How To Find Your Passion Again When You're Feeling Lost

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How to find your passion...it's so overdone, could there possibly be anything left to say on this topic?
Well, maybe.
I've been having conversations, in truth, for several years now with people who are feeling lost, who don't know what they want.
And if you ask them: what's your passion?
They can't even answer. They feel like they don't even know themselves anymore.
Sound like you?
In this video, I'll tell a little about my own story of finding my way back to my passion, plus explain the BIOLOGY behind how we lose connection to our desires.
This isn't just woo-soo airy fairy motivational cotton candy. This is neuroscience.
Click to watch and if you like this video, leave me a comment to let me know what hit home the most for you.
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@lindaevans5044 2 года назад

I have tears in my eyes as I type this. Thank God you're not Brene Brown or anyone else. You are totally speaking from your heart, and mine has finally heard the message! I still have to figure out how to act on it, but now I understand where the disconnect began. I see that the ubiquitous advice to "ground" yourself, is not to connect with mystical earth elementals or somesuch, but to actually feel the planet from which we are made - to complete the circuit in the body to the heart. Thank you for addressing the issue of such loss of passion that you can't answer the irritating question of "Well, what DO you want?" I am nearly 70 and the indoctrination runs deep, but I will dig again, this time with the help of your videos, trying to find myself. Also, as someone who has taken days to write and refine an email or two, I very much appreciate the time and effort you put into this video.

@archerten 3 года назад

I am 63 and recovering from early childhood trauma, CPTSD, exploring Polyvagal, IFS, Chakras. Thankyou. even at this stage of my life what you are presenting is very relevant. And I much appreciate your very personal perspective in this video.

@siobhanfraser8190 3 года назад

Hi nice to meet you I'm 55 been a carer for 20 years My daughter has an Acquired Brain Injury Now she's Plato It's now my time There's so much inside Just need to take the first step Hope you well And good luck To find your passion

@kcarver0614 2 года назад

All the best from another 60 year old with a similar history. I keep telling myself it’s never too late 😎

@MeissnerEffect Год назад

Oh hello, almost identical back-story here. Hi from Australia 🇦🇺 to you. I sincerely hope you are well, I am grateful to have read your message on this great video presentation.

@cindydavidson1562 Год назад

I'm 65 and feel the same way...but also for my daughters and granddaughter.

@egnurevets 3 года назад

At 12, my dad had 3 passions: sailing (he built his own lake-boat), recorder (he crafted a recorder-the instrument-through a YMCA program), and electronics. Aside from a few years in the early 70’s when he tried running a stereo/tv repair service (he was amazing at repairing but terrible at running a business) he’s never made money on any of these passions. What does he do for fun now, in his 80’s? Sailing, playing recorder, and messing with electronics. He never let them go, in spite of his wife denigrating all 3, nonstop. I only realized this recently, in my 50’s, and now really admire his persistence at finding joy.

@created4passion442 3 года назад

I'm getting back on track after taking a very bad left turn that took me down many years of Destruction

@rebeccagraziano1679 3 года назад

This is one of the best videos I’ve ever seen. Sukie you have a unique voice. I hope your platform continues to grow so that more people discover you.

@ritaolk3810 2 года назад

I’m 85 still alive. And realize I have to daily find my passion!!! Back surgery & 1st time with health problems. Listening to your tapes I realize my vagus nerve got suppressed causing lots of anxiety & depression This is phenomenal started with your vagus nerve work & other things to get that nerve free and help me to share in the joy of my grandchildren… & “children”. Sent this to all my grandchildren & look forward to sharing their passions!!! Each day is it for me right now… it’s what we have!!! Mucho gratias🤗☀️😍

@b.a.d.andproud3468 3 года назад

Speaking as an artist who skipped art school so as to reassure my parents' needs for my financial safety, your video echoes in my cerebellum as i'm typing this. Thank you.

@SukieBaxter 3 года назад

Aww, I hope you're able to connect with your artistic expression now. It's hard to go against expectations even if it means that we are being true to ourselves.

