I got Dan’s book about 5 months ago and originally thought I just wanted a girlfriend and that’s it but I ended up sleeping with a bunch of women first. I let off some steam that had built up from not having sex for ages lol. I then met a beautiful girl and as Dan says I let her become my girlfriend about 2 months ago. Dan is the real deal guys. If you haven’t read his book you are missing out. That’s all I’m going to say.
Fantastic!!! Congrats on your success Peter. Glad to hear that you waited to find the right girl before you accepted a relationship. Well done! That will be such a better relationship for you now. Just be sure to always remember that you selected her and allowed her to have a relationship with you. Some girls will test you by pretending to lose interest to see if you buckle under that kind of pressure. So, always remember that you allowed the relationship and that you are the prize, while also treating her well. Enjoy!!! 👍😎 Cheers Dan
Guys use his method CAREFULLY, i used to be so texty and super interested when dating. All that did was make me look less valuable. After a girl i truly liked ghosted me, i went to Dan for advice. I kid you not, once i took this method I became the Heartbreaker. Women will wonder you are not initiating conversation after a date and will wonder what you are doing with your time. Top tips, STAY MYSTERIOUS and DO NOT GET CLINGY. Results will come, trust the system. This is simple physiology on women. Thank you Dan, never slept with so many women in my life!
Awesome!!! Great to hear of your success Cesar. Next, you will have girls almost begging to be your girlfriend (i.e. "Please, I love you. I just want to be with you. I want to be your girlfriend. I will do whatever you want. Just tell me what you want and I will do it. I will be the best girlfriend you ever had"), or proposing marriage to you. I experienced that many times over the years and eventually accepted the proposal of my now wife. Enjoy the great times ahead for you! 👍😎 Cheers Dan
I have been married for 18 years. LISTEN TO THIS GUY!!! He knows the f*** of which he speaks! (a/k/a he knows what the f*** he is talking about. How's that for proper grammar?)
Julian Caesar yeah that so true. I meet a girl that I like she is kind and warm hearted, but I am trying to develop a better poker face and tell myself she’s just a girl and beauty is only temporal and their are others like her.
Guys, patience is so key here. Let her come to you. Resist the urge to blow up her screen, unless you guys are in real-time conversation over messages.
Dan you're amazing. I listen to you almost as a motivational speaker, because you make me feel motivated to learn more about women and become a more social guy. Everything I've learned from you has worked, which is incredible because I was always awful with women in the past. I have a lot to learn still, and I'm glad you're continuing to teach me. Keep it coming!
the womanologist sensei has spoken once again, you've helped a lot of guys out here.. thank you for that, all your advice is priceless and 100% true. you should probably release more books cause if you think about it there's no other dating guru out there who can put it like how you do they all give us stupid fake advice they even wouldn't dare try out themselves and then there's you the guy who says it like how it is. RELEASE MORE BOOKS RELEASE MORE BOOKS RELEASE MORE BOOKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i'm sure the other fellows would support my suggestion
I'm in the dating phase right now so i guess this video is perfect timing, i almost always let her text or call first and dont text her throughout the week. I call her once a week or when she contacts me i arrange to hangout, I am waiting for her to bring up being exclusive and if she doesnt bring it up start seeing other women. (i really like her)
I love that there is a constant message you have I all your videos which is to stop feeling like we are less or undeserving of whoever we find attractive. I am currently not looking for any type of love or sex relationship but I love watching your videos because they remind me how solid and worthy I am as a person.
Dan, I know your advice is mainly for men.. but do you have any dating advice for women? Or do you know another channel like yours which has good dating advice for women? Or maybe for women it's just about looking good and following the man's lead?That's all? If anyone else knows the answer please respond
Hey dan, i have a question, how do we get all this starting I mean the conversation with the girl, what if I send a message first, wouldn’t that show that I am chasing her?
I was sweet caring but not NEEDY .. but when our common friend told me that she has a feeling that i have a crush on her and after that she gradually stop replying to my messages.
Hi Dan your method work 100% i used your methods and 10 days ago i got a beautiful girl and i am so happy now thanks a lot Dan you are my hero. Best regards From Iran
i have been after a girl for 3 years, i been watching these vids for a couple of months, and bam i got a date with her, shes 20 years younger than me, wish me luck!
