How To Overcome Doubt & Failure - Lisa Nichols 

Thank Lisa Nichols, for sharing your work and inspiring the Masses; what an amazing human being you are ❤. I'm dyslexic and dyspraxic; I'm a lone parent; I work full time in healthcare sector...I'm an immigrant, leaving far away from home. I left my home and my country when I was 18years old, lived in different countries, thus I still looking for my tribe, and a place I can call home. I'm a badass woman who conquered and achieved so many amazing things and still chasing my dreams. I know I was born for greatness and to live an amazing life but I'm my worse enemy. I doubt myself a lot and I waste too much time reliving my failures. I'm not afraid of hard work, I have people around me who admire my coragem, determination. I don't see myself like a brave and courageous person, I just treat every achievement as I had no choice but to do it anyway. I'm resilient and strong but I get scared sometimes for being too strong, I don't like showing my vulnerability to people in case they try to take advantage, then I have to fight them, no like physical fighting but walk away or face them and verbally put them in their place, it can be tricky when you have a strong accent. My plan now that I found your work and wisdom is to listening and relistenning and keep listening until I get to a place where I'm supposed to be mentally and physically. Thank you so much for sharing your amazing journey and for the work you do on inspiring the Masses ❤

The message that blew my mind is when you said you look at loss as being complete. That is just a revelation and so healing.

I was way too discouraged because of my past path but when u told me one of the comments," am standing on my past and not in my past," I SWEAR THAT LITERALLY BROKE MY CHAINS!!!!!!! I was like wooooo😐 hold up, am not in my past?? THANK YOU SO MUCH. YOU SERIOUSLY HAVE NO FREAKING IDEA HOW HARD I NEEDED THIS

Lisa, you have been such an inspiration and God sent to my life. I'm professional woman who once owed her own successful business, for over 17 years. After getting a divorce, I closed the business and took a 9 to 5 government job. I needed something more stable as i raise my 2 daughters. Now, my daughters are grown and doing well. However, I was recently released from my job after 19 years. Something in my spirit I knew it was time to go, however I stay on for the money and convenience. Now, I feel as if that journey is "COMPLETE"...because of what you've shared! I just want to say THANK YOU for helping to re-light the FIRE in my soul...in my spirit...in my heart! I know I'm destined to help lots of people and make a difference in the lives of many. YOU ROCK!!! PLEASE, KEEP OF THE GREAT WORK!!! BLESSINGS AND HUG, JOYCE S.

Lisa your perception of failure almost made me cry because I seen failure as a fall. You are so inspiring and positive. This is really something I needed to hear. I will take my failure as a lesson and look at it in a more positive way. Thank you for being who you are!

I love how you’re helping me to have a new mindset-a new way of thinking! Thinking positively, not taking “failures” as failures or “loses” as loses. But seeing everything as a divine experience to which you can appreciate and improve upon. Once you said don’t say “break up” say “complete” that was a BOL for me. It’s helping me to let go of someone who isn’t good for me and know that our experiences weren’t in vain. Thank you !

the part where you said- when you “lose” someone that doesn’t mean either one of you is lost, only that your experience with each other has ended. I lost someone I cared very deeply for, and since he’s been gone I’ve only ever felt like I didn’t have enough firm to get to know him, caught up in regret in not sound more time with him. Hearing this has allowed me to see our relationship in a new light, accepting that whatever we had was all that was meant for us, nothing more nothing less. It’s been hard to accept that I missed out on what could’ve been, but I have to accept nothing was stolen from me. I simple reached the end of our journey together, it only hurts so much bc I expected sm more. I think knowing this now going forward teaches me to just be and accept things for what they are instead of being let down by my own expectations.

My moment of 🤔 was to stop saying the cliche term " we broke up." I've said that a few times in my life not realizing it was just simply complete...the relationship is simply complete! I'm still whole and so are they...I hope...lol. But, I know that I am. It's not what people say, but how they articulate what they say and you have the gift of speaking life to things in a way of real understanding. Thank you, Lisa! My virtual coach 4life!😊

We are complete. That is so powerful.

