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how to find your style + the confidence to wear it 

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In this chatty video, I answer one of my most asked questions: how do I find my style and the confidence to wear what I want? I break it down into steps, from assessing what clothes you already wear the most in your wardrobe, to finding aesthetic inspiration, building a moodboard, and tips for going shopping and styling outfits.
ON ME
yellow top: princess polly (bit.ly/2G2NuM7)
shorts: abrand (bit.ly/2Wevg49)
heart necklace: vanessa mooney (similar: bit.ly/2I6dsyj)
thin choker: mejuri (bit.ly/2QvwTV2)
heart choker: melody ehsani (similar: bit.ly/2Lyk50y)
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F A Q
what’s your name? ashley
what’s your instagram? @best.dressed
how old are you? 21 (born in 1998)
how tall are you? 5'5"
what’s your ethnicity? half british and half burmese
what equipment do you use to film?
➭ main camera: panasonic lumix gh5s (amzn.to/2Nb0W1z)
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➭ mic: rode videomic pro+ (amzn.to/2QHfZBU)
➭ vlog camera: canon powershot g7x mark ii amzn.to/2DfL4cZ
➭ canon m50 (amzn.to/2Dp1bnk)
➭ editing: final cut pro
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Комментарии : 12 тыс.   
@Abby-vs1nx
@Abby-vs1nx 4 года назад
i hate those “wHo ArE YoU TrYiNg tO ImPResS” headass people lmao
@ellatrentini2209
@ellatrentini2209 4 года назад
Abby YES! Im dressing for myself now shut your mouth (the people that say that are the ones who wear sweats everyday 🥵)
@sistershook232
@sistershook232 4 года назад
Well to those people I say myself and thank you for telling me I look good
@panagiotis4805
@panagiotis4805 4 года назад
If you're getting comments like that, it means you're doing it right 💜
@somebodysopinion543
@somebodysopinion543 4 года назад
my mum tells me this everyday and my sisters LOL
@alaebk7825
@alaebk7825 4 года назад
Abby "AhA YoU hAvE a CrUsH!1!1!1!1"
@mj-zl7kf
@mj-zl7kf 4 года назад
“who are you trying to impress?” is the most compliment-y/non-compliment-y/uncomfortable question ever
@whitykitty2651
@whitykitty2651 4 года назад
It's just fun to wear what you want I don't understand how some people don't understand that
@nikolinaninkovic6748
@nikolinaninkovic6748 4 года назад
Dude, I put on a dress and every fucker in my surroundings asks me that.
@funkybugman
@funkybugman 4 года назад
My little cousin asked me that the other day, I just looked at her and said, “myself, honey life is too short, do things for yourself”
@klompaca5934
@klompaca5934 4 года назад
it's so awkward cause rn my friends think i am dressing up for my driving instructor (spoiler: i'm not. i am dressing up for myself)
@duhberman
@duhberman 4 года назад
Also things like "oh, look who's wearing (x item of clothing, ex. a skirt)!!! Like, pls stop, I feel weird already and you're not helping
@theatrekid5898
@theatrekid5898 3 года назад
Does anyone else wanna assess their wardrobe but feels so guilty about getting rid of stuff cause you feel like u wasted ur money?
@aaliyonnahrobertson5099
@aaliyonnahrobertson5099 3 года назад
sell it
@hi-kt8jj
@hi-kt8jj 3 года назад
gurl my style is "whatever my mom approves of" i'll GLADLY sell/donate my entire wardrobe no cap
@hebebebe139
@hebebebe139 3 года назад
I've decided to clear out most of my wardrobe and start nre besides a few favourite items and I'm only allowing myself to spend the money I make selling to get new clothes, and thrift it all
@hi-kt8jj
@hi-kt8jj 3 года назад
@@hebebebe139 where do you sell your clothes? i usually donate mine but idk what store would pay for used clothes
@hi-kt8jj
@hi-kt8jj 3 года назад
@@hebebebe139 oh ok thank you!
@BeaR-gd8ll
@BeaR-gd8ll 3 года назад
Anyone else actually love fashion but is not confident enough to wear anything because you don't want to look "overdressed" or get asked "wHo aRe yOu tRyInG tO iMpReSs?"
@ananyasampathkumar3832
@ananyasampathkumar3832 2 года назад
ive been dressing up a little recently whenever i go out, and while my parents gave me those comments a lot, they eventually stopped. if you just power through, you’ll be fine. at some point, id be able to go to the mall in a ballgown if i wanted to, and my mom would just accept it.
@Cam-fv5op
@Cam-fv5op 2 года назад
Literally I wore a crop top and some jeans in which was a top my mom bought me and some jeans she gave me and she said who you tryna impress like you think I'm tryna impress the icecream in kroger or smthn😭
@gabrielle6663
@gabrielle6663 2 года назад
"who are you trying to impress" literally me, its for me...and other cute girls but mostly for me
@kio4173
@kio4173 2 года назад
I've always been so insecure about that. Like, I would want to wear an outfit, but then in the back of my brain, im panicking if I'm overdressed or if it isn't the right occasion or if its even fit for the weather. It's a lot-
@pandajoyd4992
@pandajoyd4992 2 года назад
“Myself! I like wearing things for me :)” Also in my experience most people are really sweet and excited about how cute your clothes are :) and if no one is, you don’t dress for other people anyway. And if lots of people are excited, that’s great! But you don’t dress for them. My advice is to not get too caught up in making sure people like (or continue to like) your outfits. Have fun! And relax :))
@myeahonline
@myeahonline 4 года назад
"From this fashion disaster, to this *fashionable* disaster" I STAN AN INTELLECTUAL
@kittenlover1888
@kittenlover1888 4 года назад
First comment yooo
@mercury7458
@mercury7458 4 года назад
high key me
@mishripettinger6170
@mishripettinger6170 4 года назад
@@mercury7458 same
@lucygrace720
@lucygrace720 4 года назад
Preach
@jakemarlins6775
@jakemarlins6775 4 года назад
First ty ... I need a car qickplease
@hannahbanana6149
@hannahbanana6149 4 года назад
Story: In high school I literally wore dresses every. single. day. Most people knew or people in my class just knew that I wore dresses every day. One day I showed up to school in jeans and I visited my friend in another class and she was like "you're wearing pants!!" and some random guy in her class looks over, and pops in like "I don't even KNOW you and I know you wear dresses every day" yeetin
@lararibeiro3343
@lararibeiro3343 4 года назад
i admire your motivation and the jeans day was a power move. well done
@rymno7466
@rymno7466 4 года назад
It’s the opposite for me haha props to you for being comfortable wearing dresses to school.
@emmarose9997
@emmarose9997 4 года назад
every time i wear jeans random people are like no dress?? and if i do wear jeans it’s jeans flats and a blouse i wore a hoodie and jeans one day and my friends thought i was dying
@ruth9077
@ruth9077 4 года назад
Haha I love that!! I wish it was warm enough where I am to do that
@emilia3313
@emilia3313 4 года назад
Hannah Banana this was totally me in middle school! Except with skirts as well as dresses
@cailynpope6167
@cailynpope6167 3 года назад
When you can't choose between grunge, cottagecore, and light academia.
