How To Outsmart Your Opponent In An Argument

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5 Steps To Win Any Argument
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In this video I’m going to tell you how to win any argument. And I have years of training as a logician as a philosopher here, I can mangle people in debates and we are not going to use ANY of that here. I wasted so much time and damaged relationships with the "right” logical correct argument that SHOULD win. And I can make a video on that if you want, but the truth it would be next to useless when it comes to getting what you truly want.
Because we are dealing with people. And throwing the right facts at people without catering to the psychology required to open them up, is destructive to your relationship and to getting what you want. Plus it destroys your ability to be compassionate and truly see things from someone else’s point of view.
0:54 How to win any argument is to edefine what winning means
1:54 How to win any argument is to know what they want
2:47 Empathizing via statements can help build social skills and mindsets
4:01 Aim for self improvement and recognize their positive intent
5:21 Build your confidence and make your case
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@DBZMacky 7 лет назад

But what if both you and the person you're arguing with watched this video?

@vikralsinghaniya5538 7 лет назад

DBZ Macky its an infinite loop of argument..broom

@sprayartist8459 7 лет назад

DBZ Macky then it isn't an argument, it's a conversation that leads to the most ethical side winning.

@the_jersey_side 7 лет назад

Bring a gun

@WebSlingerProductionsofficial 7 лет назад

The person who liked the video wins then 😂

@misaelrivera2358 7 лет назад

Then Gordon Ramsay vs Kevin o Leary

@bopit9215 4 года назад

Son: *is winning argument with facts* Mom: “Sounds like disrespect”

@moejohnson2132 4 года назад

"I gave birth to you"

@deletedaccount7507 4 года назад

@@moejohnson2132 Oh god I hate when my mom used to say that as something valid

@YoNightmareXD 4 года назад

"BELT WHIPPING SOUND INTENSIFIES"

@carolineaoyagi7698 4 года назад

@@moejohnson2132 Well, that was your fault, not mine.

@mahog_mog 4 года назад

Yo same- and then after I go to my room I'll hear her talking to my dad on how disrespectful her daughter was being. I- no.

@Yoshi-dx4fk 6 лет назад

I just go with the classic ''no u'' Never fails

@ismaysefc 5 лет назад

A man of culture, I see...

@enmbiusfantabbles3670 5 лет назад

how was that meme a year ago wtf

@ChickenJoe2920 5 лет назад

I just say “your mom” and annoy them

@brine0017 5 лет назад

no u

@choppa3450 5 лет назад

hahaha try saying that to a person's face then get beat the fuck up

@AscendedMasculine 7 лет назад

The Best lawyer in history (Gerry Spence) said the art of winning is knowing how to lose

@munkeyz 7 лет назад

Source?

@munkeyz 7 лет назад

Try&StopMeM8 I wouldn't have asked if I hadn't tried. I couldn't find anything

@Bwin710 7 лет назад

Munkeyz World his book. "How to argue and win every time"

@genericusername1235 7 лет назад

anyone got the source? can't find it the quote on google...

@n0tfbnglz 7 лет назад

Pinnacle Of Man That was deep

@user-pz7ls3ey9d 5 лет назад

"The moment u start an argument with an ignorant fool,u have already lost ". Imam Ali Ibn e Abi Talib (a.s)

@offline8382 4 года назад

Yes

@Isakaadland 4 года назад

yes

@realwhigmaster 4 года назад

Yes.

@drakath111zx 4 года назад

yes ugh..

@wecombineassesinancienttim169 4 года назад

So true

@rampant1apart 7 лет назад

"People don't care how much you know. They need to know how much you care."

@ShiftedEv 4 года назад

Wow thx

@shaikshagufta8612 4 года назад

True that.

