In case y'all wanna refresh the tips last minute. 1. Touch on her love languages 2. Make her feel safe 3. Open up every now and then 4. Make your availability unpredictable (Make her feel good when you're with her)
@@annettemontoya2821 be unpredictable she should never know ur next move maybe u text her first two days in a row then have no contact til she text back if she dont text u first she dont fw you
@@sladedub-210 And You don’t think the girl is thinking that you dont fw her if you’re just hot n cold n ghosting her ? If it’s real, neither of u should be playing these games
14:20 Part 2: How to get her interested/addicted 1. Self improve/up your looks (gym, hygiene) so that you look like you can protect her. 2. Look for choosing signals (i.e. constant looks/staring, always tries to be in your vicinity); it is best bet for a quality connection. 3. Do NOT stare at her constantly/giving her a lot of attention (i.e. like in the gym) 4. YOU have to make the approach. 5. Keep good eye contact, calm tone (ALWAYS be in masculine frame), good body language, stand close to her (do not act like you are scared). 5.a. Masculine frame: Do not be emotional/cry/complain around her, look like you can protect her/keep her safe (improve physique) 6. If it goes well, set up a way to link up (give her your number) 7. DO NOT be predictable (make sure to change it up). Open up very slowly/gradually over time in a roller coaster-like fashion. Keep mystery/unpredictability in the air (exchange as little about yourself as possible while finding out a lot about her). 8. When opening up, spin it in a positive light (do not complain about the past/be emotional). Also NEVER reveal everything about yourself to be mysterious/interesting. 9. Ultimately, you want to be the guy that can fufill her needs but is not always there (i.e. is not needy/a doormat). 9.a. Be qualified but not desperate for her either (have your own life going on; be willing to say no/stand your ground). 9.b. Give her time to miss you 10. Also make sure to find her love language (physical touch, acts of service, words of affirmation, gifts, and quality time) 10.a. Words of affirmation (do NOT overvalidate) 10.b. Gifts (do not give them often, keep them cheap i.e. less than $20) 11. Make sure to NEVER reveal how you feel about the two of you 100%. 11. Summary: Touch on love languages, make her feel safe, open up every now and then, make availabilty unpredictable, and never reveal how emotionally invested/you feel about her 100%. 12. Eventually, if she is really liking you, then she will ask if you are seeing anyone else and/or she will want to make relationship official/exclusive.
@@strongindependentblackwoma1887Always have something going on during the day (gym, work, friends, hobbies ecc) so that youre not overly available to hang out
This is just manipulation... you aren't being your true self! Working out for women, can't be emotionally vulnerable around her! Sounds like a bunch of bullshit, if somebody doesn't respect you, your needs, and feelings then that person is a waste of your leisure.
The first time a chick liked me back I cuffed her and she ended up breaking my heart and now I’m afraid of even being invested into a girl that I just be messing around
Bro how are you perfectly describing my 1st relationship so accurately damn. Also I completely agree that we all crave female attention I remember being in my early 20's and working around mostly dudes then when I went back to college I had zero clue how to interact with a women and just wanted validation from em.
@@urevya I know I'm late but.. lol yea bruh. Shit is weird u start seeing how girls really act when they like you back vs wen u like a chick and she don't like you like that. And then once u learn female nature it's a whole NOTHER world 🌎! But yea it's crazy tho
Although a person not gonna chase forever they'll eventually lose hope and lose interest and start holding resentment against you and they'll start looking elsewhere
This guy 😎🔥 Everything you said is whats happening to me right now I will use this method either she will go or stay, I WILL BE VERY THANKFUL TO YOU FOR THIS
been a month since my first ever breakup, i got recommended this video and bro just decided in the first 5 minutes of the video to just list my entire love life from start to present
Lmao I did that selling a dream move by accident and it really works, they’ll cry for you but in my case it started drama Cus my boy liked her 😭😭 hs was fun
this is a big one today women will ask for money and it may or may not be a act but they show you that they are interested and its so common should do a video on this
I had to sub 😭😭 somebody in your family must be or must’ve been a pimp cause I do all these naturally sometimes except for the selling dreams part but I just keep it 100 but I do feel you on what you sayin for sure. Not one lie said here.
This vid helped me man i appreciate u👊 but god damn it’s hard work with females bruv😂 the amount of bs you gotta try understand and remember it ain’t really worth it🤣 better off just working on yourself till your that much of a g she hits you up
What do you call it, if we’re relating first love to drugs. Your addicted to the drug at first, but then you stop because it made you sick for a really long time and the drug is rejecting you, but your rehabilitating but your still addicted to it. If that makes sense For clarity, I been fixated and eventually fell in love with this girl I knew ever since high school, and i told her I liked her one day, I believe I said “I was in love with her” and she became distant, she started to pull back from me, and it’s been a downward slope since that point. And I’m now trying to move on but I’m still in love with her. And I was to reassure her but I’m scared of getting hurt again. I been dealing with this for 4 years now
Kam I feel like there’s never a good time or place or thing to say to her. I don’t know her really well so I don’t know what she likes and she is always around her friends so cold approaching is tough. So I just haven’t talked to her. With her it’s different I can do any other girl.
This all sounds so fvcking annoying. What’s the point if I can’t be myself? I’m exhausted just listening to this and all the other advice of playing games to maintain their interest. If being genuine and giving love and affection as I feel it at the moment will eventually repel them, then she clearly is not for me. I won’t suffocate my passion, nor contort myself.