@polly1579
@polly1579 3 года назад
I can't choose between dark academia, fairycore, and skater/surfer... :(
@agirlcalledmist
@agirlcalledmist 3 года назад
@@polly1579 beachy acedemic fairy that likes to vibe at skate parks BAM!
@polly1579
@polly1579 3 года назад
@@agirlcalledmist lol thank you!
@mikuhidinginyourwifi5615
@mikuhidinginyourwifi5615 3 года назад
mix mix mix
@salonikullar3627
@salonikullar3627 3 года назад
OMG SAME
@houseplant_3084
@houseplant_3084 3 года назад
I have a style I know my aesthetic BUT I have strict parents, therefore I am screwed
@Filsan.fr13
@Filsan.fr13 3 года назад
They would just look at me like is this my child then look back at there phone ._.
@darnielladd6131
@darnielladd6131 3 года назад
Same. I'm expecting a major glow-up when I move out but you can wear things that have a flattering fit that doesn't need to be showing a lot of skin.
@keyachy1657
@keyachy1657 2 года назад
samee
@b3atricks
@b3atricks 2 года назад
Yah me too
@Trisha._3
@Trisha._3 4 месяца назад
Same here
@melissapilato6541
@melissapilato6541 4 года назад
I have anxiety, so whenever I wear clothing that I really love I become insecure and paranoid. that’s why I usually come back to the same boring clothes.
@contactmyheart3296
@contactmyheart3296 3 года назад
same 😔
@kiaraw8297
@kiaraw8297 3 года назад
Be confident in yourself and the things you love to wear! Heck!,my own family talks bad about my style but idc because I love it 😻!!
@goddessloretta776
@goddessloretta776 3 года назад
Me too.
@bearsneezer1929
@bearsneezer1929 3 года назад
I believe in u girl I do too but I’m slowly starting to change my style without stretching too far, so just swap baggy tees with tucked in tees that are pulled out halfway, for an example
@Emma-ku6ql
@Emma-ku6ql 3 года назад
Kiara Walker HOW
@jonginisholy
@jonginisholy 4 года назад
Ashley really is the big sister we all so desperately need in our insecure lives.
@kristina-my5ws
@kristina-my5ws 4 года назад
facts, life would be so much easier if she was my big sister lmao
@marahdais9773
@marahdais9773 4 года назад
so true
@Meg_Lovegood
@Meg_Lovegood 4 года назад
2.2k of easy pickings...
@zoerapanot
@zoerapanot 4 года назад
Jongin is Holy this is actually the best description of ashely i’ve ever seen
@rebekkalindknoph1557
@rebekkalindknoph1557 4 года назад
couldn't have said this any better
@matcha2953
@matcha2953 3 года назад
I sorta found my style through it and my mother described it as "Hello, yes I am an intern at my grandmother's workplace"
@peterevans6480
@peterevans6480 2 года назад
PFFT IM SORRY FOR LAUGHING BUT I LOVE YOUR MOM
@indeedical26
@indeedical26 2 года назад
LMAOOO I AM SORRY
@thatcrowkiddraws
@thatcrowkiddraws Год назад
IM CRYING 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@card0qnyu
@card0qnyu 2 года назад
11:30 I seriously felt this because I have had the same style of dark shirts, sweaters, jeans, and very bland clothes just because I've always been afraid to wear my preferred style OR I'm so weird about people seeing me want to change who I've been for so long. It's a sad view and I'm like ready to start changing a bit by bit, I'm seriously into fashion and I'm very thankful for this video. Cheers to finally dressing the way I have always wanted to, and to be confident enough to stand out 💕💕
@annalynpoulsen2077
@annalynpoulsen2077 4 года назад
“it’s a 30 year old mom thing or a thing for 17 year olds” i feel attacked
@astoldbyfrancia6003
@astoldbyfrancia6003 4 года назад
Same, I'm like only 24 sis 😂
@misaamane6528
@misaamane6528 4 года назад
I’m 13 oop
@chronicallyVirgo
@chronicallyVirgo 4 года назад
Same, I'm 21 🙈
@ricacallano4913
@ricacallano4913 4 года назад
same
@charliecrow6817
@charliecrow6817 4 года назад
oof I'm 21 and addicted to pinterest, I felt attacked
@Ktbolton2
@Ktbolton2 4 года назад
Ashley: does it reflect your personality Me: *existential crisis on what my personality is*
@VictoriaMeira7
@VictoriaMeira7 4 года назад
Oof I felt that one
@honeylavenderbakery
@honeylavenderbakery 4 года назад
oops
@yc2877
@yc2877 4 года назад
Katie Bolton me too
@marinejoseph5304
@marinejoseph5304 4 года назад
when you're a gemini so you've got 5 different personalities to reflect
@bleuleuc6961
@bleuleuc6961 4 года назад
Questions about my personality make me wonder if I even have one
@paul8623
@paul8623 3 года назад
Does this happen to anyone else? I try on an outfit, think its ugly, then keep changing something one by one until im in a completely new outfit. Then I just change back into my first outfit lol.
@SalamanderMagic
@SalamanderMagic 3 года назад
every fucking morning
@rubymack5782
@rubymack5782 3 года назад
yess
@Cam-fv5op
@Cam-fv5op 2 года назад
All the time🥲
@pineapplec0ke
@pineapplec0ke Год назад
Yeah lmao
@Matrixxx.u
@Matrixxx.u Год назад
My dying so fucking relatable 😅😂 i legit mess up my ENTIRE room, closet...just to go through hell cleaning it all up and wearing the same jeans and graphic tee 🥸
@onionpuddle8124
@onionpuddle8124 3 года назад
me: wearing something that i want to wear and that fits my style my sister: you don’t look in that/ you can’t pull that off me: going back to wearing sweatpants and sweatshirts 24/7
@klavi842
@klavi842 3 года назад
oh my god me too
@alllamalala9903
@alllamalala9903 3 года назад
You guys got this! Fashion is only about confidence, yall can slay it!
@erinyes3943
@erinyes3943 3 года назад
All I’m saying is that spite can be an amazing motivator-
@jacquelinematte1663
@jacquelinematte1663 3 года назад
I hate judgement by sisters so I can sympathize
@asr4405
@asr4405 3 года назад
Sis are the biggest problem lol!
@malinasakamoto
@malinasakamoto 4 года назад
i have a style...i just don’t own anything that is that style
@emerelisrohena7413
@emerelisrohena7413 4 года назад
Same
@zay6744
@zay6744 4 года назад
OH MY GOOODDDDDD SAMEEEEE 😭😭😭😑💀
@d4n1ellaa
@d4n1ellaa 4 года назад
I feel u
@izzyykatherine
@izzyykatherine 4 года назад
Yoooooo same
@j.drvnsk
@j.drvnsk 4 года назад
Sameeeee😫
@tohruchan6093
@tohruchan6093 4 года назад
"Why're you all dressed up?" idk mum I just wanted to look cute but I guess I'll go change- I'll wait until I move out to do that thing we call fashion.
@anjaanja6448
@anjaanja6448 4 года назад
Tohru Chan no you got this do your thing now:)
@emijune2171
@emijune2171 4 года назад
I have the same philosophy about eating healthily oof
@tohruchan6093
@tohruchan6093 4 года назад
@@emijune2171 I feel that. I don't know why some things just seem like you shouldn't them, even though you probably should and it's just normal???