@raphy_tt 2 года назад

Which is an issue, you can’t just go about arguments based only on feelings and if someone cares, factual information must be the centre point of any argument/debate/discussion

@lessismore8533 Год назад

@@raphy_tt exactly! Judging ONLY by emotion can make the person biased towards their side only. I have a sibling like this

@AnaSofia-sw5nq 7 лет назад

How to win an argument: Step 1. Be absolutely sure that you're right even when you're not. Step 2. Don't let the other person speak and tell them all the reasons why you're right. (you might want to make a list previously for this one) Step 3. Talk to your friends beforehand so that when you ask them they tell the other person they're wrong and you're right. Step 4. When you've ran out of arguments for step 2 guilt trip the person. Step 5. If that doesn't work just call them names. Step 6. Make a dramatic exit before they have time to say anything (example: run away in tears, walk away angrily being unnecessarily loud closing a door behind you etc.) Ps: This is a joke. I'm being sarcastic. Just in case it wasn't clear.

@jesterssketchbook 7 лет назад

hey i didnt know you dated my ex gf too!

@fclp67 7 лет назад

My life was destroyed by memes that's exactly the recipe to make that person never want to talk to you again

@AnaSofia-sw5nq 7 лет назад

fclp67 and now you know why I'm on the internet instead of hanging out with my friends. Because I have none.

@katdada 7 лет назад

Lmfao wait do you know my roommate? Why is this so accurate

@HxH2011DRA 7 лет назад

My life was destroyed by memes foolproof

@LightAnkou 7 лет назад

I edited this comment so nobody could know what I wrote

@Xerclipse 7 лет назад

Koldo Estrada instructions not clear. I think he is angry

@fleecemaster 6 лет назад

What if your opponent reads this first?

@existinguser7788 6 лет назад

Koldo Estrada step 2: find a ditch

@notjud 6 лет назад

Xerclipse I don't think I can kill my teacher

@thanosbrub9136 5 лет назад

Step 3: patch the ditch up

@miyo1433 4 года назад

saying “ok boomer” “uno reverse card” “no u” “ur mom” are signs of weakness

@teiull9388 4 года назад

you sir just got in my "youtube quotes" folder

@JayCRossi 4 года назад

Ok boomer

@teiull9388 4 года назад

@@JayCRossi ironic

@supercomputer0448 4 года назад

Uno reverse card.

@miyo1433 4 года назад

SuperComputer04 haha so funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@superpowerdragon 7 лет назад

know yourself know your enemy you will win every battle -Sun Tzu

@Migixkem 5 лет назад

hey you got 116 likes im one of them go edit this and say thanks for the likes

@babbooskax5469 5 лет назад

Migixkem Jord . Shut up

@UmUs 5 лет назад

Unless youre going to argue, not battle?

@Swodowrahh 5 лет назад

@@Migixkem why?

@sticklait 4 года назад

@@Migixkem Stfu

@GodotOfficial 7 лет назад

How a person on the internet thinks they can win an argument: Claim the other person is wrong and insult them

@RetsamX 7 лет назад

Godot Most people*

@mollscadman 7 лет назад

And say 'thanx hun, have a nice day now x'. The most annoying thing on earth

@danaiiMiau 5 лет назад

The calling of honey, sweetie to belittle them lol.

@alexhjc8 4 года назад

@@yaziegov no, you're wrong!! DOOR KNOB

@jet5995 4 года назад

Suppose if we're in argument an someone says “your small i dont want to argue with you” what greatest reply we can give to shut him/she off

@Umirua 7 лет назад

Step 1: Have Charlie's enormous smile Step 2: Have Charlie's perfect white teeth Step 3: Have Charlie's biceps Step 4: Have Charlie's innate charisma Step 5: Charlie wins every argument, be like Charlie

@Grazikon 7 лет назад

CHarlie sure wins arguements more esily than other people. But Charlie's charisma isn't innate; it's learned. And that's what this channel's all about.

@okaywhynot4728 7 лет назад

Step 6: abandon the physical realm and assimilate all you are, all you were, all you'll ever be, into the corporeal and ethereal state of Charlie-ness. Be Charlie.

@piscesrisingvideos 7 лет назад

@ Okay WhyNot:

@tashavernon.d8816 6 лет назад

The_Pyromancer I know right ! Charlie is smart and cute as well !

@monsieurboks 6 лет назад

Biceps? Where?

