How to Fall Back in Love | {THE AND} Sidra & Ben

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(Part 1 of 2) Sidra & Ben, together for 12 years, are back on {THE AND} for the third time to discuss the point where their marriage was almost in shambles, and offer a "tutorial" to other couples on how to come back from the brink in a relationship | Watch part 2: bit.ly/SidraBen3PT2
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Sidra & Ben Round 1 | bit.ly/SidraBen
Sidra & Ben Round 2 | bit.ly/SidraBen2
Sidra & Ben Round 3 Part 2 | bit.ly/SidraBen3PT2
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How to Fall Back in Love | {THE AND} Sidra & Ben
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@TheSkinDeep 7 лет назад

{THE AND} is a powerful way to bring us together and we're touched by how our work impacts you! Please help us by becoming a monthly supporter on our Patreon page so we can continue to share more humanizing stories. Thank you for fueling us on this journey! theskindeep.com/patreon

@lindseyperkins5889 3 года назад

Which decks have they done?

@Npu-z5h 3 года назад

#於是

@AnkushMudgal0396 8 лет назад

She Moved across the country after knowing him only for a week, and they've been together for 12 years despite all the hardships. Screw Cinderella, this is the love story I'm telling my kids...

@LondonsLanding 8 лет назад

It's the love story I hope for

@ebcutiepie 7 лет назад

Life. She did him a favor in the end.

@reinaaqua685 7 лет назад

but she cheated on her ex didn't she?

@xlegolas20x 7 лет назад

well ... we don't know how was the relationship with her ex back then, maybe she wasn't in love with him anymore.

@jazminer0616 7 лет назад

regardless of how the relationship was good or bad cheating is cheating (not saying she did)

@Kirbyakh 8 лет назад

I hope the universe has a big love like this in store for me.

@aymanzaman4you 7 лет назад

Keep calm and pray

@rmartin6914 7 лет назад

Sorry but no

@donayre21 7 лет назад

HI nice to meet you.

@asiamarie4 7 лет назад

not the universe sweetie. Jesus❤

@cocorodrigueztattoos4969 6 лет назад

Same same!

@chellykins 8 лет назад

I just realized they've been together for 12 years. It's amazing that they look at each other like that after so long.

@KirraKitten 6 лет назад

Michelle Francis They tell them to purposely not break eye contact.

@MrCrapheadist 6 лет назад

God I’d kill for that

@kot07111 5 лет назад

@@KirraKitten NO they don't because in other videos couples constantly look away from each other when they aren't in love anymore

@heelswithjuliarose 8 лет назад

I need to know at what point this man became so emotionally intelligent. hes blowing me away

@blushfaerie 7 лет назад

Julia Hawthornthwaite probably fights or discussing to communicate better?

@Smarion2 7 лет назад

Julia Hawthornthwaite Omg right!

@YvesyM 7 лет назад

Julia Hawthornthwaite emotional intelligence seems like a rarity these days....

@kuunami 6 лет назад

Getting into a relationship with an established cheater is not emotionally intelligent. I speak from personal experience.

@cdmontano 6 лет назад

Wake up kid. There is a world out there.

@Birybir 8 лет назад

Are they even human? Is this even real life? They look so good & interact over levels!

@TheSkinDeep 8 лет назад

They are real! We swear :)

@kreate06 7 лет назад

Kristina Schuhmann lol for real so much reality shows that consist of bad negative drama in couples and families in every way that watching these couples and seeing their true love and bond that it seems unreal. just wish you see this more on tv then the hidious stuff!

@Kiky812 6 лет назад

I was thinking the same, and at the same time I’m sad because I’m not able to communicate and maybe even love like that...

@ellomgbofu1174 8 лет назад

I imagine only soulmates look at each other this way. We can see their profound connection just by looking at them. I wonder what was it about their interaction, that after a weekend, allowed her to break up with a boyfriend, and transfer from California to Georgia. I'd like to hear them describe their first encounter with each other. They look like magic.

@faithfirstfitness 7 лет назад

Ellom Gbofu True! Sidra still gushes over Ben and it's so sweet❣ They are so in love :) They say when you work through rock bottom in a relationship it can help you grow stronger as a couple x

@jiwon5315 6 лет назад

Ellom Gbofu they really look like soulmates ❤️

@carolellamuch9571 5 лет назад

I think the 3 year relationship was dead before she broke it off

@ISangaloUnofficialFR 3 года назад

she explained it pretty well in their 1st video

@kisikisikisi 8 лет назад

What I love about them is how real they are. When you watch their first video you think they're perfect and you want what they have, but as you keep following their journey and realize that not everything has been a dance on roses for them, you want to have what they have even more. Their love is so real, so raw, and so big.

