reading the title alone made me realize i am uncomfortable with the Idea of "dropping my shield" because who is going to protect me from these predators

@archersterling2901 29 дней назад

yourself. who else? the point is that you don't need the shield when you realise you're strong enough without it.

@riasb 28 дней назад

We need both fem and masc. To fully drop your shield is foolish, a fem knows this. Be in your fem AND lift your boundaries while staying detached. You will stay safe (emotionally/ psych) but physically is a different convo, for that you need to workout and stay vigilant. But usually when you are in your fem, people are gentle w you.

@angelrey3599 Месяц назад

I've struggled with this for over 20 years. It's hard to feel happiness,joy, and other good emotions. I'm working on finding my feminine self again.

@LeeorAlexandra Месяц назад

You are such a feminine beautiful flower

@matyldas.594 Месяц назад

Honey. I love you. Work on yourself. Take care of yourself. But dear beautiful soul maybe consider going to therapy. And if it would make you feel better remember there are a lot of spiritual therapists out there.

@HeartOfLightning 16 дней назад

That's beautiful, may your feminine self shine for the world to witness 😊 thanks for your example and for sharing 🙏

@jkae109 26 дней назад

1. Becoming aware and mindful in recognising that patterns of masculine shield 2. Cultivate your intuition and begin to trust yourself (self trust and strong enough to make decisions) 3. Practise relaxation (hypnotise, meditation, journaling, nature walks, massages etc) 4. Affirmations (I am safe, I am protected, I surrender to the flow, I completely let go of my need to control, i melt into my feminine energy, i love and accept myself, I fully trust myself.

@t.f.6297 Месяц назад

This is very helpful. Sadly my shield goes up around family members. I've had to cut some of them off just because I realized they make me feel unsafe for legit reasons. It's sad when a child loses safety because they don't come from a safe home. Thanks for this message.❤

@riasb 28 дней назад

I feel this in my soul 🥺♥️ may God bless you

@xoala6344 Месяц назад

In an age of oversaturation of information, especially when it comes to “masculine vs feminine energy”, this is true wisdom. What I’ve found through years of pain and chaos is that there is no remedy. It’s all about discernment - using the right coping mechanisms for the right amount of time, and then continuing to move forward . Being even-keeled and balanced, and understanding that even if you don’t feel balanced, it’s natural and part of the bigger picture. Leeor’s videos have been immensely helpful to me over the years, there’s something so comforting about her presence.

@watercolourartincapetown2919 25 дней назад

Thank you for sharing your perspective. 💓

@5GemmaAnn Месяц назад

I think Echart Tolle talks about the pain body… women have a collective pain body. You always bring up a lot of really good 👍🏻 points.

@shirleykovac1840 Месяц назад

I had an intuitive hit to start relaxing into my feminine energy recently. Then your video popped up on the page. Divine timing. This makes a lot of sense. I used to get people that would meet me for the first time and think that I hated them and it was because of the reserved nature I had and the shield that I put up after all the stuff I went through as a kid and a teenager.

@Daze-bg3nb Месяц назад

Had my “shield” down before and was hurt by many - friends and romantic relationships. So I put my shield up, ignored many, cut people off immediately and went very private. I am slowly lowering the shield down and working on it but definitely still have hyper independence.

@___t510 Месяц назад

Your energy is so calm and is the reason I watch your videos. You exude realness that makes me trust you and want to match it.

@Lulu2u 19 дней назад

I really didn't think this video would make me cry like this. I even resisted the urge to cry while watching. But I decided to give in to my emotions & be vulnerable. I am afraid to trust people. And when she speaks about being open it seems like such an easy, simple thing. But truthfully its not. I never realized how uncomfortable the mere thought of trust made me feel until now. But I want to be better & I know its what I have to do to heal my nervous system and start living again

@jennagress Месяц назад

I needed this big time. I think we can become guarded so easily as a child, and if we never had a safe place to land, it’s hard to come out of it. I am almost 26 and within the last year or so becoming mindful of how much the “shield” is affecting my life. It’s subtle, it gets you places, but only for so long… the guard of masculine energy catches up to you eventually. And you’re so right about it being rewarded, I was rewarded for being the “tough girl” as a kid, not crying when I was hurt, etc… I was the only girl on the sales floor with all men, hustle culture, “tough girl” energy… its all “cool” until it’s not ❤️ thank you for this.

@sokoli3253 Месяц назад

Sometimes we might need that energy to bring it up but the thing is to not get stuck in any kind of created identity except our original one that is infinite conscious and awareness.

