when you loan someone money bc you’re nice and they give you their airpods to be held accountable but then steal the airpods out of your backpack right after they give them to you bc they had no intention of ever paying you back!!!! :))))) COULDNT be me.
I let my friend stay in my home because she had no where else to go and she also borrowed 200 dollars and now that am asking for them back she just ignores my calls and messages...
some people only think about themselves... they are least bothered about the person who lends the money... It is better to avoid such people in life...if you think some old friend of your is of no way useful to you better to stop trying to create relationship with them... my personal experience.
And then you look like a beggar when asking the repayment. They act big and proud as if they never ever asked you for help. Then they talk as if they are gonna do some favor on you by repaying
Rule #1 NEVER LEND PEOPLE MONEY!! I’m 20 years old and I’ve borrowed people over $13000 together, I’m slowly getting this money back but I promise it’s not worth it. Learn my other peoples mistakes
Still solid advice! I sent the dude that question, and immediately got results! He answered, No. I asked him when. He then sent me half of it immediately! Next half in 2 weeks, hopefully !
I know it’s not much money but I’ve spent £14 between me and my 2 friends they’re both refusing to pay up and he’s making a big deal of it starting arguments and stuff I just want my money😭
I'm looking for legal ways to get money from someone who owes you for work you did for them. I know I can file a lawsuit but other than that if they choose not to pay in that way. I want to put on the pressure.
I loaned out 5Gs to a new friend last month. Found out yesterday she owes a lot of people and hardly pays back. This is why I came here. Somebody help.
Can someone please respond if this actually worked for them? Because if I ask my family how they plan to settle this they would say when I have the money (which is never) several years and I haven’t seen a dime. Just broken relationships and destroyed health.
I'm getting 16 a hour n I'm black been working their for 6 years already n this white boy that jus started iz getting paid more 2 times more than I am and he supposedly getting 14 a hour but Im their everyday on time n hes always late n misses days n his check still comes out 2 times as much as mine n I notice boss man taking out 10 hours how does OSHA not c this smh this world is so messed up
My contractor took deposit money for me up to rm 15K for renovation projects in my condo and couldn’t deliver but promised to repay me. It’s been more than a year now n whenever I ask he will use harsh words n stress me out. What can I do, because he knows he can intimidate me. I feel so lost as the other members of my family won’t pursue this n I am feeling lost as I feel it is my fault because I hired him. Help me please.
A guy took money from me and is not returning it to me from last 2 years its is a total of 59,000 in Indian rupees he has money to spend for his family but not returning the money to me I am not very rich I am from a poor family I asked many times even I blackmailed him that I will end my shelf but still he is not returning the money to me what shall I do
What’s about my exgirlfriends tood my moneys 338.000.Three hundred Thousand Dollars but she have daughter so how can I made this to Judge Andrew Guide that’s the Judge 👨⚖️ Name
They are just like “it’s only 50 dollars” I’m like, then pay it damnit. You promised you would. And then they try to give me old gift cards to fast food restaurants. It’s straight bull
Had a "best friend" with who I spent my vacation, we had a fight there which made her think she doesnt own me to pay for apartmant, she still didnt one year later, my parents paid for her
It's so hard to be nice to the people who borrowed money from u especially if u find out that when they have money they will go shopping first with out paying u. some of them too keep borrowing and when u ask them to pay that u need the money they will be the one who get mad.
I have the same problem my brother owes me $130 it's not that much in the U.S.A and European countries but in where i live it's a lot. and I am a teenager. HE told me he was gonna pay me back 3 days later after he borrowed it. when the day came he told me he is gonna give it tomorrow and now today I asked him then he got mad at me by saying 'Oh I said I am gonna pay you back why are you pushing me?' but I wasn't pushing him, all I was trying to do reminding him and how many days passed the time he supposed to pay back. Now I don't know what to do..
I no longer lend anyone money, because most people who ask to borrow money (90%) do not value someone helping them out. If they valued the assistance theyd immediately reach out to you and start paying at least $5 a week until they got back on their feet. The reason 90% refuse to do that is because they only care about themselves and view what others do for them as nothing. Notice how 90% of people who borrow money, even when they do pay you back, wait for the lender to contact them at least twice a week just to get them to give you 10% of what is owed. Then if youre not careful.and call a 3rd time, theyll call the police for harassment.
Unless they are parents and God fearing people never lend money to strangers or friends who have no faith in the God- creator of everything. If they deny higher power they will do everything not to pay back your money which you earned every penny by working hard.
Yup learned my lesson ,will not ever again be loaning money out to anyone ……the most embarrassing part I hate is to have to ask you to please pay back because I now need this money,these people I loaned money out are just down right selfish,and we’re never really thankful for my help worst of all these are people who actually hold down good paying jobs and you see them on Instagram showing off their trips or fun they are having /latest purchases ……pathetic and embarrassing ……just pay up,my situation on money loans 😒
The fact that people are so unaccountable that you have to learn and pull such tactic baffles me. Wouldn’t it be nice if people just did what they’re supposed to?. Smh
I made the mistake of doing the dumbest thing ever, that being lending a guy money I was sleeping with. We were good friends before and when starting to have relations our relationship got weird. I think he was always insecure on my success over him. I lended him $200, after genuinely feeling bad, then he began to duck and dodge me for months. Which was far from expected. So now I have given up and just know that he’ll continue to get his karma from screwing with me.
So you don't have friends with values, you Know people that share interests with you. You can call that a friendship, I won't stop having real friends that want my safety and well, my happiness and Know how to love in a way, just cause someone on youtube hasn't found or searched for, the same thing, nothings the same really, just feel bad that u have 'friends' that have no problem in having and abusing your money, While they do that they probably don't care if u need to pay rent or buy food for your own survival, I knew people like that, they were not my friends, but they did enjoy my money.