Somehow I did this with my ex. Back then, she was reserved, kind, polite, friendly but kept distance from guys. Then I got interested in her after she supported me during a bad family event. We began texting, I began to seduce her and make her interested in having a relationship, which we did. Through it, things went somewhat according to what Dan says. Part of the dynamic was that the relationship was gonna end in a few months, since I was leaving to study in another country (which I couldn't managed to acomplish based on dates. Anyway). Avoiding details, I can assure everyone that it works, up to the point that even her family felt she finally had something or someone to take completely seriously and look up to, of which they felt fear of due to the posibility of her leaving them and her defending me more than anything else. At the end, I took my position too firmly and ended the relationship. Things went back and forth, we got back, but ended after a while again. After the long downfall, and looking for insight of things, I found this channel and others. Thank you Dan, for puting into words something I did without knowing, yet wanted to define/keep present for the next time. It truly is a sweet spot.
🤔 I've been seeing this woman since April. She came up with the idea of us getting into a sexual relationship. It's been how about two months we've technically been friends with benefits. But right from the start she wanted it to only be exclusively between me and her. You know for health reasons, or so she says. I do think she wants more of a relationship than what we have and I'm okay with that but at the same time he's hesitant. She often Springs little things over to my place like she picked up some bed sheets for my bed and from time to time she'll bring stuff over that she thinks I needs like if I am low on food in the house. Now I've never once asked her for any of these things and recently she's trying to find a birthday gift for me and she asked if I liked the newest Android phone. Out of everyone else's point of view do you think she really wants to be with me even though she says she's not ready for that relationship yet?
One of the best videos I've ever seen online about online dating. I've read the game. Watched countless simple pickup vids and plenty of based zues and now Dan's videos. Seriously considering getting this book!
I just need a girl with really kind heart who will understand and knows how to cooperate when things get rough in relationdship... But reality that girl is hard to find
Hi Dan, I want to thank you for your programs. After reading one of your blogs I finally admitted to myself consciously that I'm insecure around women. This is important because I didn't see anything wrong with what I was doing (even though I have been bad at interactions with women). You have literally changed my life and I see a better future ahead of me. Cheers!
Dan, you need to make a video of "how to re-spark her attraction after showing relationship interest". Oh yeah I did this mistake with a girl I was sleeping/etc and I still like her and you know what happened... I need help, I still like her and would like to have fun with her again.
I'm an attractive guy and dated this not so pretty introvert girl couple of times. I like her and I became needy. Well I never been needy before with my previous relationships, just on her and I hate myself turning into a low value guy. She friendzoned me and rarely text. I wanna apply no contact rule but its hard to completely ignore her at work. I only treat her these days as a friend and never shows affection. I think she already noticed that I'm cold to her and I can't really tell if she's giving me signals wanting me to approach her back.. There was a time when she is sitting in front of me, not facing me tho then she changed position facing me without giving me a look. I think I really like this woman and hoping to be my gf and probably make her stay. She has plans to quit the job next month and I really hate LDR.
Ok even though I don’t expect my good looks to get me laid, it helps me feel confident, so I can work just as hard as any other guy to get a girl, would you think that’s a good way to think?
Hey Dan,, so I confessed my feelings to this girl and she said that she has a boyfriend, but her eyes and actions say another thing. She later said that she I am a nice guy but she has a boyfriend. What should I do. Help me please. Thank u.
Its true. Let them miss you, wonder how you feel about her. Be mysterious. Pretty girls aren't used to this. Drives them crazy because you have the power. I have used this to punch way above my weight. My wife is gorgeous. Im not jacked, im 5"7" and 160pounds but she adores me. Listen to this man and you will have a way less painful time. I learned the hard way and had to change and grow as a man.
