1. Failing fast is a mindset. The faster you fail, the faster you get to where you want to be 2. Don't put yourself in a box. Allow yourself to be a multifaceted human being. 3. Stop trying to fit in. Be the source of your own happiness 4. Learn to set boundaries. 5. Set aside a peace of mind fund. Save up extra cash 6. Invest your money 7. Your life is a reflection of your current beliefs. You are what you attract. 8. Be flexible as you evolve. Be open to change, dont resist it because it wasn't part of your plan 9. Stop trying to save people who don't want to be saved. Not everyone comes with you on your own personal journey. We are all in our own lanes 10. Happiness is not a destination. If you havent healed yourself, there is no accomplishment that will fill that void. Dont overlook the present moment, its important.
I think failure was my worst fear for a long time to a point that I wouldn't finish something to avoid difficult parts I could potentially fail at. Thank you for the advice!
A couple of days ago I saw a TikTok comment saying something like „whenever I‘m stressed out that I don‘t have my life figured out I remember that I am the first woman in my family who doesn‘t have her entire life decided for her“ and I love that. Literally thinking about the generations of women before me and how they never got to decide what they want out of life, here I am free to choose. So I‘m starting to see it as a blessing whenever I‘m stressing about not knowing what I want to do in life instead :)
It never too late to start something new or reinventing yourself. Trust me I’m 55! It’s important to keep evolving and not worry about what other people think. You are way beyond your years. Love this!! ❤
"Money is energy" Let me add to this. In primary school they taught us the difference between wants and needs. I subconsciously thought this way for a long time financially. In secondary school I studied accounting. In a business sense they taught us about assets and liabilities but this is a drastically superior mental shift from wants and needs in your personal life as well. Because of reasons that are not important for this explanation, I was hyperfocused on needs. If all you're doing is meeting your basic needs you will never grow. You need to invest in yourself and acquire fixed assets that will allow you to grow. Instead of asking yourself whether or not you need something you should be asking what door does this open for me.
im 22 and ive been watching these types of videos and really taking time to watch it even on tiktok. i really love your take on stop helping people who doesn’t want to be helped specifically when it comes to family. ive been trying to fix things and feeling like im carrying the weight of the world and this advice really changed the way i see things now.
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This is beautiful. Thank you. This is the best line that hit me hard: "Stop trying to help people who don't wanna be helped." It reminds me to stop trying so hard to try to help others, let them be. Let them realize things on their own. And focus on myself.
girl I LOVE the way you explain and talk! omg instant follow cuz there's a lot of "self help" / manifestation gurus out there that really talk down or are condescending and way too aggressive (i'm like girl chillll why are you mad at me LOL) but you are so tapped into your feminine and I love it. Taking notes and I feel aligned with everything you said. I see it reflected in my own life too
What you said about stop trying save people hit me because i was like that months ago but i took decision that i don't wanna save or change anyone anymore and I've never felt this different in my life thank you 🥰
Just want to add: There are also other benefits with failure. For example, you learn to be more humble and understanding, and even become a better problem-solver and more adaptable. Productivity channels seem to focus on planning --- and while planning _is_ good, being adaptable to new information is just as important. And nothing teaches that better than failure.
omg third point is so slept on...its so necessary to be in your solitude alone without friends sometimes so that you can embrace your own individual perceptions ...you're so underrated i wish you more success and i believe you will acheive that
The advice on this video it’s 10/10. Love , love it 👌I’m on my 30’s and I can relate that being perfectionist and afraid to fail kept me behind in life. Boundaries is another big one if you don’t have it in place it can lead to resentment, being used by others, not getting what you want from life, keeping “peace” at your own expense…
I've gotten a HUGE influx of these types of videos the last couple of days, and as someone in my (technically still) early 20s...this is the best one. these are all lessons i'm learning now and have been the past year or so (and earlier for a couple of these tbh). the way you explained each point was so concise and yet so clear, and it very much reaffirmed my current path in life. thank you for making this video 😊
I am 19Y, and i just saw your video. There are things i already experienced and things i didn't notice but you showed me it. However, nice video my dear thank you for your support Allah help us all in our life 😢❤
Your content is so good, most of the time while watching this kind of videos i get bored but yours is very interesting thank you❤❤❤ that's exactly what i needed to hear ❤
I’m okay with failing, but the problem is I think about what others would say- people pleaser problems 😭 thank you for the video though. It gave me a new profound perspective.
