He’s an example of not just talking to women you find attractive and want to date. Talk to all women and get practice at complimenting and teasing people without expecting anything back.
No, it shouldnt be thought because then it would be normal. And people don't want the same thing they want something new. Then we had to learn something else to stand out!
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Takeaway 1. Approach without hesitation Have some ice breaker line ready 2. If someone makes fun assume good intent, don't lose smile, playfuly tease them back 3. Compliment in a way that is not creepy without expecting anything Practice complimenting 4. Be honest in situation where lot of guys would lie 5. Don't be desperate for romantic connection 6. Have standards beyond be beauty For that have other things in life that you care about and have options by developing charisma
Also using famous people as an example isn't completely transparent. As they are likely to have people already interested in speaking to them.....an average joe following these steps is way more likely to get shot down, before an interaction even really starts.
All false. Be handsome or rich or both at the same time. Beautiful women or women out of your league won't settle for average men. That's the cold heart truth. If you're an average guy and you managed to get yourself a beautiful woman then consider yourself lucky
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Key moments fake defensiveness 02:30 Smile. This shows you are unphased. Honest Compliment 04:18 You know how to make a man smile. you just warmed my soul up.
I believe an attractive quality is not being afraid to walk away if your being treated of lesser value. If someone is genuinely not respectful to you (man/ woman), make it clear that you wont tolerate it. That’s having standards.
It definitely helps in making you feeling better about yourself, but it does nothing to make her feel attracted. It's not like if she's disinterested, you casually walking away is going to intrigue her or make her think "omg, he's walking away?" and suddenly be interested in you. But yes, it's definitely better than sticking around awkwardly.
@@fuzzypanda1684 - At the end of the day, not every girl is gonna like you. And walking away from a girl who is showing little interest in you at a bar, demonstrates that you hold yourself in high value. Why focus on someone that’s not interested when their could be many others that are. Easier said than done btw
The first one approach without hesitation is honestly very dependent on the context and how attractive you are. Not just physically but the care you've put into your appearance such as appearing clean, well dressed and respectful. By well dressed I dont mean dressing expensively, simply dressing thoughtfully. Those things will make a huge difference in how your approach is received whethwry you hesitate or not. Honestly if someone appears shy and uncertain it is not likely to make me like them less, as long as they get more comfortable once we talk.
Very true. Its also showing interest in what the person is saying, beyond that first Hello. And remembering their name (something I had trouble doing). Linking something with that person's name helps ie. Jack with the curly hair, Sue with the big smile, Joe who likes red... it doesn't have to relate to their look, it can be anything, though remembering Sandeep with deep ocean near the sand didn't work, cause I tried to call him OceanBeach😳🥴(thankfully he saw the funny side too!😅)
Totally stealing that "You just brought a smile to my face" line 😁 Shows that you're having a good time, while also subtly complimenting the person you're talking to, giving them some ownership of making you have a good time 😄
I just wanted to say how much I love this channel. I don’t really struggle with socializing, but I still enjoy and get use out of these videos. I’m an introvert but I grew up in a very social environment. I love that these videos actually give good life advice and not just face-value charisma skills. I learned a few things and I didn’t even have to practice them, I just noticed that I started doing these things. Also, it’s nice to know about the things that I already do and say that make me charismatic. I often get compliments on how easy it is to talk to me, and these videos have just made it easier for me to understand how the way I behave comes across to other people. I’ve learned a lot about myself and the way I socialize, and it gave me confidence to know that I have a lot of natural charisma. The most valuable lessons have been those on dealing with combative people, or deal with insults. This channel is seriously gold.
I mean, kinda. Everything in this video is very basic, 101 stuff that anyone who's taken even a cursory glance into the world of self-improvement or attracting women would already know. He's not saying anything that hasn't already been said many, many times before. Honestly, he's kinda the WatchMojo of self improvement channels.
The best tip is that women enjoy the feelings of a conversation more that the facts of it which differs a lot from men to men conversations. Being fun, interested, interesting, confident and humourous is the goal rather than trying to appear nice, kind, strong, intelligent, competent, affluent etc... If you are all of these things they will show themselves anyway in time.
Finding this channel helped me realize why people like me so much. At the end of the day all it comes down to being a genuine person and treating folks how you would like to be treated. Also it’s important to know your audience.