@karimaaly4185 Месяц назад

My masculine energy has made me isolated, and overthink where id emotionally eat so much. Id feel anxiety around people where id have to really hide my true self because I didn't feel safe, creating this person I am so drained from. I am currently working on this, but been critical to myself throughout

@VivBeyer1111 Месяц назад

Try Louise L Haye There are audiobooks of hers on RU-vid. She teaches how to be kind to yourself..

@Lulu2u 19 дней назад

I have the same issue but I've been actively practicing self forgiveness. Beating yourself up is useless. It provides no benefit but causes so much damage. The least you can do is not add on to the negative emotions. Its like you're getting jumped so you started punching yourself in the face with them. Instead do the opposite. Practice self love. Stand up for yourself against those negative thoughts. If you really want to protect yourself then treat yourself with care and compassion, the same way you would with anyone else

@rachellovora9222 Месяц назад

Teary eyed because I've missed you so much! I didn't know I needed your softness. Thank you :)

@LeeorAlexandra Месяц назад

Awwww my Rachel!

@bluejayonmyshoulder7383 Месяц назад

Trusting myself has been the biggest help to letting ppl in. I could open up and trust that I’d know and be able to move away if I feel unsafe

@latrailboss Месяц назад

I'm guarded in relationships and in general. I can't allow others to come into my space. I do this to protect myself from being hurt and because I love deeply. Alot of people do not reciprocate loyalty or support. It's hard to go with the flow because I avoid being hurt or putting myself in a situation that I have survived from and do not want to experience again 😪

@sokoli3253 Месяц назад

You won’t because now you have your intuition and awareness to trust, so the real practice is to stay tuned with yourself when surrounded no matter what your brain might experience as challenges. Fear doesn’t existe, danger surely do. Trust means you know you can handle so can be moved but your also can handle almost anything because nothing can make you or break you, you are infinite conscious and a multi-dimensional being having a humain experience. ❤️‍🔥

@freshofftheboat23 Месяц назад

Got my goddess amulet today & set my intention to heal PMDD. Now I’m right here catching this video as soon as it comes up. DIVINE. Leeor. I LOVE YOU. P.S. passed my exam that I sat the day you released your April energy reading. Love, Gowri Xxx

@LeeorAlexandra Месяц назад

GOWRI YOU CONTINUE TO AMAZE ME BABY!!

@freshofftheboat23 Месяц назад

@@LeeorAlexandra and you continue to amaze me! Always rooting for you from the sidelines my love ❤️❤️xxx

@itsmymy_xo Месяц назад

are you still selling this amulet?

@megachuu Месяц назад

Wow! The timing is incredible. I’ve been closed off, protecting myself with this shield for as long as I could remember. Last night I was wondering why I struggle making connections and then I wake up to this video 💖 thank you Leeor.

@Carliwholern Месяц назад

I’m a nurse health and wellness coach I work with career driven women who want more emotional, spiritual, physical balance with one on one coaching. I love how leeor supports the whole collective and journey I and my clients are on!

@scorpio11955 Месяц назад

I'm a woman but have been too masculine for years now. And yeah,I have been attracting people who only need protection. Same type of people. When I become friends with a friend,all of them ends up saying am so cute and can make a better man. I once asked myself why they all think the same yet am a lady like them. It made me decide to stay away from people and thought they misunderstand me. But lately i've been able to indentify that chain and working on breaking it. Few weeks ago something started urging me from wuthin to get into my feminine energy. Its been hard but have been working on me now. I jyst noted that even my clothes are all masculine. And thats a physical thing that I have started changing. I have started feeling relaxed in my feminine and am sure with time I'll be there. So this video came at the right time. I have to forget the things that made me so masculine

@wierdwolf13 Месяц назад

I have been struggling with this shield for nearly 20 years. Became aware of it close to ten years ago. Has just started deconstructing it and life threw me for a loop and I found myself slip back into it's safety. But this time I was more aware of it so I wasn't lost in it's grip as long. I'm learning to let it fall. It's been a process for sure. But thank you for sharing this. It resonated 110% love it.

@nicolewooff7412 Месяц назад

please do a video about the dark feminine and how that manifests in people who don't feel safe x

@leighd301 Месяц назад

Watch Angelina Jolie’s movie Original Sin, one of her first movies. It is all about the dark feminine and a great movie, really shows masculine and feminine energy dynamics in real time.

@lisamarie7681 День назад

So valuable thank you. Personally my mother was very violent towards me creating a sense of unsafety since birth. It's hard to even imagine that I can rely on or feel safe besides when alone. I see that I have attracted people who needed masculine energy and I ended up creating safety for others while feeling depleted and unsupported myself. I do want to overcome that limitation and finally feel I can rely on and trust someone. Sending love to all the ladies in these comments & you Leeor. With gratitude.

