How to Flirt For Beginners (9 Flirting Tips) 

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Confidently being flirty? I find nervous flirting even more adorable because it shows that you don't do it with just anyone.

0:44 Non verbal behaviour. 1:15 Intelligence. 1:28 A gentle approach. 1:45 Cheerfulness. 2:06 Romantic intentions. 2:28 Courage and determination when flirting. 2:48 Something in common. 3:12 Good looks. 3:32 A mysterious allure.

Wanna add something to the "something in common" point. You don't have to have the same opinion and can even have opposite opinions if you still show interest in your partners opinion. I dated a girl who was scared of big dogs and was more of a cat person. I understand why she didn't like big dogs and even though I'm not against cats I told her I have a mild cat allergy so I could never own one. But I can go to a friend's house even if they have a cat. After we started dating I told her I'd like to try and show her the even the biggest dogs can be big teddy bears. We're no longer together but we still see each other occasionally. I'm a dog walker and go visit her and her calico and walk her 110lbs Rottweiler. We might not be a couple anymore but because of the respect we had for each other's differences in opinion we were able to go beyond them

Me: flirts with everyone jokingly Also me: can’t even go near my crush

I got rejected.

Hey YOU, incredible person reading this...The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! - Love, Nat ❤️

Flirting feels like the most dangerous form of social interaction especially for the people that aren't socially adept. Like One missed word and they hate you

The most funny thing about this channel is that it helps me refresh and apply the best practices of the interpersonal communication and be the better version of myself. Thanks!!

1. Nonverbal behaviour (Eye contact, genuine smile, hygiene, scent) 2. Intelligence (Joke, show education) 3. Gentle approach 4. Cheerfulness 5. Romantic intentions (Show how romantic i can be. A hint of romance) 6. Courage and confidence when flirting 7. Something in common (Find something in common) 8. Good looks 9. A mysterious allure (Don’t reveal everything)

how to flirt for beginners! (9 flirting tips) 1. nonverbal behavior 0:44 2. intelligence 1:15 3. a gentle approach 1:28 4. cheerfulness 1:46 5. romantic intentions 2:05 6. courage and determination when flirting 2:25 7. something in common 2:46 8. good looks 3:11 9. a mysterious allure 3:31

We met each other on a learning language app. When we had our first conversation through the phone, I had a crush on him. But he's so popular on that app that he seems to ignore me. I feel so sad about that, because I can see that he's a good hearted person and I really want to go further with him. We still keep talking but I can never be with him. That tears my heart apart. :(

complementing the last tip. Make the person talk as much about themselves as possible, and you, talk about yourself as little as possible, talk about yourself when asked or when you don't see another option, but always try to make them talk more about themselves, while people like you Talking, especially about yourself, a person who likes to listen, stands out.

JUST WHEN I NEEDED THIS

My attempts to flirt: “You have nice hair” “I couldn’t help but notice you have a cool jacket” “So…..you come here often?” “Jokes” *mission failed*

I'm a grade nine student but I just said to my crush that I like and I waited 5 years and she said she likes me too I show her care every day make her happy and support her when she's feeling down

Flirting tips: •nonverbal behavior eye contact, genuinely smile, good hygiene, good scene •intelligent •gentle approach respectful/mature •cheerful •romantic scent •confidence •find things to talk about both like • a mysterious allure, be honest, gentle but dont tell them everything about you •

2:56 I noticed the album cover right away! I have a huge soft spot for day6, so I had to take the album out to make sure I was right lol

This channel is a blessing.

The mystery thing really works. I personally suck at flirting but my looks and mystery keep women interested. Its best to just be as authentic as you can be instead of be something you're not. If you're weird you'll probably find someone who likes your weirdness; you'd be surprised.

This is actually useful. There are so many pickup artist nonsense going around.

I've always been the nervous guy in our relationship, but my girlfriend thinks it's actually cuter than if I get flustered at a flirty comment she makes. I love her so much.

I find myself a great flirt, and even often choose wisely who to flirt with.

i have been doing all this for like two years now and ive been told by many people that i am quite attractive. im very open and versatile, i listen and dont judge, i am open to dating and hanging out, yet i still cant get a girlfriend.

Never flirted, never wanted to. Always been too afraid of being taken wrong and accused of sexual harassment and going to jail. That was only made worse by the last girl I talked to accusing me of stalking her and doing everything she was actually doing to me. Now my PTSD has made it so I will never talk to another girl again.

Sorry I came here to watch because someone from Twitter tweeted about the reference of Day6 kband. Yes, I saw it at 2:50 - 2:55. Thank you for this content.