@TheSkinDeep 8 лет назад

Thank you for sharing :)

@heelswithjuliarose 7 лет назад

agree

@edenwomble2177 7 лет назад

Kira Carolina I was in a 9 year relationship until he unfortunately passed away. I get where they're coming from so much. So many people don't realize how much work goes into a partnership. Yes, on some level it should be easy. But as he said, you have to be committed to that person, and you have to actively continue choosing them. There will be bad times...you just have to look at them as your partner, and it's you two against the world.

@edenwomble2177 7 лет назад

So I totally agree with you! 😊

@jaclynappugliesi 6 лет назад

Kira Carolina a

@maemaejojo 8 лет назад

Their eye contact though....

@edenwomble2177 7 лет назад

maemaejojo I felt a little uncomfortable at times because of how much eye contact they had...like I was intruding on an intimate moment. It was really beautiful.:)

@oXWOAHXo 8 лет назад

I PRAY TO GOD TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP LIKE THIS WONDERFUL COUPLE.

@josieallen1020 8 лет назад

*Furiously swipes on Tinder to try to find love*

@designateddriver874 8 лет назад

Jeffrey Gill lol

@art-o-maticmother7003 7 лет назад

Designated Driver u

@designateddriver874 7 лет назад

Kellisa Foster me? Lol

@KristinaLovesJustin 7 лет назад

Jeffrey Gill Hahahha

@oftones 7 лет назад

lmaoo

@4shanna 8 лет назад

They are such an emotionally in touch couple

@rainxlover 8 лет назад

After reading the book called seven levels of intimacy and then watching ben & sidra, the truth to relationships is to simply keep choosing our partner through the good and bad. Don't ever stop loving them, caring for them, or thinking of ways to improve with them... This couple truly inspires me to not settle for anything less then what i deserve. They are truly the definition of pure and romantic love. Thank you so much for these videos Skin Deep!

@dbarless 6 лет назад

So many people think love is a feeling. Love is nothing more than choosing to put the other person first every single day.

@voyance4elle 4 года назад

@@dbarless very well said 🙏

@voyance4elle 4 года назад

Sounds like an interesting book!! I follow the teachings of Thich Nhat Hanh about true love ☺️🙏✨

@tb100875 3 года назад

People up and give up on you for the slightest reasons. What happened to the I love you so much? Your supposed to stick it out and make each other stronger. Going through it now. 16 years ready to flush it down the drain. I'm human not perfect. But I can be fixed you know.

@WildWildWest30000 8 лет назад

this video gives me hope that soulmates do exist.

@janiceshore142 8 лет назад

The way they give and receive what the other is saying still resonates so deeply with me. They are a profoundly thoughtful couple.

@savannahlee7571 8 лет назад

these two are just on another level. and they're there together which is just pure magic.

@TheSkinDeep 8 лет назад

Thank you Savannah, what do you think is most special about their relationship?

@Mrsbieber201 8 лет назад

their communication

@savannahlee7571 8 лет назад

+The Skin Deep the fact that after some 12 years they still look at each other with such love, compassion, understanding. they look at each other like they're a dream. there's such a strong connection between them. it's like they just really see each other.

@DancrGal24 8 лет назад

My parents are divorced. I'm 21 and my love life isn't going anywhere. Sidra & Ben, you both have given me just a small amount of hope. Thanks for being so transparent.

@kirsthoffman 7 лет назад

DancrGal24 same

@darcfenix 4 года назад

Find you. Once you do that the right person will be drawn to you.

@andrewoldacre2940 4 года назад

Do not rush love DG24....take ur time...find urself..find ur Broom in life and find ur spot...Prayers..

@hannahelaine5811 8 лет назад

If these people and their story don't give you hope, I don't know what can or will. I love them so much. Ugh.

@oeu3669 4 года назад

Honestly I was just feeling completely completely utterly broken and hopeless and I watch this thinking hey I’ll just make myself cry but it gives me hope... whether with this person I’m having some scratches with or someone else

@katvaughn8167 8 лет назад

Wow "our relationship falling apart is what helped us make is stronger"

@nuhaob 8 лет назад

They're aging so beautifully

@tangled55 8 лет назад

Sidra, you better come THROUGH with those bangs, gurl.

