When you are in love with a person, but the development of your relationship has not yet reached the stage when you are sure of its reciprocity, you can make a number of mistakes that will scare away your lover, and this will lead to the fact that the relationship does not work out!
Usually, people make the most common mistakes at this stage: either they don’t show their feelings at all (because of low self-esteem, insecurity that they can't be chosen and loved), or they rush too much and put pressure on their partner from an overabundance of their own feelings, and then the pressure is expressed in the compulsion of their actions (they write too much, call too often, and this leads to discouragement and embarrassment of the beloved, he distances himself), and the third mistake is doubts about reciprocity, which make the trajectory of your actions in relation to be broken , and your actions become inconsistent (reason: shame, fear of non-reciprocity, you think that he treats you just like a friend).
How to avoid these errors and achieve reciprocity?
To do this, you need to create a sense of confidence, faith, unwavering knowledge, the belief that THIS MUTUALITY ALREADY EXISTS !!! To convince yourself of this, to cultivate this feeling in yourself. That's it! Nothing more is needed. This feeling will give you a peace of mind, even self-confidence. If it arises on its own, this is the clearest indicator that it is your partner. The one that will contribute to the development of your psyche and one with which you will be truly happy.
The nature of this feeling is that your intuition, the unconscious (which are a large accumulation of interhemispheric neural connections), based on a unique set of your needs, constitutes a unique image of your ideal partner, and when you meet a person who is very similar in set to this ideal, you have the effect of recognition, a premonition that it suits you.
This is a hint that he suits you.
If reciprocity does not arise, this means that either your needs did not come from the healthy, but from the neurotic half of your psyche, and you fell into a love scenario, or that you “pulled” the image of your ideal on a person weakly suitable for him. In both cases, the lack of reciprocity is good, because with these people a happy relationship would not work anyway.
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