@krustyoldhag11 3 года назад

I feel for you. I did the exact same thing...got accepted to the San Francisco Art Institute when I was a teenager and my dad was a single father raising 4 girls. Needless to say, there was no money to go and that has been one of my life's biggest regrets. Now I'm 44 and have never done anything with my artistic talent. :/

@JimithyJ 2 года назад

@@krustyoldhag11 It's never to late to get into it! As someone who went to art school, I would like you to know that you still have the power to create no matter where you went to school, or even if you didn't!

@ladysuzify Год назад

Same!❤

@seamonkeyl9061 3 года назад

Omg, are you an angel? I wasn't 'purposely naughty' at school, but boy was I BORED. I used to draw and draw and draw to keep from falling asleep. I would look out the window, I would wish I could sing or stand or dance. I didn't find out I had ADHD until I was 41, haha!

@luisfranco6099 3 года назад

Such a voice of reason! This was not cliche at all and wish more people saw things this way

@AmberSmith-gr8sk Год назад

Your video today has really helped me, along with your healing and releasing trauma videos. I’m 27 and just feel like I need to do what I want to do, but it’s not ‘the right thing for me’ in other peoples eyes. But it’s like I couldn’t even feel my body before and now I’m aware and present and I cried a lot to be honest because it was awesome to feel again. Thankyou

@mlekake6 2 года назад

Thank you for creating this video. You're right, you aren't Brene. You're the best Sukie, and that is enough. The world may be huge but today you are the reason I do not feel alone. Thanx again.

@Ela-eh3hm 3 года назад

"You can't create from a cut off place"👏

@markbrenneman5219 2 года назад

That was the part of the message that really resonated with me in an extraordinary way! I formerly had a passion. Almost seemed to be part of my identity. Like it was ingrained in my DNA in a special compartment in my brain. Had it since I was 3 years old. Fast forward 54 years later - it inexplicably disappeared. Seemingly overnight. It really has confounded me. All those years. Was it all a lie…?! In hindsight, the evaporation of my passion really seemed to coincide with the start of an ongoing struggle with severe, debilitating anxiety. Sickie gave me my “eureka” or “a-ha” moment! …You can’t create when you are struggling with fight-or-flight… Hopefully when I get the anxiety under control, the passion will once again return. Susie offered some of the best insight I’ve heard in ages. I’m glad others are getting similar benefits.

@pietrja 3 года назад

This is really resonating, it feels like we had a very similar childhoods (as do so many others, which is also comforting in a way). I'm just trying to remember what my "horses" are, because I'm a bit lost at the moment.

@SukieBaxter 3 года назад

I so get that feeling of being lost. For me, it helps to just focus on what I want in the next five minutes. Or the next thirty seconds, even. Sometimes contemplating anything more than that feels too big, like it will swallow me whole. I hope you find your horses, whatever form they may take 💜

@mitra2028 3 года назад

@@SukieBaxter what about the cat you have?

@Sn3akyChipmunk 3 года назад

I feel this, so deeply, and I know there are so many people out there who need to hear this. The whole world needs to know this. We need to help people feel connected. Lit up, as you said. So, thank you for sharing. I know it's hard to overcome the critical inner voice. You are a gem and what you have to say is important.

@moniqueneser8555 3 года назад

I resonated with every single word. I'm 25 now and experiencing literally every single thing that you mentioned you struggled with. I don't want to live for other people and you helped me see that it's okay to live my passion. Thank you. I hope the likes & comments you get destroy your doubt in the future when trying to decide if you should share something or not. If it helps in any way, the answer will always be yes. And we appreciate you for it. PS. Heard of you through someone else - your message is spreading!

@carole-annecordero4924 3 года назад

Thank you for being brave enough to put out this message despite what the "inner critic" was telling you..and not scripted. What you said resonated so much and has always been stuff that I've thought a lot about; especially our schooling system and the conformist, non-embodied paradigm we live in. As a dancer (who was not encouraged to do it as a career by practical parents)and ex-athlete who aspires to inspire humans to be more in their bodies, I also appreciate your somatic approach-while not dismissing the usefulness of other modalities such as mindfulness, etc....hence holistic approach. Thank you.! I look forward to hearing/seeing more from your channel.