I needed this in my life; I am tired of holding back my brilliance for doubt. I just need to "fail forward", and love the journey, live my life living in my destiny. I got from this that part of my success is in the failures, but I have to be willing to leave my safety zone: it takes the out of ordinary to get the extraordinary!!!

I am in my focus of concern way too much..........I have avoided healthy conflict.......I also looked at speed bumps as stopped signs. Battling all now as to how can I get through the next 3 semesters in college all while living in a toxic environment.......Trying to focus on what I can change and more on who I am becoming and less on who I am slowly leaving behind.

Thank you Lisa, you always deliver such powerful and enriching messages. "Fall forward", I adore that. Bigger planned risk, bigger planned gain!

My darkness sees a bit of light today. Thank you

"Is it really a failure, or it a really a lesson wrapped in sandpaper?" So eloquently stated! Thank you for your inspiration. Subscribed with bell notification.😍

Thank you Lisa! This video is exactly what I needed to hear! There so many gold nuggets in here. I’m still processing them all coz they’re all so juicy. So I am failing forward and choosing to stand on my past and not to be in it! and have a strategy following WITH my heart’s desires, not just following the good feeling. That was a huge AHA for me. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!

I love hearing you speak. I had to take a break from my college studies and turn to your videos to get some inspiration. I am on academic probation,and I am in my first semester,i have fallen behind and my deadline is in a few days. I work grave,i have health problems that make me exhausted constantly,and a household w children who constantly need me. I need some encouragement asap. I love u. I wish i could meet you Ms. Funding my dream 😊

This your home this is your tribe she says, mother darling I adore you💙💚💛🧡💜 I found my way back to me by finding lisa Nichols and my divine, and the entire universe ' s creator.

Hi! Thanks for helping me look at failure from a new perspective. I always felt like a failure was the end and it was time for me to try something else. Thanks for changing of thought

Hii m from India.. really feel energetic everytime when I listen you...luv you and thank you

#BOL YES, YES Ms. Lisa! YES, YES! My gifts were truly born from yesterday's failures. Or like I like to say..."There are no failures, there's only opportunity for growth!" And Lisa, "I'm a big girl now"

Hi my friend sent me your RU-vid link.. you verbalize everything I feel in my spirit yet unleashed. I'm so grateful for you. It's so amazing to have you apart of humanity to remind us who we truly are.

I too love to read books that have been highlighted. when they highlight something else than me, it forces me to wonder what they found so interesting in that piece that I wouldn't

Stumble on your video , you are an inspiration, i dropped out nursing school over 5 years ago and ever since I've been afraid to try again, keep doubting myself I'll fail again

It was a complete experience. Love ❤️ love it.

Putting our past in front of us, is energy consuming and frustrating. It's has dry a life out of me!

The "good feeling" of intuition won't last as long as I don't give effort to my intuition! #BOL

So the biggest losses I've endured thus far aside from myself at one point, was the loss of my child and my ex who I was convinced was my husband and we'd be together forever. However losing a child will separate the very things that you needed to stay and unfortunately we held on for so long it just got increasingly toxic and bad. However hearing you say that it was not break up we were just complete, has truly changed the way that I look at it. For whatever reason we went through whatever we went through to take the lesson and move forward in it because it was the completion of us and trying to force it clearly made it much worse. As I'm still healing from this, you just sparked the light that in a way makes it much more tolerable than it ever has been, because it wasn't either one of us per se, just two people forcing something that have been completed long before one of us decided to finally let it be what it was. Thank you for that insight and perspective #BOL

"My gift today is born out of my failures of yesterday. So, is it really a failure?"...Lord, please help me pronounce these words in my Spirit and change my mindset. AmenThank you Lisa for being obedient to God's calling and sharing your experiences with us all!

