I’m a 21 y/o mom of 2 kids both under the age of 2. For a while I’ve been feeling like I “lost myself” but watching your videos really motivates me to want to start dressing nice. So thank you Naomi for that!
I’m 65 and I tell you it is worth it! Wearing different clothes makes a difference. And all it has to be is Leggings (so you can run) a cute shirt ( for you to feel human.) T shirts don’t count. Concealer and lipstick ; you know if it’s optional or not…😁
OMG!! People are so sensitive! 🙄 this is just an advice video that YOU clicked on. The people who are commenting that she is stuck up cuz she said that certain looks are sloppy are just mad cuz they probably dress sloppy on the regz. I find she gave great tips and is very sweet. If you dont like this just go to the next one! Geez
Well I dress 'sloppy' a lot. And that's just how I like it. I don't have a stick up my butt about what Naomi said... That's the look I'm going for, and for my personal style and liking, I think it looks good on me, and I look good everyday. But she clearly talks about more put together, elegant looks and I think it's great advice for those interested in that kind of look and for me too, if I want to dress more elegant, sophisticated one day. Doesn't mean cowl neck top (which I love) looks bad. Depends what kind of look you're going for. People get very worked up in many of her videos about her being judgemental etc but why take this so personal? We all have our own style and can make certain things work for ourselves and look like a million dollars. But certain pieces are obviously more stylish, classic and timeless and it's almost guaranteed they'll look good and elegant on anyone, any day. The rest of it you need to know how to work it to your advantage and maybe it will be as success and maybe a disaster outfit. People use your brain, take the advice if you feel like it could help but don't bash the girl. This is good advice. It doesn't offend anyone who chooses to dress differently.
omg people will be offended at anything these days! It’s the first time I’m seeing a video of yours, you sound put together, not judgemental, I already subscribed and these are all excellent tips! People will go to such lengths to justify their laziness tbh, don’t ever change!
I never realized the structure played such a role but after cleaning out my closet last week I am realizing the pieces I hated were those slouchy ones. Great tips!!!
Ladies you all need to remember this is HER tips on how SHE dresses ... although she could have said things differently when she mentioned the tucking in the shirt part, instead of saying it looks messy when it’s not tucked in she could’ve said it suits HER better.. not all females are slim and can tuck in their shirt but that doesn’t mean they’re messy they are still beautiful and can still dress... besides that I’ve seen so many females that don’t use any of these tips yet looked stunning in what they wear. REMEMBER THAT NO MATTER WHAT YOU ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL IN WHATEVER YOU WANT TO WEAR . Btw there’s no hate here you keep doing you boo cause you’re still killing the game as all of us are as well. But please guys let’s spread positivity instead of putting each other down. We are ALL beautiful (:
Thank you!! I totally take everything you said in a positive light. Thank you also for understanding where I'm coming from and knowing I would never mean any harm in any of my videos! Everyone is beautiful NO MATTER WHAT!
Why are there so many negative comments?! This video was not (in any way) judgmental! Like am I missing something?! People are wayyyyyy too sensitive!!
Congiary - first off you have to realize when people are like that with others , they're even more like that with themselves. Advertising has unfortunately made us feel this way. It is a noble effort to rally the troops by looking your best. I like to look my best, but I am not willing to crazy over it. And I know the secret: the more real looking, the more beautiful, for longer. And that's something only health and love can do.
Interesting point about the necklines in t-shirts and sweaters, however the reason why some girls don’t tuck their top in is because that will accentuate their stomach area, and not everybody is comfortable with that. If you have a nice waist and flat stomach, sure, otherwise sometimes it looks better covered up.
I totally agree, however these are my style secrets that I do for myself and kept re-iterating that for reasons like this. My subscribers always want to know the things I do to achieve a look so I made a video about what I do. It's not going to work for everyone, but maybe the other tips will.
I totally get what you mean, but one thing i like to do is to tuck the top not in the front, but on one side . So the bellyarea is covered but your legs still look a bit elongated. Give it a try! :)
I definitely love the new palazzo style pants this year it definitely thins you down to where you can tuck in shirts and even wear like a halter shirt which I haven’t been able to wear since I gained weight
I was thinking the same thing but I noticed it is really just a small part in the front but loose where there would be a muffin top. Now that high wsisted jeans/pants are back in style I agree it looks much better
I think it’s hard for some to accept you know yourself and your preferences very well. You sound so decided and you also sound like a very kind person! Great tips and video.
I know not everyone is going to love what I have to say, but all my videos are me just trying to help IF I can. Thanks for taking it for what it is and thank you so much for watching!