@sophiemiller9819 3 года назад

This helped me so much! I'm rediscovering my passion, slowly but surely. This was a wonderfully confirming video of the process I'm going through and to help me not lose hope. Thank you for persisting with this video & for posting it. Remember that the world doesn't need another 'Brene` Brown' but the world does need a Sukie Baxter with her unique perspectives and heart centered communication style :D

@pukasmom 3 года назад

Well said! 🙏💖✨🧘

@alisa9195 3 года назад

Agreed!

@Marina_7 Год назад

The disconnection between the head and body that you talk about is so obvious I felt crazy for not realizing it sooner! It's so important to get to move your body, and fall in love with moving your body instead of seeing exercise as a huge chore.

@alisa9195 3 года назад

This just explained a lot of why I have had such a hard time moving out of fight or flight and making decisions of what I want. I really appreciate all your videos. I’ve had really bad ptsd and everything happening in the world has made it far worse. I am grateful for your videos to have easy ways to begin to come back to my body. I’ve meditated for quite sometime, but often feel I’m not able to let in all the goodness I want and I’m feeling this is because I’ve shut off from my body and the present moment always worrying about what’s next

@Notchoosen 3 года назад

Your vagus nerve reset video was tremendous. Thank you for identifying it and making it accessible for me.

@eweyoga 3 года назад

I am listening and changing my own conditioning, it's hard but I also feel it's possible now. To anybody who's trying to fight their way back into themselves, no matter what age you are, I wish you strength and sending you much love.

@suzanahas4740 3 года назад

Just discovered the little treasure you are..so full of passion and wisdom at such an young age. Wish you were my daughter.. have only boys.. keep doing your work..

@fayehope9140 3 года назад

I found you two days ago and have listened to and practiced your vagus nerve reset and massages, listened to 4 videos and clicked the link for the email videos. Today I have shared two of your videos to my Facebook friends they will only get out of it what they will be able to but I have found you at the perfect time in my healing and listening to you is just amazing for me right now I’m understanding, absorbing and resonating with your information and it feels good to be able to “get it” I thank you Sukie my body as a whole thanks you💖

@l.w.paradis2108 3 года назад

I was reading The Body Keeps the Score, then had to put it down. I just picked it up again the other day. Very heavy. Agrees with everything you say. This is so true, so difficult to hear.

@txspacemom765 4 года назад

I think people feel as if they are not being paid for their "passion", they have failed. My passions in life are animals, photography, space and travel. I am only starting to get paid for photography but I work in a field I can say I am excited about, interested in but honestly, I get my pay check and go home and enjoy my passions.

@SukieBaxter 4 года назад

Yes, I think this is a big misconception, too -- that if your job isn't your passion, you're doing it wrong and you must be miserable. There is absolutely nothing wrong with working a job you like just fine and spending your free time exploring your passions. Horses are my passion, but they aren't my job (although I do bodywork on horses, but not full time). I love how spending time with horses grounds me and deepens my insights around the work that I do with my human clients. Sounds like you've found an excellent balance, Heather.

@txspacemom765 4 года назад

@@SukieBaxter thanks! Just older and learned a long time ago not to compare and move along at my own pace.

@missyroper9013 3 года назад

This is me right now! After having 5 kids, being married for 32 years & I don't know who I am anymore I was a mom/wife for so long that now I feel lost since my kids are grown. I'm still married but feel disconnected in it. I'm doing classes online in holistic nutrition trying to find myself but, still feeling lost in life itself. 😔

@maryfitzgibbon7210 3 года назад

This is me right now! 33 yrs married 4 kids last one a senior in college..

