How to Get Soft-to-the-Touch Gray Hair 

Went completely gray during the pandemic.... as of late, i was thinking of coloring my hair back to dark brown, but/and, wish to honor my crone self at fifty two . thank you for being an example... i am an only "child" with no family , mother passing away when i was thirty five .. i do not have any one to look up to in this way ... yes, some of my friends are gray, but/and, for some reason , your video feels good and celebratory .... giving more permission ... thank you thank you ....

You are the first person that I have seen who has hair like mine, silvery gray, coarse, dry, frizz prone (its normally big, but when its humid, ITS HUGE!), wavy and a ton of it. I have been following your routine for only a few days and already my hair looks and feels better than it ever has (by ever, I mean that I can remember... like even as a small child). Thank you for making and posting this video!

Wow, just Love your beautiful glistening gray hair, I'm 62, not ready to go gray, one of these years!

I love your natural curls!!! Your hair is so pretty 🤩

Super pretty and truly beautiful woman. Even the way you speak is elevated and elegant.

Your hair is so beautiful! Isn’t it wonderful when we find what works best for our hair. It’s always trial & error but worth it when you find the perfect match for your hair manageability!

I love Kerastase Elixir Ultime Original hair oil, absolutely love it!

I am 18 months in and pretty much fully transitioned and also have soft grey hair. I totally attribute it to the hair oils I use too!! Love connecting with you all on RU-vid!!! Great video!!!

You are gorgeous! I love your hair!

You have beautiful hair. I like women who have curly grey locks. I'm sure it's not an easy transition. ..wish you well😊

Your hair is gorgeous!

I miss the old Aveda Cherry Almond Bark. The new formula is nothing like it, ughhhhh. They discontinued it, then came out with the cherry almond line. Meh. I have curly hair, and am 6 months into my grey/blonde hair journey. I was nearly a year into my greys in 2021, and my son decided to get married. I didn't want to ruin the pictures, so I dyed it, grrrrr. So far, so good. I'm looking forward to my silver/blonde curls. Yay. I've been coloring not to cover grey, but to cover my blonde hair that I thought washed me out. Your hair is gorgeous❤

I have hair envy with your beautiful curls! The bug is making the rounds in Minnesota for sure. I had it last week...luckily mild but the voice thing is real. Take care!.

Your hair is very beautiful!

I like the Olaplex hair oil and the Redken Acidic Bonding Leave-In Conditioner. I will also try your recommendations. Thanks!

I have the same hair as you... I keep my hair up, pinned up, because I am a tosser and turner.... so it keeps the frizz down! Love that leave in conditioner!

Hello! I just wanted to share that my camera settings here are a bit off-I apologize for the weird focus issues. I think I know what’s wrong and have corrected it for the next one. Hope you’re all doing well! 🥰😘

Thanks for these, I’ll have to give some of these a try. Since embracing my natural color, which is about 60% gray, I’ve learned so much about how to best care for my hair. Always using a leave in is one of those things. My hair is also coarse, with a much looser curl pattern than yours, but it loves the Curls Blueberry Bliss leave in. I also like the Paul Mitchell hemp multitasking spray. And, when the weather is glycerin friendly, the JVN instant recovery serum for heat protection and all around hair yumminess and the air dry cream are great.

I knew I noticed a hint of a Minnesota accent! 😉. I hope you’re feeling better. My hair “routine” consists of Joico de-tangling spray, Chi Silk Infusion, my Dyson supersonic and round brush, and sometimes a touch of argon oil or anti- frizz serum once dry. My hair is straight, so it’s pretty easy. I’m envious of your beautiful curls!!

Gorgeous hair Beth! I love your texture...it takes too much effort to get my hair to do some kind of texture and falls within the hour 🙄 but I love straight hair too💙 Nice video Beth!

I found my first gray recently so I wanted to look into what to expect. Your hair is gorgeous! And we have a similar texture. I really hope my hair stays curly as it goes gray.

Hi sweet Beth. You have the most gorgeous hair. I'm super jealous. I've always wanted thick, curly/wavy hair, and unfortunately, I have poker straight, baby fine hair. I'll use a bit of argan oil on just the ends of my hair, since they tend to be dry. Just a drop. Keep using the products that are in your arsenal. They're doing an amazing job. So sorry that you got Covid, but happy that you are on the mend. Enjoy your week. Big hugs. 💖💖😊

What a dreaded 'surprise' indeed! Especially around your birthday, and vacation... Sorry for you...Get well soon ! Your hair looks really good.

I definitely need to up my hair game. Will look into the 25 product. Love going to the lakes in Wisconsin and Minnesota. It is such a unique experience. I love kayaking with my family up there.

Your hair is beautiful. My hair is very curly and very silver/platinum. It is baby fine. Conditioners are the bane of my existence. I’d love some texture.

Love your videos

Just channel surfing, looking for ways to tame my hair I've been growing my hair out and I'm about I'll say 80% grey My hair is curly/wavy pretty dry when I put nothing in it after washing. Thanks for sharing. New subbie ☺ And as you were describing your hair we I have similar texture

Hi Beth , so sorry to hear you were sick, happy your feeling better 🥰 I use the Verb leave in conditioner which I really love but switch once in a while to Ouai, Briogeo and l’Ange. I do add hair oils since I saw your video a while back, it really does make a difference. L’Ange has a leave in called Dream cream which I used last Thursday, air dried it. My wavy/curly hair was soft, smelled amazing and all I did was add a little water to my hair today to refresh the curls. I wish you speedy recovery and look forward to your next video 🤗🌹

beautiful hair :)

Interesting video! I want to try Mizani Miracle Cream..my favorite oil, by far, is Mizani Supreme Oil! I'm having more trouble finding it, though. I like the lipstick color on you & your hair is pretty.

