How to know you are in alignment when manifesting

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You can know you are in alignment with your desire before it manifests, but you won't always have that awareness and that's okay.
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@zychowka 7 лет назад

I like this " I don't need it to happen, to prove it can happen"

@lewisdixon7632 3 года назад

Can I steal this one

@jasonbobbers8484 7 лет назад

So I have a story for you Amy. I have been looking into quantum physics and energy studies for a while now. And I took my medical board exams, but I felt extremely sure that I was going to fail it. I even had heart palpitations for the first block haha. Then I began meditating daily and briefly imagining seeing the passing grade and the feeling of accomplishment I would get. A month later of this daily, I was about to fall into deep sleep at about 2 am when my decoration pillow thing was suddenly on my face. No one was around, my door was closed, no physical way the pillow could suddenly be on my face. It woke me up instantly, couldn't believe it or fall back asleep. 3 hours later, I randomly get the urge to check if my grade is online, checked email.. It was available. Checked it, got above average! Absolutely convinced there's universal forces that work in your favor, and even convinced of supernatural stuff now! Who moved my pillow?? It was like a warning to check my grade, like a "here you go".. Crazy

@Pol-kw5gq 4 года назад

Jason Bobbers that is awesome! I totally believe you I’ve also had so,e supernatural stuff happen to me when i was younger! We are the woke people

@christinaheesakacowden-wut3809 5 лет назад

All my manifestations came true, when I didn`t think about them anymore, when I was doing something else and have put it to rest. Funny, it works so well with the "little" things, but when you are about to manifest something"big" you always seem to think: "I can`t forget about this. What if it doesn`t manifest when I stop thinking about it. Doe`s the universe think I don`t want it anymore, if I let go of it.?" .... and so on. But the universe is like an Elephant. It never forgets. :-D Faith is essential and thankfullness. The feeling, that the universe always has your back, no matter what you want is the key. Sometimes you even get it better than you have wished for yourself.

@mariaioannou4727 4 года назад

Hi :) hope you are well. what is your experience about wanting somehting so so so bad and i cannot seem to forget it. i think about it every day (not all day as i used to) but i feel that i need to keep visualizing it every day so that i stay connected with it. i am scared that if i dont visualise every day the universe will forget me/it.

@trust.it.444 10 месяцев назад

Wow this video is 10 years old. You’re really one of the OG

@illuminatingjoy 11 лет назад

I'm delighted that this video inspires you! :) Let it be okay if it doesn't happen, that's what worked for me.

@hiltonlive32grnrngr 4 года назад

I've actually been binge-watching your videos for the past week or so if even that and you are the best, most informative LOA RU-vidr there is. Amy: "Alignment is that relief from needing it." Everyone else: "Alignment is getting on that vibrational frequency." Yeah, the hell if that helps! Seriously though, you're better than Abraham! I hope you never stop doing videos!

@lextor4712 4 года назад

Agree 100% - Amy is killing it. My soulmate found me by being in alignment excactly the way she's explaining it here

@patrick11736 5 лет назад

Blessed are those who believe and haven't seen..

@axelfalk1 10 лет назад

beautiful woman, beautiful soul - the power of miracles made manifest

@peacefulasschic6321 3 года назад

I know this is many years later but I just watched this for the first time and I’m so grateful for your story and the other ones I read on here. I felt happy for you because I know the feeling where you’re just like wow God/Universe, just wow! It’s an amazing feeling to be acknowledged and surprised like that. 💖

@valensomm 6 лет назад

holy, all your storys are so amazing, it is truly a magical world of energy we live in

@yvonneosburn1991 7 лет назад

so, I commented earlier on another video and I have just been watching video after video after video and I have to say, thank you! so much, thank you! these videos have been so fun & joyful & very helpful for me.

@bushra7352 6 лет назад

When you use examples of manofesting from your own life, it really resonates with me, helps me to comprehend the concept easier. Thank you for all your inspiring & helpful videos!

@2011ariesrules 5 лет назад

What a lovely story!! The universe surprised you! Its got to come effortlessly

@yourhighestlight 5 лет назад

I love this! I totally believe in miracles too! Such a great example on how to get out of the way of The Universe! Also how as soon as you don't NEED it, it happens. Such a relief.