@e.6468 3 года назад

You may need a purpose which you want to find yourself in it

@janel342 2 года назад

How honest you are! Brava! You have faced the truth about the end of a certain kind of mothering ! Instead of hanging on to it and stopping your childrens’ growth. The rest of life is Yours! What excitement- new hobbies- travel new friends new interests. I wish you so well with the conscious enjoying of who you are.🌹

@missyroper9013 2 года назад

@@e.6468 how do I find new purpose though?

@margiewhite5738 2 года назад

@@missyroper9013 experiment with different opportunities to find those things that make YOU feel good... then pursue those things.

@siobhanfraser8190 3 года назад

Thankyou What a beautiful person you are I get about being labeled trouble child Much trauma was inside the home So I couldn't settle Thankyou God bless

@charikloangel33 3 года назад

So glad your channel was recommended to me, both for the vagus nerve exercises and information but also this video. What you said about knowing what it is that you DON'T want as opposed to what you DO want was eye-opening. I feel like I'm surviving and stuck and I'm trying to reach for things that will give me stability and some form of satisfaction but it's not coming fully from my heart space. I'm realising more and more that the body-brain link is integral to recovery with mental health issues, and how disconnected we have become from ourselves, and by extension, from the natural world. No wonder I didn't feel I got very far with things like counselling when recovering from anxiety and depression. I've applied to study a post grad in cognitive behavioural interventions in the hope that I can incorporate more somatic approaches to recovery alongside those interventions in my future career.

@johnmorris5384 3 года назад

Thanks for sharing, Sukie! 😊 Glad you listened to your heart and put this video out into the world! 👍

@permami 2 года назад

It is 12:39 am in the morning here in Miami, FL and I am listening to this absolutely beautiful human, teaching with love more than with the so structured “science”. I do not think that there’s a better way of learning something than having love and care as main ingredients. Thanks a lot Sukie! My best wishes to you always!

@shannon6718 2 года назад

Found this message just when I needed it! I’m 50 and kids are nearly grown, and I have had a recent opportunity to take a job as a summer camp director next year. It’s literally my dream job, and I’ll need to be away from home for two months. Feeling this on my heart. Thank you!

@sherrygirson1486 Год назад

Thank you ❤

@michelefitzmaurice4610 3 месяца назад

Horses are healers, that makes sense that you would be drawn to them & vice versa.😊 My cat has helped me A LOT over the last 13+ years & she’s taught me unconditional love.💕

@1la1dy74 3 года назад

what a great way to explain it. I love how you went back to childhood. Absolutely can relate to that. I do remember the day i woke up and was almost a different person. I remember even seen things differently. Like they weren’t as clear and detailed as before. I was 12. And i feel like that is when i started growing up and molding with the society’s standards of what is.

@davidsmith6976 Год назад

There is so much anxiety/depression ,in the world ,youve hit on a big part of why ,some folk are living a limited life ,when they have so much to offer,so many ,teeling you ,what you cannot do,limiting your belief that you CAN ,I know ,many people have been stifled ,it takes away confidence ,the teaching methods ,are so one track ,need to take into account ,indiiduality,and how people connect in different ways ,if you dont fit into ,the current ways ,you are devalued ,its like ,too many are left ,and lost,thanks for seeing through,the systems that bind us ,instead of letting us fly,and be ,who we should be.PEACE.

@imagicat_ 2 года назад

I am the most stubborn person when it comes to taking stuff like this on board, but I was hanging on your every word. You actually make sense and your examples are so relatable. Thank you 💜

@Sunnigirl07 3 года назад

What a fab video! In my 40’s & still don’t know what I want career wise & the anxiety/depression doesn’t help! I hope I can find my passion in career soon! 🙏💕🙏

@ana0g 3 года назад

Bravo, Sukie! It's the truth.

@janmarbol2023 3 года назад

I was, and still am, exactly the same! You describe things that I went through, and the same things that I loved but was discouraged to do. At least you "conformed' at some point. I didn't and that cost me a career. I am in my 50s and don't know what i want to be when I grow up. I like too many things and don't like one enough, and the ones that I do like over other stuff, aren't at my reach anymore.