@sayuriando3379
@sayuriando3379 4 года назад
I slowly managed to change it more to my style but to be honest I still have a lot of clothes that belonged once to my sisters since I'm the smallest one and our mom doesn't accept reasons like it does not fit my style to go shopping for new outfits
@shizotypical
@shizotypical 4 года назад
Why change tho? Nothing wrong with dressing nice if you want to!
@maryeckberger5758
@maryeckberger5758 3 года назад
I worked in fashion retail, please know we loved customers like you. Always smiling, making other customers smile and using fashion like the basic art it is.
@rosalindwinneker8638
@rosalindwinneker8638 2 года назад
Another tip I suggest is looking at movie characters who’s style you like. Since they exist in their little bubble of existence, they can’t change and follow current trends which more often then not, you follow cause you see a lot of people wearing and then get sick of.
@ivyk1050
@ivyk1050 4 года назад
when my style is different from what i wear because 1.I have no confidence to wear it 2. im poor, no money to buy those clothes
@fwelony5252
@fwelony5252 4 года назад
Rightttt I’m looking on Aliexpress and ROMWE for clothes 😭
@avery6648
@avery6648 3 года назад
I agree with the first one so much 😭😭😭 I know what my style is and I can afford to buy most of the clothing I want but I’m too scared to wear skirts and dresses to school
@madyv8620
@madyv8620 3 года назад
@@fwelony5252 me to, me to :( AND I STILL CANT AFFORD IT-
@valeria3325
@valeria3325 3 года назад
Maybe try thrifting? It's pretty cheap and you can find pieces that you love
@claireporter2416
@claireporter2416 3 года назад
Vælærïå yes thrifting is amazing, but you definitely need to have the patience to flip through everything
@irisl2359
@irisl2359 4 года назад
me : *wears a hat* social anxiety : *intensifies*
@ldksjgldkshjgsdlkf6381
@ldksjgldkshjgsdlkf6381 4 года назад
me: wears anything other than hoodies and leggings social anxiety: *intensifies*
@candy3974
@candy3974 4 года назад
Me: has been wearing the same thing over and over and over again since I was 6 and wanting to be able to wear converse, shorts, ripped jeans, crop tops without being called fat by my parents while they also say I dress like a grandma Depression: *INTENSIFIES*
@saalthmeme5280
@saalthmeme5280 4 года назад
i wish i had the confidence to wear leggings😔😔
@mochismom7572
@mochismom7572 4 года назад
oim veuch ikr. If i where anything i usually dont no matter how cute i think it is i get insecure
@brittneyearnshaw6015
@brittneyearnshaw6015 4 года назад
hahaha i felt this in my soul
@kat08
@kat08 2 года назад
I would also totally recommend thrift stores when trying out a new style!! You can get a lot of pieces for cheaper and it's less of a risk if you end up not liking the style bc you didn't spend a ton of money on it
@haruutoee
@haruutoee 2 года назад
For anyone whos 13-18 years of age watching this video, IT WORKS. My confidence sky rocketed. PS: Have fun having a glow up! You deserve it
@davidcamus3385
@davidcamus3385 4 года назад
So the real question is am I allowed to just rotate 7 Hawaiian shirts and call it good?
@smackmyassandcallmecharlie4579
@smackmyassandcallmecharlie4579 4 года назад
Yes father
@avalena444
@avalena444 4 года назад
David Camus absolutely my dude
@izzyfrost647
@izzyfrost647 4 года назад
it’s a Look
@annikabrug
@annikabrug 4 года назад
That's me tho
@Venus-zn3qo
@Venus-zn3qo 4 года назад
Yes indeed splendid man
@emilyisawesome1455
@emilyisawesome1455 4 года назад
people: who are you so dressed up for? me: you never know where harry styles could be, karen.
@connyspiess9665
@connyspiess9665 4 года назад
only aliferxus this is an incredibly underrated comment
@dominiquesimonetan4187
@dominiquesimonetan4187 4 года назад
It's always the Karen
@user-hb6mt9eq3t
@user-hb6mt9eq3t 4 года назад
^^^
@harrystyles1122
@harrystyles1122 4 года назад
I LOVE YOUUUU
@elena-3172
@elena-3172 4 года назад
Yesssss, I only care about how I look because i want to look good if I see someone I Stan and I would have a cute picture with them.
@ChicaneMedia
@ChicaneMedia Год назад
I feel most people are lacking the confidence to be themselves because they aren't completely open towards how other people express themselves. What we personally find uncomfortable, we tend to think of negative thoughts first-hand because it's something different which feels alien to you. I feel that in order to be more confident you have to accept others for who they are and see everyone more open minded. That in hand makes you more comfortable wearing what you want because others see you being yourself and don't judge you for it
@trishsantiago4232
@trishsantiago4232 3 года назад
i’ve found my style this quarantine yet i haven’t bought those clothes yet. i’m mostly inspired by kpop idols lol
@yesicastefanie
@yesicastefanie 4 года назад
the only two problems about finding my style: 1. don’t have the money for it 2. don’t have the body for it
@rosesfromseptember517
@rosesfromseptember517 4 года назад
Go to a thrift store or a second hand store! So many gems from so many different styles haha
@hunterkristina9106
@hunterkristina9106 4 года назад
Yesica Stefanie the money struggle is so real
@salmalk6737
@salmalk6737 4 года назад
Same
@hunterkristina9106
@hunterkristina9106 4 года назад
elf bugs there are also apps like poshmark and depop which sell second hand
@user-dm5sd6qz6j
@user-dm5sd6qz6j 4 года назад
You just don’t know yet what types of clothes is great for your body
@vophie
@vophie 4 года назад
My tip is, don't be afraid to be "basic" and to wear ordinary or common clothing, you don't have to be unique to be incredible
@orangew.3055
@orangew.3055 4 года назад
Yash
@m_mmko
@m_mmko 4 года назад
Sophie Williams This!
@annabanana1141
@annabanana1141 4 года назад
Sophie Williams i been wanting the fila disruptors but i’ve seen so many people roast them & i don’t want to be flamed on
@bethb9926
@bethb9926 4 года назад
I felt like a badass wearing a plain tank top with black leggings and a white jacket with (more black) sneakers. So, this!! Yes.
@soapy2587
@soapy2587 4 года назад
this...i always like to wear bright colors and eye attracting stuff because i thought basic clothes were boring but recently i have experimented with basic crop tops & jeans and i find that it really flatters my body :>
@sugarhoneyicedtea9704
@sugarhoneyicedtea9704 3 года назад
Sections ✨ 1. Asses current wardrobe (0:50) 2. Finding inspiration (2:48) 3. Create a moodboard (5:58) 5. Shopping (7:30) 6. Practise (8:23) 7. Confidence (10:52) 8. Fashion is subjective (13:32)
@minhyuksssmile
@minhyuksssmile 7 месяцев назад
Thank you😊
@doodlemort
@doodlemort 3 года назад
0:50 *goes over to dresser:* *sees black shirts, white shirts, and sweatpants:* oh..