@Love-sr3nk 6 лет назад

Thank you for sharing this message with the world! It makes so much sense now. I felt the change in feeling of my desire once I released my tight grip on it. Wow! Very cool. A great way to allow more "allowing" into your life. 1♡

@marshmallowyeeah 7 лет назад

This is one o my favourite videos of yours because this story and the way you explain how it unfolded clearly indicates the attitude a manifestor should maintain. Focusing and then accetping it could not happen is the perfect combination (you get both attached to your desire, and detached from it at the same time if that makes any sense). To my mind the right feeling you should have as a manifestor, which indicates you're in alignment with your desire, is the feeling of inner peace, not excitement as a lot of people may think. Excitement is awesome, and it indicates that you are on the beginning of the right track for getting in alignment with your desire, but let's face it, it cannot last forever. Hence, once it fades away, what is the feeling that takes its place? If the feeling is peace, then be sure you will get results. At least this is the way I see it, and what I have observed on myself.

@illuminatingjoy 7 лет назад

Agreed! Excitement usually happens along the path to alignment and can indicate clarity of desire, however, in my experience, most of my manifestations happen after I feel inner peace and am fine regardless of what happens. I think excitement can fade into resistance or peace depending on if there are limitations. If it's resistance, then allowing it fades back into peace.

@PranitaPaunikar 7 лет назад

illuminatingjoy I'd love it if you try a blog by Sen called calmdownmind.com there's an article written called "when your desire feels ordinary it is on the verge of manifesting." would love it if you can combine his insights with your own.

@veronicasubliminals5704 7 лет назад

OMG thank you, this video helped me to ,,unblock" my mind which used to had a lot of clutter. Just as many other videos of You!

@xado1179 7 лет назад

I really enjoyed this clip not only because I was able to hear your very interesting miracle story but I happen to be a Korean, lol. Junsu is definitely one of the most beloved artists in Korea and several other countries including Japan as well. May millions more of your wishes be fulfilled forever.

@Carybarnes123 5 лет назад

Amy, love your story glad it happened for you hon, just to say your videos are fantastic and really appreciate them all, content, meaning and delivery your so concise clear confident and a joy to watch....we are blessed to have you help us in the wonderful topic. You have become a part of my tapestry of spiritual Growth and healing .....I am eternally greatful to you 🙏 namaste 🙏

@vanessagandarillas4076 3 года назад

This video is 7 years old and I watched your new videos. You didn’t age at all!!

@illuminatingjoy 3 года назад

Thank you!! I appreciate you saying that :)

@apotheclypse 2 года назад

Omg. Not me trying to manifest meeting my favourite Korean actor and then seeing this video :O I'm in alignment for sure haha

@055021 11 лет назад

Omg I feel like this video was exactly for me. I bought tickets to see a show that this entertainer that I like will playing there in a couple of weeks and I really want meet this specific person before or after the show but I don't even really know how its going to happen just that I believe it will happen. This is so inspirational for me. Thank you

@NecroPandaDaps 6 лет назад

ok this just became one of my favourite videos (literally diving into your channel not gonna lie I found the gold lol). This whish to meet your favourite singer or actor or whatever I think is one of the most common desire for everyone along with good health, money, soul mate and abundance (I am SO INTO the part of the favourite singer tho) and the way you talked about how this wonderful thing actually took life so beautifully really sooth my soul. I'm so blown away by all the things that are happening since I got into the LOA, the channels I found, the dreams I'm having and the small thing I'm starting getting with this! thank you again for making this video!! 🖤

@illuminatingjoy 6 лет назад

Thank you! Yes, this was one of my favorite manifestations and I really love how it was orchestrated :)

@lindseydanielle1498 7 лет назад

Seriously every videos makes everything make more and more sense. You are my favorite LOA coach. Period. This has made so much sense and has eased my anxiety and worry on things I had for a manifestation. Wow just wow I have so much gratitude of finding you

@janecstasy1 7 лет назад

you are amazing,your energy is amazing!!! and gorgeous also, thank you !!!!!

