Let me add to that & be specific. Step 1: Have a demeanor that commands respect. Step 2. Close by being assertive & dominant. Saves you a lot of time.
Yep! You gotta have attractiveness. If you don't have great looks, then you gotta try things with your personality that will help you get there! Your car has a motor that helps it move. Think of the car as your looks. You won't get far with the looks. Personality, your inner beauty, is like the motor. You car, with the motor, are the things that keeps the car cruising along. Same with your looks, and your personality, that will keep the girls coming back for more!
Alex Williams It was only a matter of time before some idiot post something about using money as a tool to attract. Using money to attract says you have low self esteem, that you don't value yourself and think you, yourself, are not good enough or valuable.
*Flirting doesn’t have to be intense; it’s all about making her feel comfortable and at ease. It’s great advice to focus on playful teasing and genuine compliments, instead of forcing the conversation.*
18:31 "Yes, but WHY do you have to do that?" "Because that's the art of flirting." Such a simple, yet powerful statement. That got me rethinking some old ineffective paradigms. It's like Kezia's saying, "See NOW you're flirting [unlike whatever that other thing was.]"
One thing that Kezia never addresses is what if the girl has a boyfriend. And truth is, she probably does. Kezia and other coaches give the impression that all women are available and you just have to have the right game plan, but that is not true at all.
That's my whole point. Most women are NOT available. Especially the attractive ones. But these dating experts make it seem like most women are available.
Just act like she doesn't, that's worked for me several times. Seriously if a girl fancies you enough just saying "I don't care if you don't..." is often enough.
When you find out she has a boyfriend get to know the boyfriend because this couple might know someone they're friends with that's single. So big thing is to have abundance mindset when your interested in a women. But for the nice guys that finish last they're too sensitive to failure, they unfortunately don't have this abundance mindset.
yeah women really can be complicated lol. but she does bring up a lot of good points in this video or at least a few like she brings up things i honestly never really would have thought about lol.
Hi Tripp and Kezie, I like to be a gentleman and open doors for women, I think I am a good singer, do women like to be sung to? I am an Elvis Presley fan too! I like the slow songs that are romantic. I realized that you are describing me. I doubt myself, and when I see a woman I just like how she looks, and if I know her to talk to, it's just as a friend.
Tripp, got a strange question about Kezia's demeanor throughout this video, and how it might apply to other women: To me, she has an apparent back & forth change in facial demeanor, from stern/stoic to radiant joy, especially around the 17:00 through 20:00 timeframe--unlike what I have seen in many other women. The change back & forth seems so drastic, she almost looks like two different women. My question is this: Does her ability to go back & forth, back & forth, between serious and radiant, perhaps have anything to do with being a facial manifestation of the "Integrated" behaviors which Dr. Robert Glover ("No More Mr. Nice Guy") refers to? As I said, I've never quite noticed this "back & forth" in most women (at least not this drastic). Can I expect this from authentic/integrated women I may meet in the future? Or am I just over-thinking this, and this is simply just Kezia's unique personality, and is simply her "concentration face"? Thanks! I hope that makes sense.
I went to one of Kezias bootcamps and one thing I can say is that all of her instructors are the reason to visit her. She does very little and her examples are often not applicable. The instructors will demonstrate for you, and will watch as you apply it etc .. that's where the real value comes!
most of the guys are not in the comfort zone ..please be specify ......like they have ripe mangos availabe out there.....but talking about myself i know how to climb up the tree and pluck good mangos.......and abt beautiful eyes.. i think Kezie had gone thru that experience......talk abt brand......amazing stuff u have all this work out....take it
+TrippAdvice.com hey tripp i was talking to a girl at subway she works there i told her my name she told me hers so when the times right how long shouldi wait till i get her phone number?
Go there a few times. Talk to her whenever you can. Talk about whatever. Make her laugh. Get her name. Keep doing this for a while and when she smiles when she sees you walk in, then go for it.