Level impossible: How to flirt as an introvert

My in-person flirting/romance skills certainly leave a lot to be desired, as the only relationships I've had after some flings in high school have been long distance...like very long distance lol. Starting with no experience but wanting to get out there, meet someone amazing, and potentially even find a lifelong romantic companion is proving to be a challenge for me.

This video has helped my autistic ass realise why people often mistake my being friendly with flirting haha thank you! I will actually use this to help myself avoid things that are interpreted as flirting 😂

I feel the Charlie Brown music and squiggly, nervous smiles in the animation just emphasized how bad at flirting I am. 😅

Thank you for sharing these tips. Finding the courage to speak to someone you like is one way of living full out

I've never flirted or been flirted with, but this might help me take the first move on my next crush!! Thx Psych2Go!!

I used to think flirting took insane courage or skill but this all seems actually possible! Thanks guys

I don't know how I feel about watching this, either I'm lonely, curious, or bored, but no matter what, thanks for the tips

Can you do a video about bipolar or ocd next? Thanks for taking your time to read this!❤

I have no idea how to discern what flirting looks like but I have unintentionally done most of these things in general with people

1:48 well that's the problem, she's looking for a partner and it ain't me

I know people have a lot of trouble with talking to their crushes… for some reason, I usually develop feelings for someone in the same friend group as me, which makes it slightly easier to talk and a lot less nerve-wrecking… a downside is the fact they’re a friend and might see you as just a friend because of it. I do feel like this may help me in the future, but for now… I already have someone

You know the video is good when it's 4:20 minutes.

For me. I’m just taking time to realize I finally think I’m ready to start dating. Im 18 and felt like I never knew who I was and since coming to college I let myself be free of social graces as I had done on certain trips before. Im finally feeling at home in my own skin and more confident in myself. Before I’ve watched stuff like this because I had a crush or the like, but now with an empty mind I watch these for actual knowledge I haven’t had the ability to have before. I’ve been working on mental-me for so long that I feel ok finally. Im excited for what’s to come. Also, I still don’t know exactly what people mean by flirting.. I’ve never gone out with anyone as previously stated and I don’t know what exactly flirting is. I’m sure I’ve done it, I just don’t know what it is besides “letting someone know you’re into them in different ways”

This is super helpful for people who arnt very good at flirting, surprisingly I’ve always had a flirty personality and sometimes it’s a curse lol. Anyways for anyone reading this, you got this, trust me you will find love fore sure:)

I've never flirted with anyone and don't want to in case i come across as weird, but.. i might use this on one of my crushes :) s o m e d a y

Anyone else noticed DAY6's album "Negentropy" during the part about finding common/similar interests?? I literally screamed when I saw it! One more reason to love this channel and these videos! 🥰

me watching this knowing damn well I ain't gonna pull no girls

3:18 is that a shiny😂😂 some random pokemon go player😂

you know you've hit rock bottom when you start looking these videos up on purpose

Time for a refresher course. It's been a while..

No joke, my crush sent me a message on discord while i was watching this video, and she asked me what i was doing, without thinking i just sent her this video and said that i was just watching this video. Its been 3 months since i last spoke to her now.

Love these, short sweet and to the point. Music is a good choice.

I used to like flirting when I was 10 and I still kinda do. But I don’t flirt because I’m kinda a tomboy, and tomboys don’t flirt. Then again, I sometimes wonder, do tomboys flirt?

This vid actually helps a quite a bit I suck at flirting cause I come back to thinking about how I look and sound then just cringe I do find myself attractive(in good shape, dress in what I find nice) and my voice is kinda deep but I'm 18 and still feel like I look 15. Also feels like a big departure from my cheerful goofy platonic behavior

Little story that happened with my crush: My school bus was broken down and C' mom (C for crush, its also the first letter of his name and N for the other person involved) was picking me and N up, me and C were sitting with a seat gap between us (remember this is just a car) I was next to one window, he was next to the other. We get to Nes house and instead of C just letting N get between us (there was a good amount of room to get there) C scooted over and sat next to me. He has been really friendly lately and given me lots of compliments! :)

At the beginning, you said that the characteristics were in order of importance. Would you mind telling us if the order is ascending or descending? Is the first one or the last one the most important?

i will definitely keep these tips in mind since i was ghosted by one of my friends when i tried to be more than friends and said i was sharing too much about myself

I just like to go up and stare right in their face and then yell "FLIRTING!" at the top of my lungs until they get scared and run away.

i have so much work to do on myself. maybe if i knew who i really am i would be able to compose myself better because i don’t know who to be

Okay, gotta learn now before I pass the calendar dates. May the cosmos help me.