@Melody-hf1zn 2 года назад

Oh My Sweet Suki...You are like NO ONE else...but YOU !!! ...and that is BEYOND BEAUTI-Full. Thank You for having the courage and conviction to not need to BE ANYONE ELSE. You are a TREASURE...and if I were Your parents I couldn't be prouder of who You have become...in every way!!! This personal reflection was a beautiful, encouraging, heartfelt, inspiration, indeed ❤🤗🙏

@keziahdaniel3740 3 года назад

People do care what you have to say. And you are amazing. Appreciated.

@bellajoy5827 3 года назад

People do want to hear what you have to say. It resonates with me perfectly. I have felt like this my whole life. Thank you for speaking your truth 🙏

@Msfruity44 2 года назад

Absolutely beautiful!!!!! I can’t express how much of what you’ve shared resonated with me on so many levels. I’m a trauma survivor/thriver but I’m also a family counselor and I am so passionate about what I do. I’ve also worked in the public school system for almost 10 years before branching out on my own. You are so on point!!! So thank , you so very much for following your heart by sharing life changing information, while relating in such a personable, simple yet powerful way. Let’s continue caring and sharing, 🌺💯😇

@FaithFashionFinances Год назад

I was allowing people in my life who wanted me to fail. I have to take partial responsibility for feeling lost because I didn’t remove the people who were toxic in my life. The wrong people will hold you back.

@dixieandkurt 3 года назад

Thank you for your authenticity. 💞

@amanwell3619 4 месяца назад

Everything you said is so well spoken and beautifully portrayed. This resonates on a very deep level. I totally with you regarding schools. They are definitely (intentionally) designed for conformity thus causing us to be disconnected. I am 50 years old and working through a lot of trauma. I'm really going to put effort in becoming connected again. I recently discovered your channel and am going through all of your videos. Thank you so much for all of your wonderful work! ❤️

@brianpatridge9774 3 года назад

Genuinely, the most authentic, real video I’ve seen in such a long time. You spoke to my heart and I thank you so much. 🙏🏾

@dmaria848 Год назад

Watching this video was the best gift I could have given myself today, it actually brought tears to my eyes. I was raised in the 50s, and completely related to everything you said Sukie. Thank you for your honesty and wisdom, and ability to explain why many of us are stuck and confused about how we feel and what we want.

@81kikyo Год назад

This is spot on in so many ways. The way you explain this made my light bulb light up in my head.

@birdmentor 3 месяца назад

Well done Sukie!!! The way you took us (me) along your journey, with deeply resonated with me, helped me to see something for myself ... a new way to access my passion and why it's been so dang hard to find it. In gratitude 💕🌸🤸🏼‍♂

@artanddesignstudios Год назад

As an artist and extremely empathetic and sensitive person, this is one of the most important, supportive, and validating things I have ever come across in my life. And I needed it now more than ever. Thank you so much for doing this video! ❤️

@maxinegibson6270 Год назад

Thanks a lot for your supportive videos, they are helpful and insightful. Horses are also a passion in my world, they’re such beautiful creatures and I love them. I’ve ridden a few times but never had the opportunity to be close. I’m a fine artist of age in a digital world with many challenges, and much anxiety. Sending you love and gratitude, thank you, Maxine

@lisadae7590 Год назад

Thank you! I especially resonate with when your brain is in survival mode you can’t move towards something. Thank you for sharing your story and sharing your sweet horses.

@Midimoho 3 года назад

Wow!! This has been my issue for so long (I'm 55) . I'm so glad ai found your channel and am about to begin healing my CPTSD and figure out who I really am & where I go from here.

@joshuadavid4688 3 года назад

Beautiful, heartfelt and authentic personal testimony from an inspiring woman. Inspiring. Thank you Sukie.

@carlosapodaca8719 2 года назад

Thank you so much I’m recovering from general anxiety with ALOT of physical symptoms and I couldn’t figure out why I can connect with my heart and now I got it I’m still in fight or flight move . Still have a road to travel but slowly but surly I’ll get there . Big hugs ..