i think i screwed up bad with this girl i like asked her out while she was working she agreed we hung out we laughed alot enjoyed eachother then like 3 days later the texts really started slowing down and she made an excuse up saying she dont feel good to hang out idk what i did wrong honestly
Andrew Sanchez 1. Relax, you have loads going on in your life, if this doesn’t work out it’s not a big deal for you, remember that. (And if you don’t believe that, figure out why it is true, because it is). 2. Personally I’d hold off messaging her if she left it on an excuse but if you do choose to message her, MAKE SURE (and this is important) to move the conversation towards meeting up as soon as possible, don’t waste time in the flirting over text. 3. If she agrees to meet up I’m sure you can work on attracting her and progress the relationship (I suggest an activity at which you have moderate skill), if she doesn’t meet up again then you have to leave it and move on for a while, she will either come back and organise something or you’ll find someone else. Don’t lower your self worth for any relationship, in the long run you’ll realise no one is really great enough for this to be beneficial. Maintain your standards and if she doesn’t live up to them move on man. Good luck, hope this is taken in the right way 👍
Sounds like her attraction level just isn't super high bro. She's probably around a 5 or a 6 out of 10. Give it some time - lay back, don't text her. Wait for her to reach out to you. Being patient will build attraction
Love your work Dan. I recently bumped into an ex i split with 4 years ago. I followed up with a flirty text a week later. No reply from her. I know she is seeing someone too. Any advice ? I think if i rang her she would not pick up. Not sure what my next move should be.
Hey Dan , firstly I want to tell you : Thanks you !! Thanks you so much. because with your youtube's chanel . I understand many things that I can 't / not be able to understand . your youtube's chanel permit me to see the issues that I got with some women ( insecure , fear , not able to have sexual attraction with her ... ). Now , I know the process to approach women with a powerful independ confident and get the woman I want . " I was blind and now I see .." Eddie morra # limitless. thanks you , some much. ps: sorry for my english , I am a french guys.
I saw this interesting video on animal behavior one time. It was a short video; and, at one point, they talked about cats and why cats will approach people who don't like them and don't want to be approached by them. What they said was that people who don't like cat's will often squint their eyes and look down or away from the cat. You know, that, "I'm totally disgusted, think I'm about to barf, evil eye/look away" reaction. Well it turns out that to the cat it's attractive and inviting. The cat takes it like you're into it and feels safe to approach. In the context of what women are really looking for (not some panzy ass sugar butt, but a real man) it makes sense why a lot of guys end up in relationships with people they don't like or that are bad for them ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-9lgHYHKS73s.html. All that being said, it makes sense that the same would hold true for women. Bottom line? Women naturally desire very different behavior and attitudes than what almost all guys naturally believe they do (and the same goes the other way around - that guys want something very different than what women find natural to treat them). I'm struggling not to use the word "opposite" - as in opposite attitudes and behavior - because it's not a logical opposite the way up is logically opposite to down or black is logically opposite to white (and so on) - but it is very much opposite in a sense. What is it about romance novels that turn the chicks on so much? Read one and find out. The male character in those stories is not afraid. He being who he wants and taking what he wants. He's expressing himself without reserve and without remorse. Until and unless a guy tries just going for it he'll be absolutely shocked to find that her reaction is exactly what he wants and none of what he feared.
You know how they say, "the truth is hidden in plain sight" ? What if the truth was that women and men are actually meant to have opposite roles to one another whilst at the same time being stuck in the other person's role by nature? In other words what if the truth were so obvious that if it were any closer it could bite you in the face? What if the guys role is to treat the woman like he's (been) used to her treating him and thus get her to treat him like he (was) treating her. Think about it.
In my case, the girls show interest on me by making the first move explicitly, but when they do it, I just don't feel the Samae way towards them compared when I make the initiative on making the first move.
Lets say i am being confident and flirty with a girl, building attraction in her and it gets to a point when she likes me. So, what do i do then? Do i ask her out or wait for her to make the move?
Been watching your videos for only about a month. I really like this girl in my class and I just had my last class with her today. I asked her out today after and she gave me an exciting yes! I have always been pretty good with women, but your videos definitely gave me the confidence i needed! much appreciated man!
Thank you for these videos Dan. I usually am decent with women, but there are a few scenarios where I have things twisted. I see now that you are right about these scenarios and you have earned yourself another subscriber. Thank you for helping my relationship
woah good timing cuz here i was already thinking of dong the wrong things... but glad i havent yet and that there is one attractive girl that already seems to try to get my attention or gift me things yet due to how she acts some times i kinda ignore her or dont really give her that attention. It does seem to drive her crazy when i dont etc yet she also doesnt step it up and do something to get more of my attention though
Hey Dan, how r ya mate. I recently purchased THE FLOW and it has helped me build my confidence. I live in Melbourne, Australia and I am an Indian guy and I have only one single question that keeps coming to my mind and messes with my head. What if white girls dont like me. What if Australian girls dont like me?? The reason I am asking you is that I really love Aussie gals. If you could answer this i will he on the top of the moon.