@@Imperialbbuilding there are dozens of reasons of why that comment is total BS. most common ones are below. Ask any woman how many nice guys have come and gone, ask why theyve come and gone... theyll probably tell you being nice to get recognized is not being nice, thats being transactional. no one likes someone who is being fake because they have something to gain. be nice for the sake of being nice. if youre anticpating something in return for your your kindness, that just sends major creeper vibe. word travels quick. acting like an incel dont help. And when you dont get what you were after, you post that comment. be genuine. if you have a sh*t attitude youll attract sh*t. dont be a simp. dont be a neckbeard. have confidence. exude confidence. if at first you dont succeed try and try again. work on yourself , youll get there. eat righ sleep right achieve and make new goals. people WILL notice. do not expect someone to invest their time if its clear you dont invest in yourself. there are 7.5 billion people in this world, get out there, learn at least one thing from every experience. build your confidence , amass your knowledge and experiences. we already know the definition of insanity, if nothing is working, maybe its time for a change. that all may come off as derogatory etc, its actually quite the opposite. what you put out in the world is what youll get back. the mirror effect. best of luck
@@salfyoutube6592 lmao triggered nice essay. "Just be confident bro"? Bet you're one of those r/relationships weirdos who is single and yet giving out platitudes as relationship advise that doesn't work most of the time
@@salfyoutube6592 maybe, just maybe, you have to work on YOURSELF if you feel the need to post that kind of comment. Also nice guys =/= good guys, there's a reason that term is so specific.
I have to say, the push pull more than anything is huge. I know a lot of people think being nice means they'll get ignored. But it's not being nice that makes people lose interest, it's being boring. And a lot of people who get hung up about being considerate end up tying all the things that could be interesting behind their back.
Hello, Just wanted to say that I absolutely love your channel. The content is incredibly helpful in improving the attitude while communicating at different social events. Would you consider making another video on 'how to master small talk'? It's an area I'd love to improve, and your guidance would be beneficial. Have an amazing weekend
Yes I would love a video on small talk, I find I can only get a conversation going if I ask someone what they have been passionate about lately. Some people love it and others get depressed if they have no passion.
All this rizzonomics only works if you as a man have put in the work and can back yourself up through it. Be good at what you do best to the point where people are impressed by it. That way people know if they diss you, you’re unphased by it cuz your work speaks for itself
And even then it can fail to work. You can walk up with a great physique, solid opener, and lots of confidence, but if the universe hates you, you're still not going to get anywhere.
My notes: 1) Approach without hestitation 1) You get first impression 2) Shows confidence 3) Have opening lines "Hi, I'm [blank]" "Hey, I don't think I've met you yet, I'm [name]." 1) Explains why your introducing yourself 2) Implies you know a lot of people from the venue 2) If someone is teasing you, assume they're being playful and take it positively 1) Fake defensiveness, with a big smile 2) Tease them back 3) Use the push/pull method 1) Spontaneous teasing and compliments 2) Give a compliment that you would give regardless of if you were attracted to the person or not. 1) "You know how to make a man smile." 2) "You just warmed my soul up." 3) Compliment pertaining to someone's physical nature regardless if they are attractive or not. 4) Honesty in situations that most people would lie 1) Answer even if it's not what the other person may like. It's attractive in itself You will stand out when you don't seem like you're trying hard to impress them 5) Don't be desperate for a romantic connection 1) Never instantly be all in. If you show interest in dating someone just because they're attractive, it makes you less attractive 6) Have standards beyond beauty 1) Have other things in your life that you care about more than romance
This is a good example of how it’s easy to be charismatic as a rich goofy looking rapper, walk up to a regular girl on 6th street and you’ll get clowned saying hi. Save your 600 bucks
I am a rizz god after this video, after reading sun tzu the art of war and watching this video I became a girl magnet! Truly wonderful advice out here thank you so much
1. Approach without hesitation 2. Assume people who give you a hard time/ tease you have good intentions 3.Use push/pull method 4. Be honest 5. Be desperate for romance // Dont obsess over beauty 6. Have standards beyond beauty
Not to be too damsel in distress, but if you like someone, ask for some help or an opinion on something. Men are always trynna help women. Even if you’re smarter than the person, lower the ego and approach. I’ve done this exact thing with women and have found years of success.