Think of it this way: you don't want to hold peoples opinions of you above your own in any circumstance. They have not lived your life, they don't have your experiences, and they are not YOU. So the opinion they may have is based only on what they know about you if even that. Only you know everything about yourself and how your life has gone so far so why would you hold the opinion of someone who doesn't know you like you know you, above your own? You shouldn't:)
Girl.. You popped up on my start page, and I binge-watched a few of your self-help videos (I loved them x). I went to go subscribe, and when I tell you I was SHOOK at how "little" recognition your channel and videos have. Ten thousand people is a large number, don't get me wrong, but I was just expecting so much more by the quality of your videos, my jaw literally dropped when I saw your 'ask your intuition'-video has under 1k views. People are missing out BIG TIME. I can't wait for more people to discover you and your channel, I know you're going to get way farther in this industry and I'm so excited to follow along 🩷🩷
Thank you so much for this video. I’m approaching my mid 20’s, so a few of these I’ve had to “learn the hard way” but even being reminded and coming from someone other than myself was so helpful. I relate to you on so much, as an eldest daughter I feel the need to be there for everyone, fix everyone, and have no boundaries and constantly feel bad. I really needed to hear some of these tips and will come back again and again to constantly remind myself.
So true. Thank you for reminding me to let go of expectations and just live life as I improve. I am 34 now, but your advice is still good for me in this process of evolving. I think this advice is for all people who need it. Thank you! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
New here, the tip at the end was the BEST one!! It’s so easy to think “Once I get this high paying job or find the love of my life everything will work out & be easy from there” it’s a mystery if that’s true because it’s hard to see AFTER that
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I love this type of videos and I remember watching similar ones in y early twenties but it just didn't register until now (in my late 20s). I think we really get to understand things once that frontal lobe fully develops. But for me setting boundaries has been a game changerrr! thank you for this video 🧡
This is all so true, about the last point I was thinking about that too, i believe celebrities heart posture towards money is why they aren’t content because internally they have a desire you want to be filled but money will not satisfy you. They receive more and as time flies the expensive material feels like nothing. When i was thinking about this I read this part “Whoever loves money never has enough; whoever loves wealth is never satisfied with their income. This too is meaningless.” Ecclesiastes <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="310">5:10</a>. As i’m growing as an entrepreneur I hope to find purpose in God and not what I make. Cuz number literally change all the time, if someone has $10,000 then goes to 0, and they aren’t content within they will be depressed. This was just on my mind i love how deep your content is.
I always show up for people no matter what and nobody ever shows up for me. I recently turned 26 and had to learn the hard way. Now I’m focusing on myself for self improvement and not caring about nobody but myself. Always put yourself first. People are shit. They will use you if they get the chance.
I never consciously thought about that groupe mindset thing and adapting to play it safe but the more I think about it right now I see that you are spot on!
Thank you ❤️🫂 you are amazing. I came to a sudden realization that I need THIS kind of talk to guide my life Carry on you are doing well it is so helpful
Hey guys I'm here to practice my listing skill and also on the other hand to grow up in Life so thanks I learned a new words today also got a lot of advice it's really effected ❤️
Wow!!!! I usually never comment, but honestly this video was highly required in my life. I'm really grateful that i came across this video before moving to a new city and starting a new job. Love your aura🎀✨
I like your point of view but this the first two points are still from the perspective of a big Hustle and FOMO while all you need in 20’s is comfort that you can do anything and you are not going to miss out the opportunities.
I want to be an actor, content creator, architect and interior designer for houses, apartments and yachts so I’m focusing on architecture as it is probably the easiest to achieve and acting and content creation is just a hobby and maybe it will become bigger
I went to look for you on Spotify because I thought you would have a podcast - I think your insight is really valuable and that you should consider the possibility of also putting these audios onto a podcast :)
Great video, but your money example is not correct; a year has 52 weeks. So, if I save 38.46$ per week for a year, I will have 1,999.92$ (=38.46$ * 52) after a year, so nearly 2,000$. If I do this for 5 years, I will have 10,000$ and not 20,000$ (which is still a lot, but only half of the 20,000).
I think I'm too lazy, bcs feel I always wanna comment in every video which is helpful for me but I don't....but for the first time I am commenting on a video and this is how I'm putting out myself from my comfort zone.... And yeah___ your video is very helpful ❤✨ Peace ✌️
hey girl i absolutely loved this video!!! will defo use the advice and hopefully you'll see a new and improved me in one of my videos one day!! just subscribed cause you deserve way more recognition
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