@Zephyr.Lo-Renz 5 лет назад

I’ve done something quite similar with this person I’ve been admiring from afar on the commuter train I take daily. But they’ve always been with others in a group so I never seem to be able to muster up the courage to jump right in there so I just let it go. However always in head when I’d see this person I’d say to myself/Universe “if only the universe would bring this person on the train solo AND in the same car THEN I’d be able to confidently engage.” Well, sure enough, in time this did happen. I mean, of all the cars they could have taken that afternoon, they chose to enter and sit in the seat directly beside mine! 😲 😊 👍🏽

@fallingstar245 9 лет назад

wow! this is just what I needed to hear. I've been trying to prove to myself that I can manifest again but this made me realize that I don't need to do that because believing is what matters :)

@garywilson7883 8 лет назад

+fallingstar24 YOU GOT IT! LEARN TO BELIEVE A LITTLE MORE EVERY DAY!

@PranitaPaunikar 7 лет назад

Thank you so much, Amy! I feel relaxed now..

@35mmonica 9 месяцев назад

gosh you’re so reassuring

@semolinasemolina8327 Год назад

Hooray!!!!!!!! Illuminating joy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@manifestingvlog1504 8 лет назад

I am so enjoying your videos. looking forward to more!

@10kCrows Год назад

One of my favorite manifesting stories ♥️

@Jojo-sb1xs 5 лет назад

Thanku. I love u and the way u exsplain things. Ur brilliant. Blessings and love to u ❤

@JG16riffin 6 лет назад

I couldn't help but think of that "I believe in miracles" song 😂😂😂😂

@NicoleEivissa 5 лет назад

JG16riffin Well, i think about Time for miracles by Adam Lambert😃✨

@chasingarches8693 7 лет назад

Ahh this makes me happy to hear. I want to connect with a certain actor who I used to run a fansite for many years ago, and who reached out to me personally via email to express his gratitude when he found out I was closing the site (I had NO idea he had known about it to begin with - apparently he checked in occasionally!). I emailed him back at the time but don't know if he ever saw my response. I've seen him in person from afar at tapings of the show he was on (which I also manifested in the strangest of ways!) and think it would be the most fun thing ever to be able to meet with him in person, see if he remembers me and the website, and to express how much that message meant and still means to me. I would also love to give him a huge hug. 😁

@ChantalQC1969 19 дней назад

Well explained! Miracles have happened to me. I like to add "or better."

@shivikasingh7 2 года назад

She is the best coach

@maryjaindl9521 6 лет назад

Hey there Mrs illuminatingjoy. Thank you for your videos, helping me a lot right now. Going through money stress and found you just by "chance". Your helping me keep the faith.

@arjunmrao4039 2 года назад

Wonderful Video Amy Madam....Very Inspiringly Informative , Thank You ....

@Thepearlygates 7 лет назад

Thanks for amazing videos 에이미❤️ Love from Korea

@illuminatingjoy 7 лет назад

You are so cute for writing my name in Hangul! ❤️ You're welcome and happy manifesting in Korea!! I love Korea :)

@garywilson7883 8 лет назад

I LOVE THE WAY YOU BRING IT ALL DOWN TO EARTH, RIGHT WERE WE LIVE NOW IN THE NATURAL. SO MANY OF OUR GOOD METAPHYSICAL BROTHERS AND SISTERS STAY OFF IN OTHER DIMENSIONS, FORGETTING THAT THERE ARE A FEW NEEDS RIGHT NOW! (AND WE DO NEED TO BE ON AN ASCENDING PATH IN AWARENESS AND CERTAINLY IN AN EVER INCREASING GROWTH IN CONSCIOUSNESS. BUT I BELIEVE THAT ALL THESE NATURAL WONDERS AND BEAUTIFUL THINGS ARE HERE FOR US TO ENJOY DURING OUR STAY HERE.) WE NEED TO LEARN TO MANIFEST EASILY THOSE THINGS THAT MAKE US HAPPY AND PROVIDE US A COMFORTABLE AND ROMANTIC ENVIRONMENT IN THE PHYSICAL DIMENSION. BEING ROMANTIC TOWARD ONE ANOTHER, ESPECIALLY TO SOMEONE SPECIAL, AND HAVING A LOT OF REAL ADVENTURE AND TRAVEL AND GOOD CONVERSATION WHILE ON THIS PLANE OF EXISTENCE IS A WORTHWHILE GOAL. THESE THINGS ARE PUT HERE BY INFINITE INTELLIGENCE FOR US TO APPRECIATE AND ENJOY! YOU SUMMED IT UP AND BROUGHT IT DOWN TO EARTH WELL , i.e., SOMETIMES WE JUST NEED TO DEMONSTRATE A GOOD CUP OF STARBUCKS COFFEE! GOOD WORK, AMY! I"LL BE THINKING ABOUT YOU AND YOUR WORK, Gary