30 Shocking psychological facts about attracting people 1 People are more attracted to individuals who exhibit confidence and high self-esteem. 2 Physical attractiveness plays a significant role in initial attraction, but personality traits and behavior ultimately determine long-term attraction. 3 Similarity in interests and values increases the likelihood of attraction and compatibility. 4 Familiarity breeds attraction, as people tend to feel more comfortable and drawn to individuals they have interacted with before. 5 People are more attracted to those who demonstrate a sense of humor and the ability to make them laugh. 6 Body language and nonverbal cues can have a significant impact on attraction, as individuals tend to be drawn to those who exhibit open and approachable body language. 7 The mere-exposure effect suggests that individuals become more attracted to those they are repeatedly exposed to. 8 The availability heuristic suggests that individuals are more attracted to those who are perceived as being scarce or hard to obtain. 9 A person's scent can play a role in attraction, as certain pheromones may be perceived as attractive to others. 10 Individuals tend to be attracted to those who share their level of physical and emotional intimacy. 11 The reciprocity principle suggests that individuals tend to be attracted to those who show interest and attraction towards them. 12 People tend to be attracted to those who exhibit kindness and empathy towards others. 13 The halo effect suggests that individuals are more likely to be attracted to those who possess desirable qualities, even if they may lack in other areas. 14 People tend to be attracted to those who are perceived as being successful and accomplished in their careers or personal lives. 15 The similarity-attraction hypothesis suggests that individuals tend to be attracted to those who are similar to themselves in terms of demographics, personality, and values. 16 Physical touch, such as holding hands or a gentle touch on the arm, can increase attraction and foster feelings of closeness and intimacy. 17 People tend to be attracted to those who exhibit confidence and assertiveness in social situations. 18 The balance theory suggests that individuals tend to be attracted to those who share their attitudes and beliefs, while avoiding those who hold conflicting views. 19 Physical proximity can increase attraction, as individuals tend to be drawn to those who are in close proximity to them. 20 People tend to be attracted to those who are attentive and responsive to their needs and emotions. 21 Stare people in the eyes while talking with them, always cut to the point, and try to be the one who ends the conversation wherever possible. 22 Physical touch, such as holding hands or a gentle touch on the arm, can increase attraction and foster feelings of closeness and intimacy. 23 People tend to be attracted to those who exhibit confidence and assertiveness in social situations. 24 The balance theory suggests that individuals tend to be attracted to those who share their attitudes and beliefs, while avoiding those who hold conflicting views. 25 Physical proximity can increase attraction, as individuals tend to be drawn to those who are in close proximity to them. 26 Never discuss your problems. If you must talk about yourself; use self deprecating humor or say modestly positive things. 27 The mere-thought effect suggests that individuals may become more attracted to someone simply by thinking about them or being reminded of them. 28 People tend to be attracted to those who are perceived as being trustworthy and reliable. 29 The similarity-attraction effect suggests that individuals are more likely to be attracted to those who are similar to them in terms of physical appearance, personality, and interests. 30 People tend to be attracted to those who exhibit a sense of passion and enthusiasm towards their hobbies and interests.eople tend to be attracted to those who ar
You're placing your life into an outer locus of control my brother, it's when we let those things we can't control slip on by, focusing on what we can do-when we focus on what We. Can. Do. The whole world can seem against you, it really can-it's when you keep standing back up and doing what you can, regardless of how many times you're brought back to your knees, that's when we realize we are more than just the obstacles we face, we are the one overcoming those obstacles, a d learning while we do so. Keep it up brother, we all fall down. Getting back up is hard, so damn hard, and it can feel like nobody understands. If nobody else is there to witness or validate your strength, or your progress-let yourself be witness enough, validate your own progress to yourself. Much love, I wish you the best on your journey friend.
@@censoreduser no you didn't you haven't seen his comments anywhere on RU-vid what are you on about how dare you lie I MEAN HOW DARE YOU you shouldn't even be on youtube what are you like 59? I think you should take a break from the internet you are having a bad day but if you take a break then you will cool your head off and I mean your head needs cooling you're like 86 degrees in hotter than a PC I think you need to go to Antarctica and go swim with the penguins I mean the penguins probably wouldn't want to be around you because you're such a liar they don't trust you I mean they look at you and they give you those eyes, those eyes that squint in ways you've never seen before I think those you need to take a good hard like at those eyes and wonder what you're doing in Antarctica like for real it's cold there and why are you in this situation you are in having to live in an igloo and sometimes being laid on by a penguin I think you need to take a good hard look at yourself like the penguins do you know what I'm saying no you don't becauseIthinkthatIknowbutyoudon'tandthat is why I think about you all the time
These Habits can help but a Woman will find what she likes about you regardless. I've seen Woman who like The Strong, Slient Type, to The Muscular Jock, heck I was a Loner in school and even I got a Love Letter. My best advice Try your best.
@@sudhakar7889 Not sure how I can't write all the types women are into I can just tell you what I was back in school, the girl liked Loners. Try your best is a general term anyone can use.
@@user-em6ie2be7x yeah, I didn't see a contradiction either. Best to be/present your best version of you. Nobody likes to be lied to & a lot of women want something other/more than looks imo (though that helps). (Looks/money aren't top on my list. Top 10, but lower top 10😉😅)
Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.
Why is this generation pedestalizing women so much. Why do I need to make other women obsessed with me? Are they like something God or what? We must stay focused brothers.
