How to Pursue a Woman Without Being Needy 

"Attraction is a reaction". This changes everything. Thanks.

This kind of videos are really helping out to gain confidence in life back!

Dan, I’ve used all your products, and you are an absolute legend. Videos like this are great refreshers and throw me right back into the state of mind I should be in. Keep it up you savage, changing lives out here.

I love the "one final point" part at the end of each video! 😁

Advice level 10/10, going up to 20/10 once that magic phrase hits: 'One final point that I want to make for you in this video...' Always *gold*

All ur videos are very educative. Thanks dan..

11:34 that right here was my biggest mistake. I tried to restrain her from meeting new people, and we arent even on a serious relationship. I was acting really needy, insecure and jealous around other guys she talked to. It came to a point we are just friends now, even tho she says she doesnt know if we are only friends. She says she is trying to date that guy, and i am also going out with other girls now. Still miss my time with her, but i know that the only way to have a chance is by stop my behaviour and act like you said: there is competition, but i am the best, and if she doesnt want me i shouldnt care, because i dont need her to live. I still am insecure deep inside, but i am trying to change while also not showing up the remnants of my toxicity.

Wow what a good timing to upload a vid dan. I am starting to feel needy for my girl and i feel uneasy when she doesn't text back sooner. Thanks man

Another great video. I read "the flow" and a few his others and blew my mind, turned out I knew nothing about what women really wanted and literally changed my life forever for good. Truth is more pretty a woman is more she struggles to get a boyfriend because 95% of guys are lemon, sissy, scared, feminine. Only 5% are alpha and it's hard for a pretty woman to find those 5%. The other day i came across a video on tiktok, interview with some adult movie stars and even they said that outside the work is all about attraction and what they feel when they're talking to man, not his look or "size". And if you watched Dan's videos, read his book and still ask how to this, that, then you're in all sorts of trouble.

Dan .. you are a legend bro, I've been waiting for this video .. thanks

We love you Dan, you always stand out from other dating couches, keep the great job 👏

So, what I did was flirt with every girl even if I wasn’t attracted to them (Assuming the situation was appropriate). Over time it became natural, so when a girl came across that was attractive, the flirting would feel natural.

What builds confidence? I have always been putting my self in uncomfortable situations but I rarely experience that high confidence in my self

mutual pursuit is better and more balanced I want understand this more Thank GOD , the more I listen to your videos the more I see your message and be aware of important axial things

Why do men pursue women in a needy way? Because they see the woman as better than them. That is why many men can pursue women they aren't attracted to in a non needy way but pursue women they are attracted to in a needy way.

As a guy, I wonder how you can be so true and accurate! It's ridiculous how accurate you are! amazing content.

Yes Dan. A perfect video. And I agree that sometimes Women are too shy and too unconfident to show a Man that theyre very atrracted to the confidence factor and the girl is actually attracted, and may use her lack of reaction as a test. Thank you Dan! Grazie!

Dan the man!

Thank you Dan. Just the question I had in mind.

A great video and reflections, Dan. Congratulations and thanks.

A mountain of information.Thankyou for sharing.

Thanks for posting again, you are helping slot of men!

I definitively started pursuing the girl I was seeing a little too much. I showed some signs of desperation because I was afraid she was going to pull away again like she had done once before, so this time I was determined to not let that happen to the point where I shot myself in the foot because of it.

I don't, "make the move". I learn so much from this, I'm practicing evaluating women on the spot, staying in the moment, I want to be able to keep control of the situation, remember talking points, lead the conversation, then have the discipline to walk away so I can analyze and refine. Tell them "you would make a good friend", drives them crazy. It's very entertaining, why would anybody want to be stuck with only 1 woman, that wants to suck you in, all for herself.

Dan what do you think is better, express myself and be 100% real or force characteristics that attract women until it becomes part of my personality? Because most of the times i don't feel like using ballsy humor or other stuff and just wanna chill

1.Dan, Can I attract every women in this world??? Is it possible?? 2. Are women logically attracted to men's confidence, charisma,personality, sense of humor??? should women be attracted to these qualities or it just happens??

Dan, I know your videos are about women and attraction mostly, but could you make videos sometime on how to stand up as a man when others mess with us, joke too much at our expense, or just plainly treat us very badly (at work, or even our girlfriends)? It's a part of my life that I've struggled at times to deal with, maybe because others have seen that I'm not always confident. I compensate that by having a very grim face at times and with my big body, which intimidates people, or by putting my girlfriend down at times when she's acting out of line and I know it's not the best approach. But I'd like to know how to do it right in other areas of life too like at work with colleagues or a disrespectful boss. Would greatly appreciate learning how to make others respect us more. Have learned a lot from you and got a girlfriend now but there's other new and old priblems now I wanna deal with. Any help would be appreciated. Or even pointing me out to the right product of yours about this part of life (maybe Better than a bad boy?).

