How to find LOVE again? | Marriage, Divorce, & Remarriage | Incompletely Yours | Ft. Esha | RJ Divya 

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the day you realise that not everything you do can be about somebody else.. and that you are as important.. a lot changes... wishing you love and luck... and trust me.. the day you decide to stop the wrongs in your life.. they do stop!! we are here and if you ever feel like venting out... plz write to me.. contactrjdivya@gmail.com... you will always have a listener :

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ankita ji... i got to speak to you... let me DM Iin your instagram

shes got a dad like i got one daddy

the truth of the broken marriage is that it might be not true for somebody else. the basic is that two people for whatever reason are unhappy..abuse can be one reason... but how they get back is important. padosi ke ghar kya hua.. aur humne kya kiya unke liye.. zaroori yeh hai! asha ji... har koi agar apni kahani suna skata aur doosra insaan sunn sakta toh na blames hotey an iss channel ki zaroorat hoti :) thank you

Aapki mummy ko bhi ....kash aapki baat realize ho jati 25 -26 saal phle😊

Without wanting to shoot my mouth, I think partly by default and partly by design, we are gravitating towards a "western" model of nuclear family, where men n women will jointly build their homes (both work and both pitch in money). Couples will consciously NOT stay with in laws after marriage. When the main mahabharat is the battle between the sexes, who has the capacity to accommodate the dictat and demands of in-laws.

sending love...the family DNA differs but the core is that balance sometimes throws you off and in that whole which family to handle.. and the mountain expectations.. women lose themselves... tough but slowly asking why are we putting up with abuse...or inequal treatment... is changing much.

free judgement gang is here :). how do women around you ever share their pain ? when you are ready to judge somebody you dont even know my friend!

@@YoursTrulyRJDivya jese aapne judge kr liya free me ....ki hm free judgement gang se he ...bina hmko jane🫠 .

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Sandeep you have been such a constant and honestly such a force... how you sum up the episode also gives me a push to work better. how our experiences are making us aware of our ownself.. mannn... hugs

had in previous episodes.. but on my way to get some more.. for sure soonest

Marriages - increasingly post marriage- seem to show its true colours and see former lovers transform into bitter enemies, reducing women's very existence. If marriage is such a forbidding negative then these are better shunned by women. Why destroy your life in some stupid male's oppressing company. So women must save themselves from men because most are thoroughbred rascals and women are well and truly blameless holy nuns and always the legitimate, aggrieved party. But then ask the men - not the drunks and addicts - who would rue the day they married the woman who would raise devilish ruckus in their marital home, strip it off its dignity in full public glare and gleefully leave scorched earth behind, but if a marriage goes sour in their own maternal home, the very same woman will, very likely, and very easily pin the blame on the chests of their daughter/ sis/ in law. So what to do. No easy answer. Perhaps keep off each other completely if you can. Not a great bargain to get short-lived gratifications by totally investing yourself (if that indeed is true ) and then crying foul and making a royal mess of your life. But if can't behave, adjust, accommodate, then keep your boxing gloves handy and go for the painful rounds of the ring.

such a bright light she is...

not all become enemies. the choice of how one carries the post marriage journey is very personal and very action and mutually driven,one size fits all doesnt happens with marriages falling apart.. and i think this much we have all seen... with relationships too.. why does long lasting relationships also suddenly end.. sometimes there is no answer to why.. but rather work on HOW... there are people who dont mess it up... there are some who do.. coz maybe they need to... let people choose their hard :)

how sweet... exactly these words matter!!

You asked for it and our latest episode today might be an answer:) do share how you like it

@@YoursTrulyRJDivya thank you for listening and bringing your guest. I have been married for 29 years and I am facing the decision to stay or leave due to some events. At this age you dont really know what you will do single having never envisioned that life. At the same time there is enough life left to not want to stay disrespectfully.

i was asked to rewrite in hindi :) the ordeal is crazy and i am glad you, esha and many like us... are getting through!!

praveen ji.. behtareen idea... i am on it and trying to find that part too

I spoke to somebody recently and despite being from a very very influential background she cudnt leave that unhappy setup ! I know what you mean and I guess the pain of being stuck is more than the grief of a broken setup! Can’t match the two ever! The episode today is somebody divorced for 20 years and it might add another perspective