@garywilson7883 8 лет назад

+gary wilson LOOKS LIKE THE STARBUCKS TRIP WAS IN THE LAST VIDEO. BUT, IT IS ALL PART OF ONE BIG "PAINTING" AND PICTURE. (It was in the one called : "How to Refocus in Unwanted Situations". )

@mwil619 6 лет назад

Thank you so much for doing these videos! This couldnt be more true, I just experienced this after wanting something for years. Interesting the universe sends me information as validation, and only path clues beforehand, but only after I've unlocked the door by myself it seems. I wonder why?

@khesitahaurheeram7724 6 лет назад

Thank you Ammy

@Alex_Khan 6 лет назад

This video is Legendary

@GAIA-GALACTIC Месяц назад

thank you! :)

@arsheenap3711 4 года назад

This video came in my recommend just in time❤️

@sarasheis3672 6 лет назад

This helped me so much. I took notes

@trishstewart121 Год назад

you look radiantly beautiful

@longbarrel8468 7 лет назад

your amazing, missy

@illuminatingjoy 7 лет назад

Thank you :)

@manjusavanur6669 5 лет назад

Thanks thanks I am from India thanks great video thanks God bless you

@matias5143 5 лет назад

I miss you Amy! Come back to us and post more videos

@chrismorgan303 4 года назад

See that's really interesting to me - because I am completely there when you say I "believe it could happen to me"..because I absolutely do - I also believe in miracles 100%, so that statement is an "aha" moment....looks like I'm on the right track for manifesting my desire of reconciling with my girlfriend. Thanks Amy.

@randallsampson1473 10 месяцев назад

I knew yet hold back an trust that it should happen..❤❤❤😊

@victoriavillasenor5996 4 года назад

Right now, my ex and I are in a...complicated....relationship. I still have feelings for him as he does for me. He has this paranoia on being around family (mine and his) because of a traumatic childhood his mother is to mostly blame for. I came upon this video and it seemed really interesting to me because no other video about manifesting has brought up the topic of miracles. After finishing this video, my mother wanted for me to accompany her to the Dollar Store to pick up somethings. On one island on the middle of the store, there were these stacks of butterfly-shaped giftboxes. On top of one of them, there was a small book called "When Prayers Are Answered", by Amy Newmark. I have never seen or heard of this book before. When I open it up the first chapter, the title is "Expect Miracles." It was such a beautiful find. I did not see any more copies of the book in the book isle. It boosted my mood from where I was feeling this morning. Thank you. Many more manifestations and miracles to all you guys.

@CrisStuart 6 лет назад

I went to Brusque to spend the holidays and I really wanted to meet a friend of mine I hadn't seen in 3 years... The town is relatively small but not so much... I mean... I could pass the entire holiday without bumping into a person we know... So... I decided to go for a walk and I mentalized how cool would be to meet her... totally detached if it didn't happen. All of a sudden I spotted her right in front of me about to cross the street... I just had to yell her name and we met each other... pretty cool... I now understand what I did uncounsciously back then.

