Hi i just came across your vlog and not gonna lie but everything you said about how we have an ideal version of someone and if they are not living up to your expectations we are the ones getting affected at the same time making that other person not good enough when the truth is the fault within oneself and something one should be aware of it and work on it retrospectively, i had this realisation recently and have been making with peace with myself for accepting the reality and improving myself and it has been a good change that i have been feeling lately although it wasnt easy, but it gave me more reassurance or hope by seeing your vlog that i am not the only one feeling it and things can be changed for the better. I loved your video. Keep making more content like this, ❤ also my mbti is INFJ too