Hey Dan, I have a question for you ¿How do you manage to keep coming up with funny things to say and teasing jokes while flirting with a girl in the long run? It happened to me a few times that in the beginning some girls found the jokes and teasing funny but overtime when they already got used to my humor and the kind of jokes I tend to make, then they didn't find it funny anymore. Fantastic video by the way, as always🤘

It looks like dating advice-and it sounds like dating advice but with every vid I feel that you are single handedly saving mankind! Sorry if that sounds dramatic but I'm pretty sure there is a reason you are shadow banned! With the high divorce rates for decades it's not like we were able to observe this contend in out parents! All your contend comes across as aimed for the under 30ies but I do not see a reason why this would not work with those that are a bit older? To Dan's woman: I hope you appreciate this man not just for being your man but a global hero!

Hi Dan, I'm hearing a lot of people saying that we men must create some degree DRAMA in the relationship otherwise she gets bored. Obviously as men we like to avoid this but women clearly love it, hence the reason they watch so many drama tv shows. My question to you is, how do we create this drama in the correct way to build more attraction?? Perhaps you could do a video on this topic. Or do you currently have one ? Thanks D

Guys 9:43 to 9:50, gem of an advice..

Glad to see a video for a more specific situation cheers Dan

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I watch your videos and I'm waiting for more your fan's from Egypt ❤

Brilliant.

Thank you!

SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME. I always just get the feeling that women are disinterested after a date or an encounter. Which results in me staying quiet after a short conversation from her via text. Then after she never sends me a message, it's done. It has happened so many times before to the point where I don't know what to do. Perhaps part of the reason is because I only mainly now go out on dates with older heavy women through dating apps that I don't find physically attractive in the slightest since I can't get any likes... even after getting a new set of photos done of myself during a private photoshoot to put on the app. Because I don't speak the language of my country very well and don't feel comfortable talking to strangers let alone random women... I never end up talking to any women in my age group in person. I have had a woman who ghosted me on a date during my birthday, a woman that doesn't say anything at all on a second date then we essentially both ghosted each other, two woman who said they wanted to get sensual even though I found them to be physically ugly to the point of revulsion, a woman who let me into her apartment after a few dates but seemed really reluctant to try anything in bed resulting in us not speaking to each other, a woman who let me up into her apartment after I asked to use the bathroom but that essentially ghosted me afterwards (as I didn't make a move or anything on her), I had one woman who was ugly (she had a problem with her teeth a really bad overbite) who was at first nice then standoffish then eventually left the country then that was it, I have had a handful of women (when I was younger) that I did like at least somewhat but naively missed there signals and didn't advance. I would love to form a serious relationship but just cannot connect with anyone on a physical or mental level. Do women think I am gay and that is a turn off? At this point I don't even know what it is like to be with a woman since I have never even made it to 1st base. I have been approached by inappropriate gay men that just really disgusts me. It's terrible and sad.

I asked my gym crush out and she said sorry she has a boyfriend which I didn’t have a problem with but now she totally ignores me turns her head if we pass almost to the point of being rude! I mean flaming hell I know she has a boyfriend but is there really that much of a problem to nod your head and be civil? Or is there a chance that if she didn’t have a boyfriend she finds me attractive?

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Hi Dan I have been following your channel for quite some time now. I read all your articles on your website and watched youtube videos. I still cant find answer to my question which is: I used your tips to flirt with this girl who is my co worker we work at the same office. I used your tips of e.g playfully teasing her and being playfully arrogant. She caught feelings to a point where she confessed she loves me but she is not ready to date for now. I have continued flirting with her we even write each other love letters and kiss in the office. But she is refusing to go out for lunch. What should be my next step because avoiding her wont work since we sit on the same desk at work everyday.

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Dan, how do you do? I am curious, does The Flow works for any age of men? 30? 40? 50? and up?. And.. Is it easy to download once you purchase it? How that works mate?

Ive experienced that confidence before but feel like alot has happened lately in my life how do i gain it back ?

So, Dan if i was being too needy how do i fix these or situation? it was good then i did all the negatives of needy after two dates. no i got silence.. :( but we work together but I'd like fix it. is it repairable

Dude nailed it on the head perfectly.