That's why i been watching your videos back to back because i think you look good but you been ignoring me lol i think you got me hooked on you because you ignoring me and that's making me emotionally invested because people don't like being ignored but subconsciously they are attracted to someone who ignores them. Just like i love when I'm getting the attention that I seek but I no longer have to chase for the attention so i like that but subconsciously i don't like that. So I turn to the next Guy who gonna give Me that feeling of being ignored again. Because if you show too much love i believe it pushes the person away without knowing because they got what they want emotionally and physically and now she's gonna search for that feeling again with another person that's where cheating and break-ups might come into play sooner than later
I’m 24, she’s 19. Sister friend. Moved in a few months ago as a roommate. I’m across the hall. I like her. She shows context signs. But it’s hung up on her bf that ghosted her. First guy to leave her. She’s been confiding in me about him and how to get over him and iv just been relating to her and helping her by talking about it and how to change the perspective. Is this a good move? For the first time she got emotional with me. This is good? She’s been messing around with some random dude but said she feels icky doing it cause of her ex. Any advice? Keep it distant? Get closer? 50/50? She had also mentioned I’m kinda like a brother when I asked how she felt about me but she grinned really big. Is there a chance to get out of that into somthing more?
Bruh I wouldn’t know choosing signals if I saw it. Even if she was showing choosing signals I would dismiss it as some normal shit. Maybe that’s mindset 🤷🏽♂️
Nice vid man. theres been a chick ive been talking to off an on for years now..Big age gap (MILF) so i never took it too serious but she always showed strong indicators of interest. We stopped talking for a year or so ( I kind of ghosted her, we both dated other people tho) but we started talking again like 6 months ago, and we were talking for a few months and she was choosing hard. told me im her type couple times, always touchy, flirting, telling me i make her nervous, and getting flustered when making strong eye contact, etc.. there were apparently rumour going around that we had something going on (which she wasnt denying, she mentioned it to me & her friends even asking me about it) i always just flirted with her for fun (shes cute and all but big age difference so i never took it too serious) she knew i was kind of interested in someone else but never worked out, and continued talking to her and flirting.. Well i ended up ghosting her again for a few months ( i had a feeling she sabotaged a relationship i had with that other girl, i cant prove it but it seemed likely) , internally i was struggling but didnt want to show it on the outside so i never told her why i did that but i was pissed & cut her off. So after a few months pass by one night she randomly breaks no contact and compliments my cologne or whatever and i just acted a loof and brushed it off. The next day i contact her accusing of checking me out and we talk a little bit, kept it short but cordial. After a couple days she was acting flirty again and initiated contact and i flirt a little bit (nothing validating, more so just teasing her of wanting too see me) convo seemed to have went fine to me she was touchy and flirty, a little fidgety.. however I did end the convo with me saying how I dont trust her, and her group of friends (they all hate me)... after that she left the convo pretty quick and i could tell she was avoiding me, so i pulled back.. so she avoided me for like a month (no contact) she then reaches back out asking me a stupid question and i just act aloof and keep it short. she avoids me again now for 2 weeks.. then tries to initiate convo w/ me like 3 days in a row but I just said hi and keep it moving. Weve been avoiding eye contact with each other all together now...At times I feel like I catch her looking at me from a distance but she avoids me like the plague, we do have a close mutual friend tho (hes her simp lol) whats your take on this? couple scenarios come to mind... 1.) she doing this for revenge for the times i ghosted her 2.) she maybe interestered but playing games 3.) she caught my flirty vibe & just wants to be friends .... Kicker is I have to see her often (work) ... you suppose I should just forget about her? Appreciate any input
I had party with group of friends I talk to this Chick she was my ex she touched me bye love laugh I grave her back and also Hook up at the day next few weeks later go we got back together.
They should come naturally my g it’s not that hard. When you have to talk to them the words will come don’t panic they are just humans nothing more than you
@@sanityfc2988 that’s not how it always works. For me it’s like there’s never a time or place or good thing to say to start talking to her so I just haven’t yet.
@@bnfivestar that’s not how it always works. For me it’s like there’s never a time or place or good thing to say to start talking to her so I just haven’t yet.
Cold heart mienda. It seems like that’s how a woman treated you, just ignores you, like you even wasn’t there, you ain’t the only one. You have to treat a woman with respect, just like you want respect, you have to treat her with respect, and both you guys have to agree what you guys are talking about, it ain’t no such thing as what he says or what she says, both you guys have to agree if you guys love each other you have to agree or else fuck both you guys, then it ain’t no deal.
She was super interested at first and it still seems like that now but less and it feels like she slowly drifting away she texts first most of the time but I text back basically everyday also I don’t respond right away - and idk if I should not text her back for the weekend or should I keep doing what I’m doing…
She lost interest cos you took no action, YOU are meant to text back first not her all the time, you are the man not her, you are the reason this relationship faded, I did the same a bit back, after I found out why she lost interest cos she told my sis.
Dont text her back now, be confident say hi and all that just talk like a normal person when you can, enjoy your life if she sees how your chaging she'll be back if thats what she wants
Ok so i pretty much went through this exact scenario and then she started pulling away. I don't think I have acted to desperate so it might be recoverable, is it possible to recover this? She opened up to me before more than I did to her so idk if that helps?