Hi Lisa, thank U so for sharing your truth so openly & honestly. Listening to you talk about a variety of different subject is always helpful. you never fail to heighten & enlighten me and my look on things. I love U always. My sister

Y.A.N.A yes YES- I can overcome Doubt yes YES- I have overcame Failure and I can overcome more yes YES- Thanks Lisa I feel apart of a ripple effect of healing processes

I'm so proud to have known you. You are so beautiful and successful! You are fabulous!

Good work Motivating the Masses team! I need to go catch up on the episodes of the Lisa Nichols show

you are amazing Lisa i wanna listen what your trying to say for us. i love your story and the way your tell is amazing is wow

Damn! My breakthrough about loss!! I've ended a relationship, with a person I really liked and I didn't want to end it, but I ended it as an act of love to me. For the love of myself I owe it to myself, because this person wasn't playing at a high enough level! And this is the first time btw that I've ended a relationship with someone I LIKED, instead of clinging on and hoping it will be better, or clinging on because I think I need this person. So thank you! I was already thinking yes this person helped me to grow alot, but your insights on loss really hammered it home - IT IS COMPLETE!! Also Lisa, your authenticity is a light to me, your insights about so much guide me to where I want to be! Also AMEN to your quote:" I only want to play with people who wanna play with me!" Lisa I'm 20 years old and I've been in an abusive relationship! Your words have helped stay clear of a further destructive relationship and welcome love into my life! Love for MYSELF!! Thank you sister

Thank you so much madam.

Hi Lisa! My #BOL came when I stop believing in my inabilities and started walking into my abilities. I figured out my (Y) and knew my struggles were preparing me.. now looking back I can #BOL!!!!!!

It's good, benefit information

This is a issue I am dealing with now, being at a school where you can’t relate to anyone at all, their motives are very different from yours, no one is hard working as you are, and unable to make friends because you get to know them and they are either negative and pulling people down or they’re just looking to just get by in school, not even working to their abilities. So I end up making myself feel bad because I feel I am the issue and that no one is like me.

Hi lisa.. Today I had a fight with who bullied me in the past and I saw your face at the moment because I used to feel stuck when ever they bully me and they are the ones who made me get into self development so I feel like today I had my breakthrough and at some point when I was inside the fight the people who got bullied by them to speak up so I felt like I made a switch to the future of those people and they got motivated by me so I felt like I had my moment and I just wanna say thank you ❤️#BOL

#standing on your story. Lost my youngest last year around this time, brought me to me knees..it's been hard, but slowly rising 🌸💗😁

Thank you

Thank you Lisa. I just love you ..

Love it...i will start to using that we didn’t break up...we completed this phase of life together!!! Moving on 😁

#YANA.. Doubt and fear is due to lack of information and i am going to get all the INFORMATION i can in the time i have and then TRUST on rest process,on the universe..i am not alone in this i think.Thank you very much 🙂 ❤❤

Good stuff Lisa. #bol any intuitive good feeling idea is not going to feel that way for much longer if it lacks infrastructure of planning. I now see why I have had so many "failures " thanks

This episode's got so much more me..i had to watch it over and over .This 15 mins episode that i thought would take only 5mins more took me like 30 mins.BUT the best part is i got some aha moments 🤗 and it doesn't matter if my time block met some extratime gap..Thank you soo much.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart. After watching so many episodes of this show I've just had the biggest #BOL of them all, not to mention the countless insights I had while hearing you say everything I needed to hear. I feel like things are going to change from this point on. I feel like my batteries have been charged thank u again for being this positive-energy bomb.