@lmaoabby9034
@lmaoabby9034 3 года назад
*when you have a dream aesthetic but your aesthetic doesn’t look good on you* 👁💧👄💧👁
@aninhasS2
@aninhasS2 3 года назад
Story of my life 👁💧👄💧👁👍
@Scott-on2er
@Scott-on2er 3 года назад
girl you just need clothes with a silhouette that flatters your body type
@shreya8719
@shreya8719 3 года назад
The struggle 😩
@phoebe1273
@phoebe1273 3 года назад
sameeee
@hoolhyoh
@hoolhyoh 3 года назад
relatable
@thelazygirllifestyle3562
@thelazygirllifestyle3562 4 года назад
My coworker: "why are you dressed up today" Me: " I wanted to feel pretty today." That's all you need to dress up! Love yourself enough to Indulge in your fashion.
@eva3173
@eva3173 4 года назад
PREACH
@geuresu
@geuresu 4 года назад
true!!!!!! my friend asked me a few days ago why i was so chippy(???) dk what it means but then he explained that i was wearing my boots (and he didn’t point it out but he obv wanted to say something about me wearing a skirt but ok) and i rly didn’t know what to say so i was like... “cos it’s winter” like come on i don’t need to explain my outfit (sorry i made a little rant)
@taniawew
@taniawew 4 года назад
TheLazyGirlLifestyle lol😂
@tenleyhanson1077
@tenleyhanson1077 4 года назад
this is me in the middle of the night wearing makeup and a fancy dress
@ThatOneLadyOverHere
@ThatOneLadyOverHere 3 года назад
Me: starting a new instagram to try to redefine my style that I haven't updated in years Me: liking elements of vastly different styles Also me: "No Instagram, I don't want to be a witch, wear dreadlocks, or be a fancy country girl." Instagram: visible confusion
@theprousteffect9717
@theprousteffect9717 3 года назад
Understanding that your style journey is an ongoing process that is never fully complete, is really key. I have a terrible habit of wanting to curate the "perfect" wardrobe right now and buying a bunch of items all at once. I have since decluttered or don't wear most of what I've purchased over the past few years 😩 Your content is just so positive and inspiring! I wish I had known all of these things when I was young like you, and could have saved myself years of feeling unattractive and uncomfortable in my clothing. But I'm very grateful to have found your channel.
@Sisuchkaaa
@Sisuchkaaa 4 года назад
my style is just: going to the mall with my mom and i end up hating my mom...
@susannalinshalm5638
@susannalinshalm5638 3 года назад
Your're not the only one. The problem is that my friends don't really help, either and I'm not confident enough to buy clothes on my own.
@aetosia6490
@aetosia6490 3 года назад
Why is that such a mood
@ravn_73
@ravn_73 3 года назад
Sameee my mom forces me into dresses and I I littarly only were jeans 👁👄👁
@rskjghdaljf
@rskjghdaljf 3 года назад
Same, she always says I need basic t-shirts. I want to get into Gothic Lolita fashion. If I find a cute blouse or something, she says it looks like old lady clothes T-T
@skiesky6224
@skiesky6224 3 года назад
Damnn i feel you
@soobdragon2962
@soobdragon2962 4 года назад
Step one: look at your wardrobe Me: I have three black T-shirt’s and a pair of jeans, let’s get it
@franny9344
@franny9344 4 года назад
Highkey an underrated comment
@lavellans
@lavellans 4 года назад
I’m laughing so hard xD
@violet-uv8xm
@violet-uv8xm 4 года назад
FUCKING MEEEEE
@sayuriando3379
@sayuriando3379 4 года назад
I have mainly black t-shirts. I have one piece of clothing in 3 different colours which I wear on hot days but I don't like the cleverage so I mainly wear them at home. In my wardrobe is a grey dress that I want to wear more but I don't know how which is still better than the grey-brownish woollen blazer that I got thanks to my mom [and she annoys me with saying that I should wear it more often]. It's warm enough that it only makes sense during cold days but at the same time moving my arm even a tiny bit means exposing my wrist to the cold. Yeah, the next time I go through my closet I cm going to get rid of it
@ulisesescorza3323
@ulisesescorza3323 4 года назад
Oh yessss. I have a lot of plain shirts, and most of them are grey.
@lenalikescats6583
@lenalikescats6583 3 года назад
Everyone : I know my style Me : **Cries in Fat**
@rubymack5782
@rubymack5782 3 года назад
nooo i hope u feel as beautiful as u are soon
@Cam-fv5op
@Cam-fv5op 2 года назад
Not fat, pretty and simply a bit bigger. I know it doesn't help having all this stick figure models and influencers and what not but you're like a normal human being 🙂
@lenalikescats6583
@lenalikescats6583 2 года назад
@@Cam-fv5op Awh ty!
@Cam-fv5op
@Cam-fv5op 2 года назад
@@lenalikescats6583 omg np
@sophiagionis
@sophiagionis 2 года назад
im kinda late but just know that beauty standards are absolute bullshit and the beauty industry is constantly making up "problems" in order for people to buy their "solution" products - nothing can take away from your own beauty and the only opinion that matters is your own :) i hope you're more comfortable with your body now, sending lots of love
@lasutherlin9398
@lasutherlin9398 Год назад
It’s so nice to look at this after a few years and realize I did follow this advice. Thank you so much this really helped me dress in a way that gives me confident in myself
@elliee.232
@elliee.232 4 года назад
"fashion disaster to fashionable disaster" is the transformation we all aspire to
@honeyhive2896
@honeyhive2896 4 года назад
*Picks out a cute shirt I like* Mom: YoU lIkE tHaT?😣 Me: *sigh* I guess not
@vividd1186
@vividd1186 4 года назад
Oh my goodness it's the same with me😞 It's so sad honestly
@rosiefoulston1635
@rosiefoulston1635 4 года назад
Don’t let that stop you!! ❤️
@zakyiaclanton6877
@zakyiaclanton6877 4 года назад
Same I’m like come on uhhh
@angelacooper5681
@angelacooper5681 4 года назад
Ahh yes so true
@renoirrr
@renoirrr 4 года назад
Why are parents still stuck in the past?
@runway5338
@runway5338 3 года назад
Thank you so much for mentioning how most of us have an eclectic style when we’re first trying to figure out what types of aesthetics we love and reflect our most authentic selves. I personally love vintage, minimalism, dark & light academia, and also a basic outfit consisting of a crop top and high waisted bottoms. I’m definitely figuring out how to wind them in together that is uniquely me. 💕
@vvtaecute8770
@vvtaecute8770 3 года назад
I have been loving Korean fashion lately but I’m to nervous how to tell my mom about it since I have always been the introverted person I am. And especially when your mom is a Filipina, permente panganchaw. btw, I am just 12 years old
@Hi-bh8uv
@Hi-bh8uv 2 года назад
Just show your mom a photo of someone wearing clothes you like and see if she thinks ur look good maybe
@user-kl6cw5er7t
@user-kl6cw5er7t 2 года назад
Same!!! (I'm 18 now) and seeing pretty Korean style dresses made me want to try wearing them. But when I show them to my mom, she will 100% confirm say "I thought you said you HATED dresses (incorrect - i dislike off shoulder and low waisted dresses)
@ozge8262
@ozge8262 2 года назад
try to talk to her about it from a point of view she'd understand. btw i'm sure the clothes you buy wont fit you in a couple years so don't buy a whole new wardrobe right now, just go with a couple pieces instead because you'll have to redo it once you grow up. good luck!!