@TRAN_S 7 лет назад

it suits her though

@kelknow 8 лет назад

Wow. Every time I watch these two interact I feel so much connection between them, love and respect as well as other emotions that can't even be described. A truly sacred relationship that I think many people can go their whole life without experiencing.

@TheSkinDeep 8 лет назад

Thank you for sharing Kelly, we also think Ben and Sidra can be extremely inspiring for a lot of couples, we thank them for their honesty and authenticity :)

@ThatOneZombie1 7 лет назад

100% needed this. I was going through a rough patch with my boyfriend to the point where we needed space for a week or so. I felt like having this rough patch wasn't normal but I'm so wrong. Every relationship has its bumps and all it takes is love and patience to rebuild that foundation again.

@TheSkinDeep 7 лет назад

What a great lesson to take away from Ben and Sidra's relationship! Thank you for sharing.

@joelstammers9669 5 лет назад

we don’t care......

@lynnc5291 4 года назад

Joel Stammers you are obnoxious.

@oeu3669 4 года назад

I’m going through this now. Your words resonate.. only mine is a VERY NEW Relationship... and I’m concerned and hurt.. and then thinking what’s wrong with me when perhaps my focus should be that everyone goes through stuff

@ThatOneZombie1 4 года назад

OE U Hi! Unfortunately that relationship of 3 years ago turned very toxic and I’m glad we went our separate ways. I am now in a new relationship of a year and 4 months and let me tell you, EVERY relationship will go through trials and errors. We have had our ups and down many times but the right person will fight for you, will love you, will choose YOU at the end of the day no matter what you guys are going through ❤️

@FrenchyBelgian 8 лет назад

I love how they look at each other. It's like they're staring at each other's soul. I feel like that's what contributes to make their conversation so deep and so genuine. Love them.

@livelaughlobotomy97 7 лет назад

the way they can just stare at each other without getting awkward. there's a lot of emotion in their eyes, ugh I want this.

@ANVVNA 8 лет назад

My lord you can always feel how strong this couple's connection is, and their communication is so admirable!

@dbarless 6 лет назад

The connection is a result of the communication.

@mer521993 8 лет назад

Sidra is gorgeous.

@lyssamichellem 8 лет назад

He should be a life coach or a counselor for young people!

@alexismccreary842 8 лет назад

yes i need it with my husband. the connection they have is beautiful.

@AnnaKayJulie 7 лет назад

Alexis McCreary Try the Work of Byron Katie. It does Wonders and truly connects... And its free!!

@kuunami 6 лет назад

His book should be called, "how to have a 12 year relationship with a cheater."

@cameronday5957 5 лет назад

@@kaylaholmes1018 What do you mean? Who cheated?

@Amusegirl1980 5 лет назад

@@kaylaholmes1018 She left him straight away, she didn't carry on back and forth. You will struggle in love if you are that quick to judge, it's hard when you stay rigid because people are fluid and if you can't bend, you break. You also have to ask yourself how perfect you are, then get in touch with that, because if you don't know your own flaws, it's going to hurt when another person points them out, which is what all good relationships contain. Fundamentally it's a balance and compromise. When you meet someone you feel so strongly about, you'll understand what happened with them that weekend and why they are still together 12 years later.

@imannajeeb8363 7 лет назад

GOD THEYRE SO GORGEOUS

@b.robins7305 5 лет назад

Ikr

@OLivA229 8 лет назад

I'm in LOVE with this couple, their videos are always my favorite.

@lumos7549 7 лет назад

SAME

@Feedaneeshaqua 8 лет назад

I pray I find a partner with whom I can share this type of connection

@SharPieInTheDesert 8 лет назад

Both of them speak so eloquently. May God bless your relationship more and keep your bond stronger.

@katieshim 8 лет назад

My heart is so full watching this.

@Mingmingthec 7 лет назад

After meeting my boyfriend and knowing him for 1 month, he had to go back to his home country as he was only visiting America. He went home, quit his job and moved to America to be with me. We have been together 2 years and counting, and we're so happy :)

@TheSkinDeep 7 лет назад

Yay! Such a cool story! Thanks for sharing :)

@TRutledge 5 лет назад

Hey! Can I get an update? 😂

@Dkim822078 7 лет назад

watching this on mute for a few minutes and seeing them not break eye contact showed me how in-love they were even before i listened to a word they said.