@naveens696 7 лет назад

Hi...waiting for more of your videos

@irenekim9299 4 года назад

I am in disbelief... I was watching another one of your videos right before this talking about asking the universe for answers. My one question was "will I be able to meet this k-pop idol and go to their concert in 2021?" and then I clicked this video and you started talking about a Korean singer! Maybe I'm looking into it too much, but I'll take it! And if you don't mind, would you feel comfortable telling us who the singer was? I'm very curious haha. Love your videos! xoxo

@ianfromoz5247 7 лет назад

Thank you

@suzieuda 7 лет назад

I read from the comments that you were talking about Junsu. I would love to meet him in person as well :)

@illuminatingjoy 7 лет назад

I'd love for you to meet him too!

@girlinterrupted9792 5 лет назад

I think I've just had my aha moment😊

@adaas3126 3 года назад

great. video

@ishtarmari5160 4 года назад

So cool that you like Korean pop too :)

@yolandabrooksqueenofsevens 6 лет назад

I know I can have him and everything else I desire..I also would love to meet Bryan Adams 2019 is my year I know it❤

@prettygirl7640 5 лет назад

yolanda brooks Good luck! 😊

@p.josette661 5 лет назад

Hi Amy,I don't know if you'll ever read this,but I thought I'd try. I am in exactly the same situation that you were in..I really and wholeheartedly want to meet a singer that I love...and I went to his shows twice,and sat in the front row,thinking and hoping that I could somehow "manifest" the meeting while being there..but it never worked ..I know I have to let the universe take over ..but what additional advice could you give me? P.s: I love your videos :-)

@divyapinge8407 3 года назад

I am a little confused here and could do with your thoughts and advice. I am in the process of manifesting my SP and I am loving it. I am living in the ‘act as of’ mode and also learning to love myself. I have surrendered all need to understand the ‘how’. When I do think about what if it doesn’t happen, I actually feel like laughing because I am So certain it will. I also know that no matter what I will be alright but it’s just that I ‘know’ it will happen. I visualise almost all day, sometimes knowingly sometimes unknowingly but Live with this thought that my SP is with me. I somehow cannot seem to imagine a scenario that my SP is not here. Am I subconsciously becoming attached? It’s like I know I know I really really know. How do you explain this Amy? Sometimes I feel I am more worried about getting the process right than the outcome 🙈

@fnorocks 6 лет назад

Totally amazing. I believe in law of attraction. It has worked for me but usually tends to take long thus increasing my anxiety level. What do you suggest I do? How do I not be needy when I that's the only thing I'm looking forward to?

@illuminatingjoy 6 лет назад

Set an intention to look forward to other things that are not related to your manifestation and also set the intention to enjoy your life as it is. :) If the manifestation is the only thing you are looking forward too, you are putting too much pressure on that to make you happy and that can slow down your manifestation. So don't give up the manifestation, just ADD in also enjoying life now, intend to do that (if you don't know how, that's fine, the intention will reveal how) and really be willing to enjoy BOTH life now and the manifestation. Add in more fun, add in more appreciation for what you already have.

@krizziaudtohan2154 6 лет назад

illuminatingjoy thank you! what you said really helps!

@magical.tinkerbell 7 лет назад

amy can you make us videos about believes

@sabrinanes7649 7 лет назад

So does this mean instead of completely believing something could absolutely happen (which is a difficult thought to hold on to but I am sure it works if someone can hold on to it) it is ok to believe there is a possibility of something happening. Thanks your videos are wonderful can't stop listening to them :-)

@blackagendermuslim7198 5 лет назад

to know that, we need to be capable of recognizing the difference between Good and evil behavior, but how do you know that?

@russianviolet528 5 лет назад

thank you amy.. if possible.. please do a video on intrusive thoughts/ocd elements that can seep in to your process.. so that your desire becomes.. well.. just overwhelming & your clarity is lessened.. also.. i am still trying to figure out what to do with a time crunch/life changing situation.. however.. as you have said in this video.. you don't need a miracle to believe in miracles.. ^_^ p.s. the situation has a korean element to it for me so i love that i watched this older video & to me those synchronicities say i am going in the right direction.. but i must act.. must get my process right.. & believe & trust in that beautiful universe we are all a part of as i continue living life as best i can.. much gratitude.. love & peace.. natalichka.. 💜💙💚

@randallsampson1473 10 месяцев назад

When God lead you the fear of disappointment go away an the devine take place..❤❤❤😊

@chnabha8504 4 года назад

Ur great 👍

@rajeshjaiswal4048 5 лет назад

Great💐👌👍😊☺

@346rrr 7 лет назад

Another question, I have been working on manifesting a brand new white Toyota Yaris, since I started this process when I am driving all I am seeing is white Toyota Yaris'. Does this mean that I am in alignment??