@Whxmsa
@Whxmsa 4 года назад
“why are you so dressed up?” im not. i just don’t feel like wearing pants :/
@theunicorn1167
@theunicorn1167 4 года назад
Fun Fact: If you don‘t have enough motivation and are in a bad mood so you don‘t want to search two pieces of clothing, wear a dress, people will think you‘re dressed up even tho you were just too lazy to match two things.
@emmarose9997
@emmarose9997 4 года назад
i hear this all the time i wear a wrap dress denim jacket and converse most day i wear a girly casual thing everyday my friends think i dress up too much
@sydneysonnleitner2680
@sydneysonnleitner2680 4 года назад
that hits lmao
@paprika8334
@paprika8334 4 года назад
EXACTLY! I love dresses because I don’t have to wear pants and it’s SO comfy
@leja9380
@leja9380 4 года назад
@@emmarose9997 lmao ikr it's insane
@klc2834
@klc2834 4 года назад
So like, referring to step one, what if I hate all the clothes I own?
@-t9214
@-t9214 4 года назад
KLC 28 me
@hium8716
@hium8716 4 года назад
Same. All of them are like Walmart and target kid clothes because there cheap . Crap didn't think this comment would blow up but also all I basic own is a couple good shirt , shorts, and jeans and I'm still stuck with my cat clothing from last year lol
@adriananoriega
@adriananoriega 4 года назад
BRO same. I have one pair of shorts I like
@jaycrawford752
@jaycrawford752 4 года назад
Same
@casevids818
@casevids818 4 года назад
Same. I’m here to fix my style because the only thing I wear is a t-shirt and shorts
@aflowercloud
@aflowercloud 3 года назад
The second waves starting here and I am going on my second marathon of all of Ashley's videos and I am so freaking proud that my teenage self discovered her cause I am rewatching all of these videos and realising wWOW!!
@AshlynnHerondale
@AshlynnHerondale 3 года назад
this video is so helpful and i love how she talks about finding the confidence to actually fit your style 🥺
@juneritter31
@juneritter31 4 года назад
“You shouldn’t have to change for your clothes” wow that hit hard
@juneritter31
@juneritter31 4 года назад
Marielle makes senseee
@kelseybradbury1241
@kelseybradbury1241 4 года назад
suddenly i don’t speak english
@m.kjordan5449
@m.kjordan5449 4 года назад
Ur pfp-💀😂
@laragrove75
@laragrove75 4 года назад
*me having lost 10 out of the 20 pounds i need to fit into my new wardrobe* : 👁️👄👁️
@negg7046
@negg7046 4 года назад
*cough* brAndy
@Janelou42
@Janelou42 3 года назад
There is a style I like, but that style doesn't like me.
@sara-vf5xz
@sara-vf5xz 3 года назад
I felt this 😔 I really like a couple styles but they don’t work with my skin color, height, or build
@nuriam.1598
@nuriam.1598 3 года назад
@@sara-vf5xz same. I like korean fashion, and a bit of cottagecore but I'm not a tall skinny girl :/
@ThatOneLadyOverHere
@ThatOneLadyOverHere 3 года назад
@@sara-vf5xz the skin color thing is just a matter of adjusting the colors slightly so that they match your skin color. Do you have warm or cool skin? If you don't know what I'm talking about then look it up, there's plenty of resources for helping you understand it and figure it out. Took me a while, but I have warm skin color and I love purple, but the purple that is typically sold is too blue and washes me out, eventually I realized that when purple is more red looks amazing on me. Just small adjustments to any color and you can make it work.
@bbeach5675
@bbeach5675 3 года назад
Everyone should love their own style or maybe u don't have any style but that doesn't mean you are guilty or boring type person .....It simply means "just stand on your feet and buy all clothes that you love and wear it even though it doesn't look good on you..bt still wear it"and and and specially if you love western clothes bt cannot wear it ..then it's ok ....bc hiding our body is wayy better than showing off body!
@82urvimande81
@82urvimande81 3 года назад
I feel you I'm fat so nothing really looks good on me (especially in my eyes)😂
@shannongabriella
@shannongabriella 3 года назад
dressing up and looking stylish and good is so fun!! it gives me an enormous amount of happiness and confidence that not a lot of people in my life can “give”, especially during this quarantine period :))
@vcmickey
@vcmickey 3 года назад
watching this again in 2021... love you so much Ashley!! thank you for being so sincere and encouraging and vulnerable. you made a difference in the way I view fashion :)
@thegallantgangster577
@thegallantgangster577 4 года назад
"what's your style?" *sweaters* "what do you wear?" *sweaters* "what's the fit?" *sweaters* "what colour palette?" *sWeAtEr-CoLoUr!*
@helenaravens6812
@helenaravens6812 4 года назад
The Gallant Gangster I did NOT ask to be called out like this
@coolperson4418
@coolperson4418 4 года назад
Mee
@AlciesWorld
@AlciesWorld 4 года назад
This is so funny 😂 😂😂😂
@hariniobla422
@hariniobla422 4 года назад
Sweaters have styles too! Turtleneck? Cowl neck? Mock neck? Tight? Loose? Drop shoulder? Long? Short? Crop?
@thegallantgangster577
@thegallantgangster577 4 года назад
AllyHiran 1215 gah i don't know these things! teach me 😂
@mielynotcyrus
@mielynotcyrus 3 года назад
*"Does it reflects your personality"* Me: Which one?
@carmelinatown
@carmelinatown 3 года назад
HAHA
@A.n.a.s.t.a.s.i.a.
@A.n.a.s.t.a.s.i.a. 3 года назад
Relatable
@ior1379
@ior1379 3 года назад
As a Gemini, yes
@AabhaDeshpandeaod
@AabhaDeshpandeaod 3 года назад
the louis Tomlinson profile photo, I see taste
@yeseniab6219
@yeseniab6219 3 года назад
@@ior1379 literally!
@littlemaniacinmyhead
@littlemaniacinmyhead 7 месяцев назад
The one and only helpful video about style on youtube! I keep coming back, rewatching it every so often ecpecially when I feel lost in my own style. Much love to you girly!
@uNL4m3nt3d
@uNL4m3nt3d Год назад
Thank you so much for this video. I've always felt worthless and think that I never deserve to live the best life because I am ugly. Your video literally saved my life.
@RosyPosyGirl
@RosyPosyGirl 4 года назад
Damn Ashley, stop improving my life so much. I might end up an actual person instead of a potato
@jadyn.nicole6336
@jadyn.nicole6336 4 года назад
I felt that
@beatriztandrea
@beatriztandrea 4 года назад
Damn I really felt that
@LaLaChole8714
@LaLaChole8714 4 года назад
Yes😂👏🏼
@saana5422
@saana5422 4 года назад
when you said 🥔, I felt that🥺
@veisnthere9
@veisnthere9 4 года назад
So true 👏
@softmongreal2522
@softmongreal2522 4 года назад
Ashley should start a podcast. I swear she's such a good motivational speaker and a smart ass person I wish to hang out with. Her cool style & understanding of things just calms me down because finally, I'm not the only one struggling here, even Ashley who's a famous girl with a wonderful fashion sense is still struggling sometimes. WE NEED ASHLEY TO MAKE PODCASTS. LIKE HARDER SO ASHLEY CAN SEE AND NOTICE OUR PLEA!! PODCASTS!!!