@jackthe15headedmonster25 9 дней назад

No, yea I 100% agree with you! When I dropped the masculine shield I was able to connect with more people and was able to make relationships more easier, I noticed right away.

@Sydneysdreamin Месяц назад

Thank you so much for this🙏🏽needed to hear. It’s a deep thing to acknowledge at 28years(in Saturn return) but I don’t want to keep being afraid and ultimately hiding myself from being seen.. it’s driving me into a loop and I know I’m self sabotaging but the level of emotions feels too heavy to do anything alone.. I am trying to understand why and how to live freely again and stop running back to the same guys that feel “familiar” which feels safer and less scary than putting myself out there just to be hurt again.. I just want to feel safe loved and validated.. 🥴😓 I don’t want to be scared of everything anymore

@youaresoveryloved Месяц назад

Thank you Leeor. This video reminded me how much I really need to work on…my eyes hurt from crying so much but some of those tears were triggered by hope. It’s not over yet. To anyone reading this, you’re not alone. We may have experienced different pasts, but the pain is probably similar. It has made us strong, but it is time for us to let ourselves release the weight and trust. ❤️

@KaiKailuv Месяц назад

When I was younger it was never common to talk about hard things with my parents so I’ve definitely kept this energy with me since then. I also find myself attracting people that don’t align with me because of this. I’m trying to better tap into my feminine every day. Thank you for this ❤️

@millymont5946 Месяц назад

Thank you! Thank You! Thank you! You hit every point and circumstance. I am the protector, even in relationships and instead of attracting a partner with a masculine energy so I can then fall into my feminine, I do the opposite. It all stems back my teenagers and feeling unsafe and being in vulnerable situations.

@JayaaTekwane Месяц назад

You are the one who shifts my energy in 360 degree ❤

@laurawillis8444 9 дней назад

I put my shield up as I began going through deep therapy untangling childhood wounds. That was a cocoon for metamorphosis. It wasn’t until yesterday that I realized it had layers. One that I put up to protect myself while I was renewing and another I put on a very very long time ago, to keep me from emotionally connecting with others. I was able to mask this so well that I developed being an insanely great conversationalist. Making others feel so heard and that I am extremely interested in them but it created and attracted these one sided relationships of giving giving giving. So lonely and so isolating. I have such a yearning to be seen. It’s time.

@nellynel3027 Месяц назад

This made me tear up. I feel like I resonate with this and am usually in a masculine energy when I’m dating guys. I thought it was really interesting that you said that this attracts guys that can make you be more in your masculine and protect yourself. I tend to also attract guys that are more submissive than me and are too people pleasy. It’s just interesting to hear about masculine energy in this way. Thank you for making this video ❤

@Vanillaaxo Месяц назад

You need to balance masculine energy with feminine you need to stand up for yourself and protect yourself

@carriesimmonsofficial Месяц назад

It is so crazy because I really gave myself to this guy and all he did was break my heart

@waterlillee Месяц назад

Sending you Love and Light Leeor!!!🩷

@tamikkaforbes4244 14 дней назад

So positive, accessible, loving and healing. Namaste!

@tanyaa.7447 Месяц назад

I really needed this. The timing is perfect. Thank you Leeor ❤

@w.hamilton3327 Месяц назад

The other scenario is being a single mother as well as a childhood where I didn't feel safe. As a single mom I felt s thought I had to wear two hats. I was a massive undertaking, but one I agreed to on a soul level (didn't know that at the time however). When I finally aligned with a partner, I wore a badge of honour that "I can fix that, I can do that, I don't need any help". Now I want to leave that behind and embrace my goddess, balance my energies and be in relationship where I can be in my femininity once again. I am discovering, slowly. Thank you sweet soul, I got a ton out of your video and was very timely. I have subscribed as well.