@rachelsarah5918 8 лет назад

Ben and Sidra are both physically beautiful, but what I think transcends their outward features is the pure love that emanates from each of them as they speak their stories and communicate with each other. There have been so many parallels between their relationship and mine, and I've enjoyed watching their story unfold, as it has taught me about my relationship and helped me not feel alone when we have struggled. Everything they said in this video is what my fiance and I chose to do at the most difficult point in our relationship when it almost ended. Seeing another couple that is this dedicated to their love and the possibilities of their future if they put in the work is inspiring and wonderful. Thank you to the Skin Deep for furthering this project and providing us with raw and stunning portraits of humanity

@TheSkinDeep 8 лет назад

We're incredibly happy that you were able to relate Ben and Sidra to your own relationship. That's basically the whole point of The And! To connect to relationships and bring them into your own. We promise to keep trying to keep this project alive. Thank you.

@victoriastone9388 8 лет назад

Seriously the love between these two is magical. They connect and speak so elegantly, and I just hope one day my relationship will have that much visible love between us. You two are by far my favorites!

@DesertDwight 7 лет назад

I'm sure I'll most likely never meet my "soul mate", and a lot of people won't either. But knowing that some people will makes me really happy.

@mariatorres1756 7 лет назад

I'm so happy Sidra asked about the system, really gave a new perspective of things! So thank you very much!!

@TheSkinDeep 7 лет назад

@nicoleshin1211 8 лет назад

I can't help but shed a few tears every time I watch a video of this couple. The raw and genuine conversations they are able to have is touching. Also they express their emotions and thoughts in such provocative and heart wrenching way that I can't help but listen to every word. It feels as though they are reflecting every heartbreak I've experienced. They give me so much hope that such compassionate, respectful, loving, vulnerable (in a powerful way) and understanding people can co exist together and fight through all of life's challenges that a couple faces. Thank you so much for sharing such content with us, the skin deep. I wish you guys all the best in your kickstarter and hope to see more lovely and insightful content like this from you guys.

@TheMsMegaHeart 7 лет назад

The one most important things that I have learned from THE AND's videos is that everybody has a story to tell. It's amazing. I try to listen to people with much higher focus when they talk to me now.

@TheSkinDeep 7 лет назад

We're so glad our content inspired you to do that. It's great to know the impact we're having!

@wjf5839 6 лет назад

The way thy look at each other with full acceptance and love because they've fought to keep it takes my breath away.

@lo8013 8 лет назад

That "system" that Ben was talking about...man. I know he's talking about relationships, but that is so applicable for so many life situations. I'm currently in the emotional clearing/incremental progress space with certain things in my life right now and as I'm looking back, the progression he described is so incredibly true and real. Such a beautiful relationship they have to be both so aware in all aspects.

@TheSkinDeep 8 лет назад

Thank you for sharing. :)

@lo8013 8 лет назад

Aw thanks for responding!!

@chreoniebusano3181 8 лет назад

1 video, 3 extremely attractive people (yes Hans, you too) . I love everything about Sidra and Ben. Thanks for sharing!

@user-sh9pl1sx2m 7 лет назад

They r deep people

@elishamiyahira4301 8 лет назад

they are like a derek shepherd and meredith grey. im obsessed

@myasiawalker8995 7 лет назад

Elisha Miyahira yes omg

@abbymoyer2014 6 лет назад

So true!!

@aaryas3764 4 года назад

Holy shit yes

@718blondie 8 лет назад

I swear they could be marriage counselors. Love them

@em8066 Год назад

I'm so grateful for their courage to be vulnerable in a public forum like this. The next time I fall in love and commit to someone, I will ask that we learn compassionate non-violent communication skills together the way Ben and Sidra have. I would love to have a partner I can be this present with and this connected with 12 years into the relationship.

@anav7745 8 лет назад

these two people are so beautiful to me. their minds, their words, their voices, their eyes, the way they look at each other - they are so, so beautiful.

@firstnamelastname8339 8 лет назад

they need to make a movie based off of them...no! a series so we can't have many seasons with as many details possible

@rocioolivera1258 7 лет назад

The way they look at each other, you can just feel how connected they are. They are the definition of soul mates

@GloriaSithole 7 лет назад

the intense secret looks they give each other give me life....loving someone daily is not easy but so worth it....i love them

@TomoyaG 8 лет назад

Gosh, can I just say for the umpteenth time how much I love this couple? They are so real it feels almost unreal just watching them, if I'm making sense here. I hope for them many more blessings to come... really awesome couple.