@hamnahfareed931
@hamnahfareed931 4 года назад
Yup, u stole my words.
@Julia-ws9pq
@Julia-ws9pq 4 года назад
Omg yesss
@cath5137
@cath5137 4 года назад
i would 100% listen to her in the morning while i’m getting ready lol💖
@hamnahfareed931
@hamnahfareed931 4 года назад
@@cath5137 sameeeee
@AllisonLee0110
@AllisonLee0110 4 года назад
Oh my God yes, she can talk about so many things and her voice ugh I can just listen for hours!!
@brittanystorey9460
@brittanystorey9460 Год назад
Something I wanted to say about the clashing styles is that I have separate looks for categories of life! for example, my work wardrobe is classic with a bit of an edge, my casual grocery store/hiking outfits have a slight edge but are a bit more sleek and practical, and my going out clothes for literally everything else in my life is ethereal/edgy, natural because the fabrics are more chiffons and silks vs cotton synthetic blends for outdoor. All of the colours go together so I can mix and match styles.
@sushidashi6152
@sushidashi6152 2 года назад
I used to watch your videos in awe, like, I could never be that fashionable or confident. I'm 21 now and I can't believe that I'm finally finding my own style and curating my closet with the help of your videos.
@yumi_9727
@yumi_9727 4 года назад
I actually have great style, i just don’t have the money to prove it edit: wow thanks for all the likes& replies they actually helped:)
@oluwatosinakinsika2493
@oluwatosinakinsika2493 4 года назад
I totally feel you on this one
@guttergrl4982
@guttergrl4982 4 года назад
Shoptagr gives you sales on specific items for free, sell old clothes and replace them. But from depop or from thrift stores. Quality over quantity will Help you save in long term and get money back if you sell them. There’s a lotta options.
@amalieellenkmpegudbrand4288
@amalieellenkmpegudbrand4288 4 года назад
Just thrift:)
@haleybain8915
@haleybain8915 4 года назад
Overtime you can slowly get a few pieces from a thrift store. I don’t have much money but I’ve slowly built a nice wardrobe for cheap
@agonernow
@agonernow 4 года назад
Never related to anything on such a high level😐 jesus christ, i need moneyyy😣😂
@muripu206
@muripu206 3 года назад
“step 1: assess your wardrobe.” me: *looks at 2 shirts and 1 pair of jeans that i own*
@aachal9852
@aachal9852 3 года назад
Lmao
@francescakyanda9182
@francescakyanda9182 3 года назад
*looks at collection of Star Wars shirts*
@katelyn2876
@katelyn2876 3 года назад
i don't even have jeans asgklsjdf
@luisacoms6532
@luisacoms6532 3 года назад
omg thats me lol
@cleetus_
@cleetus_ 3 года назад
*looks at cute tops that are too small, too big, or that i dont have the confidence to wear and settles on a oversized hoodie from six months ago*
@thejazzpianist25
@thejazzpianist25 2 года назад
I love how you say it takes time and you have to be patient and that you're not just born with perfect fashion this is so helpful
@lifeisgood9889
@lifeisgood9889 Год назад
Hey, Ashley, you’ve been a major inspiration for me in finding my sense of style. And I definitely agree that confidence takes time. I personally think of confidence as a skill, one you have to practice to get better at. These days, I wear a superhero cape to class, because it’s fun. And it makes me very happy. I’m glad I got to see this video, because it was very helpful
@yuhh111
@yuhh111 3 года назад
Who else can’t choose between soft girl and street wear lmao
@Messiah036
@Messiah036 3 года назад
If it’s what you like, then you do both figure out how you feel that day.
@contactmyheart3296
@contactmyheart3296 3 года назад
i wanna be a soft girl but i’m not skinny 😔
@carolinesnderskovpedersen2730
@carolinesnderskovpedersen2730 3 года назад
jins noodles you don’t need to be skinny to have a certain style! Love yourself you’re beautiful❤️
@saplingboss8248
@saplingboss8248 3 года назад
Omg yes😑
@charlotte8659
@charlotte8659 3 года назад
I can’t choose between dark academia and vintage
@sangeetha6979
@sangeetha6979 4 года назад
*me* : likes vintage clothing *every single person I know* : yOU DrEsS likE A grAndMa well atleast I'm trying karen
@joanagutierrez7082
@joanagutierrez7082 4 года назад
Sangeetha at least not like your grandma, karen
@arson8265
@arson8265 4 года назад
Sis you already one
@arson8265
@arson8265 4 года назад
@karen
@zahrasultan6460
@zahrasultan6460 4 года назад
I call it "grandma chic"
@evelyn-bz7hv
@evelyn-bz7hv 4 года назад
Joana Gutierrez well yeah, she’s not going to dress like a gHoSt
@soyadise6235
@soyadise6235 3 года назад
Me: *found my style Wallet: yep, dreaming is absolutely free.
@Cool-jt1br
@Cool-jt1br 3 года назад
You are really gentle and chill
@rosesndthorns
@rosesndthorns 4 года назад
Me: wants to buy that thing that really fits my style and calls my heart. Thing: is $300 Me: *blinks* Edit: wow glad I’m not alone 😭
@jenniferbordignon954
@jenniferbordignon954 4 года назад
Elsa thrift shops!!!
@jenniferbordignon954
@jenniferbordignon954 4 года назад
Elsa oh and also depop!
@jksbananamilk
@jksbananamilk 4 года назад
Jennifer Bordignon I can never find anything good in thrift shops 😩
@Celestialperils
@Celestialperils 4 года назад
Go to multiple thrift shops! Consignment!
@jessicakay3695
@jessicakay3695 4 года назад
Try stores like Ross, TJMax, Winners, and outlets like Dillard’s Clearance Outlet (you can get high quality name brands for cheap prices) hope that helps 💕
@sally-annehunt8820
@sally-annehunt8820 4 года назад
I can just imagine Ashley dragging in all those houseplants from around her house just to have them in the frame and you know what...? Me too Ashley. Me too.
@bestdressed
@bestdressed 4 года назад
the tragic part is that i own so many plants that i didn't even have to move any into frame.. those are just the usual plants that hang out in my mirror corner
@sally-annehunt8820
@sally-annehunt8820 4 года назад
@@bestdressed Hahaha I hope one day I own so many plants that I end up having 4 in the same corner
@cebulsoon8232
@cebulsoon8232 4 года назад
relatable. cuz we care in this house. WE CARE
@aastha8034
@aastha8034 2 года назад
I really love how Ashley just increases our confidence by her amazing personality. Most of the times, we are all surrounded by people who either judge us for our style or are more stylish than us which makes us insecure as hell! I accidentally stumbled upon Ashley's channel a few days back and I am OBSESSED! She's natural, friendly and just amazing. I feel my fashion improving already. Thanks a lot Ashley!