The problem is that most guys come off too robotic and scripted and it doesn't come across free flowing and natural, so when they can get the hang of it, it will work better.
Thank you. And I paid that price and more for many DVDs on dating advice and self-improvement when I was first learning this stuff. Why? Because I wanted it badly enough. What about you?
Very good collaboration video, only thing is that we do gotta remember that every culture is different this can work in Europe Maybe Asia? Etc, but there are many places that you can get in real trouble or even in a bubble where some woman feel offended, some woman aren’t open minded. I mean this can work more towards social active woman. At least is what i’ved noticed towards woman during this type of flirting situations.
this girl stopped talking to me because she said that i only want to.hangout with her on my time & not on a time that works for both of us. which is what i was trying to do. but she lost patience after two weeks. so not really sure that technique works....
She is just a girl next door. Make up, nice clothes ++ thats takes hours to make. She has something though thats different. She has a very special voice. Remind me of honesty and a person we are supposed to trust. Natural indian woman who has read the best book ever. " Woman who runs with wolves". If i meat her i read it for her. Only 500 pages. If she stay she has whats is needed not to divorce first chance.
The guy who approached a girl in a club wit his 'going down on her'-proposition. What kind of girl would a guy like him take home? Probably the same sort of trash as the guy, so they deserve each other. And remember, all these tricks - because that's what they essentially are - can be useful. But in the end, what a woman finds interesting in a man, is what makes him tick, if he makes something of himself. For this essentiaI part I recommend the videos of Red Pill Coach.
Julio Salas She talks about a really cool pick up line for creating the inception of sex in a girl's mind of a very indirect way. Its really cool The line is saying to a girl: "Hey!!! I just saw a guy walking to a girl he didnt know and told her straight to her face that he wanted to go down on her very very bad and in that precise moment. Can you believe it??? What do you think?
Julio Salas she is saying that you should use the triangle tool and the voice tone tool while you talk about a normal subject that doesn't have anything to do with romance, sex or the chemistry between you, etc. Bottom line, use a distractive subject.
"MuhPatriarchy" for slow catchers-on: The man must attempt to do his best without "triggering" the woman in any way. The woman doesn't need to worry about any of her own reactionary behaviour. She simply does the judging.
ADVICE NEEDED! So there's this girl I really liked in school and I know she felt something for me, but it's been a year since school ended and I haven't seen her since. Although we never fully spoke to each other, there was something there. I need to know, when I see her, what do I do? What do I say, it feels like it would be super awkward and I need advice on what to do?!
Tripp, a question... Barron Cruz mentioned in begining of the year that you two are planing a video in may, a collab video, curious what happened to that?
There are a lot of good dating advice sources here on youtube. But I do find something lacking across the board....not all of us live in decent dating cities like London or New York. I live in an affordable, medium sized college town city. Here I find college girls who on the whole prefer college guys not a bohemian Gen-Xer like me. Then other than that the market gets slimmer.
I actually don't agree with everything Kezia says or implies. She seems to think it's impossible for a guy to get a woman if he is nice. A lot of guys who are "nice" get women. In fact I would say that most guys get women by being "nice." However, most of these guys are probably settling and the woman probably just happens to like the way he looks. The trick is to get her to be attracted on a deeper level. So yes, it probably does work but it's still possible to get a woman without resorting to a lot of the tactics that many expert puas suggest.
My girlfriend invites me over for family dinners. This used to go great, but now all she does is relentlessly talk to her sister about their friends. The last time I was with them I tried talking to her every minute, she would give me a quick reply, then go back to talking to her sister again. What do I do?
Seat in the middle of the table, have a frame of mind (where I am, the party is fukin here). Talk with everybody but her, see how she reacts. You need to be main thing there, you are the reason everybody reacts, you are at the couse, not the effect, be a little selfish, but take it eazy. Talk with everbody, go there with a good/awsome vibe. You do that, by actually ignore everything that i just said, fuck everything. You don't need to do shit. Take it from there. Enjoy yourself.