@UdoADHD 8 лет назад

This is my favorite couple and their first video changed my life. :D

@TheSkinDeep 8 лет назад

Thanks for sharing! What about their relationship impacted you?

@UdoADHD 8 лет назад

The Skin Deep I was in a bad relationship and I saw this couple and thought "this is what I want". I never in my life had a role model of what kind of love I wanted. I felt lost and hopeless until I saw their video and realized I found what I wanted and I could then begin searching for it. A few months later I met the love of my life and our relationship feels very much like what I see in their relationship. Now, we make it a tradition to watch the updates of this couple together! :) we never miss an update.

@BlueAngel2397 7 лет назад

Udoka O That's awesome. I don't know you but I am happy you found what you were searching for.

@JOURNEysofab1 3 года назад

The way their eyes meet....the twinkle, the smile.....they mirror each other very well

@Ruby-kr6fh 3 года назад

The steps Ben shared to fall back in love after a relationship has fallen apart are so good. I'm grateful these two shared their love story!

@paulinafooo 8 лет назад

the connection this couple has is just so amazing! you can see it in their eyes and the way they talk to one another

@TheSkinDeep 8 лет назад

We got to 700 backers on Kickstarter -it was Miguel :) So as promised, here is your reward! We still have 1 day left to show your support on Kickstarter: theskindeep.com/kickstarter

@azriekama7393 8 лет назад

The Skin Deep I love this! I love the raw and emotion these two people have toward each other! Contact me if you would consider following a couple from Hawai'i!

@XxInlalaland22 8 лет назад

SO CUTE I HAVE NEVER SEEN SUCH A BEAUTIFUL DEDICATED LOVING COUPLE THAT TRULY RESPECTS EACHOTHER UGH AMAZING IM SO SO SOS OS SOSOOSOSOOOOOO INSPIRED

@Amusegirl1980 5 лет назад

To those calling her a cheat: She left him ex-partner straight away, she didn't carry on back and forth. You will struggle in love if you are that quick to judge, it's hard when you stay rigid because people are fluid and if you can't bend, you break. You also have to ask yourself how perfect you are, then get in touch with that, because if you don't know your own flaws, it's going to hurt when another person points them out, which is what all good relationships contain. Fundamentally it's a balance and compromise. When you meet someone you feel so strongly about, you'll understand what happened with them that weekend and why they are still together 12 years later.

@Ruby-kr6fh 3 года назад

@c1981 I really like Ben and Sidra, but this is so right. If Sidra did a video with the man she left for Ben, I'm sure the comments would make her the villain. It's just funny the level of (both positive and negative) judgement people feel entitled to on others make based off these short videos.

@mikeinkc 4 года назад

Sidra really knows Ben's strengths, I'm just as sure Ben knows her strengths. To know each others strengths is probably more important than knowing each other's weaknesses.

@mazdalina1 8 лет назад

I feel so close to Sidra and Ben. To me, they are truly inspiring and I love the fact that they met very young and still are together, making their relationship work through the huge pain, without vanishing this enormous love they have for each other. I met a man with whom I want to spend the rest of my life with and vice versa, the love and connection we have between us is sometimes just unbelievable. I am twenty years old and scared as fuck of our youth and inexperiences that can screw things up, as I am being constantly told from different sources. And I know what I'm talking about, my first relationship, filled with love and understanding, failed because I was young, restless and unable to be in this kind of committed relationship anymore. Sidra and Ben were the first couple that made me fell in love with The Skin Deep. They gave me hope, that every great love can survive even despite youth. Thank you so much Sidra and Benjamin, sending love from Czech Republic, Magdalena

@TheSkinDeep 8 лет назад

Thank you for sharing your story! What do you think you can learn from them that will help you in your own relationship moving forward?

@Wwendy.g 7 лет назад

The way they communicate with eachother, & the way they look at eachother is just so heartwarming! I honestly have a hard time finding the right words to describe how they make me feel. They are just an amazing couple & they are truly blessed to have eachother & to have this type of love . I love their connection, their undying chemistry.