@johnluke37 3 года назад

So true. Thanks for the power this expression points to.

@nicola1466 2 года назад

Hi, I loved this video. Personally I find your information and videos for releasing anxiety and trauma so refreshing, gentle and authentic. I find it difficult to be gentle with myself from my upbringing...you really really help me with this. Love you, and love these kinds of videos from you. Animals are so healing. My beautiful rescue dog helps soothe me so much ❤️❤️

@kinzelurban 2 года назад

So very glad you did this video. I found everything you talked about so interesting and true! Your experience of school is what happened to me in school and 40 yrs on I'm only just learning to listen to my body, searching for knowledge to help me to heal and move forward in this tough but eye opening transitional period of my life. This video especially, and many of your other videos have been a great guide and inspiration for me, thankyou!

@georgie6443 3 года назад

You speak with a nice and gentle manner when addressing such important topics, which I think are the key in addressing the world's greater problems. Such a fan of your channel and your philosophies ring completely true with mine. I'm happy for you that you chose to pursue your passion and thank you for going the extra mile to help the rest of us. Blessings from UK.

@randy5829 Год назад

Thank You For Sharing Your Experience, because So Many People Are So Numb From Life Experiences.

@iwonacharleson7071 4 месяца назад

I love your wisdom, I feel really connected to you 😊 and I love horses and animals too! My earliest memory of feeling joy was as a toddler, supposed to be having a 'nap' in my cot but I saw a pair of sissors and a crocheted doily on a shelf close to the cot and I just felt I HAD to make something, so I reached over and started cutting up the doily - yes I cut myself and still have the scar, yes my mum was very upset because there was blood everywhere but I had the most amazing feeling of happiness that I still get whenever I 'make' something.

@samtarlow4773 2 года назад

Wow. I feel like my life has been lived by you. (Except, change the horses for a relationship with my father. (And maybe the Messiah as well 😜)). I even made that brain/body sensitivity connection. I could not have chanced on this video at a better time. Thank you so so so much! I’ve been so sad because I don’t know anyone who can relate to such an extreme. My entire life I pushed “Don’t conform.” I have problems with authority, but no ADHD. (I think ADD though.) I want to cry. No one before has been able to say what I feel to such an extent. Thank you for empowering me. I appreciate you for putting in the work over the years and refusing to settle.

@robertsest5619 Год назад

Sukie, just go on. World needs you. Wishing you all the best and good journey to your aim. 🌼

@sarcatstix 3 года назад

I really appreciate this video. I have spasms in my Vagus nerve from a disease called Achalasia- they’re like heart attacks as they center around the esophagus. I used to be super creative writing, sax playing, art, tons but since moving to a foreign country and getting sick it’s all stopped. This video makes a ton of sense. I felt lost and disconnected even though I teach college and spend 90% of my lessons motivating my students I don’t seem to be able to do the same to myself. The fight or flight really makes sense. Thanks for giving me a nudge to think again- or rather- to remember to feel again.

@lakergreat1 3 года назад

Amazing. Thank you for taking the time to create this video and putting aside your doubt that people wouldn't be interested. It's beautiful.

@l.w.paradis2108 3 года назад

This is something I need to listen to once every month. Yes, every month. At least!

@sabina1358 3 года назад

I loved hearing your heartfelt story, I could hear your voice crack a bit which made it even more authentic. Thank you for sharing

@evelynspaghetti4978 Год назад

I needed this. "Don't listen to your brain, it doesn't know".. So true. All my brain knows, is what it thinks it already know... Which is far more useless than what society tells us. I so feel what is being said here is right.. it's in the body and the awareness, not the thinking. I just don't know how to sink down, out of my head.. oh.. she just explained how to do it... I really need to connect to my body more... So glad this came into my feed..

@evelynspaghetti4978 Год назад

If we are going on childhood, it's... don't laugh... The occult, science, travel, art (specifically writing & photography), nature, music and yep... Horsies too 🐴

@marlenecochran6324 3 года назад

I could never thank you enough for having the courage and love to share what you shared in this video! Thank you Sukie!!♡♡♡ It is exactly what I need and I am hopeful and excited to keep reconnecting with my body and heart. Thank you for your skill, Wisdom, vulnerability, expertise!! Thanks again! You are making a huge difference in our lives!!