What you're asking is closely related to how to make a good conversation and how to have a good self-respect. Did you use some open-ended questions? Did your conversations focused on her or yourself? Did your conversations boring? If you have enough self-respect, you'll confront her and say something like, "You invited me to have dinner with your family but you're ignoring me. I don't like that" and so on.
+TrippAdvice.com I always act mean towards girls, but I think my biggest mistake is that I don't flirt....also I try to respect them sexually ...I don't try to get them into bed ......that's what I regret
I allow her to see something about herself she hasn't recognized before without comparing her to another. But it has to be authentic then she will feel auto special an the attraction will move like vios we well connected nonverbally baby sometime with just a simple smile..
Hey Tripp, I want to know what to talk about or what could be "best topics" when am gonna talk to a girl for first time that I am not known to, especially when am less talkative ???
I have better, albeit cliche advice for anyone who watches videos like the ones these two make. 1.) Don't watch videos on dating techniques. 2.) Be yourself, awkward manner, flaws and all. If you die alone, at least you had enough self-respect to stay true to yourself, rather than lining the pockets of idiots like these.
Or........ I can define "respect" differently than you and not die alone? Some guys have low self-esteem and have been told so many negative things, they need a boost, so why not....
Because these people are trying to sell you an impossible dream friend. You don't meet some one special by trying to become some one different, with more 'game'. The people who are worth it are the ones who love you for exactly who you are, not who you want to be.
This is called "learned helplessness". When you come to believe that nothing you try will ever make a difference. This channel is definitely not for you. It's for the action takers and difference makers of this world. Good day.
TrippAdvice.com I personally take action and try to make a difference through science. Not by endorsing, or following, exploitative self-help guides, who's target audience is precisely those with the condition named above. Those who really want to do something with their lives will pursue what truly makes them happy, rather than pseudo-relationships.
People who feel helpless don't seek out advice or self-help guides. They use language like "it's impossible", or "people who are worth it". Because that defeatist attitude is their mindset. They see what they want and call them SOUR GRAPES. This is not my target audience. My guys know what they want, learn how to get it, and put themselves out there to get it. They are reaching out for the grapes they see and want. Not giving up before they even try and calling it impossible.
Doesn't matter how much flirting you do, whether you do it the right way or the wrong way, women are still very selective creatures, and they don't always know what it is they want at that very moment or what attracts them at that very moment, and there is a thousand reasons why she might not be interested in you, women are very complicated.
I get the idea of making my time valuable and scarce to a girl but I just moved to a new town and I only work mornings so I'm free every afternoon and evening. I'm really not busy at all so I'd have to completely lie and then if we did go out she'd ask what I've been busy with, and then what? I say no I wasn't really busy, it was a trick? Continue to lie, try make some shit up? The flirting techniques sound great though, hope I get a chance to try them out one day.
I don't suggest lying. I suggest that you learn more about yourself, discover your passions, follow your talents, and make something of yourself and make the most of your life. Joining a golf club sounds fun. What else is there for you to do and learn? (playing video games and watching youtube don't count ;-)
Hey dude, I really enjoy relaxing at home, I used to do it with friends but they're far away now, I'm not being deliberately anti-social I just like to chill, I'm always friendly and fun with people just not naturally talkative, very easy going, not an instigator, never been the ambitious/driven type. I'm happy, I would just like to add a lady into my life I don't want to become hugely socially active. I know I have value to offer and lots of girls would love me, it's just annoying that they don't get to find that out because my availability/enthusiasm comes across as needy. I have to be smarter about it though, I'm still learning, only in the last couple of months have I discovered these 'pua' advice videos. I'm not a natural lol it will take me a while, I'm getting closer..... Frustrating when a girl texts 'Are you free on thursday' and you mess it up from there lol.