Long curly grey hair. I use spray leave-in conditioner, gel, and either plain olive oil or avocado oil to my ends.

loreal Ever pure BOND strengthening shampoo and conditioner... Unbelievable..even for the kinky coarse nape hair. Godspeed Dee

I am brand new to my silver hair as of 3 wks ago- just shagged it out, (cut my hair in a shag style) removing the outer layers of old blonde. I was a bit shocked by how different the texture was and bought a generic heavy duty conditioner from Sally Beauty which works fantastically. My hair really feels like it is thriving now, growing out and settling into a natural state. I havent seen my real hair for 30 yrs so this is very exciting!

does argan oil cause grey yellowing, as it is yellow in color? I used it when i colored my hair, but now I’m a bit hesitant, but I do need silicone-free hair oil and was thinking of trying it again

You have really beautiful healthy looking hair😊

You're so lucky, your gray hair looks very nice on you👍 Unfortunately gray hair on some folks looks like total crap, good heavens, nature can be so stingy sometimes😁

Your silver-gray hair compliments your skin tone well. So beautiful! Do you recall where you purchased the ring on your right hand? Looks like a clearish stone? Thank you! =)

Mixed Chicks is often available at TJMaxx and Marshall’s

I use AG leave in conditioner, plus a curl cream, a gel and finish with a hair oil when the hair is wet and dry. I have very thick, coarse, grey curly hair. I have noticed a yellow cast to my hair and I am seriously considering an express gloss and tone at my hair salon in two weeks. They tell me that the toner will wash out in 6-8 weeks. I’m nervous that it will leave a demarcation line as new growth shows. I haven’t dyed my hair since I was in my early 20’s, as my hair was very resistant to colour. I’m in my 60’s now. I love my grey hair and hope to find a solution for the yellow cast. I just put in an in- line filter on my shower to minimize chlorine. I clarify my hair roughly every two weeks. I have tried purple shampoos and conditioners with little effect. Doing my research.

Your hair is gorgeous! I've stayed away from leave in conditioners and hair oils, because I have fine wavy hair (although the top layer which has a lot of grey is coarse and dry) and it's easily weighed down . Would the products you recommend work on fine hair? Also, do you ever put gel in your damp hair before you go to sleep to define your waves?

I too have used Mixed Chicks leave in conditioner and I loved it! Unfortunately my hair is prone to discolouration so I had to discontinue its use. I now use Pureology Color Fanatic Leave in Conditioner! I do not spray it directly on to my hair. I spray it on to my hands and then apply! I use quite a bit because I have the same hair type as you do. I also use Olaplex No 7 Bonding oil after my hair is dry, not when it’s wet. I put it on my ends and wherever I am frizzy. 😊

I have the same issue you have with your back breaking out on my neck and side of my face. I take my button turban, wrap it around my neck until my hair dries completely, and then the products don't break me out that way.

Wow!! Cant believe how long your hair is. How long are you going between trims.

My hair is almost completely gray but it very oily with a course texture will also just a bit of yellow here and there. May I suggest you might possibly consider listing the items with a link? Thank you!

Lovely hair. My hair is straight and more fine so I am afraid of leave in conditioners & oils.

Do you not use a product with hold every day when you wear your hair curly? I have tried the Mixed Chicks Leave in but may try it again. It basically works as a gel, right?

So I have to say...I have not used products with any silicones for over a decade. I did not realize the Mixed Chicks leave in had amodimethicone when I bought it from Amazon. Well ... just a dab ..OMG, it works great! Along with my styling products.

I cannot go without a leave-in because my hair is so curly it will get dry immediately and crunchy.

Does anyone know if using a blow dryer or straightner after applying the aveda leave in conditioner is okay? Thanks.

Doesn't three oil weigh down the hair... ?? Mine is thinner hair but plumps after dry...

I've always had thick, wavy, coarse dry hair. And now that I'm gray, it's more noticeable. My favorite products are Redken MEGA SOFT shampoo and conditioner. It's a 10 Express Miracle Silk Leave in (for dry wavy hair in the purple bottle). Mask: Joico K-pak Luster Lock Instant Shine and Repair. Unfortunately, all these products are pricey. But they work, and they are worth it to me. I also like Pantene Mist Behaving Dry Conditioner, it's like Dry Shampoo but for dry hair, not greasy hair, it adds light moisture and softness in-between shampoos, especially if you shampoo weekly like me. It's hard to find. Not in stores anymore. But I get it on ebay or Amazon.

I use stuff from my kitchen. Like coffee, clove, banana, aloe vera, cinnamon. I stay away from store bought products

Do you have layered hair cut? Thank you 🦋

Get straight Jojoba oil.

Like always beautiful you are ,

OMG! Went on amazon Canada for these products....wowa, so expensive!!! Probably cheaper in the States.

It's stringie

U sound fine