#BOL I love the concept of turning "break up" into completing the relationship. I will use and share this🙄

My B O L IS THAT I am not BROKEN DUE TO MY COMPLETED RELATIONSHIP, ooooh my GOD , I never looked at it this way , like we say in French ; Merciiiiiiiiiiii beaucoup 🙏🏿

Being a smarter version of my i promis not to take failure as a red signal🔴 but i will take it as a green signal to do that perticula things in different way and with more info. thank you

Thank you thank you ... I really needed to watch this . I'm battling severe anixety and almost contemplated suicicde . Seems like everyone wants to take everything from me only to see my faliure or to say " oh I knew she can't / couldn't do it" I'm going to block out the negative thoughts of others and myself and try and work on bettering my mind. I have visions of my dreams but whenever I get to the door and open it , it jiggles but there's something stopping it ( which maybe my own self ) but I don't know where to start to get over this hump .. idk I'm sooooo confused

Your video quality is bomb ✨‼️

I need tools to pass on to my “grown” son that can help him become the man that I believe him to be. How can I bring him.to realize a good life.

#BOL - Never saw this way. I allowed a speed bump to be a Stop Sign 👀

Wow

I learned that you don't search love. Love will find you////////////thanks...........MINDY

I am from Pakistan and I Love uuuuuuuuuuuu.....Aaahaaaaaa

Wao wao

I have a disability I can’t understand what I’m reading nor put it in words!!! I can read it over and over and still don’t understand what I’m reading! I can’t do math! I’m ashamed for my disability!!

Thank you for your words . They make my heart happy and I feel whole when I listen to you .

Lisa, I must say that I am soo blessed to hear you articulate what is in my heart about success and failure! It is by way of divine revelation that I understand failure to be necessary and a prerequisite for success. I love what you said about failure being an indication of how many areas you play full out in!! That is awesome and again such a confirmation of God's revelation to me! #Committedtoplayingfullout

Wow. this was DEEP! No break up the relationship was complete. Wow

I just love what you do Lisa, and how passionate you are about helping others through your life experiences. #BOL you're so right when you say that 'failure' is not a bad thing and it needs to be celebrated, because it means you took a chance in life and now you have an opportunity to hit reset and try again. Im going to make sure that this time around and n my life I'm going to leap toward my dreams and not look back, and if I get it wrong so be it. You have to get it wrong before you can get it right. Love you so much Lisa, and team!

What a beautiful way of looking at the situations and relationships we dwell on negatively as a way of sweet release. Knowing and believing that even with an unsatisfied ending in your eyes it was needed to help you grow and develop a greater you. ❤

Got myself into hardship and I’m shifting between a drive to find a way to move past it and a place of fear and judgement over bad decisions. When you said “My gifts today was born out of my failures yesterday,” it moved me to tears. Thank you Lisa. I love you 🙏🏼🤍

Thanks Lisa for this breakthrough moment for me. I’ve been hurting for the longest time coz my husband left me when I needed him the most after completing my treatments for cancer. He just disappeared for a few days and when I managed to get a hold of him on the phone via sms he told me that he didn’t want me anymore. He had fallen in love with someone else and wanted to be with her. Now I get it that the time I had with him was complete; we had done and enjoyed through the years together and we re simply complete. It’s not a break up or a loss but an experience and life lessons that have completed. It’s time to forgive myself, forgive him and to bring the great lessons I’ve learnt forward. I love you Lisa and I cry listening to every videos you share.

Thank you Lisa. I lost my daughter recently and I just could not understand why. I wasn’t mad at God just confused. In my reflection I found a lot of great memories of her and our family times together and severs lessons she had taught me over the years one of which was the importance of forgiveness. You just help me some more to realize her tasks were completed and I MUST use her memories and lessons learned to bless others

Hello Lisa, BTOL "Couple intuitive movement with a solid plan." I have to do this in regards to marketing books I've published. For example, I published in February and have done very little marketing. I will definitely take positive steps to move forward in this area. In addition, I have to become better about celebrating micro and macro wins. This year, my goals are to take more leaps #Jump. Thank you for the reminder that if I fail, don't give up. #FailForward and for helping me realize that "my gift today was born out of my failures yesterday."