Yessss! I was the tee shirt queen and never had anything when I wanted to look more put together. I forced myself to limit tee shirts to just a few in black, grey, white, and a black & white striped and focused more on nicer basics, mostly neutral colors, layering, and embraced a more minimalist wardrobe that is timeless and chic. Your videos have really helped me during that process. Thanks 🙌🏽
Naomi, you don't even have a mean bone in your body. I thought this was one of your best videos. All this time I didn't realize it was structure that I was lacking... I learn so much from your tips and this is why I tune in to your channel every week. Thank you for this video. Enjoy the negativity. It means you're doing great hun!
Great video! These tips are all classic tips that we have moved away from. Everyone followed these tips 60 years ago, structure, tailored, blouses tucked in makeup and hair, just think of how beautiful and elegant women looked back then.
Lots of negativity here, but I think if it's not your thing change the channel. Love all your points, good style, very chic. Keep up the good work and forget the haters.
Thanks Naomi! I keep your tips in mind when shopping. My clothes are so old and I have lots of piece regrets or things people bought for me that I don’t like but felt bad about taking back. It has left me with a wardrobe that I don’t love at all. I am going to shop in a few months for some things and I’m always making lists based on your videos. I want to be stylish but it’s so hard with four kids- one of who is only six months and drools all over me. I’m also tired a lot but I need to get in routine of looking put together. Thanks sooo much for your help!
Finally! An advice video that actually gives great insight! The only thing I’ve been doing different lately is dressing up and doing very minimal hair and make up. My husband loves that look and it’s obviously easier for me! ❤️
Very interesting! I didn’t know where to start because all my clothes are ugly and don’t fit well. I want to start all over again step by step and look good as a young mom. You’re such a good inspiration! 🙏🏽 thanks!!!
These are style tips that she goes by and she’s sharing guys. What works for her may not work for you. If you don’t agree with her tips then stop watching. I’m pretty sure your mother taught you if you have nothing nice to say, don’t say sh*t at all. Great video Naomi. Don’t let the negativity bother you.
That is sooooo true, if youre home and look like $#^@, it truly affects how u feel as well. I do the same, ill get ready for no reason. Not over the top, but at least decently well put together :). Makes a world of difference. GREAT tips btw.
I won't go out looking schleppy anywhere. I always run into people at the Whole Foods. Sometimes I haven't seen them in 7 years, and won't see them again for another 7 years and this is the memory they will take with them ,so.....
Can you do a video about undergarments? You wear the most beautiful body suits and necklines but I'm struggling to know which bra to wear! I tend to wear the same set of bras and none seem to suit every shirt ... Do you have a lot of bras or a favorite you can review?
Gabrielle Pitts I found the brand underwhere lifts your butt and keeps your tummy flat they arw affordable and are sold at dr.jays these are the only underwear i wear unless im not going out i will wear regular ...I have the same problem with bras but i wear sports bras but the girly ones since I dont have a big chest but i just add my bra inserts aint no shame I want to look into the bra that lifts to see if it will work but just like she said camisoles are good to wear all year long...bodysuits try forever 21
Busy full time working mom of 3 under age 8 and I agree we can all pull it together. I never head to work with a wrinkled top. I mainly buy things I don't have to iron bc I don't have time for that! I've got 3 kids to get ready every morning. I love my dry shampoo, always carry a small essential make-up bag on the go. Combed and styled hair (bonus points), clean short nails, moisturized face and proper fitting clothes is classy. Love your tips! A
Great tips. Am a SAHM of 3 and love classic styles. Yolanda Hadid is amazing. No matter what size I am and even just post babies, I learned to not stay home and not be dressed. I wake up and get dressed every morning with hubby, lil face beat and start the day even if I end up being home all day with the babies.
So true Naomi I do my hair and can leave it 3 days before washing it again and I sleep on a satin pillow case, keeps hair in place for longer. I’m 52 with 3 almost grown up kids And I like to dress nice every day. Thanks for your awesome tips. I’m looking so much better for it. ❤️
Thank you Naomi!! I stay loyal to your Tuesday's and Thursday videos. Do you think you can do a video on "Timeless pieces" must haves ? In regards to Jackets, shoes, accessories?? I think that's what I'm missing to feel put together. Thank you love!
Really good tips. I never tucked in my shirts but after seeing how having the shirt tucked takes the look to a whole other level, I'm definitely gonna start to do it.
All of your tips are amazing! Also, thank you for taking the time to encourage busy women and busy moms. I, myself, have neglected my appearance for the sake of getting the kids to look cared for and out the door on time. I end up getting to my work place looking like a hot mess. I came into work the other day with my knit sweater INSIDE OUT! Love your videos and love you!