@karinasoch612
@karinasoch612 3 года назад
I love how she's so confident and funny talking about something that really passionate her
@oliviacoe7297
@oliviacoe7297 4 года назад
bestdressed: "Is this clothing something that suits my personality?" me: "searches how to find out what your personality is video"
@PS-bn6st
@PS-bn6st 4 года назад
There's videos and niche pictures about outfits for your zodiac, Meyers briggs, ennegram, fandom, Harry Potter house, etc
@greta5835
@greta5835 3 года назад
HAHAHAHA SAMMMMMEEE!😂
@anoushka2946
@anoushka2946 3 года назад
Sameeee ! 😂
@AnjaliBakhru
@AnjaliBakhru 3 года назад
@@PS-bn6st the way i've done all of those things because i'm in a permanent identity crisis 😂
@PS-bn6st
@PS-bn6st 3 года назад
@@AnjaliBakhru omg same 😂
@nithiyaakarunakaran8319
@nithiyaakarunakaran8319 4 года назад
I WANT A 3-HOUR VIDEO ON YOUR ENTIRE CLOSET PLEASE AND THANK YOU
@cheruwong2075
@cheruwong2075 4 года назад
Nithiyaa Karunakaran same
@diywithparnika689
@diywithparnika689 4 года назад
She made a video with everything in her closet already! :)
@nithiyaakarunakaran8319
@nithiyaakarunakaran8319 4 года назад
DIYwithParnika haha yeah i know but wasn’t that like 7 months ago, and knowing ashley and her thrift-addiction she must’ve gotten something new - also i want three hours not 7 minutes, haha :)
@ratking6668
@ratking6668 4 года назад
Yess
@alexmacnab-stark8593
@alexmacnab-stark8593 4 года назад
DIYwithParnika I went through that video on the slowest speed to look at all those clothes 😂
@harharharlee9308
@harharharlee9308 2 года назад
You can really hear the passion in your voice
@sarasicus
@sarasicus 3 года назад
Genuinely thank you so much for this. I've spent so much time buying random thrifted clothes that I just kind of like. This really helped me think about what I really like wearing and it helped find my personal style. I ended up clearing out 75% of my wardrobe, selling and donating it all, and then buying clothes I actually would wear and love. You probably won't see this but thank you Ashley!
@dodo-sr8jp
@dodo-sr8jp 4 года назад
Ashley is only RU-vidr who gives tips that I actually follow because they're actually useful and researched. This is quality content.
@lilpoppy1328
@lilpoppy1328 4 года назад
True😬
@ibenengberg6713
@ibenengberg6713 4 года назад
try watching some of AlexandrasGirlyTalk's videos, I love ashley as well, but if you are looking for more with real tips, try her :))
@furrylego643
@furrylego643 4 года назад
ru-vid.com/show-UCU8ssMY0rZQtCgWVwQNpmUA
@TheMsPants
@TheMsPants 4 года назад
I just just thinking 'this girl is very clever and I would actually follow her advice !'
@artisticsoulless
@artisticsoulless 4 года назад
me: putting together a dope outfit for school also me: realizing it is way to extra and that i cant pull it off because who do i think i am
@memequeen5026
@memequeen5026 4 года назад
a big fat MOOD
@ellagibbons1416
@ellagibbons1416 4 года назад
exactly
@coainc
@coainc 4 года назад
ok i’m gonna be cheesy and say that i’m 100% sure you can, it’s all about confidence. go wear whatever you want and just know that you rock it
@hamnahfareed931
@hamnahfareed931 4 года назад
SAME.
@goyangeden9891
@goyangeden9891 4 года назад
hey wear it ! you're you that's all you need to be to wear an extra outfit !
@yaseenpeeraullee9779
@yaseenpeeraullee9779 3 месяца назад
I love how the advise really works for everyone.
@patricia27968
@patricia27968 3 года назад
Love the discussion about being confident
@femmefa7ale
@femmefa7ale 4 года назад
I get the "oh you dressed up today" or the "who are you dressing up for" question from my mum all the time and it makes me feel like crap honestly. Like why can I not dress nice sometimes? What's the issue with it? Stfu
@littlesmile43
@littlesmile43 4 года назад
I found a solution for that : I dressed up everyday to school. Like literally everyday. It officially became my style,being dressed up with dresses, heels, blazers, etc. And then, people became used to me experimenting with my style and my clothing. Granted, it's quite a lot of effort but lemme tell you, it's so cool to have someone come to you and say "I saw this pink jacket and I immediately thought of you because this shade of pink is YOUR shade"
@Demi.d3mi
@Demi.d3mi 4 года назад
Especially if u wear a skirt or dress, anything directly feminine when every other woman in your fam wears guy clothes or pajamas🙃
@adeleisnamedafterme
@adeleisnamedafterme 4 года назад
Be respectful to your mum
@fernanda9934
@fernanda9934 4 года назад
same, why can’t I just dress up to make MYSELF feel nice and it doesn’t always have to be for a guy or im trying to impress someone. i live in a mexican house hold lmao and when I try dressing nice my parents always say “a donde tan peinada” lmao💀
@larissaleigh4488
@larissaleigh4488 4 года назад
There is literally no problem with someone being curios as to why you are dressing up especially if you usually don't. And its stupid that that makes you feel like crap because its just a simple question, and no one ever said you cant dress nice sometimes
@LiliLala1991
@LiliLala1991 4 года назад
this video is quite 1. informative 2. clear 3. motivating 4. inspiring !
@taniawew
@taniawew 4 года назад
Диана Ганеева ikr
@eliechch5324
@eliechch5324 4 года назад
And aesthetically pleasing
@PreeyaSharma
@PreeyaSharma 4 года назад
I read this in her voice lol
@janiebb98
@janiebb98 4 года назад
and well-edited!
@nesrinedekkiche6490
@nesrinedekkiche6490 4 года назад
-wholesome
@rebeccaribnick4119
@rebeccaribnick4119 3 года назад
This was awesome! Loved the practical tips and the talk about the real feelings of vulnerability and confidence that go with it. Thanks girl!
@alicetsui7108
@alicetsui7108 3 года назад
Wow this was such a helpful video. Thank you for breaking it down in a way that doesn’t shame people for not knowing wtf they’re doing!!! I’ve been wanting to upgrade my wardrobe for a while now and only recently realized I just...don’t have a cohesive style. My style is food shirts and shorts lol. It’s fun and I love some of the things I have but I’m also outgrowing my wardrobe and I just want to feel more put together for myself, and MINIMIZE my closet too. I’ve felt so at a loss for where to start because I don’t think I naturally have an eye for fashion. This video was awesome. Thank you. ❤️
@mikazvis6231
@mikazvis6231 4 года назад
me: *goes to men’s section* mom: Are you lesbian? Why do you like this? *proceeds to lecture* me: ...i just really like men’s sweaters?
@mushroompoet
@mushroompoet 4 года назад
Omg yeah like i want actual pockets leave me alone
@destroyer6945
@destroyer6945 4 года назад
I occasionally go to the men's section and I'm bi, soooo....
@chimmyeatingkookies8419
@chimmyeatingkookies8419 4 года назад
Im the same! I love mens jumpers and people always question it. Theyre nice, compfy, oversized, etc. mens clothing (jumpers and tops especially) are so comfortable!