Loving You Everyday Lisa those relationships that are gone in my life are complete it hurts but we did what we needed to do now its time to move on. I thought I had moved on but I needed your wisdom Apreci-Love Jag Bless Psalms 68:4

#BOL Lisa, this episode of overcoming doubt and failure was amazing!!! I loved the part when you said "don't say, we broke up. Just say, we're complete." I love that! I had a friend of 20 years. She ended our friendship because of a misunderstanding. I knew that it was a perfect time because I'm moving in a different direction. But I love...it's complete!!!

Dear Lisa. You are distracting me from reading these comments 😂😂. I love you Lisa. I'll rewind, don't worry.

Hi Lisa. I quitted my last job because I was working into exhaustion, visiting neurologist for 1.5 year, is this my failure or what? I'm still confused. I hope you Lisa can be the significant part to eliminate "Corporate Slavery" and transform it into fairness. Thank you Lisa.

I cherish your words; these words from my newfound amazing teacher #LisaNichols "Every failure is another step towards your greatness" Every rejection (And I say this as a person who was rejected for my transgender identity. I had thousands of people funding and joining campaigns to distance me from my offsprings and I was ostracised by thousands of people) You are what you create and that creation heck its goin' be a road to climb. But flying takes falls. Dont let the numbers get in the way. The number is just a distraction. 💚💚💚💙💙💙💜💜💜

I have the information yet the doubt is still there. When I delved into the reason why, it came down to fear of failure. After what you said about loss, I had an ah ha moment. I have had so many losses in my business and relationships, and heart ache including PTSD from abusive relationships, that I am afraid to make a plan with the information I have available. When you said about loss and every moment as complete, struck a chord with me.I was looking at loss, failures, lessons I learned as a reflection of my self worth. You see as a little girl everytime I made a mistake, I was told I was good for nothing, stupid, and a bunch of other negative adjectives. So what I learned today is that I have to commit to falling in love with myself and celebrating my fail forwards because I dared to take action. As for my mistakes, they do not reflect my self-worth. They are simply lessons to learn to do better and bring joy into the future. It's been over 3 decades, so today I embrace that little girl and tell her "you are good for a lot of things and extremely smart and talented, congratulations on failing forward and making mistakes because success is around the corner regardless of your age.". Thanks for that ah ha moment

Look at those shoulders and neck Amazingly beautiful my sister 🙌🏾🙌🏾🌞🌞

I found my fortune when I found you, I hope I will be able to make you proud , when you say make a plan , for the fight, I have,I must get a word from you daily, Thanks for your episodes.now I know what my future looks like it is possible my decision is made I will do it afraid.until I win can I work not for food but for growth??? Yes !Yes!!! I am happy and grateful now that you take my doubt away I fail forward so many times .but you give me hope Thank you Lisa.YANA

Wow. #BOL!!! I had to pause on this part. You gave me such a beautiful insight on my doubt and it’s bc I don’t have all I need to start so I can I continue studying and working as I’m a single mom of a infant to make this dream and vision of mine come true. I’m a stay at home mom as well, working on ways to possibly put him in daycare part time so I can continue with my writing and deep passions to get this spark back inside. This has been the biggest challenge ever, I’ve never done this before. You have helped me greatly and have poured so much hope back inside of me. Thank you. This was my message, that “nugget” that tells me not to give up but to keep studying and working hard and when it’s time I’ll know it. To truly trust the process of it all. Much much Gratitude to you and yours. ⭐️🙏❤️

#BOL “Doubt is in the planning of failure.” Lisa I finally found the pattern 🤭 I love research. I spend copious amounts of time finding information but the execution of my desired results has been shaky. Self Doubt is the pattern. I believe in the facts; now I have to believe in my ability make my falls a setup for a come up, leap again, and fly.

Hii Lisa!!! first i want to thank you for your energy your beautiful spirit when i watch your videos i fill your words your emotion so inspiring!!! I have a question may be you have already Answer... How we deal when we are lost in our ideas and procratinating to reach our dream? Thank you, love from France Fouzia

How are you always so positive? Life whipped my bum and led me to you and I am thankful. I have failed and I gave up but gut wouldn't let me rest, I am meant for more than this so I am watching your videos gathering strength to get up and allow myself to fail. Give yourself a thousand chances and when you get to 999 reset the clock.