Naomi these are amazing tips and you explained them so well. I will definitely take away structure. I never thought of structure from that point of view. When people talk about structure, they always talk about waist and shoulders but never the neckline. And when I think about it, there are tops that are so uncomfortable that I think twice about before leaving the house and that’s because of their neckline. I think also remembering to have at least one shape-wear undergarment for outfits that need it or to hide the baby fat for mums makes a huge difference to my outfits after having been through three kids. It makes all the difference. And one other vey important thing that has nothing to do with clothes - keep on top of that unwanted facial hair: eyebrows, upper lip, chin. ❤️ You always look amazing and you’ve inspired me to keep my wardrobe classic. ❤️
Great advice on the use of a tailor! I am petite with a large bust, small waist, larger butt and wide hips. I size up to fit the largest area and then take my clothes to the tailor to cinch in the waist and shorten the cuff/hemline if needed. The result is a polished look and worth the extra $$.
nishani3 -yeah you can't expect a fit into something that's meant to fit everybody. Especially if you're like me and have a front and a back (breasts and an ass)
You really mentioned things that most people wouldn't necessarily think of! I've always hated boatnecks and felt sloppy in them but never put it into words like you did haha! Love how precise you are with everything. Amazing pointers!
First and foremost I love your look and how you style your self. I know this might be too much TMI but could you possibly do a video on they types of bras that you recommend to wear with the camisoles I love the look of camisoles but have a hard time finding the right bar. I know it might be too much TMI but maybe even just what store you shop would be nice to know.
LOL yes Yolanda Hadid! I love her and miss her so much. She was the ultimate Malibu barbie housewife. She always looked so classy and on point in her all white pieces.
Thank you for the structure lesson. I have many sweaters in my cart and finally realized why I haven't pulled the trigger. Eureka they lack Structure! Chunky structure like you are wearing is possible. I can do this! THANKS! You are such a love! XO
thank you naomi! you really know what you are doing and you always explain everything so good in your videos. it is so fun to see how your channel grows. hope more people find you, because we all need a little more of your style in ours!!
Your videos are always so helpful. I'm coming out of my younger t shirt phase and trying to start dressing like an adult. So you've become my go-to for fashion inspiration when I want to look more mature but feminine at the same time. Plz keep up the awesome vids 😊
I remember watching this a year ago and have tucked in my tops ever since! Makes such a difference and it makes it seem like I put effort in what I’m wearing but all I did was TUCK IN MY SHIRT for like .5 seconds
It's true,since the moment I saw the tucking in the front part some months or so ago,it gave me a new use of my pieces! I feel more confident,classy even thinner
Love the tip about tucking g in shirts! I work in a cafe so wear a black t shirt and black Jeans and always felt like my midsection looked very "block" shaped, like my sides went straight down rather than having an actual waistline while wearing my black tshirt down over my Jeans. Watched one of your videos for the first time yesterday, tucked in my shirt today and oh my goodness the difference was insane! My jeans waistband sits just below my belly button, and I found tucking it it just gave the appearance of a cinched waist, so I have a bit more shape. I am a mama of a one year old little girl, who is sick of having rushed makeup, undone hair and slouchy, stretched out clothes (from wearing while pregnant, everyone told me I wouldn't fit anything I own after having her so I wore them as long as I could with a growing belly...more loose skin and stretch marks, but size wise I was back to normal withing 2-3 weeks and all my pre pregnancy clothes were ruined 😭😂) I'm now subscribed and ready to learn how to look more put together, my confidence and happiness with myself definitely took a hit from not looking my best, so I'm ready to get all that back again!
I loved the tip on tucking the front of an oversized shirt or sweater in as I'm an hourglass with a small waist and I hate how I seem to drown in baggy tops. Thanks for the tips.
Love this type of video you should make more, id love more tips on color coordination, skin color and fabric color matching, and how to make clothes figure flattering
Naomi I love you 💕 and all your videos this video was very needed I struggle everyday trying to look good and put my styles together. Thank you. Have a happy thanksgiving. 🍁🦃🍽.
Love your videos. I’m 45 and I can’t relate usually to younger bloggers. I think you have a great vibe and you’re very knowledgeable and on point. Very smart cookie! ❤️
I absolutely loved this video! Thank you so much. I already do 2-3 of these but the structure tip was one that I haven't been intentional about. This was invaluable for my style.