@doyelibasu 7 лет назад

Hey Ammy, wonderfully explained the concept of needing and wanting. Totally loved it. I have a small doubt here. What if the thought process is like, "I would love to have it but I know it will happen only if it is for my highest good!" So I'm not really needing it to happen and forgetting about it. Does this work even if someone wants to manifest the relationship with a specific person?

@illuminatingjoy 7 лет назад

Yes, not "needing" it works with all manifesting, no matter what the topic is. When we "need" something to be a certain way, we tell the Universe we are not okay if it doesn't happen and that is not allowing, that is resisting other ways. So you can get exactly what you want by paradoxically being okay no matter what happens because that's a state of allowing, whereas, "only this outcome or I won't be okay!" is a state of fear and restriction.

@mariaioannou4727 6 лет назад

Doyeli Basu have you manifestes your specific person?

@346rrr 7 лет назад

How often does one manifest? For example right now I am trying to manifest more money. Therefore, do I visualize everyday or night or do I just stop thinking about it?

@lavingshadow345 4 года назад

If you have a very strong feeling that something is happening very soon, is that good? or is that a bad thing?

@MJ-ud1ud 3 года назад

Hey Amy, thanks for this video! Out of curiosity, did you like visualize or practise living in the end for this particular manifestation during that three months before it happened?

@illuminatingjoy 3 года назад

Great question! Yes, I visualized talking to him in person and having his number. I probably imagined it over 20 times in those three months. I will say though, I was pretty hung up on HOW it would happen so I also imagined running into him (which is how it happened). I did not practice living in the end that much, but I already had a strong automatic mental diet for manifesting in general. I worked a lot on releasing resistance and detaching. It happened within a few days of me deliberately detaching (I still really wanted it, I just started enjoying the life I had over spending my time trying to manifest it).

@MJ-ud1ud 3 года назад

Amy, thanks much for sharing your personal experience ! I would like to share how much I have shifted into focusing on releasing resistance and just letting things/emotions BE in my manifestation process. Though initially uncomfortable, I swear by how fast I can move into the state of allowing when I don't struggle against negative emotions! I don't particularly find living in the end effective apart from personally applying it in step 1 of the manifesting process you teach. 😊 I really concur that releasing resistance IS the deal breaker! Thank you, Amy and wishing you a magical weekend ahead!

@lizziedeerest 5 лет назад

If you see this comment, I would love to know which Korean singer you are talking about! I have never forgotten this video because I grew up listening to Jpop. Recently, I got back into it. I have my favorite and I want to meet her and tell her that I listened to her music while growing up, and that she inspired me. I will come back and comment again when this comes true

@DopestArista 5 лет назад

Junsu.

@HurrPaulDurr Месяц назад

hi guys

@meditationstation1924 Год назад

I wish you would make new videos

@mermaidonline1929 7 лет назад

What's the name of that Korean singer? I'd like to check him out on youtube. He must be pretty good.

@illuminatingjoy 7 лет назад

Xiah Junsu.

@jokerumbrellabtr 7 лет назад

this reminds me,before i knew about manifesting (but i knew i was capable of making things happen by believing) i had an ex that would come and go. the third time my ex left me o remember i was talking to another person about it ,since i had been waiting for about 2-3 months for my ex to return,i had kept saying it and then in a moment of my believing my friend said,"face it marcos. they're not coming back." and at that moment,even though i didnt believe that,i just said,"maybe you're right." and then that night,my ex did what i had been expecting. so was that a form of detachment when i said,"maybe you're right." ?

