Short info: If you still don't have your whitelist spot - feel free to catch me via Discord or RU-vid, we will figure something out aswell! :) And of course, I highly encourage you to create account using my reflink! (or add this reflink if you're not connected with anyboday yet)
Small advice from me - it is not worth to waste time on cosmetics during p2a. I completed 18 easiest outfits and got 90 daily gold income, but one hour of grinding mobs would have given me more gold from Ravenpacks I'd earn during this time... ;x
But if you need some simple cosmetics list - I recommend this site (althought it's lacking few newest ones) - thetankclub.com/ravendawn-cosmetics-guide/