@tahnjr 7 лет назад

I always remind myself and others: The aim of argument, or of discussion, should not be victory, but progress. - Joseph Joubert

@RhoneM 7 лет назад

Yup, the issue is most people see "winning" as the progress. Beating the opponent into submission is the goal, instead of coming to an understanding where people leave with a better view on the subject. Now certain subjects are right/wrong answer debates. But those should be blindingly obvious to the majority of people.

@jet5995 4 года назад

Suppose if we're in argument an someone says “your small i dont want to argue with you” what greatest reply we can give to shut him/she off

@tahnjr 4 года назад

@@jet5995 If someone has already said, "I don't want to argue" then you can say, "OK" and walk away. Trying to get the last word in will only prolong the argument.

@masviva4866 7 лет назад

1. Tell them "lol triggered" as soon as you get lost 2. Das it

@tomhayes413 6 лет назад

Mas viva THAS SO ME OMFG

@kevinliang2786 4 года назад

If you actually do this think about how bothering this is because you are just ignoring what they have to say.

@notreal6762 4 года назад

Ugh, I hate people like you. No offense lol

@alexsenrose2053 4 года назад

@@notreal6762 lol triggered

@notreal6762 4 года назад

@@alexsenrose2053 Congrats, you are predictable af

@vitocorleone1462 7 лет назад

"I know you are, so what am I?..." Works every time

@gon5682 4 года назад

WHY DONT WE SONG SMSMSMS

@user-eo6ou6rh1v 4 года назад

How do you use this???

@jet5995 4 года назад

Suppose if we're in argument an someone says “your small i dont want to argue with you” what greatest reply we can give to shut him/she off

@user-eo6ou6rh1v 4 года назад

@@jet5995 midgets run faster than you solving your own adoption mystery Edit: if your comment is about you being insulted i.e. calling someone small like it says in your comment

@user-eo6ou6rh1v 4 года назад

And then maybe create a point that you have no time in arguing with him/her

@ishbanyadav 7 лет назад

See it before your girlfriend sees it!

@skyhikes 7 лет назад

Mr IY too late!

@GottMitUns. 7 лет назад

Mr IY dude, i am a 9gagger

@edi9892 7 лет назад

Mr IY A reference to Master Wong?

@Declopse 7 лет назад

Error 404 likes no girlfriend found

@yo-yo2458 5 лет назад

hAh I watched this before my future boyfriend.... I think

@LouisBurgessComedy 7 лет назад

I've been doing this without realising, I redefine "win" as "lose" so I win every time.

@ElishaLong 7 лет назад

"I have often wondered how it is that every man loves himself more than all the rest of men, but yet sets less value on his own opinions of himself than on the opinions of others." -Marcus Aurelius

@katherandefy 5 лет назад

Lack of confidence and no idea that being humble/realistic is how you get to confidence. By knowing your limitations. But it is really quite difficult to know oneself. That’s the first step and it’s the longest one.

@PentaromaLMA0 4 года назад

Everyone: *I'm very salty at the moment.*

@ThinkMediaTV 7 лет назад

Great video - thanks!

@Charismaoncommand 7 лет назад

~ Glad you like it man!

@wyatthoran9729 3 года назад

Man I saw one of your videos on making a good name for a yt channel and you mentioned this one. I just stumbled across it a month ago, recognized the name and now have watched a ton of videos

@MasterofOrion 3 года назад

@@wyatthoran9729 Wow me too, I came here through think media 🥰

@FranoKiso 7 лет назад

1. Use facts. 2. Win argument.

@TheJallumn 7 лет назад

this doesnt work with SJW's. You will just get called a nazi symphatizer

@CrustyTheElf 7 лет назад

I was thinking the same thing

@metalheadFTW123 7 лет назад

Have u ever argued with ur parents? Cause if u have you'll know that this doesnt work

@HeirOfGlee 7 лет назад

Frano Kiso you never heard of the right wing have you? The "it's snowing so global warming don't exist" people.

@toddhowardforreal3912 7 лет назад

Anyone who disagrees with you won't change their mind.

@zukizukzuk3450 3 года назад

I watch this video yesterday and I just used the tips in this video to have a constructive argument/conversation with my friend. Neither of us raised our voice and making the conversation light-hearted I found myself letting go of my ego and actually absorbing what I was hearing. I was actually wrong and I lost the argument but I gained so much. Thank you!

