I'm starting the divorce from a narcissistic wife and have found your videos. After 17 years of abuse I am working on myself and hearing from honest and open people like you have to encourage me to be myself... Thanks
It is the price we pay as Creatures of Our Great Geometrician of the UNIVERSE as the created custodians we are among his host. We are, in earthy toil & laborer as assigned, . . as billeted custodians of HIS billeted souls, before we returning to dust. THAT IS AS SUBTLE AS OUR LIVES ARE IN LABOR, & GRACE, BEFORE THAT CROSS OVER. & IT'S NOT A CHANCE GAME AS YOU CLAIM. THIS THIS EARTH GAME AS CLAIMED WAS NEVER A GAME OF CHANCE OR SUBTLE.
Of course you always want to feel like you are already good enough for her. Nonetheless, Arica is right. As a man you always want to be evolving into an ever better version of yourself. However, don't do it for her, DO IT FOR YOURSELF ! If you just do it for her, then you are putting her on a pedestal and making her The Prize for all your efforts (BAD MOVE !) Women are very intuitive, and she will soon see that YOUR GROWTH IS DEPENDENT UPON HER APPROVAL -- and that you are only doing it in hopes of keeping her around and interested in you, instead of for yourself. This will reveal to her that you have oneitis and a scarcity mindset -- that you are afraid of losing her, if you don't keep improving. Eventually, she will start to lose interest and attraction because you are too focused on gaining her approval. DO IT FOR YOURSELF ! YOU ARE THE PRIZE ! BECOME AN EVER BETTER PRIZE IN YOUR OWN EYES. Woman ultimately want to be with a man who views HIMSELF AS THE PRIZE !
Unfortunately, based on the comments, you seemed to have had a lot of boys watching when you were streaming live, instead of real men. I would offer you the advice going forward that you are better-off just ignoring the childish and stupid comments these immature boys make, and only focus on the comments and questions that come from real men. I'm sure you are wise enough to know the difference. Love the advice you give, but focusing on the boyish comments only distracts us real men who come to your channel to grow and develop into better versions of ourselves. Btw, the 'boundaries' answer was top-notch advice. We men want to establish boundaries for our women, but we don't want to make them feel like we are trying to be controlling and that we are being insecure in doing so. So, you're advice here was very helpful. Thank You.
Erica after a 7 year divorce and listening to you for years I finally found a good one and she likes me lol. But you're an awesome coach I love your videos and you helped me tremendously! Let me just say we stayed in on July 4th and there was plenty of fireworks! 😉😉 Thanks again and I apologize for that jerk that asked if you had an OF if I could I'd slap him for you! Thanks again lots of love!! ❤
About the lying. Don’t be honest if it doesn’t help you in dating or getting a relationship. Fake it till you make it helps in getting self esteem. A inexperienced man needs to grow either. Too many woman reject men who are weak, so being honest doesn’t help you then. But do agree but honest when you are there. Share an emotion is ok, not be emotional. A man is just supposed to just get it
Don't you think this mentality of evolving as a man is for sure a magnet for certain women with ambition, but maybe a repulsive for less ambitious or with low self esteem women who may feel unable to live up to the man's standards and thus reject him.
You are entertaining I see my Hispanic dad's fire in you you are a excellent saleswoman for your team many people come from divorce Ed families I like your deep advice on mental trauma you remind me of hitch the movie I hope you get a ring on that finger in your future
Hello Arica! Thanks for your advices and this video. What do you suggest for me to do if I found out that my wife after 14 years being together cheated on me with another man?😡
@Arica you will be comfortable with me and you will be a little shy in my company 😅 be nice to have a 🍷 of your favorite 🍷 but I only will have a full one because I don't drink 🍷
aND aNGEL a man most men dont need to get flowers from a womb-man because thats you, the girl who is the flower to a man,your whole body-The reminder if a man gives away a little 🌻,is because it pepresent the female-The female is the flower-the man is the bee who sting,,no not exsactly we just extraxting nektar from the woman--little deep butt can Yuu see it--
