I wish my father taught me all of this when I was about 10 years old and reminded me daily into adulthood. I deserve to be in a healthy and happy relationship!
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If you've stop getting that value and attention and love from your man, stop giving him back too, as simple as that. Just ignore, he will come back when he realises, and if he doesn't, probably he's not the one for you.
1. Scarcity of your time (high value woman has limited time) 2. Social Proof (how do your friends treat you? how are your relationship with your family? Do you have health relationship with others?) 3. Commitment (make commitment expectation, and it sld be bigger over time, make sure each level of investment is commensurated with your level of investment)
Absolutely! No matter if he's your husband, fiance, boyfriend or family member., When a man stops investing in you, pull away and make yourself priority. Its an action on your part that makes change happen quickly. Never row the boat alone.
I would like more topics about those with disabilities and dating. Everything from developmental disabilities, post birth injuries, and mental health impairments.
Exactly they make it sound like Dave is only for people that are perfect and have really good jobs some of us have autoimmune disorders and on disability. I can't afford to pay for guys dinners after use all my money for supplements in just to thrive
@@metrogenwendy6560 I hear you. Dating is complicated. The poor can't afford dating coaches. Sure I had a sugar daddy, but those days are gone. When you are disabled, the only benefit your date will get is your handicapped tag for free parking.
OMG folks! My exact thought at this moment! My problem is telling people truthfully, who I am. I was told in the summer of 79’: don’t tell…people will never understand, no matter they wish to…. People are confused by my high energy…would love your comments!!!
And again you surprise us with a very beneficial video! Everything you stated is correct actually. When he sees her busy and focusing on her life, he'll miss her presence. Especially when she is open about her time schedule also respecting his life and its schedule as well. Well done jason!!!!!
But many women hit on men they like, and act so available. Some men say this is confidence. A women who has the courage to chase a guy is so confident of herself. So basically it probably varies between men and who they see it
All these talks are probably necessary for today's times because the roles are much more clearly defined and women have lost their natural feminity to quite an extent. That is the price to pay for equality and freedom. But in the 1970's when we were young and dating we didn't plot and plan all the how to's...! Boys and men were drawn to us just as we were. .. And liked us for just being ourselves. Loving is not complicated when there isn't a pile of foolish expectations and silly games played.
What if things are constant.. no progress. Shall we go separate way? I don't understand how to move things forward. I am busy with my life.. shall I ask him to see me more often even if that wouldn't suit me. The only thing that suits me is to be together eventually.. but I have no clue how to progress into that "togetherness". I just don't have time for dating
I must say something. Normally I don't, and this is not a judgement, but more so a concern... I sense trickery and fraud in the techniques you preach. The video title is dangerous. I hope nobody deploys these demonic tactics. You mention you have a wife. I wonder if you are bible believers in marriage or is the marriage based on a financial framework. You seem like a good man, but please stop this content.
I had a man tell me recently. I didn't have time for a man. I think I have filled my life so much with friends and family activities that he may be right.
@@nervotica7991 IDK if Kathy Clark took it as one or not, but it’s not an awful thing too be told. Maybe it was a good thing so she can reevaluate her life and make some changes if she is interested in finding a man. Or maybe that’s how she wants it. Maybe she’s happy with her life as it is, and doesn’t want anything long term. She was just telling us of a scenario from her own life that relates to the video, and may be helpful for some women to know. I guess if I were actively looking for a relationship, particularly with the guy who made the comment, I would’ve taken it as a negative. But at least then she would know how he feels and can make some changes. I find it flattering that he’s honestly telling her how he feels and that he probably wants too spend more time with her.
Truth is a high value woman is always single, why? Because there are a lot of guys who don't know how to value a real woman with value. That is why Jason's advice is so effective. Healthy Women will only attract a healthy Man.... In mind, body and heart.
@@veeredorrio3834 Exactly! 💯 If he doesn't view you as a prize, then he will treat you like you don't matter. I've had both, how they treat you is vastly different.
Most of my family are dead, and I don't have any close friends. What can I do about him learning about me from my social circle. All I have are co workers.
Do the things you love and be present while you are doing them and you’ll be surprised how fast a tribe around you is created. A good thing about this life experience is that we get to choose our friends and family and don’t have to solely depend on the ones were born with and or lose unfortunately.
I am 45 and married, but somehow I ended up here, so I checked out some of your videos, and I just want to say that this is so valuable for women. I wish there had been videos like this 20 years ago. It would have been so nice to know these little secrets about men, and understand how they think. I would have done a lot of things differently, that’s for sure.