All of these ladies or girls who can't understand she is telling you the way she dresses and how to achieve because obviously she has done so. She has tons of subscribers and probably lots of independent work. Y'all need to get it together. With this old shit and this offensive talk, you don't like it click off and don't come back. She don't need you. Y'all the ones on RU-vid looking for videos. Y'all need to be grateful people can be transparent enough to be themselves. Y'all prefer to be trolls and have something negative to say. People always gonna have something to say. Why not, not be one of them?
This really helps. I'm 22, and going through a crisis with far too many credits this semster, plus a job. I reallyyyyy want to redo my wardrobe. I recently purged my closet and I'm trying to rebuild a new closet for each season starting this upcoming spring. Just simple, easy, and chic. Thanks for sharing your tips :))
I always feel self conscious when I wear cowl neck pieces and anything with a slouchy neckline. As a result I do not reach for these pieces often. I never understood why until I saw your video. Keep them coming Naomi
i like this but just a little something i’d like to state is that it should be: if you feel good in the inside, you’ll look good on the outside. however this doesn’t mean that you’re statement, which was the other way around was anywhere off the mark. i too feel good when i know that im looking good. i just hope that, on days that someone doesn’t look conventionally good, they don’t feel bad and have low self confidence just because of that.
I agree with everything except for the makeup part... idk why but I just never really liked makeup . I love clothes, shoes,handbags,doing my nails but I never got into makeup
I love this video! Great tips! I feel like I need to stress that we women don't NEED makeup to feel confident. Use it to enhance what you already love, which is you in your natural state 💖 practice self love! Everyone is beautiful without and with makeup 😘
I'm plus size and apple shape at that I don't feel comfortable ticking in shirts just yet (I'm working on loving myself) but I do understand it can look sloppy with lots of oversized things not having structure
What would you recommend us plus size women to wear? I’m also working on my self-esteem and I’m changing my wardrobe. How can we achieve that classy comfortable look?
Me too I’m out of plus size now but still feel my stomach is not flat enough to tuck. How do you hide this problem area? Without looking slouchy or bigger than I am? I call it a front butt 😆🤣😭
Just discovered your channel! I love how you address moms in this. Before my daughter came 6 months ago as a young college girl I would have rolled my eyes and now as a new mom I think it’s so thoughtful of you! My question is - when working at home I feel guilty for a full face of makeup. Before my baby I wore a full face every day. False lashes. Everything. During my pregnancy I was sick a lot and really stopped wearing makeup for the first time in my life! Now I feel guilty for wearing makeup verses letting my skin breathe and heal if I’m say just at home. How do you balance skincare or the opportunity for your skin to be natural with wearing a full face for just at home? Thanks and loved your tips!
I like all your tips but the tucking isn’t for everyone. I personally love they way it looks but when you have a little tummy or not a flat tummy we definitely feel more comfortable with loose tops.
You’re my favorite! I love the “go the whole 9”!! I used to think that dressing up was too hard! That I could kinda hide out if I didn’t dress up and not call too much attention but it’s so fun to dress up. Love your tips! It’s really fun to look polished he he.
Love these points I'm always at the tailor with my jeans cuz im only 5'0 i don't care I'll spend the money just to have my clothes fitting right. Really love this video Naomi!
Naomi, can you do a video on pants: jeans, culottes and dress pants for shirt women. I’m 5’ 2” and I looooove your dress pants that tie in the front and culottes but I have NO idea what to look for in terms of how they should fit and how to tuck shirts in them. Please and thanks!! 🙏🏼
I thought it was a great video with tips that I never thought of before. Even though I'm not as small as you so I have to adjust some advice based on my size, you make some great points and there are a lot of women out there who can benefit from your advice.
Love love this video! Super easy tricks to keep in mind while shopping! Thank you for sharing, I feel like I want to throw away all those lame pieces I have that don't have structure, because I love that look and style! Coming back again and again to your channel! ❤️
Great tips, Naomi! I enjoyed the video, very helpful. I personally wear midi skirts most of the time and have a difficult time styling them, I'd love a video on that! :) xx
I LOVED this video!!! I was listening as I was cleaning my closet; and HAD to stop to WATCH it instead. Great content! I can definitely incorporate a lot of this. Thank you!❤✊
Thanks a lot Naomi..this is so helpful..guys please she is not the one who is judgemental, u are..why can't you look at the positive side of her video...sic
Again...such a good Video ;) Love to listen to you..ur Tipps r so good its 1 am in Germany but After your Video i want to stand up and dress myself :* i Love you sweetheart
I loved your tips, totally agree with tucking in. I’m going to start doing that because I always felt like the sweater was cute it just looked blahhh.... thanks 😉 Also, don’t mind the negative comments. If they don’t like it then don’t watch it!