@JessicaHeart-o9z 4 месяца назад

I am so grateful for this video Sukie, it validated feelings that needed to be heard for a very long time. Working towards healing. I look forward to having my own horse. With gratitude

@jacd8666 3 года назад

Thank you.......you were totally speaking from your heart and that’s is why it is resonating so much with your listeners. Brilliant.

@kaciehillstrom6633 8 месяцев назад

I'm so so glad that you made this video. It absolutely resonated & I needed to hear it like you can't imagine. Thank you

@Eugeniacv 10 месяцев назад

thank you Sukie for shearing this because in this moment is what i needed to listen. I feel it absolutely as you say, just dont know what i want to do because since a child i've been silencing my body!

@clintonparr151 3 года назад

its scary how good this is 😭 thank you so much for sharing it

@claresage 3 года назад

I lost it before I really found it, like by age 6 I already lost it. Maybe before that. There's a lot of activities I kinda liked, but I don't know if anything really lit me up. I don't listen to much about finding passion. I only listened to this because you come from a different way of doing things. So I did find it of interest. It makes sense that trauma repair and strength of vagus is maybe the way to focus first in order to listen better to the heart

@hazew8413 2 года назад

thank you !!! shed so much light for me

@ripley2164 3 года назад

Thank you for sharing your heart-centered views. Living from the heart makes all the difference in the world.

@SukieBaxter 3 года назад

Absolutely! Thanks for watching, Ripley!

@sarahelizabethreiki 2 года назад

Thank you for this video🙏 You articulated very clearly concepts that I know to be true but have a difficult time expressing clearly. Also loving the practical vagus nerve exercises, I feel a huge difference in being able to sense my body and breathe more deeply and evenly. I will be using them daily!!! With gratitude ❤

@debmazanek6614 3 года назад

Love your honest, truthfilled and passion filled sharing. Beautifully expressed. 💜

@sandyfeet1220 3 года назад

I love that you shared this! It’s everything! I can relate. Discovering yoga started me on the path to myself.

@IMMA383 4 года назад

Thank you Sukie, this really resonated with my heart, very good talk

@SukieBaxter 4 года назад

You are so welcome. I'm glad it struck a chord.

@amiehegeman Год назад

This is super interesting. I am new to polyvagal theory and my one child who goes from 0 to outrage in 1 second flat, just loves riding horses. He just turns into a cowboy the moment he sees them. He goes thru a lot of OT and is dyslexic so does a lot of extra reading work, so I try to balance it out with a riding lesson on the weekend. One dyslexic mama told me to make sure do 1:1 tutoring sessions to : things that fuel him. I wish he could be able to ride more. 💕 Learning so much from your videos!

@SuperKasper333 3 года назад

I was always very passionate about my creativity, thinking that, no matter what, it would always be with me. Well it isn't. In the past few years, I've been undergoing terrorism at the hands of ppl that I don't even know. I've had to divest myself of all that I thought I'd never lose in order to keep my family and myself safe. Local bullies who, during the Covid quarantine, became terrorists- I seemed like easy prey, because I'm a single, ( no boyfriend, partner etc) disabled mom. I only know how to survive and protect my family- I've lost me. I don't know if I'll ever get me back.

@beverlyclark8324 3 года назад

You have a right to share what is in your heart and your passion.Thank you for all your videos they have helped me so much especially about the vagus nerve, it helped with pain in my neck during these fight or flight times of lockdown madness here in England. Now it all makes sense to me reconnecting to my body. Getting out of our heads into the body to find our passions!!! Keeping on with the exercises to reconnect to my passion. Thank you again 🙏💚

@camouflagejumpsuit 3 года назад

I liked, I shared, I saved in my faves. Sukie sweetheart I come to RU-vid to be entertained, to learn new things and fresh new twists on things I already know, to grow, and to laugh. This is the #1 video for me! I am transformed by many things you said in just the perfect way. Thank you! Well done! Much appreciated.