Me realizing I accidentally do most of these

the last time i flirted, I saw this girl sit across form me, she had a a denim hat on that was heavily self decorated, and she was taking out some beads to work with, but i noticed that her hair was suprisingly pretty, and then I felt a strange desire to offer some flirtatious advice. I knew I was flirting, and I wont deny it isnt the first time I used a mere compliment or advice to um flirt with someone. ahem* Any way the words i used though i was pretty cautious and nervous at the time, were. "you know, you really should try not to wear that hat so much and she looked up at me, and I finished with. "because it hides your beautiful hair" She hid her smile and went back to her bead work, and nothing more was said. later I ended up spending alot more time with her. from that point on, and we're still friends to this day, she and her husband got married last year next to a lakeside right in front of the lemur habitat in a zoo of all things. so yeah. heck of a scene. even the monkeys behaved. she and her hubby now have three wondeful cats, one of which has been with her ever since i met her.

2:35 the thing is... where is my confidence?????

pov my dad : 1:41 💀

When you learn a skill you'll never use:

I don't know what I did that now I am literally watching ways to flirt

FINALLY A VIDEO WHERE I CAN IMPROVE MY RIZZ!!!

Pro Tip: In order to be more confident, get more confidence :)

You know it’s bad when you’re so lonely you watch these types of videos 😭

I needed this video 5 years ago.

There are very few peopleni can actually make eye contact with. I usually look at various other background objects when I talk to people. Not sure why but wye contact has always been hard for me. But I've found that eye contact comes naturally when im with my crush

This was the most helpful video in the channel.

2:47 NOT THE DAY6 JSJSJSJABSNW

It's not time to flirt it's time to make gains on the gym Bros 💪🏻

Baru tau chanel ini karena animatornya kak Ira.. aslii salutt, sekeren inii 😍

I’m literally watching this video to try stay single and avoid situations where people think I’m flirting so I’m not sure if I’m in the right place

For 4 years my now boyfriend tried to slight flirt with me. I never got it because I was dum. I would usually just climb random threes and fall or skateboard of a cliff (or other dumb stuff ) in the same stained hoodie and clothes full of cat fur but he still stuck around so I am grateful for that. Also hope this vid helps me to flirt to😅

Love this! Thank you!

As I've got older I've found flirting harder and harder. I think I'm too serious but at the same time I think more women are closed off. Most women I've found I've approached "might" be interested but have poor way of showing it. I can't properly remember the last time a crush asked anything about me. I'm always the one showing the interest.

Just what I needed bruh.

This video has got to be so informative and helpful, even a musician is here

Just to start a discussion, what is the treshold between searching information about a crush and stalking them?

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thank you i know now that i am rizzy and my girlfriend loved this!!!

Mysterious? I got that one covered since I barely talk to anybody 😎

And here i am watching flirting tips where i never talked to her face to face. Its been 7 years since i fell in love with her. Just watching her from far away.😊

For me, I don't really "flirt." But like, as long as I'm in a good mood, I can make most people laugh. And that thing just comes naturally because actually trying to do anything in a conversation makes me worse at what I'm trying to do.

I don’t find flirting charming ngl. I never found the appeal. I thought these things were just called talking lol.

Thanks! This video helped me alot. my uncle touches me now. thanks

I'm a very nervous and awkward person- I don't like to talk much lol. But I've found that most guys I've talked to that have shown interest in me have always come back into my life somehow- some I haven't even dated and just have talked to

Hey You! Yes, you reading this. Showering two times a day definately improve your confidents and mental health. Source is me.

AYEEE 2:56 and the Day6 chaos swallowed up in love album cover😩🐈

Fun fact: when you see your crush you forget all of this

#8 is the only one that matters.

Y'know how I won my crush's heart? I simply said "I like you." Sounds simple, right? I couldn't believe it either. She actually likes me back.

I often find that I have little to talk about on dates and I think that is a problem.

I do think these tips are generally good, but something inside me doesn't feel right about my romantic desires. I think this type of flirting is more focused on what females feels, cause naturally that's what they're looking for in their partner (Intelligence, gentle aproeaches, romantic intentions, good looks, some mystery, etc), but when it comes to men, i feel safe to say that we just don't care about that (most of the time). Don't get me wrong, good looks, cheerfulness and nonverbal behavior is nice, but we're more simple than that. A good physical connection or just presenting to their partner is what we genuinly care about. Unfortunately, not much is talked about it, perhaps because it's a bit taboo or sexist to really accept men instincts.

Your voice calms me and Idk why

Every time a try the "mistery" thing it's always become an "unsolved mistery" case. In my opinioni that type of mechanic it's controversal and if it works is because there's already an interest from the other person beyond the thing about the mistery...

POV: Ur a 12 year old on here

didn't know I already had most of those

omg sneaky little day6 album at 2:57 !!

2:50 The Day6 logo and Negentropy album!! MyDay animator confirmed!!