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I think the hardest is to find someone that we both have attractions toward to each other on the physical and emotional level...without it, it's like walking uphills
The toilet paper hoarding was hilarious to me because if you are quarantined in your home, and you run out of TP, just rinse off in your shower. I always let men know what my expectations and barriers are way before we date. I don't believe in games. I also tell them I will match their energy.
@@juliemoll8711 - may i suggest you change your circle of "friends"? As long as they keep telling you YOU are the prize, you'll NEVER begin to understand what makes a real Man tick.
I think the mind games are definitely things that hinders any normal development. How is it beneficial to want to be in a relationship but you dont really have time? What is the guy doing if he can not make you a priority and what are you doing that you can not make time for him? Should you not be happy to invest time and effort. No wonder relationships nowadays are more about social appearance than truth and reality. Commitment is the only point that I can understand. The rest is abstract.
You’re being a bit to literal. The point is that women with careers or educational goals, that have great relationships with friends and family, and a strong spiritual foundation are busy. It’s not a mind game, it’s saying just because you become attracted to someone it’s not a reason to commit all your time and energy on that person right away before you can get to know them. Jason is telling you how men think. Often women go off the deep end and then get extremely needy and don’t have good boundaries. You can apply the advice and see what happens vs judging it because you don’t understand.
@@MJ13ish 👍 Agree women do get lost in relationships so much to the point of ignoring themselves The video says focus on your self development and social circle too. Do not make your man the center of your universe.
With regards to time, give him what he gives you right from the beginning. When he pulls away, you pull away. Of course, make sure you leave time for yourself and important stuff first, but ideally, give him extra time at the beginning. Being so scarce will kill off the attraction before it starts.
IKR? I've been married over twenty years to an incredible man but I watch these videos because I want to always be the wife he needs. I just think it's important to continue to 'date' your spouse and work on being your personal best. I've had a ridiculously happy marriage, so I suppose we're doing something right.
There is no way I want a man obsessed with me. That is a turn off. I would hope he has better things to do than worry about what I'm doing. I can't be attracted to a man that doesn't have other interests than me. Absence makes the heart go fonder.
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I have my time...to take care of things I am obligated too. I have Friends that I dedicated as well. My value are high Commitment will be a Man that value me as I am. Great advise indeed...Thank you
None of this advice matters if a woman gives it up too easily. Women nowadays give the milk free. Why buy a cow when the milk is given free? Doesn’t matter how well accomplished she is. Men value chastity more.
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I can't believe am with my lover again after many years of break-up to get back with your ex reunite with your soulmate save your marriage from divorce inbox him now
Wonderful tips, Jason. I missed your videos. We have to value and love ourselves first because it's the most important relationship we have. Thanks so much for the video!
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To me, IN A PERFECT WORLD. TOO MANY Narcissists in my life which includes who I'm dating and friends. I guess it's time to make some changes. They all are just so into THEMSELVES.
My husband is leaving me after 23 years. He cheated and lied . He said he sleeps with prostitutes but this one particular prostitute he really likes. What would make that possible? We have sex all the time but maybe I am not good as the prostitute. I dedicated my life to him and his children now that they’re grown up and have their own lives maybe he doesn’t need me anymore. But how do I make him stay? Any advice?
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you're right about the commitment part that's for sure. I'm seeing a guy and I've known him for three years there is no expectation of marriage because I prefer to be single but the conversations drop-off with me and he never replies or he says they'll do something and then I don't hear from him this is crazy I'm going to change the way I do things. I've been loyal I've been there for him but it seems it's a one way street and it's not going to continue after today
Lots of confused desperate ladies here that see exhibiting self control and having a good fulfilling life is playing “mind games.” It’s not. Have enough pride in yourself to invest time in your health, relationship with God, your family, friends, and your community.
Kind of personality are are stocking at the age of 5 years old they needed of inner Child therapy never go tho this relationship is a Trapp!!!!the price is a you as a mother!!!!!!! No way if you go to this game is a sad relationship!!!!
I have witnessed that nowadays women 🚺 are more into better themselves than men does... Guys are afraid to be themselves..on the other side I know that I present myself as a very independent woman 👩 happy 😊 🌹 and enjoying my own life.. And yes I can feel guys magnetism towards me.. Is funny.. But still I put boundaries despite the fact I'm open and confident person. 👍 😀 Still guys needs also feel confident enough to approach to us.. Not all is on Us.
I honestly didn't watch the entire video Just the part about alone time and spending time with family. Really she's watching TV Went back watched the video to the end .informative