@lauradamaris-o.5510 8 лет назад

I'm a big fan of The And but what i like to watch most is Parents and Kids or Siblings....for some reason these two always melt my heart! (I mean can I rent a place at your place for like 1 month coaching? Lol! *kidding*) Sidra and Ben...the two of you have created something so magical that will be very healthy for your kids to live around. Keep working at it. All the best! 👍👍👌

@TheSkinDeep 8 лет назад

Thank you Laura !! We are actually renting out some office space in our loft if you are interested? ;)

@lauradamaris-o.5510 8 лет назад

Hey guys! Yaaas..see!! i knew something good wld come out of it (besides me rewatching this a gazillion times) 😆 Now...hopefully i get to sit on one of those little white chairs wen u guys start these interviews in Africa...Love these talks! All the best in the kick starter campaign!!!🙌🙌

@tinadouglas13 8 лет назад

i absolutely LOVE this couplea chemistry. The way that they can be so playful and are so aligned with 1 another. Its a very rare and beautiful relationship that ao many ppl search their whole lives for.

@rthecreator923 7 лет назад

His eyes are so beautiful holy fuck i'm inlove. no wonder why she broke up with her bf to be with this dude lmao.

@karenGomezmonte81090 7 лет назад

i wish i had this, nowadays we think that love is something we can find so easy but is not , we can feel desire, passion love is something different that we can't even explain, i love their connection love goes beyond words... if you love someone fight to keep it, there are up and downs in a relationship but i think if you feel special with that person if you feel so unique and complete that's the one. and what a beautiful thing when that feeling is mutual... :(

@TheSkinDeep 7 лет назад

So beautifully stated! Thank you for sharing.

@curlyvirgo58 8 лет назад

these questions are tough. you really have to stop and think about it. sorry I'm commentating while watching

@331cuddlebear 8 лет назад

Sidra is so stunning wow

@MightyMako 8 лет назад

no And her laugh and smile could light up a room.

@14gt1 6 лет назад

The fact that he was able to put aside all their issues and focus on her as a person and make a decision to be with her based on who she is not what happened or how bad the relationship was going is a sign of serious maturity that many people lack. Sometimes when the going gets tough... people back out but to hear him articulate everything was quite beautiful. He saw her rather than the “fights” or whatever!

@littlangel37 8 лет назад

I clicked on the video so fast! I know I'm going to love these two videos, they're such a wonderful couple :') Seriously, I would kill to have that same connection with someone, it's truly amazing.

@TheSkinDeep 8 лет назад

Thank you for sharing! If you love our content and love this couple's story, please support and share our kickstarter- we have 1 day left! theskindeep.com/kickstarter

@oligrabowski 4 года назад

The way they look at each other is magical.

@Canes01miami 8 лет назад

That breakdown was stellar 👌🏾

@jamiehawkins5711 8 лет назад

YAY!! Sidra and Ben! Where was I one month ago?!? I love this couple so very much. I think my favorite moments are when they are silent and looking into each others eyes. SO much love there! xoxo

@deeptia2293 7 лет назад

THEY BOTH ARE SO ATTRACTIVE!! HOW ARE 2 PEOPLE SO ATTRACTIVE TOGETHER!!!!??

@kirstenrubberducky 7 лет назад

The way these two look at each other. How connected they are. Aw man

@sanchit8864 5 лет назад

This man, his eyes😍 wow.....I just can't stop myself from staring at him....

@keplynrobinson4115 7 лет назад

They are both very astute, lucid, adherent thinkers and speakers. They are so blessed to have found one another and they know that, which is perfect!

@Sophie-pl2nv 7 лет назад

This girl is so hard to read. That's not a bad thing, she's just so fricken powerful I cant even get past the surface of her. Also, they are both very connected with their eyes, that's how they love; through their eyes

@maureene7138 8 лет назад

oh man.. I love the use of primer and template.

@meee4meee 8 лет назад

Glad to see yall look better and happier than the second time yall did this.

@jennygoodwine2494 7 лет назад

6:49, that look melts my heart. Ahhh, I love them so much! I feel like I know them :). I'm sure a lot of us do. Really cool to see into their hearts and personalities and lives. Thanks Sidra and Ben! (And Naiya!)

@TheSkinDeep 7 лет назад

We're incredibly happy you connect with their relationship! What about them did you find the most interesting?

@livenletlive4639 6 лет назад

+The Skin Deep Their emotional connection.It's rare for two people to connect emotionally and i think once they do just that,it's a lifelong relationship.