❤Lisa thanks. I didn't look at doubt that positive, girl! You have rescued me. This thing will never control my life again no...

#BOL- regarding completing relationships- “the cycle is complete.” Wow! What a revelation. Everything that needed to happen did & now it’s time to move forward.

Lisa mam, thank you so much for your valuable words, I am so happy to see this new side of things which I thought it didn't even existed...

also the part where you were talking ab having a structure plan for your passions. I’m a upcoming singer but I’ve never taken it seriously until now, until I realized everything I’m passionate ab you can be wrapped up in the this gift of mine. it’s not enough to say well this is what makes me feel good and I’m good at it so it’s has to work. No it’s going to take strategic planning, consistent effort and drive in order for my goals to come to fruition.

#BOL I had a loss, I won't keep using my energies thinking why things did not work out cuz Things happened for a reason: we completed our time together. I will keep moving on and fuel myself with gratitude and new perspectives! #YesYES!

Lisa thank you so much for this video! I really really really needed to hear your comment about breakups. I love that you suggested we don't say that we broke up but that we are complete. I can't wait to share that with my soon-to-be former boyfriend. Thank you thank you thank you!

My BOL was around a number of things, but seeing loss as completion is freeing. Thanks!

I am telling you once I decided to quit, the next time I settled to quit again and again. Because it was easy to quit. However, the moment I decided to face that challenge, to do whatever it took to win over the challenge, I felt like a warrior. Thank you Lisa for re-confirming my right decisions not to quit anymore.

Never looked at managing doubt in that way before especially in relationships. Very logical but also removes an emotional pressure but you comfort zone

Lisa, you have totally disrupted me this morning in my thinking 💭. I have never had anyone tell me that my loss is complete in a way that it is ok to move on. I have been trying to free myself from past relationships but not knowing how to do it has kept me in a cycle of confusion and depression. I have much to separate myself from now that I have a new mind set on how to move forward. Thank you for being my sister in prosperity because my mind has prospered this morning! Blessings to you and your family, Christine

Hello from Bulgaria! I love you, Lisa! Thank you for all your videos, just amazing how lovely you are!

#BOL I have been frozen in fear of failure for a few years now. I’ve been criticized for my failures because there used to be a time when I didn’t. I used to be fearless and I finally got to a point of not even trying anymore. Big plans? Why implement them because you’ll just fail again. I’ve been lead to believe that failure was a disaster and you’re not good enough anymore. Not that it just happens and the key is to learn from it and move on and not wallow in it.

#BOL DIDN'T SEE EPISODE BUT WHAT MICHAEL JUST SAID FOR VOLUME TO MY SOUL.. Yes YES‼️💞

Two take from this dialogue, being on a past instead of in the past. When on the past this propels your to your future while being in the past, it holds you captive, this is big because right now am declaring that am no longer going to be in my past but on on my past oh yeh oh yeh...completing a relationship instead of breaking up Wao , that gives the experience power and the completion powerless. I have been captive to my past relationships, I know that looking at it as a completion give me hope to look forward to lies ahead. Thanks Lisa.

Thank you Lisa, I also went through a lot but your words give me hope that I can still rise up from what I've been through..

I've been having an argument the same argument with my husband for years. Now I know that it should not be an argument but just a beautiful brilliant idea that I have to spare with others. And that's okay. I am taking that from this lesson thank you so much Lisa from my mending ❤

Adorable!!!to the bone! So truthfull!!! Thanks a zillion Lisa!!

I want to fail so I can grow! I want to fail so I can succeed! Failure means I took a leap of faith! Thank you for your wisdom and advice!

Yessss…..BOL! I am standing on my story. As long as I have watched your videos - this is the one I missed.

Thank you for this. I will certainly need to listen and take notes. I'm feeling all of this 100%