@EricNewman888 Месяц назад

Going to watch this very soon!! I know it will be absolutely spectacularly blissfully amazing. Thank you, Leeor!! 🙌🏻✨💚🙏🥳

@jcb728 Месяц назад

I needed this today. I’m so glad I came across this video. I’ve been trying to find balance amongst masculine and feminine for so long. I lived mainly in my masculine my entire life. Small moments I’ve let the guard down and been really soft but then guard went right back up again. This is so wise and so real. 💕

@ThatArzzkGuy Месяц назад

i needed this Leeor, your videos were always calming to me back when i was on my journey of constant betterment. I've had this shield you talk about in this video for such a long time now and i just want to rip it off and have my energy and love flowing again like they did before

@marionmcdonald7371 Месяц назад

I was exactly ready to hear this!❤

@SandyVee0 Месяц назад

You posted this at the right moment for me. Thank you, Bless you 🙏🏻

@taineb.7959 Месяц назад

The timing of this video is as always divine, I have been literally searching for this topic on youtube and boom the next day you make a video on it. I love you and your videos so much Leeor and you really help a lot of people with them. I know you have been putting your shield up lately, but I just want to tell you, it is safe, it is safe here. Much love 💖

@calistasingley8029 Месяц назад

Thanks, Leeor, I have been hoping for a video like this from you! ❤❤

@ArtemisDeer444 Месяц назад

So happy you're back! 🙏✨💛

@Newbeginnings_222 Месяц назад

Mindfulness my favorite place to be. ❤Great message thank you.

@lttlod1 Месяц назад

The timing of this video is so perfect for me. For a while I've really been feeling like I've got this masculine shield. My Reiki healer wants me to look into wounded feminine energy because I'm too much in my masculine. I'm talking about it in therapy right now too and doing EMDR around all of it. I can't thank you enough for making this video, I'll be watching is several more times this week! ❤

@millyortiz8675 Месяц назад

Amazing! Just what I needed to hear this morning. You are amazing. Thank you I love you eternally ❤

@caseytufnell9138 Месяц назад

Thank you so much 😭 The way I started crying almost straight away, excited to drop the shield 💛

@ongeladjerf1840 Месяц назад

Thank you! This is true wisdom and needed to hear this today! I’m feeling lighter already without that heavy shield 🛡️

@leylarustamova Месяц назад

this dropped just in time, thank you!

@aliahspirituality Месяц назад

So good to see you again leeor!

@alyssax94 Месяц назад

So excited for this video! I feel i have forgotten how to release resistance, even though i’ve been SUPER magnetic before. Thank you leeor

@eldefries Месяц назад

I love how you broke that down, I relate completely. Thank you for your help and wisdom on this journey 🙏

@NUNGI_ 13 дней назад

Oh my God lady, are you God sent? Because you just described ME even more than I knew 💔💔☹️

@kendallbaum7908 Месяц назад

Thank you, Leeor, and thank you B community. I love you all

@nicolewilhelmi7492 Месяц назад

Needed to hear this! Thank you!!

@helenadosul Месяц назад

Divine timing thank you leeor

@reginebee2054 Месяц назад

It's great to hear from you again Leeor! I've been stuck in a rut for a more than 3 weeks and I'd like to go back to myself...from square one...to start over. ❤ thank you for this video, all my love.!

@ryssag4290 Месяц назад

Saving to watch tomorrow morning. I dont want to be so tough anymore but i refuse to show vulnerability. I'm so independent why let down my walls when i can handle everything myself. I prefer to do things myself anyway cuz any time i ask for help I'm let down. The brain can be so mean sometimes. Ive ruined quite a few good relationships with this mentality of "dudes aint shit." I give them the benefit of the doubt and they just prove why i feel that way. Every time. Sigh. I hope i can heal this very angry part of myself. Men piss me off

@tanitshkatanjusha Месяц назад

Natalia Kobylkina workshops helped me alot to shift back into feminine energy and also to work on the relationship with mother and father. Its very important if you want to be in feminine energy

@AuthenticallyAndrew Месяц назад

Leeor this is what I needed to hear now!

@tianaday5981 Месяц назад

This is so on time, thank you!!

@jibbley31 Месяц назад

We love it here!

@veronika9279 Месяц назад

The timing is perfect I just started to feel like I started to be in my feminine and intuitive energy and dropping my shield after months of therapy that made me aware how anxiously attached I was almost my whole life and how repelling it was. I was a people pleaser because of many repressed emotions and embarrassment to talk about the trauma. I became aware of all those things and finally am able to set boundaries without guilt.

@Lynnzberry Месяц назад

love this message so much 💖

@mikaylajones5125 29 дней назад

Thank you, I felt like you were my therapist speaking directly to me!

@triinu422 Месяц назад

This resonates so much! Thank you Leeor! 🙏🏻❤️

@lacieryan3380 28 дней назад

I have never identified with something more. ❤ thank you so much for going over this. Never heard of it before. ✨

@aaronfrankiee Месяц назад

I’ve been asking this so much lately, and here you are addressing the exact thing I’ve been asking and giving answers that I can actually put to use ❤❤😭

@VictoriaLanii Месяц назад

Leeor!! Thank you for this, I needed 🥰🧡

@monicaespinoza1806 Месяц назад

Yes thank you so much for this video. Just what I needed to hear to learn to release and to put my masculine shield down and trust that I can take care of myself know I am safe!!