@rishikasharma9279 7 лет назад

Yes it is. When you surrender to the situation, you"stop" trying to make it happen and when you do that, you let the Universe take over. There is no resistance because you are no more applying your brain and are okay with the way things are. You just need to accept your current situation and believe that you WILL get what you desire. And congrats on having your ex back. :)

@jokerumbrellabtr 7 лет назад

Rishika Sharma oh,that was 2 years ago lol my ex was only a step closer to the one i'm waiting for right now. i'm sort of in a better situation with someone else in which i'm depending on God to make happen since I solely believe God has shown me this person :) thank you for replyig!

@bonmgarcia 5 лет назад

💕

@rababkhursheed 7 лет назад

i feel relief and unlocked. but what happens after this? what does one do after finding relief ?

@illuminatingjoy 7 лет назад

It depends. If you have no other resistant thoughts or ideas in your mind, then just live your life as it is an enjoy it to the best of your ability. If the relief was only on one thing and there are other resistant thoughts in your mind, then continue to release resistance on those :)

@rababkhursheed 7 лет назад

illuminatingjoy thank you Amy. what do you mean by if the relief was only on one thought and not others? you mean thoughts associated with the same topic? and I noticed a nice long period of relief but suddenly I feel some resistance to the topic again. is it normal to get resistance in waves? should we just keep working on what resistance comes and keep finding relief?

@illuminatingjoy 7 лет назад

If you still have resistance then keep releasing resistance. Sometimes we only have one or two ideas that are stuck that need to be relieved... other times we have many. Yes, it's normal to have waves of it, it just means there are more ideas in your system that are not aligned with your desire. Also, expecting results can often create resistance, so you might not have any resistant beliefs yet, but still battle with expectation so don't wait for results as your mind will start to get frustrated when it doesn't see them.

@rababkhursheed 7 лет назад

illuminatingjoy Thanks alot!! much love :)

@lovechangeseverything9621 7 лет назад

Thanks for all the answers to my questions. But somehow I think I don't know how to get or stay in alignment. Same as letting go or detaching to manifest what I want versus slowing everything down because of wanting it too much to happen (fast). I just don't seem to be able to find out what works for me. I try that and this and what else and sometimes some things seem to work. I have manifested many great and plenty not great things so I know the universe is giving me what I am focusing on or what I want. I just rarely get anything accomplish when it involves another person or more people close to me. Family friends I don't have a clue how to figure out how I can manifest things involving them. Do you have any ideas or know what I can do to manifest with family or friends? And while I watched quite a big bunch of videos on Law of Attraction and read a bit about hermetics I haven't figured out 100% what works for me with manifestations like that.

@illuminatingjoy 7 лет назад

Only focus on your feelings and don't include the other people in the manifestation. Including them creates dependency on their participation. This requires being creative and thinking outside the box on how you can feel better without their participation at all.

@lovechangeseverything9621 7 лет назад

hmm ok so if I want a relationship with someone or a better relationship with a family member or friend how do I not include them in that? I know it all comes down to and starts with self love, but how to still interact with the people I care about is hard for me. I am not at the point yet where I love myself enough to spend time with them and get back into alignment quick after accepting the feelings I have when they do or say something that bothers me or hurts me. I do fine when I am by myself not seeing or talking to them, but I don't want to be a hermit for the rest of my life and that is not going to help me either I think.

@illuminatingjoy 7 лет назад

Acceptance of them as they are plus finding a creative way without their participation to change how you feel about your relationship to them. As long as you need them to change to feel better, you cannot get into full alignment with what you want with them because it creates dependency on their participation (which you cannot control). Make it 100% about choosing to feel better (so make it about your feelings not results).

@lovechangeseverything9621 7 лет назад

Your answers remind me of what I tried to learn/pick up from Abraham Hicks. Yes I understand it's about how I feel. It's always about me and how I deal with things. I can accept them as they are to a certain point but for example when one of my people keeps telling me things I don't want to hear about that and I try to be "creative" with it by ignoring it or distracting myself to feel better or good again, is that even a good idea? Or should I just in my mind tell myself things about me that will make me feel good instead of distracting myself with something else other than me?

@illuminatingjoy 7 лет назад

Accept don't distract. Distraction can be denial. Accept how you feel, how they are, how everything is.