@dmoiten491 8 лет назад

When u guys decided to live apart,was there ever a time when one of you felt like you lost love for the other person? considering you had to "fall back in love"..how did you handle that?…I'm happy for that you guys overcame the hard times btw, ur a lovely coupe with real experiences.

@yasminal9438 8 лет назад

De'Andreu Moiten I would really like for them to answer that question

@dmoiten491 8 лет назад

+yasmina liberato me 2, the reason I like these talks is because they demonstrate the reality of relationships, they r not always smooth sailing so I'm very interested to know how after 6 long months they made amends, that couldn't have been easy

@natellison 8 лет назад

My favorite couple in this series! Keep the updates coming with them if possible :)

@TheSkinDeep 8 лет назад

We will definitely try! We're at the point in time we're we are re-stragetizing in order to keep the project alive. If you'd like to support us, buy our Card Game which features a lot of the questions you here on our Channel! bit.ly/TheAndCG"

@musingsofajay387 8 лет назад

every time i watch this couple its a fucking roller coaster of emotions . its a masterpiece!

@TheSkinDeep 8 лет назад

Thank you for your comment, what do you like the most about Sidra and Ben?

@musingsofajay387 8 лет назад

The Skin Deep they are two people who are equally passionate about each other. they have a burning love that comes through the screen. she talks with eyes misty all the time, full of emotion. he is the yin to her as the yang and its evident. she ignites him, he calms her down. LOVE THEM. I LOVE THEM :D and THEIR KID TOO! But also because.. they give me hope. My bf killed himself a few years ago and it was very hard to believe in love. Seeing these videos reminds me every time its possible.

@7saany 7 лет назад

shes so gorgeous, beautiful couple in and out

@highlyhp 6 лет назад

The way they look at each other and just instantly smile is so beautiful. I love how Ben talked about how he knew he wanted to be with Sidra. That kind of certainty is so important.

@naitsirk32 3 года назад

I thought there was never an exception for cheating being the worst thing but I will say dropping a relationship of 3.5 years to then be with someone who you marry and stay married to for 12 years, well really comes close.

@diamondsavage5070 8 лет назад

They are so beautiful. I love them, their chemistry, their passion. It's so amazing to see. I love it.

@molliegrace777 8 лет назад

I'm sorry to hear you felt so uncomfortable in pittsburgh--that's my city and I love it so much!! I'm sure you were exposed to the negative aspects of it but I think it is so beautiful and foresty and there is a growing consciousness about sustainability and activism and art here that is really amazing to be a part of! I hope you visit one day! You have a lovely daughter and I appreciate your love for your family and each other.

@Seeflayks 7 лет назад

From the last video to this one, I feel like they've grown even more as a couple. So much deeper on all levels. I loved watching this :)

@dpmc28 7 лет назад

fav couple of all. The way the look after the answers, the way they listen to each other: You can feel that deep love. absolutely love it.

@mindtheprivacy 4 года назад

I bought this game a few days before a broke up with my boyfriend with a bunch of excitement. I was looking forward of the beautiful enhancement of our connection. I still hope one day we get to play it together.

@chikalagrande9808 5 лет назад

The way he looks at her is simply amazing. She is such a great listener

@peoplearestrange234 8 лет назад

my favourite The And couple ever!

@TheSkinDeep 8 лет назад

Thank you Amy !! You still have 1 day left to show your support on Kickstarter: theskindeep.com/kickstarter we are offering a Q&A with Ben and Sidra and their full hour long video as rewards :)

@GlitteryKyrandia 6 лет назад

Wow they seem so in love as if its a completely new relationship

@Jelikina 8 лет назад

My inside's jitter and my heart skips many beats when watching this couple!!! How can love like this possibly exist? Sometimes I have to look away from the screen because the conversation is so intimate and intense!

@gleeisamazing9398 6 лет назад

This video is what I needed. I am a girl in love. But due to circumstances on both ends of my relationship, it recently just ended. I feel broken, defeated and so worn. But I know that he loves me. I know that what hurt us both the most was the emotional charge on both ends of the spectrum. We are both serious, emotional people who tend to unload on each other. This video has given me the reassurance I needed to know that spending time apart from him is not just unfortunate, but 100% necessary if there is any chance of us rebuilding a relationship. In this time of sadness and devastation, I am able to be okay. Thank you so so much to both the producers of this video and the couple. This topic is not talked about enough. It has brought me so much comfort.