She ain’t gone listen to NONE of this advice. The put together glam look just isn’t for her. At this point she mines well buy some baggy clothes and become a stud. She was going back and forth with Ashley, she not tryna take the advice.
You can do it. Trust me. I myself used to not wear makeup. But now I absolutely love to touch my brows, my lashes, and hair before I even go out the door. When you do it you will absolutely love the difference in how you look and feel. No more around the way girl, but definitely A feminine soft lady. I learned from youtube videos.
Yup I’ve definitely elevated my looks this last decade. I went from barely ever using make up. Now I’ve learned to keep it minimal but still enhanced, it’s not hard.
Same with me when it comes to makeup. I went on RU-vid and Tic Tok and search light makeup routine or everyday makeup routine for black women and soooo many videos or tutorials on how to do that. You can even search how to shape and fill your eyebrows or how to apply a bold lip. Yesssss youtube and tic tok got my face right. The information is out there just gotta do your research.
If you asked her to improve her posture she would say it’s too much. Your desired result is at the other side of the sacrifice you’re afraid to make. Hope she comes back with a makeover.
This is my first time listening to you. Im an older lady in my 50's and can leern some things from you... Girl you got some serious patience and remind me of Shera Seven. Blessings to you. New subscriber. Young ladies.. listen up..😍 you wont be young forever. Let me go put my pepsi down😂😂
She’s so pretty natural. She really just needs her hair done and some lip gloss and tint ugh. Her smile is gorgeous. SHE COULD LITERALLY DO A HEADBAND WIG (kinky straight and done!) for an everyday look. But yes that pixie cut will do her so well. She wouldn’t know what to do with herself 😂
I'm in Detroit. Where she at cause I'll get her together! That pixie cut would be beautiful. At least get a pixie wig to see how it looks 🤷🏽♀️ you want better so do better. Very beautiful woman though so all the best to her. ❤
Her hair is already permed. Jet Black Clip ins or Pixie. Brow Lamination. Lip stain. Lashes. Classy clothes/jewelry. Shed look so cute. But it’s only if she wants to.
Females who act like her irritates me a little. I had friends be like “I’m not doing all that or I only wear my natural hair” like ok thats why it’s me and not you 😂 I love looking good asf for me!
What's weird is that I've had ex friends ask me this kind of advice on how to enhance their beauty, just for them to refute my advice, yet go on to copy my look and style.. I don't have time for single black female energy, so I had to distance myself. People who copy everything you do, but don't listen to what you say, can't be trusted!
It is possible to do both and remain authentic to your personal style. You just have to be careful and very specific with the polish you apply. Every man does not want your beauty enhanced to your being unrecognizable without it. You don't want to be afraid to shower in front of your guy. As soon as your mystique is diminished the first time he sees you without it he's going to be on to the next .
People like this get on my nerves. You want change and come on wasting people’s time because you are afraid of change. You either want it or you don’t.
Only if she wanted to listen. It’s not a lot at all. You got to put effort in yourself. Natural is beautiful but ain’t nothing wrong with a little something extra.
If you consider " a guy a at the gas station saying let me get your number, randoms asking you your name when you walking down the street or people who "match" with you on a dating app" as HAVING OPTIONS... go head wit ur bad self😂
Actually, the hair suggestions were a bit extreme for the guest because she’s starting at square one. How about a braid out or slicking her hair back into a low pony or adding a flower to the lower side of a side part with nice drop earrings. With your other suggestions of makeup, any of those beginner options would be great.
She'd only complain about not having enough hair to pull back without even trying. I don't know why she even went on this Lady's platform if she wasn't going to take her advice.
trust me Keisha, there is a guy out there that will love u for you. No makeup, no lipstick. i say don't put those damn tracks in your hair because u will go bald. let your hair be natural. just dress differently. DRESS girly, if u can and do your hair different and there will be a man out there for you.
Honestly, I don't think that her appearance would be her biggest issue with men. She doesn't listen and comes across as Combative. Men certainly don't like that!
It takes me 15 minutes to do my face I’m not beat to the Gods but I got concealer , eyeliner , mascara and some blush it sounds like a lot but it’s really not hard
Them was the barest of minimum changes. It's 14 yr olds doing more to maintain their look lol. All she said was do your hair and put on some lip gloss!
She favors Shacarri Richardson a little in the face. But yes, you can’t have it both ways. If your goal is comfort you will sacrifice elegance. Elegance requires a bit of discomfort
I want to ask the men and the women in the comments somebody ppllleeaassee by all means school me give me a lesson on life because how is it that men complain about a woman wearing a wig putting on make up doing whatever they have to do to feel good about themselves regardless of why they’re doing it why are men so pressed? It’s giving jealousy I feel like y’all don’t want your homeboys cousins or whoever else looking at your chick!!!! so you don’t want her to be extra ….. I came to that conclusion because when a woman is looking natural having a bonnet on like she got out of bed, y’all wanna come for her too when a woman doesn’t have any ass y’all wanna come for her then women get BBL y’all still wanna come for her????? Back in the day we didn’t have options so if we weren’t naturally pretty, we were screwed !!!! And had no problem making us feel bad about ourselves now we want to do things to feel good about ourselves and it’s a problem it’s giving ZESTY AND JEALOUS ATP !!?!?! Because wouldn’t you want your girl to look her best if she’s gonna be around you make it make sense wouldn’t you want anybody to look their best around you
If thats the case then why is she asking for advice? Obviously something aint working for her. And dont be fool by men dont like makeup. They like when we are put together. Most dont realize when we are wearing sutle makeup. They dont like drag makeup. That's the difference