they have a pick line, where you go ina bar to a hot girl and say to her: i just had a weird/strange experience, i just saw this guy go up to a girl,like literally confidentially walk up to the girl and say to her: i just wanna go down on you, all night long... and she left with him, isnt that crazy?! and the girl is gonna have an opinion on hat,they always do... like what? rly that happened?.... she said you planted a sexual interaction,thought inside her mind, but would be better have a playful interaction and so on....
im not so expert of english also :D just know enough for normal conversation, but i will do it to improve my english ;) there is always a positive in every situation
no need to be subtitled, you need understand the point,meaning, she means when you slow your voice you create a more sexual deep energy with comunication, you do this tactic with anything you say, to create sexual tension,attraction with voice and your inner control energy, i know this because i study human being system energy,im aware of it and making experiences, tests,practice and everything it's energy, if you control that with experience you can do whatever you want, seduction is also a deep principle of interaction,universal laws and inner energy game, it's like in law of attraction if you know it,where you attract and do action starting from thoughts and doing it with actions, getting better with experience and your self control..
everything its energy my friend, when you learn control it, you have the right essence and rest are details... thoguhts energy,mental energy,emotion energy, sexual energy,confidence energy and so on... even experience gives you a new trasformation of energy and knowledge,subconscious memory experience other the conscious one, i would like share my knowledge to help others, it's a good thing living this life to do like that according to my free will and decision ofc....
God I hate giving compliments to women. Always have matter of fact I'm more inclined to not even try to. I almost want to point out to a girl I'm not going to compliment her.
It's fine if you don't wanna compliment women. You should only compliment a woman if you genuinely mean the compliment. Just doing it to do it does no one any favors.
I got to disagree with the whole, guys like a challenge thing. You will never hear a guy say "gee I sure wish it was harder to get laid around here" pfffft
Good info but making comments lile"i can go down on you all night" im very skeptical and feel its bullshit, ive seen guys make remarks like that to women in bars and clubs and they get a drink splashed in there face or jack slapped or even file a sexual harassment charge against the guy, never once seen a positive reaction to comments like that.
Doesn't it all depend on 1. The type of girl. 2. The type of environment?I can't imagine talking about sexually explicit things with a clean-cut girl wholesome girl in a library or coffee shop. Maybe that would work better if your trying to pick up a skanky girl at a bar or club though.
Hey this isn't necessarily on topic but is better it to think up something to say while a stringing conversation as your partner is talking, or should I wait until they finish and learn to come up with things to say immediately? Or should I try to plan a rough draft of what to say and their possible responses and then how to respond to those?
theres two kinds of flirts theres the compliments and then the plant a idea in her head kind. If you dont want to come off as creepy, your best bet is to just stick with like the compliments and the kinda compliments you think you could get away with saying if you said them... eventually as time rolls on and you two do find out you like each other you can move onto the other kind of flirt which is the flirtatious statement the putting ideas in her head... but when your just getting to know them you got to go for the compliment..... i disagree with your idea that your going to get rid of all flirting because you dont want to come off as creepy... you need to take a chance, if you dont flirt at all, if you dont got no game then you will lose the game called romance, if you dont flirt with her that too can come off as creepy depending on how long you have been chating it up with this woman. when deciding to flirt you need to strike a certain amount of balance, you cant just sit there and say " ill never flirt with her " that just sounds crazy to me.
It's a good thing our ancestors didn't have to deal with this stuff. If they did, we would have never had a population high enough to escape tribalism.
argh..... This stuff doesn't work. I'd really like to know why she thinks these things are 'magical', per se. All the good women are either gay, married or dead. And she's ruined her lips. Not sure why she decided to have work done on them.....
How do I approach a woman that is @ the SAME "CALIBER" as your guest & PERSAY she has/involved in the same kind of work as Mrs. K! Even THO I'm fairly confident, I do dress PRETTY GOOD, but she'll have A MUCH LARGER AMOUNT of money from her EMPLOYMENT bcuz u cannot work. So how do I APPROACH HER surpassing my thought of PROBABLE REJECTION!?!?