@ph0non 5 лет назад

The thing about "Redefine winning, when it comes to an argument" is such a core step for our society to actually get somewhere. If we don't learn to do that, we will keep talking PAST each other instead of talking TO each other. Good job with this video as always and thanks for introducing this perspective of an argument to the people.

@mitchparker7763 7 лет назад

Yeah something that I learned from my ex is that you can't argue logically with an illogical person lol I'm sure you guys can relate. Cool vid tho, I'd like to talk about this stuff too.

@tudorinbogdan240 7 лет назад

Successful Minds Good thing she's your ex.

@HLB313 7 лет назад

Why assume the ex is a she?

@truedarkness4052 7 лет назад

Helen TheMelon Why do you care?

@jarebear1067 7 лет назад

because his avatar is a male and there is a much larger population of straight males than homosexual males. Therefore, we can make the assumption that his ex is female. are we positive? no. is it the most informed guess? yes. Plus women are illogical.

@jkxss 7 лет назад

Successful Minds you guys are missing the point, don't demonize the person and assume they want the world to burn (they are illogical)

@WebSlingerProductionsofficial 7 лет назад

Ha! I knew elephants could fly!

@kichapps 7 лет назад

I know where you are coming from and you belief systems are, but I tend to disagree with your point. Haha

@hyadav1 7 лет назад

are you trying to argue dude?

@kichapps 7 лет назад

Yeah, lol.

@hyadav1 7 лет назад

i have seen flying elephants too in game of thrones

@kichapps 7 лет назад

He- Man damn. This technique does not work...😂😂

@Anolasco100 2 года назад

I’m in tears and joy to see your face do to the fact it hit my soul when i realized where i recognized your voice from. There is a ebook i listened called “ The courage to be disliked “. My pursue to being a humble man has taught me a lot in life and i’m glad to learn off your videos.

@trondtetland1968 7 лет назад

92+92=99

@sirrparker47 7 лет назад

Trond Tetland Debate me, it's 35

@trondtetland1968 7 лет назад

When you are at 92, you are halfway to 99. Nothing to debate.

@davecirlclux 7 лет назад

69?

@AllenIversonPwns 7 лет назад

😂😂 73 😂👌🏻👌🏻😩😂

@hyadav1 7 лет назад

did you rub +7 from the equation?

@matesboat9466 7 лет назад

There's only one thing that can win any argument, my friend Smoke bombs and some ninja skills

@vwr32jeep 4 года назад

“Honey, I know it must feel like I’m not listening to you. It’s almost June and every other week you’ve asked me to take down the Christmas decorations.” I’m going to try this next year. 👍

@juliam.v.warren4535 7 лет назад

I liked the concrete instruction at the end: Take breath, think of what I want and what they want. This is easy to follow and might even work in a stressful situation. It's the first time, I noticed you doing this. Keep it up!

@AKdaJuiceGuy 7 лет назад

Law #9: Win through your actions, never through argument.

@MiTmite9 5 лет назад

I looked this up because I have neighbors whose first step is to go on the attack. ALL they care about in conversing with me is to dominate and control. I wish the tips you've given here would work with such people, but I think that, after watching your logical approach, and knowing what my experience with them has shown me, next time they try to engage, I am going to say, "Call my attorney. Here's his phone #." Anything to avoid having to suffer through their bullying, lying, accusatory, nasty b.s.

@cw5451 4 дня назад

😂 Love it!

@citrusblast4372 7 лет назад

Life tip: you dont alwayz have to win

@YourSuzerain 4 года назад

@35 05 i only argue about thing I'm sure I'm correct about

@zegogt9930 4 года назад

Yes I do

@user-eo6ou6rh1v 4 года назад

Yep, gave up arguing with my sloppy elder brother. Tried intimidating me but we are both fat(lol).