Dan any advice how to make things right after fucking up with a girl you really like ? I've felt a really special bond with a girl, we hanged out everyday for two months, I was confident, charming, funny, always made her laugh, listened to her and made activities with her. She posted me on her instagram and stories but one time, I became really angry at something she said to me and since then, our relationship wasn't the same. I became insecure instead of not making a fuss about it. I've felt disrespected (and it was disrespect) and confronted her about it. She cried and apologised to me. A few weeks after that : She told me while crying that we love people that don't love us and don't love people that love us and we suffer because of it. I've felt that directed towards me so I told her that I had feelings for her and that I don't accept that logic. She then responded very coldly that we never had any special bond and that she only saw me as a friend. I feel that it was a lie because of everything that happened before. She never ever told me to fuck off or that she didnt like me. Even when each of us wanted space to think things through. We always ended up, greeting, speaking or asking each other for a favor. But first of all, she has a boyfriend, a boyfriend she really doesnt love because she always brings him down when we are together. Things like : He bends the knee for me, always there, I appreciate him but I don't want to show him to others because I don't wanna be seen as his partner. Word for word. So am I being played ? Where did I fucked up ? What is all of this about ? I can have other girls without problem. I just ..... This girl ... Never felt something so strong for anybody. But she did say she only saw me as a friend. What do I do now ?

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Hey Dan True story a week ago I went to church and saw a lady that I had interest in so after I approached her and introduced myself had a good conversation things were going really well then I ended the interaction because I had somewhere to be the next weekend after the same lady I said hi how's it going and she showed no interest at all put me off for good on that lady.... what could have been a better approach do you reckon ?

Hey Dan, My gf broke up with me a month ago because of some trust issues she had with me. I messed up big time. She is diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder 2 and I am soo regretful of what I did to her. She used to love me alot. Took some therapy to improve myself. Today I apologized with her over a text and she replied that she has no complain/issues with me. What should I do now? Should I keep texting her and know how she’s doing ?

Hey Dan love the videos question, if a woman asks you out on a second date even though the first date was mid but ended up in alot of sexual chemistry, you make a plan and then get blue ticked on the plan whats that about?

Dan what if girl openly reject me? Is then ok to pursue or its better to just leave it?

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she should think im a good guy and pursue me!!! lol so true. never happening

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Hi Dan, how do you view the importance of a relationship from a woman with her mother and father (and siblings)? Understanding this connection can be powerful I feel

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Well I’m likely a girl right now and I’m taking baby step I just ask if are friends and yes she yes and it take me about a few months to ask her this bc I’m not going to rush this bc I think she awesome she has a great personality and sense of humor that’s what made me attracted to her bc of are hallway bantering

I wonder two guys watching Dan have ever tried to pursue the same girl :D

Love your videos Dan, they alone have upgraded my game a lot. Greetings from Serbia

Hey Dan what should I do should I get my ex girlfriend back because I have not texted my ex girlfriend in too weeks or do you think my ex girlfriend will come back to me

I'm just confused AF right now. The girl I have a crush on, at the gym, has shown very high interest for about 1.5-2 months, so I got her number a week ago, sent a message that evening to ask whats a good time to call (to set a date), and I'm yet to hear from her. But when I saw her in the gym yesterday, she stopped her set to look up in the mirror, smile and wave to me when I walked by...what the? I'm thinking maybe she typed her number wrong, and I'm worried if thats the case, she is gonna think I'm playing games...how do I find out without sounding needy? Her ex is stalking her badly too, so I don't want to double text and come across as needy. The other girl asked for my number at work, asked me out the day before, but I had plans. She had overtly high interest, almost too much interest. I suggested thursday we do something instead and she said she thinks she has thurs off but will let me know closer to the date...I didn't hear from her and its Friday now. It feels like both women are testing me. One possibly to see if Im just like her ex, OR she typed her number wrong. The other one is anybody's guess. My plan is to do nothing for another week, maybe indefinitely, but if I see the gym girl, and shes watching me in the mirrors like she always does, I'm thinking I'll shoot a cheeky text to say something like "Are you going to keep undressing me with your eyes in the mirrors, or are you gonna come and talk to me already?" Or "Don't exert yourself too much, you might fart, and everyone knows ladies don't fart" Just something ridiculous to evoke a reaction. Shes always on her phone, so if I dont get a reaction or a response, I know I have the wrong number, and should go start a conversation, ask her out in person. Thoughts?