@lonelyghost1851
@lonelyghost1851 4 года назад
same omg
@kalenakien8036
@kalenakien8036 4 года назад
omg same. sometimes i buy boy’s jeans/men’s jeans because the legs fit me better ;(
@mer4738
@mer4738 4 года назад
When I put together a nice outfit that really makes me feel comfortable and "100% my style" i take a pic of the whole look and save it to an outfit album on my phone gallery, when i don't know what to wear i just check these outfits and mix the pieces then come up with a few new ones! maybe this advice could help someone
@isabellap9703
@isabellap9703 4 года назад
Mer Vargas omg!! i do that too and it’s so helpful
@zoereid782
@zoereid782 4 года назад
That’s so SMART
@Marie02605
@Marie02605 4 года назад
Ooo I love this tip
@jello8867
@jello8867 4 года назад
Fricken genius
@duckcylinder9903
@duckcylinder9903 4 года назад
i do that! its very helpful
@ariskremcallac6720
@ariskremcallac6720 3 года назад
I can totally relate to the "there's no one close to me that I feel appreciates my fashion style" and it's so hard to change your style cause I feel like it not something that I should do cause it's different from how people see me.
@caitlinsampson6390
@caitlinsampson6390 3 года назад
Thank you so much for this. Being 13 and trying to find what my style is and what person I am this really helped. 😊
@nosir0174
@nosir0174 4 года назад
me, in corona lockdown: oh! this'll pass the time!! her: track what you wear every day and it'll show your style me in pj's because i have no reason to get dressed: oh.
@thechattycavy1551
@thechattycavy1551 4 года назад
Stella Saridis lol same
@mea5989
@mea5989 4 года назад
So totally only do this if you want to, but if you have work to do during this quarantine like, maybe working from home or going to school, getting dressed will actually make you more productive. This is called embodied cognition (well, this is a subset of embodied cognition called enclothed cognition, but same diff) and it's really helped me do my school work :)
@floorberendsen3567
@floorberendsen3567 4 года назад
Ha I get dressed every day to at least try to be productive but it ends up being the same two outfits in rotation
@thechattycavy1551
@thechattycavy1551 4 года назад
Mea I get dressed but it’s mainly lounge wear that I get dressed in now
@PS-bn6st
@PS-bn6st 4 года назад
Mood
@sarahbear2928
@sarahbear2928 4 года назад
I remember wearing dresses my freshman year and everyone would be like 'oh what's the occasion'. I would say 'there isn't one, I just wanted to show my cankles ok'. Lol
@geengengena
@geengengena 4 года назад
Sarah bear same experience! "Are you going on a date?" uhhhh no
@dianneperico
@dianneperico 4 года назад
All the damn time I get this comment in school. We only have one day to wear our preferred outfits since we have school uniforms, I wear plain longsleeves, croptops and other super casual for me and still some just can't let me be 😌😂
@zahara1115
@zahara1115 4 года назад
I’m a very confusing person and often I’ll go from a hoodie and sweatpants one day to a dress and stilettos another 😂
@emijune2171
@emijune2171 4 года назад
Same, a lot of my friends had this happen to them. We're just on another level 😉
@monsta6144
@monsta6144 4 года назад
I used to have a thing for blazers & shirts so when I was walking in hoodie filled corridors at school, ppl mistook me for a teacher all the time. (shirts I still love so much I will be buried in one so crisp you could cut someone with it and so bright it'll temporarily blind you if you look directly at it lol)
@darelive2887
@darelive2887 2 года назад
Thank you so much i started the video while i was feeling very bad about my appearance and felt like a piece of ugly shit literally but your words gave me hope and i felt normal for feeling this way. Thank you again & i am going to start my journey in fashion from now on
@savannahsawyer5778
@savannahsawyer5778 2 года назад
This was so well said and I thank you very much because you just described everything I’ve been trying to put together about my style or lack there of for the moment.
@samantanicoleruiz9181
@samantanicoleruiz9181 4 года назад
Honestly Ashley should start a podcast, I could hear her talk for the rest of my life with no problem
@ysa2117
@ysa2117 4 года назад
pls start a podcast ashley uwu
@marnie-vlog
@marnie-vlog 4 года назад
same hereee, hope she does!!
@ali-zd7ww
@ali-zd7ww 4 года назад
can this pls happen 😔
@mrs.nobody739
@mrs.nobody739 4 года назад
Yaaaaaaaaaas
@KristiAna884
@KristiAna884 4 года назад
Omg yes
@elficity-2737
@elficity-2737 4 года назад
Okay, but when my mother takes me shopping, she needs to know the difference between taking your time to shop, and literally just spending forever trying to convince me to buy something I don’t wanT
@anuroigas942
@anuroigas942 3 года назад
I had the same problem but i get around it with saying:"you will just throw away money on something that i will never wear" maybe that will help you
@TyTy-gr4lt
@TyTy-gr4lt 3 года назад
YESS OMG
@hannahslager6674
@hannahslager6674 3 года назад
my mom used to do that and i would just never wear it and she eventually stopped
@fuwa1276
@fuwa1276 3 года назад
Or stay in one section of the store for over an hour deciding to buy jeans#1 or jeans#2 -.-
@leeyaa457
@leeyaa457 3 года назад
Mom used to do that too & I decided to stop wearing them & not buying clothes... Then she stopped but eventually my mom choice of choosing my clothes got better.. I was kinda surprised lol
@dan-tz9dl
@dan-tz9dl 2 года назад
i only recently started to put effort in the way i present myself, and i found that small steps help a lot. i remember the first time i was wearing a jean jacket at school instead of some random hoodie and i was so nervous (for no reason at all??). then a girl in my class complimented my jacket (idk if she was being genuine or not) and i got a huge confidence boost
@lefty_lck
@lefty_lck 3 года назад
Thank you so much for this bubble of positivity ❤️
@kaylasanchez1228
@kaylasanchez1228 4 года назад
*me having 2 tee shirts "Ah yes, time to assess"
@rat7465
@rat7465 4 года назад
Lmao me
@eden-.-3483
@eden-.-3483 4 года назад
The only reason I'm here is because my mom told me I need more clothes. But I'm not sure what my style is yet so I just get some stuff and kinda forget I need clothes.
@honeyheaven482
@honeyheaven482 4 года назад
{ kaylapitter } I felt that 😔
@lauraduca125
@lauraduca125 4 года назад
I feel attacked
@ari-xn5dr
@ari-xn5dr 4 года назад
same i wear the same sweatpants and hoodie every day
@lilyfilms9398
@lilyfilms9398 4 года назад
I always get the "why are you so dressed up" "are you even a student" "who are you trying to impress" it's so annoying, im sorry you're jealous I can we're heels for 6 hours while you don't even know how to wear a simple shirt, Brittany Yo ik it's annoying but ...thanks for all the likes, I've never had so many!
@liete-sl2wg
@liete-sl2wg 4 года назад
You go girl
@maddiecrozat1982
@maddiecrozat1982 4 года назад
Wear*
@elusiverain7923
@elusiverain7923 4 года назад
Woaa ❤️
@bilgegunlu3229
@bilgegunlu3229 4 года назад
That’s actually right
@helenmcadory3573
@helenmcadory3573 4 года назад
Yess go off on Brittanyyyy
@bethany4881
@bethany4881 3 года назад
This video... this video is so helpful to loads of people. Thank you so much you have became my favourite RU-vidr in a matter of days!
3 года назад
The Jimmy Fallon vs Lady Gaga part is actually so important and I feel special
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