@drakath111zx 4 года назад

tbh the point of tbe argument is to convince the people whose wrong but if you're right and failed the argument that just means they're ignorant or you don't have enough knowledge to say on the argument

@JordanWilliams_Link7702 4 года назад

@35 05 the real losers are people like you actually

@011mph 7 лет назад

I can never win in heated arguments because when I get angry, i cry for some reason. Like i'm not even sad or my feelings aren't even hurt but when I get frustrated and mad my eyes always water up. So then it makes it seem like the other person has won the argument. That's one thing i hate about myself lol

@krubtism3382 3 года назад

Same, but i end up shouting which shames myself :")

@EinfachArtur 7 лет назад

I just wanted to say thank you for what you do.

@2liter8 6 лет назад

These videos are quite helpful to me. Crap for the longest time I thought I was the only one who mattered. Now I'm beginning to see others have feelings too. I see it's important to consider the other person's wants before opening my mouth.

@Charismaoncommand 6 лет назад

~ That's awesome! Glad you're finding them helpful. :-)

@ScotchEnjoyer 7 лет назад

How to win an argument: 1. Be a woman

@benedettac5180 7 лет назад

Tadomika Lushikato and what if, who are discussing, are two women? Eheheh

@sexybeast7728 7 лет назад

ww3

@travisbanks293 7 лет назад

Sexy Beast legend comment

@mollscadman 7 лет назад

I wish

@zero1188 7 лет назад

Tadomika Lushikato women dont win arguments we let them think they did

@Dclockvideos 7 лет назад

I literally screamed once I saw this video out. I needed this TOO much.

@biancailie184 7 лет назад

I would really love to see a video on how to deal with difficult people or people who you dont have much in common with (just work or school). Also, a video on Robert Downey Jr, Jim Parsons or Stephen Colbert

@bekiboobaa 7 лет назад

YEEEEES!! I'd love to see these techniques put into action. Not just dramatic re-enactments. Could you imagine if Charlie filmed himself having a conversation with a difficult person? Then afterwards he could point out the strategies he used throughout the conversation.

@gracenern8 5 лет назад

I've been watching these videos for hours, and I'm gonna politely and charismatically take over the world

@wannabepronstar9186 7 лет назад

Your vids are awesome! Straight to the point and helpful! Now i just need friends to try it on.

@powerhouse884 7 лет назад

Wannabe Pronstar Get a PS4!!! Search for random names Send request Wait Start an argument Win 👍🏻

@fejj12 7 лет назад

4th video in a row you guys hit out of the park! You two are on a hot streak with incredible insights that we previously haven't even covered. Talking head style videos, amazing tips, and the recent celebrity breakdown...AMAZING!

@Charismaoncommand 7 лет назад

~ Thanks for the kind words man! Appreciate it :-)

@PodwojneD 7 лет назад

Thank you! I actually needed this video today for an argument that we have at work!

@EarlyBirdCraft 7 лет назад

Win any argument in a second --- say "you're right".

@dbzlover8706 4 года назад

Bruh, once this 10 yr old said "sorry, you're right" when I was very salty it made me feel extremely bad

@drakath111zx 4 года назад

@@dbzlover8706 so you know the kid is 10 years old and you just proceed to argue with that kid? even though almost all the kids are immature caused they still don't have enough knowledge to control emotions and facts. but if you're the same age that's fine

@swine13 4 года назад

@@drakath111zx tell that to the 8 year old using insults against you while you play fortnite... insults that contain words you didn't think you could use in public any more. Some of these kids have it coming to them cause they genuinely are disrespectful little shits.

@Leon-oh3qf 3 года назад

Im 12 I want to piss off others help me

@nightmaremc24 2 года назад

Correction: Lose any argument

@saadfaruque 7 лет назад

This sounds more like a negotiation skills, rather than winning arguments. I prefer this video with appropriate topic.

@leftsideupfan5489 3 года назад

Yesterday I brought up a community that I've attached to my identity, and immediately one of my friends starts saying things about how people in this community are evil so many misunderstood ways, thanks for making this video, I know how to respond better than I did now!

@henry7001 7 лет назад

Just Had An Argument Used These Tips. They Work! Great Video!