@aliciaaltom6652 Месяц назад

This is the only kind of content ive been taking in lately. On fb and youtube. Im loving seeing more women finally soften up again! Its all about that balance. And yes many of us have had to be in our Masculine because we werent safe or being properly provided for.

@enigmaticflo Месяц назад

in gratitude I offer you my thanks Leeor

@RD-wg6bv Месяц назад

This video is so soothing and calm. It came just at the right time when my intuition guided me to put down my masculine shield and I was struggling to figure out how. Thank you Leeor for all that you do ❤

@alignedalison Месяц назад

Thanks for sharing! A beautiful message ❤

@stormluna5136 Месяц назад

Thank you so much for this message 🙏🏽🌟💖

@Dbubblesss28 Месяц назад

Totally resonate with this. Thank you ✨

@haleydaye7246 Месяц назад

I've been learning a lot about mas/fem energy lately, and this is the first time I've heard about the masculine shield. Such an informative and helpful video, Leeor!

@kerrylund6614 Месяц назад

Love this topic!! Thank you!🥰🤍💫

@infinitebutterflies777 Месяц назад

I did feel a slight release of the energy... Thank you .

@iamaliveyoucantstopnow 16 дней назад

Standing with a cloak of shame, carrying my solid shield. This is how I stayed alive. Now it is time to FLOw again. Thank you for your feminine wisdom.

@miasaarinen5693 Месяц назад

I really needed to hear this. Explains a lot. Thank you ❤

@plan9channel716 Месяц назад

I asked the universe for guidance and it brought me to this video at the right time. Thank you so much Leeor, your words are literally the guidance I asked for. ❤

@JaylynAreizaga Месяц назад

Needed to hear this!! Thank you Leeor

@amayaarmendariz6606 Месяц назад

Thank you Leeor !! I loved this message 🥰

@zennaluna Месяц назад

Thank you Leeor, as always. You spoke to a part of myself I didn't realize was there. ✨♥️

@carlybarker4265 Месяц назад

Your messages always come right on time, thank you💞 I would loveeee if you made an affirmations video to help drop this shield and embrace our femininity!

@ehiggins360 Месяц назад

Im a tall, muscular, bald man with a very empathic/feminine nature. Raised by a single mother (not unlike most men in my generation,) I am VERY misunderstood. I feel like I’m expected to be tough and stoic, but when I am feeling that way, I’m rejected for being “toxic.” Men and women’s roles are so screwed up today. The pendulum has swung so far, that women are masculine and men are emasculated. Many generalizations here, I know, but tell me I’m wrong.

@cass6765 Месяц назад

Thank you for this video! Much love!!!

@AmelieGrange-ml3zj Месяц назад

What I needed. Thank you ❤

@teenafrench7236 Месяц назад

I'm loving your videos these days, the quality has gone WAY WAY UP!🎉😊😊😊

@meaganrewuski Месяц назад

I had to watch this 2x back to back because of how much I resonated with it. Thank you so much Leeor. That was beautiful. I will come back to this video often. So well articulated. I felt like you popped into my soul and read it word for word. Thank you for giving advice on how to move past this energy. I will be practicing from now on 😊💛

@seraphimspeaks4658 Месяц назад

Thank you so much, Leoor. This reasonates with me fully. My shield has gone up because multiple betrayals by family members and "friends". I have learned to heal through forgiveness and set boundaries but my guard is up. I most certainly will try your suggestions because I am ready to live the life I deserve. I know and trust that it is my time to be happy.😊

@aidasworld7191 Месяц назад

This is literally the best video on RU-vid!❤

@ElisabethB 4 дня назад

You’re like a warm hug

@tortellini-doodles Месяц назад

Needed this, came at just the right time!

@user-pn9zd1hx9u 13 дней назад

Thank you so much for explaining this in your beautiful unique way. I needed to hear it explained this way. My shield is strong and sneaky- it’s up even when I’m somewhat open. You’ve inspired me to work on this with gentleness and reading the comments has helped too ❤ this is my first time watching and listening to you and you feel like a breath of fresh air and beauty Xx

@gemsher78 15 дней назад

I just wanna say how much I appreciate you. I had awareness of all of this while working with people and going through what I’ve been going through. But thank you for reinforcing it and externalizing it so I can move stronger to my knowing I can’t wait to check out your./))