Because since birth, this generation has been told that women are wonderful and perfect and "the future is female". Everything needs to be geared to how a woman feels, how something benefits women, how something negatively effects women, etc. Women are the sole focus in the world today.
These are good tips, also remember to not care. What I mean by that is leave the ego, fear , what ifs , and most importantly never fake an opinion just to appear similar .
Of course it's easier said than done. Especially when someone presses that anger button intensely. Always try to respond with humour, cockiness, playfulness. When you lash out with anger, you've lost the 'battle'. Try again next time. It's practice afterall.
Yes lashing out at people will just harm your future prospects within the particular scene as you will see them again and they might even be in a position to decide whether you get hired or not.
In my experience women find a couple of things interesting, and this is a very general take. 1. Women love to laugh, and if you can make a woman laugh with you, you know she is comfortable around you. 2. Women need security, and by security I mean general sense of being safe. If a woman feels safe around you (emotionally, socially, physically etc.) 3. Women value genuinity. Just be yourself, and even better if you're legitimately comfortable in your own skin because that shows immediately.
He isn't even that attractive. I mean there is nothing that gorgeous in his physique. But his personality makes you feel like he is the most perfect man. So magnetic
And remember people the best tip of all "Just be yourself" if you try to be something you're not well, idk waht to do about that , thats your mess to clean
@@lynic-0091 uhm, no it wouldn't, actually. They use success stories because they are just that - success stories. These individuals got famous BECAUSE they have these traits, not in spite of them. Rarely do others want to shower lavish attention and praise on myopic, socially awkward people with no charm. Their success is verifiable. Additionally, there is more video footage of these people that shows said charisma time and again. If COC used regular people, most the naysayers (like you) would comment that 'no one knows who these people are', 'this site is fake', or 'if they are so charming, why aren't they famous or more successful??' Lastly, if you truly believe that using people know one's ever heard of is a far better idea, why do YOU start that channel here on RU-vid? It's a slam-dunk, multi-million dollar idea, right? Right?? We both know why you won't. Cheers!
fellas presence of the mind is the only key! just dont overanalyze what you are going to say, what she’ll think of you, just start meditating and be present fully in the moment and you shall see magic
Take it from all the greats kobe Mayweather and Harlow here put what you love first and the right woman will come when the time is right love the part where have standards beyond beauty🙏🔥
Question for whoever is managing these uploads. Are you using a thumbnail that catches more clicks initially and replacing it after an hour or so for something more algorithm friendly? Using that initial boost to help carry it through with a less eye catching thumbnail.
they are probably doing A/B testing. Whichever one generates the most click through within a period of time is the "winner" and stays as the official thumbnail going forward. Even months or years down the line, the "winning" thumbnail may be good enough to attract random viewers.
“Nobody is shaken’” That’s quite possibly the worst way to handle someone poking fun at you. Taking it seriously, despite it being with positivity. She’s JOKING, she knows it’s not real. He just comes off as defensive because he needs people to know it was a joke. A better response would be to flip the frame on her “Robert Downey Jr. is standing right behind you” or drop your ego and play into it “I thought you had to shake when you shook hands” another goodie is simply exaggerating the situation “I’ve never shaked hands with a woman before” Needing to address something someone says about you, says more about you than what was said.
What is it called when you are a mega introvert and have 0 energy to talk to people, especially women who you find attractive and know 101% they will just ignore or make fun of you?
I don't know that he has any videos on that specific topic, however, here are some good things to remember: - Make sure to remember as many people's names as possible - Have one on one convos - Tease others platonically when possible, especially if you can give them a backhanded compliment in the process - Ask for small favors when possible and be generous with your own favors - Give compliments easily
try the 70/30 rule: other people should be talking 70% of the time. Ask questions and let the others talk about themselves - it's their favorite subject. You'll learn things about them and that will help you determine what to say and not say around them. Best of luck with the new team. Cheers!
Me here learning all the tactics men are learning so I know already what a guy is doing to attract me. This way I can control my emotions and decide consciously if I want him or not.
Your intuition might be a better judge than conscious appraisal. Also it’s not as if they’re 1 million ways to approach a woman. He may just be vibing with you and his organic method might superficially resemble the Methods outlined here
Hi my name is…..followed up with a quick and what’s your? Or some derivative is the best pickup line of all time. Be super confident and relaxed. Then the next step is super critical. You need to match their response and energy. If you match their energy in the first few seconds. You’re golden and she’s now interested. This goes for people in general.
What's with the 1 second cuts? Can't concentrate or absorb what I'm seeing if it's flashing in front of me like I'm Chuck and I'm downloading The Intersect into my brain