@AuroraX7 6 лет назад

BM you live a sad life

@aaaxtox 4 года назад

AuroraX7 but it’s not as sad as mine

@puregirlygirl 7 месяцев назад

This is my fav video I watch it every year to keep myself grounded

@MoneyAhoy 7 лет назад

Great advice - I'm going to try and apply this at work.

@sentientwatermelon2473 5 лет назад

Thanks man this really helped me out

@normanhayward3990 7 лет назад

But how do you win an argument online?

@fortitude120 7 лет назад

Norman Hayward You don't

@alfbeef5880 7 лет назад

Tell them how bad you feel for the people who have to deal with them in real life on a daily basis it works like a champ..

@jewelsims8805 7 лет назад

Do what everyone does, just tell them to go kill themselves. That should work

@powerhouse884 7 лет назад

Norman Hayward Thats easy, unplugged your internet or Block him having the last reply!!! 😂

@mathsisdeadtomenow 7 лет назад

throw out all your spiciest burns, then offer ointment. And when they rub it on, it burns even more!

@adityaSingh-wk9jk 5 лет назад

He has the most genuine big smile ! I loved that!👍

@jet5995 4 года назад

Suppose if we're in argument an someone says “your small i dont want to argue with you” what greatest reply we can give to shut him/she off

@teiull9388 4 года назад

"first don't bang your head against the ceiling"

@KingofNewYorkkk 4 года назад

Don't react.

@socialhippy5888 6 лет назад

Your hands tell how confident you are about what you're saying. You got a subscriber here.

@Charismaoncommand 6 лет назад

Welcome to the channel!

@4kayy817 5 лет назад

The best way to end an argument is just saying "You Right"

@dbzlover8706 4 года назад

I usually say "I'll take that as a apologie"

@donovansill2608 6 лет назад

This is honestly the first comment that I have ever made on RU-vid. This was presented so masterfully. Your eye contact and hand gestures are ON POINT! Your information was intuitive, and extremely helpful. I believe many people can gain from your neutral and perceptive view on arguments. It very much reminds me of Dale Carnegie's how to win friends and influence people. Something tells me you've spent some time studying psychology and human behavior. It would be interesting to pick your brain over a drink.

@nolanbunyaviroch1862 7 лет назад

Can you make a video on working with others? How do you become the ideal working partner? How do you encourage people to work? How do you work well with others? How do you become efficient with your working partners?

@KiiroSagi 7 лет назад

Thought this was going to be cliche or clickbait but the points made are really good! To summarize you have to get them to be willing to listen to you, that's when you can present your argument. You also have to maintain that politeness and civility as you continue.

@anasmoukrim1352 4 года назад

How to win an argument: Step 1 Never try to win an argument.

@katieturcotte4239 4 года назад

Me realizing my dad tricks me into doing stuff for him 💀

@quantumpotential7639 3 года назад

Listen to your daddy. He knows what's best. Come to Poppa.

@shaness112233 6 лет назад

You're smart. You put the most important point as number one, which was said within the first minute. Winning is NOT "They lose", winning is "I get what I want in the most optimal way". This almost never means "they lose", if they lose than that is not optimal. Comment posted as soon as I heard the point, it's a very insightful way of looking at things.

@zero1188 7 лет назад

Do an analysis on how ben shapiro wins arguments

@GinthianShield 6 лет назад

I saved this video in my list of videos that I have for Health because the content you provided in this video is so very very important for relationship help, and my own mental health.

@Charismaoncommand 6 лет назад

~ Wow, that's fantastic to hear that we're able to help!

@alyssashoemaker3414 5 лет назад

There was one time my mom began with "listen, i know you're a teenager and it's your job to be a pain in my neck.." and I'm like uhhh I just wore capris and you want me to wear Jeans (true story btw)

@Belldandy722 4 года назад

This really helps, tbh. I'm a lead tech for a job and have a manager for the field. Lately, for almost a year now, his lack of leadership has begun to plummet. I really want to point out he should supervise more and delegate as opposed to being too hands on. He's focusing on too many small things and not doing his role. He should be guiding me so I can then guide the team. I'm looking forward to discussing this with him and still be respectful. Thank you for the video (:

@nikobellic6112 5 лет назад

Step 5: Start a Duel and have sOmE gOdAmN fAiTh!!!!!