@bopaso 3 года назад

S C H O O L ! ! ! ! UFFFFF- DA!!!! SUCH an indoctrination! I know that teachers are very devoted and do their very best to truly help, and I also recognize that this institution needs an absolute overhaul! Thank you once again for speaking out on this!!

@redpillgirl1843 Год назад

This is so important. As someone coming out of a religious system it’s key to moving forward in life. We have given our dreams over to death to follow someone else’s rules for life. At 58 I am discovering that I have been duped and I want my life back now please! It’s very helpful and encouraging to hear other people’s journey. Thanks for sharing ❤

@susandesisto6805 Год назад

I can’t thank you enough for explaining for me what has been a life long struggle, and that is not knowing what my passion was. Even as a child I felt there was something terribly wrong with me because I didn’t know what I wanted to be when I grew up. It created a great deal of low self esteem and humiliation. I didn’t like school and I didn’t want to be there. I got decent grades, but my report cards always said the same thing. “Susan tends to daydream.” At least we had recess when I was in school. I shudder to think how disconnected people must be since schools started cutting back on playtime. You are so on spot with your observations! We have much to learn for the future of our children.

@lowellbastianelli9267 Год назад

Your experience with an increased severity(over recent years) of your clients being more disconnected from their neck down with their head-up, likely has to do(in the last 15 years) with the advent of personal technology into each of our lives. Best of luck with your Shelby & Salsa passion Sukie. You made the right choice.

@tarajohnson8651 3 года назад

This really hit home with me.It’s so hard to get out of your head and into your body..Thanks for your insight and sharing your story

@barbaralawrence6226 Год назад

Love you Sukie! Sharing this with my EMDR therapist, energy awareness guide, and Havening Techniques Practitioner, among others. Your voice is SO needed in this world. I'm so grateful you came into my feed!❤

@itssniff 2 года назад

Great video. This is part of the reason I home educate my children! So they don't become disconnected from their own bodies and desires. Amongst other reasons....

@michellev.8739 3 года назад

I’m still really new to Suki’s channel but already I’m feeling healing I have such a long way to go but I’m so encouraged that there is light at the end of the tunnel I hope she continues to do more of these and digs in deeper

@martajuanolafita9918 Год назад

Thank you, thank you, thank you Sukie. From my heart, from my soul.

@JustusOutLoud Год назад

Such an excellent video ; I’ve heard a lot of people talk about this topic but you included - social conditioning, the body, mind, and life philosophy with concrete simple but specific examples from your life that deeply resonates - thank you ❤️‍🔥

@patitadelrosario4910 2 года назад

How wise you are!! Thank you. I finally understand why I can not find my passion but now I have a hope. I thank you so much. The childhood is the most important part of our lives because on that time we define ourselves and then, well, we are the result of that. It is amazing how you could realize what was happening to you, I never did, I never could. I really hope with this enlightenment that you have given me I will be able to overcome my frustration. Big and thankful hug from the heart :)

@celinecormier2060 Год назад

Wow. This is huge. This is powerful! The way you explained it from being a little child to adulthood, and how disconnected we are groomed to become. What great insight you provide in your analysis. Thank you so much.

@sharmaraygoldman9415 2 года назад

I resonate with your story in being super creative and feeling bored. I hated middle and high school. I went through a transition from being in a free school to one that was more about the conformity and felt lost. What I really loved though was sewing. I lost my way from it cuz I had to “ grow up” quickly from trauma I experienced . I rediscovered my passion for sewing about 10 or so years ago! I love sewing just for me. I tried making clothes to sell however it was not the same as just making them for myself. The pleasure of repurposing clothing is so satisfying. There is therapy I think connected to it! Currently though I feel blocked with my sewing as I heal my body from old anxiety that I am connecting to now and with tending to my body I feel less of a desire to sew! I am unclear how I will or how much time I will devote to sewing.