How to Find a Rave Family (and Get Out of a Toxic One!)

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Hey guys! In this video, I'm talking about how you can meet new people at raves or music festivals to form your own rave family. I also touch on a few red flags that may mean your friend group is a toxic one.
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@placeholder_name321 3 года назад

"if your at a festival alone just walk up to a group and ask to hang with them" my social anxiety: OH HAYELL NO XD

@miloVan245 5 лет назад

It's really hard to find a good rave group. A lot of people aren't punctual, don't listen to each other, lack accountability....oh the list can go on. I'm lucky right now. I have a few good friends I can trust.

@tranceformer9309 5 лет назад

Sounds like a personal problem

@richardmonizz5364 4 года назад

Had a great rave fam. But then had to go to rehab at 21. Im 14 years clean now and looking to get back into the rave culture sober. Im solo now and its been a struggle breaking out of myself to find a good rave fam.. I downloaded the radiate app. Thanks for the encouragement :)

@tranceformer9309 5 лет назад

That's why I love edc, you get to meet people with the same taste in "edm" as yourself. Shit just have a fun time and go with a giver mentality, I'll have free vicks, cigarettes, light shows, diffraction glasses, water, mist and air for anyone I come across, gotta spread those beautiful vibes I received at my first rave Monster Massive 07 🤗

@tranceformer9309 5 лет назад

Of course by air I mean I have a fan to cool you down if needed lol

@Bonzofrombitburg Год назад

What’s the vicks for ? Does it kick in the gimmicks faster or something?

@dauntlessrr2731 5 лет назад

Definitely got to find a consistent squad, got friends who go sometimes just to go but the ones who actually love the music and the experience are the ones who always pull through. Only have one or two of those

@vincentlee1783 5 лет назад

I feel like you should do a podcast or video on woman safety at festivals. I know a lot of women that are intimidated to go cause they feel they will be taken advantage of. Plus their is that one video floating around with a guy putting dugs in a girls drink when she was not looking.

@ninamcgowan8963 5 лет назад

Vincent Lee I’m pretty sure she’s done a video about being safe at raves/fests

@EmmaKapotes 5 лет назад

I just recorded a new episode of my podcast on this topic so stay tuned!

@dengaz4099 2 года назад

This was a really nice watch, I am used to going alone and meeting strangers as I go to all these shows but maybe one day I'll figure out a group situation LOL

@sometimesoonfan 5 лет назад

How to get out of a toxic rave family : Person : hey I'm out Rave Family : Okay. Assignment completed.

@miloVan245 5 лет назад

Or don't contact them again. If they're toxic then they won't check up on you or care.

@EmmaKapotes 5 лет назад

Henry Villon if only everything were that easy 😰

@sagitt0nious 5 лет назад

Hopefully I randomly meet you at Eric Prydz and/or Above & Beyond!!

@EmmaKapotes 5 лет назад

Tony Naputi definitely be on the look out for a glowing blue backpack! Also if I look crazy just ignore that, I’m gonna be in the ZONE

@paparazzi85 4 года назад

Soo true! At sunset music festival in Tampa do my friend was putting me down so much but not this year! Thank god he has a girlfriend now to take care of him! Hope to see you at edco!

@scotttravis8654 4 года назад

I'm looking for a rave family

@starlight.genesis 4 года назад

same here 😭

@kristin705 3 года назад

Me too

@kelly5552kelly 3 года назад

Me too

@Matheus-je8tz 2 года назад

Same here 😭

@darklord6900 2 года назад

Socal ravers hmu!

@saucyseleners6143 5 лет назад

Such a great topic and touching advice. I love it! Very helpful. Healthy relationships would be a dope topic for the future.

@ErikHuOfficial 5 лет назад

Emma your videos are so high quality! Wish I saw them before this year's EDC...would've been super helpful lol, but I'm just MORE amped for next year's EDC!!! AYYYY Def popping into your meet up then

@JoeJ-8282 4 года назад

OMG! Girl, this is an amazing video! I love your positivity and just your overall vibe!... I SO hope I can meet a girl just like you to rave with, and more!... I have been looking for some videos about what all to do to prepare for, AND while one is actually AT EDC Vegas, when I go next summer, (hopefully, if I can actually save up enough money for a ticket before then!), and your channel is by FAR the best, most comprehensive "rave guide" of ALL of the "rest" of the ones I've seen! Keep up your awesomeness! Your BF is a very lucky guy, hopefully he knows that! And yes, I would very much like to see more about finding new friends and relationships, etc... I have Asperger's myself, so I'm extremely shy at first to talk to someone in person, especially if I find a girl that I'm attracted to, (like it's literally nearly impossible for me to do it!), so unfortunately it's *really* difficult for ME to just walk up to them and strike up a conversation. However, I REALLY DO hope to be able to get better at this one day soon, but so far in my life I haven't been able to. :(

@LC-sp9ox 4 года назад

Just came across your videos and I am on a binge 😍😍hope to run into you at a festival next year!! Also, would be interested in a video about your experience in Greek life if you ever wanted to post a different topic video! I was in Greek life too in college I like to hear of others experiences

@Jiffzzy 2 года назад

I just wanna say your videos really give me hope and motivation, even old ones like this. Thank u so much

@TheAcolyte01 Год назад

Trust me rave influencers like this one think old people who go to raves are gross.

@user-un2qr4uu3t 5 лет назад

My girlfriend and I were adopted into another small rave group to go see Kaskade at SF New Year’s Eve, it was three dudes that were rolling balls and my girlfriend and I involuntarily became the rave mom and dad for three full grown men who were in their mid 20’s. Personally I’m more open and my girlfriend is pretty introverted (don’t ask me how it works😂) but yeah we were robbed of seeing Kaskade for the first time taking care of these dudes.

@Tiznado 5 лет назад

Great advice! Next year at edc I’ll ask people to join their rave group for a bit if they seem positive and fun!

@richardmonizz5364 4 года назад

Thank you for this video :)

@TrapLordBreadWinner 5 лет назад

Yep this video is gold can’t believe I jus saw this

@millig.3098 5 лет назад

Hope to find my rave fam someday 💖 thank you for this video !

@Anaizzz 5 лет назад

This video is everything!

@EmmaKapotes 5 лет назад

Jay Anaiz 🥰

@ayjaybay93 5 лет назад

What is a meetup like? I want to go to one, but I feel like my social anxiety will get me to find excuses not to go.

@EmmaKapotes 5 лет назад

zoojyby93 I just posted info on my Instagram and my community board here on RU-vid!

@ayjaybay93 5 лет назад

Emma Kapotes thank you!!

@thisissooolegit 5 лет назад

This is pretty solid advice.

@frizzybob 5 лет назад

My rave squad is my gf and I 🤗 😎

@marzi8706 5 лет назад

I'm having EDC fomo 😫 I'm saving up to go in 2020/2021!

@GirGirGirGir160 2 года назад

Pisces queen!! Keep being you 😍❤️

@Reeferz4129 4 года назад

I’ll be on the lookout, gonna be going all 3 days.

@slothenthusiast49 4 года назад

Anjunafamily? I'll be at EDC Orlando!

@Emily-yi3gg 5 лет назад

Girl I’m a cancer with a Pisces moon I’m a damn mess 💀💀

@EmmaKapotes 5 лет назад

Emily Perez WOOF!

@yaya5tim 5 лет назад

I met mine through my classmate in college, my first rave with a bunch nice people then EDC is the second rave for me, so I was added into the family to join edc