@Atriox2004 4 года назад

Niko Bellic follow the plan! We’ll be growing mangoes in Tahiti before long! But first, let’s rob ourselves a bank!

@VondaInWonderland 4 года назад

This is great, I'm going to send it to the person that I'm arguing with, so that we will both be on the same page ♥

@milasyt 5 лет назад

Winning an argument doesn't make you right or change the objective nature of reality. There's a process for determining fact from fiction and its called science. You need sufficient evidence to be right about something, even if you can win an argument.

@klila5721 7 лет назад

omg I used some of those points not knowingly today with my friends and I have "won" the argument and now I am watching this video. ;)

@PowahSlapEntertainmint 7 лет назад

How to win an argument: Yell "I'M SWOL FIGHT ME IRL"

@hyperchord 7 лет назад

I love this. I miss you, man.

@kbs1212 5 лет назад

“Okay boomer.”

@zvr1ff_zamhari 5 лет назад

This is the right way to win: **your mom** and **like u!** 😂😂

@jet5995 4 года назад

Suppose if we're in argument an someone says “your small i dont want to argue with you” what greatest reply we can give to shut him/she off

@GoEvenHarder 4 года назад

1- ask the person 2- ask the person 3- ask the person 4- ask the person 5- ask the person

@JHEVR 7 лет назад

If you want to win an argument, insult the other person's mother

@nicolasknoester7628 5 лет назад

Je moeder

@Francis-fo2ri 4 года назад

"No u" backfires.

@VihanDamaris 7 лет назад

So much wisdom. Thank you.

@Jacob-he4vy 7 лет назад

Please do a video on Ben Shapiro

@justinshalu8034 7 лет назад

that would be nice

@ubs16 7 лет назад

Yaakov King Ben Shapiro is a zionist controlled opposition shill

@archangelarielle262 7 лет назад

Agreed, I would have loved to see Hitchens hitchslap him.

@kDeviLLXIII 6 лет назад

bobi ll there aren't enough labels and buzzwords in your argument.

@CaptainCocaine 5 лет назад

Another one?

@slumber.prince937 7 лет назад

I like how this was more about letting another be and their voice be heard and specifically with your dishes bit, I hopped on defense. With suggestions and asks at the end of the argument. Solid advice. Thank you.

@Charismaoncommand 7 лет назад

~ Glad you're liking it Matthew!

@thedevilhimself856 5 лет назад

Sounds like this only works if what your asking is actually reasonable.

@dragon67849 7 лет назад

I'm gonna be open and brutally honest with you here, I don't really agree 100% with this channel as it comes of as a little manipulative at times and that does not sit well with me. Be that as it may, I have found great tips for improving my personality overall and you do know what the heck you're talking about. I just wanted to say that although it's hit or miss with this channel at times, I do like it as it helps people grow, understand and most importantly, overcome. The grow and mature thanks to you. They understand what it means to talk to people and in turn try to understand said person. And they overcome their biggest challenge when dealing with other people ALL THANKS TO THIS CHANNEL. You are a great help to a great many people. Keep it up and I'm looking forward to what else I may be able to improve.

@idasalvanamajid3487 4 года назад

How to “win” every internet argument “Uno reverse card” -this accounts daughter

@ElinaSing 7 лет назад

Great video. When it comes to political arguments I never go into it wanting to win or wanting someone to see what I see. I go into it wanting the other person to know why they think the way they think. When they know why they think the way they think, that's when you can start having a useful discussion with a person. A person who cannot explain his views, is a person who is not ready to discuss them with others.

@kroolascencio 5 лет назад

If someone says "your mom gae" just pull out the uno reverse card.