They will like you if you use the attraction techniques from The Flow. You should know that after reading the book. However, it's clear that you have a lot of self doubt due to inexperience. In that case, the most important technique for you initially is on page 41. THAT is what will make women automatically like you based on the natural attraction they will feel. Then, make sure that you use at least two other attraction techniques as you're talking to the woman/women and she will feel more than enough attraction to want to connect with you. Then, you know what comes next (and what to say and do to make it happen) based on having read the ebook. BTW: Congrats on becoming more confident so far. However, that is level one. Level two and beyond happens when you attract and pick up pretty women, which you will. When you do that, your confidence goes through the roof! Enjoy the great times ahead with women! Cheers Dan P.S. About bringing your nationality into the discussion: You know very well that most women go for guys of all races, colors and accent, including yours. It’s a new world. The way to be included is simply by talking to and attracting women of your choosing. You will not only get Aussie girls, but girls of most nationalities. Enjoy the great times ahead for you!
My problem is no woman seems interested in me, far as I see it. I met with someone and we hung out for one day, met up twice, conversations were good, everything was comfortable as it was our first time meeting after chatting online, went out to eat and all, I think we had a good time. After that she stopped talking to me and I don't know why nor has she told me why as I've texted and asked several times so now I just stopped all together and let her go.
You know you found the right video when Dan accurately describes the unattractive kind of guy and you fit all those categories lol like literally 100% accurate holy shit lol
Ah stuff, I'm just gonna say hi, flirt a bit while ordering my coffee and then explore where our last conv was...so if she comes to sweep the floor, bingo...but how would u go about it if she's behind the counter (just not busy)......mmmmm ok probably then just pick up the conv right there after u order, or if there's still someone on the line after u, when u go get the drink.
Will it work with my ex ? I started to contact her again and we are on a good way, had sex multiple times now. But she was never the type to call, text etc- she doesnt even reply to her sister on messanger for weeks lol
Some tips for a good loking 17 year old guy that never kissed a girl. But for own choice. I think a lot about consequences etc and I never have the balls.
I had never lost a girl just because i tried to go in for the kiss (even if she gave me the cheeks at first), but believe me i had lost many girls because i didn't try to go in for the kiss. If you don't try to kiss a girl on a date or when you are dancing, she WILL think that you are either too scared to do it (which turns her off in most cases), or that you don't like her and that you two don't have chemistry, or that you are gay. It helps you if you are a bit physical with her before you go in for the kiss. For example: stroke her arm, hold/play with her hand, touch her thigh, play with her hair... And also don't worry, you'll know what to do after your lips touch
I started dating an okay girl when my ex broke up with me 2 years ago but this okay girl has become like a hot model for me just because shes wanted to keep me interested in her. And I'm really happy with her now tho she was just a replacement at the beginning
ikr like in Instagram 1 hot girls show up and in the comments section is like Omg ur so beautiful want 2 be my girlfriend Dm me with 9999999 others comments Lmao
Funny story. Yesterday I messed up. Not big time but missed an opportunity. The girl is contacting me via DMs, we chat have fun etc. Shes sending me selfies etc. Yesterday she sent a selfie of her in bed with new haircut laying in bed and asked "what will you say about this?". And my dumbass instead of saying, XX you just stop teasing me with these selfies just come over to my place already or something similar, wrote "about what, your hair, your t shirt...". What an idiot. She then points out curly hair or not. And I jokingly replied that she should go for a bit more curly style but not as curly as mine. I could have also replied with something funnier like "so, you are so into me you want to have the same hairstyle as me". God damn. :)
Hey Dan, I bought your Get Your Ex Back - Super System bundle and I'm on the tail end of the "Meet and Re-Attract chapter". All of this information is really great, and you did a fantastic job putting it all together. I wanted to know if you had any knowledge of how this applies to an introverted ex. I broke things off with her, but now I want to get back with her. The only thing is that it's a bit different with an introvert for the sole fact that they process things differently. Would you recommend a different approach or maybe being careful with some of the methods that you mentioned? Thanks!
Ok let’s check if I’m doing great I have this girl who really like me we use to date but no more she just wanna be friends now what should I do go cold or go cold for a week and then talk to her but me less available to her
Thanks I’ve never been on a date I need to know these things to try to find love I know it is a long shot but any advice is welcomed thank you for trying to help guys like me find love I’m gonna keep trying it I have a girl want to be with me