@@DreStark You're going to be disappointed by friends. That's when you know who your true friends / non-blood related brothers and sisters are. I'm just saying save yourself the heartbreak and disappointment of ONLY seeking out good-hearted, honest, and empathetic friends. You know how rare they are. For example if you're a businessman; there is money to be made from networking - and you would call some of these ppl your friends, right? Yet they are out to make the most profit from you. So with that in mind use them too. It's part of the game. I have true friends and believe me, it took a lot of BS and many years to find my inner circle. Still, when it comes down to it I only have two REAL "friends", and that's my dad...and myself. That's it.
Mine is now over 1000$ , and getting bigger, my friend always takes small amounts and promises to give back the next day but he doesnt. What should i do with him
What pisses me off is when you do work for someone who wants the work done quickly but then take their own sweet time when it comes time to pay and you really need the money
@Belletaina Ikr! I have a business where I take people to different cities, like a transportation business and now I require any payment plans to be paid before they go.
My dad always taught me to never look to get the money back (don't tell the person you're loaning the money this!) because the way some people go about dodging you and or lying about the fact that you loaned the money to them in the first place no matter how big or small the amount, will usually fuel even the most calm easiest going person to easily become a murderer of the person owing you the money in a heat of passion/rage 😶
Or die of cancer, like my father. The stress caused him cancer and died. In a year and a half after the mess started. Its terrible what stress can do to you.
Really annoying I’m having to watch this because my sibling borrowed money from me last week said he was going to pay me back Friday Today Saturday he ain’t never called or acknowledged me I’m pissed I’m a single woman if a person is nice enough to let u borrow u need to have the decency to pay people back I mean it’s just common courtesy
Last resort : sell the claim to nearest biker gang. Their usual pay is 50%. They’ll get it down on paper for you and payment up front. You’ll get half your money. See the other half as payment for the entertainment to see the creep sweat and get a lesson.
my friend borrowed my shirt and is saying she can’t find it, it was $40. then i seen a pic of her on her snap story with her wearing it :/ what do i do? i confronted her and i said “why are you wearing my shirt?” she said “ummmmmm Don’t know”
I spent 200 dollars on my friend and it’s been 3 months now she has to pay me back, I’m littrely crying my mom said she’s using me for money and that’s true
Hi Big mistake. Had you given that $40,000 to me well that would have been a completely different story...and you would be up on that 40G,z. Actually we would be rich . Hope you get all your money back. ✌😎👍
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i'm surprised at how little audience you have! is this a jealousy thing?
Whenever someone doesn’t pay me I first try to charge their card on file, if it doesn’t go through I then threaten to call the local debt collection and have called before. It really scares my clients.
In-resonant require people to give me their credit card number/info if they buy something from me on a payment plan, or if I loan money. Personally if I were you call debt collections, and scare the person into paying.
@@g4.b3 True say! but there can be legal repercussions and other bs with that tactic.. however if its warranted as a last resort no doubt!!.. i guess it depends on the amounts owed as well and if the costs are more than the return its self.. same goes with calling in debt collectors.. id say for petty amounts based more on principal than actual loss the initial suggestion works best, but in a professional setting dealing with larger sums the latter would be most appropriate.. depending on circumstance and whats at stake 🤷♂️.. but both are great advice, thank You 👍
@@everettvincent1688 so its best to be proactive and have steps in place before lending id imagine.. thank You for the sound advice. good know these things as life skills, id rather not find out by being burned the first time.. 👍
The lady who rented me a room (which by the way was infested, so I left on day 5) of her apartment keeps giving me excuses about not having my deposit back yet.
I felt this because I gave a “friend £50 because he needed to buy a bike to travel to college he said he’d pay me back in a week, 1 month past and the guy tried delaying everything. Anyone know what I should do besides the most obvious option ?
I took a coworker to small claims court and won the case. Actually getting paid back falls on me, but "she" claimed after two months of non payment that she'd pay me her tax return. Tax season came and went and then she claimed "they took it" and walked away. Now, I am still trying to get paid back. I asked "are you still planning to pay me back?" To that she says, "I don't have it". "When are you going to pay me back?" "When I get it." Ugh! Now I have to get an attorney to write out a writ? That's even more money.
My problem is I need to borrow money sometimes but I'm always clear in my mind that i have to pay the person back on time no matter what.Either they ask or not. On the otherside i always seem to help people with 0% interest in giving me my money back. I sometimes need to make payments so i need to borrow money for a few days and i have a bad habit of testing people but i have lost alot of hard earned money by doing so.
The Best trick of denying to lend money to someone in the first place that I've learned the hard way is, when someone asks you to borrow money, for example like he asks for 10 dollars, you just laugh or be sad and say back “hey dude! | am in need of 20 dollars already, I've tried everyone i know but nobody is giving, don't know where to get it if you get your 10 from somewhere please try to arrange my 20 too, I'd really appreciate that" and you'll see him disappearing. Works everytime for me 🤗
Lending money to a relative who said that he will pay it back in a week, now it's almost 10 months, excuses one after another, and now he stopped from calling or texting me, before he used to call and chat every weekend, it makes me so sad and disappointed from these kind of people that do not appreciate a helping hand
Do you I pay for a house and I never in that house and am asking for refund since 2021 still now the wicked woman has refuse to pay me back my 150k and I have been squatting
1:04 a plan to follow that was their idea , well that's extremely over simplistic because we might not agree to their plan because it might be so much in their favor and we're getting a bad deal