@imribbit8850 4 года назад

_For me, I can’t see winning an argument. Because whenever I do, I feel lousy, but when I lose, I feel like I should’ve said what I wanted to say._

@iivibinxi6724 4 года назад

Me watching this so I can win more arguments in roblox: 👁👄👁

@ravwth1092 4 года назад

OMG SAME LOL XD somebody my friend i go his vip server he keep annoyin me so i call him stop sohai then later few days ago we meet again he unfriend me and we keep argueing XD

@ravwth1092 4 года назад

XxpandacaptainXX

@iivibinxi6724 4 года назад

Wth lol

@iivibinxi6724 4 года назад

Lmao 😂

@ravwth1092 4 года назад

@@iivibinxi6724 if you rlly are Xxpanda captainXx then im 7x7 hehe

@kaizen_A 5 лет назад

A good summary of the six thinking hats ... Good book . This guy is a great person who everybody should watch him ...

@mistermeatcake1785 7 лет назад

step.1: be right

@axf890 7 лет назад

Sadly some people don't see that as enough.

@someguynamedzed7758 5 лет назад

Thankyou so much, this kept me from getting arrested, i was on my gsxr and was 25 over and i got pulled over

@AlexPapixulo 7 лет назад

I love your videos they help me a lot 👌

@Charismaoncommand 7 лет назад

~ Glad to hear it Alex :-)

@DanDanPlaysMusic 3 года назад

The title was very misleading, yet totally accurate

@masterm8664 7 лет назад

Does this work on women too?

@killerdoc1077 7 лет назад

Master Vengco I understand it too bro 😂😭

@CarootCarrot 7 лет назад

No.

@StewartFletcher 7 лет назад

Master Vengco Oh my sweet summer child...

@ianramosYT 7 лет назад

nothing will work on women

@TheHojsimpson 7 лет назад

Ian Ramos Money does.

@alicaido6616 6 лет назад

you know I would leave an insightful comment that inspires a constructive convo, but damn man... you got some heckin big hands

@summertime69 7 лет назад

I ran into the exact example you describe with the dishes. We had a roommate contact stating clearly that dishes get done everyday by the person whose on kitchen duty that week. Some roommates never did and for months I tried to get them to it. They were failing in their duties and even when I felt I was trying to inderstand, they didn't want to be responsible, doesn't feel they had to live up to the contact and knew there were no consequences. How do you reason with people who don't want what you want, want something you cannot give, and have no consequences for behaving poorly?

@shiva_689 6 лет назад

There is only one way to get people to do anything. One way. It's for them to want it. If you figure out how to do that you'll get everything you want. Btw I do realize that this doesn't answer your question. Felt like sharing it anyway

@oliviashaw2498 6 лет назад

Karen Cole create consequences

@kittypurry6717 6 лет назад

Probably dont have roommates, or just clean your own dishes and keep them in your room. If you show that you care more than them about the dishes/chores in general, they will hold out until you cave

@ThankGodImBlack370 5 лет назад

No, logic always works. If the other person rejects it it will come with anger, proving they didn't really reject it.

@thanoscar9273 6 лет назад

Incorrect. The best argument is : "No U"

@itssp9214 5 лет назад

There are only two factors that make other people acceptable of what you have to say: It's either if they have something to gain from you, or if they fear you. And I'm saying that, being an open to other perspectives person with fact-based arguments, but doesn't have any of the above. I came to that conclusion over the years, by observing people who do have respect for their points of view, before they even express them.

@EatsYourWords 7 лет назад

Dude, you totally flipped the script at the end and gave us a no answer, answer. You lead the scenario with us the audience being the ones that hadn't done the dishes, telling us to make an empathy statement like" I know you want the dishes done and you've told me a few times". Then when we get to the end suddenly step 5 the audience is in the role of the person frustrated that the dishes are never done and making a plan for the person to do the dishes twice a week. This is not helpful, we need to know how to win the argument when we are the ones who haven't done this dishes. That we don't want to and that's why we haven't done it. You basically just taught us how to listen to who ever has the problem and compromise and do what they said. THAT IS NOT WINNING ANY ARGUMENT, it's just caving. I really like your videos. So don't think I am trying to bash you down, I just don't think you answered the title to the video.

@Tutoelectro1 7 лет назад

I REALLY agree with point 4

@ib4751 7 лет назад

Could you please do a video about bullying :)

@ciri151 7 лет назад

Fight the bully. Even if you're weak. The reason why people get bullied is because they let people walk all over them without doing anything about it.