I’m SO HAPPY you mentioned NOT everyone wants to be a “Girl Boss” or “The Boss”!!! I never wanted that, I would love to be a stay at home mom! I do have a 9-5 that I enjoy, and put my best foot forward and by no means want to be the boss. I enjoy logging off at a certain time and focusing on my family. I love the “be totally honest with yourself about what you actually want” 👏 👏 love this video per usual!!
Thank you! It feels like everyone these days are pushing for entrepreneurship! No disrespect to entrepreneurs at all they are amazing and talented but so are people who have 9-5 jobs, or work 12 hour shifts. Like me I work 3 days a week, 12 hour shifts as a healthcare worker and it’s the best for me and my life & schedule!
@Pumpkin Latte the more you make the more you're somewhat forced into it.. my husband starting a business because it offsets taxes. I have a business and it's so much work!!!! It's not for everyone and sometimes I don't even think it's for me. I don't mind having a regular job ( I teach), but making my daily pay in an hour Def makes a business look attractive. Also I enjoy my business and love sharing my gifts with ppl.
When I was setting goals for 2023 I used the Q1/Q2/Q3/Q4 system to organize it. I finish grad school in March and then I’m moving across the country at the end of June so it spilt things up nicely :)
My sister, I hope that your channel is monetized because this video could be a class! It resonates deeply with my value system and your recommendations are 100% on target. It really hit me when you said that we can suffer because we are scrolling very curated feeds - painfully illuminating!
May GOD continue to guide you as you guide us back to our true selves. I love you so much. Every video resonates with me. I am truly grateful you created this feminine channel.
I've been reading this book called Atomic Habits and it goes into depth about actually becoming the person you want to be instead of focusing on the bad habit you'd like to get rid of. For instance if someone asks you if you'd like a cigarette instead of saying "no thanks, I'm trying to cut back" you should try "no thanks, I don't smoke or I'm not a smoker". Actionable steps to actually become that person we desire to be are made up of those small changes that add up over time. I want this for all of us here. Thanks for this video ♥
As a feminine woman trying to get into Research Science (a very male dominated field) I love how you don’t advocate for a specific female role, it’s about meeting women where they’re at. I’m taking full accountability for my life and how I treat myself this year! I want to keep my softness for life.
I wasn't sure if being a stay at home mom was for me since I don't enjoy cleaning and cooking. Despite being good at work, I wanted to be home and have energy for my family. In the end, it's been two years and I've found that I didn't enjoy cooking and cleaning because I was tired when I'd get home from work. I enjoy keeping the home for my family now and I know they appreciate me being present for them.
Being a girl your channel is one of the most VALUABLE that i have ever come across!!! Imma watch it multiple times for sure! Tysm big sista for wonderful advices!!!❤❤❤
I just rewatched this video in its entirety and this time, with actual taking notes and pausing when needed. May God bless you abundantly sis. Please, continue to take your time to make quality videos like all you have ever put out. Even though I impatiently await your next video, I am always forced to go back to your existing videos and I always pick up gems EVERY SINGLE TIME. So take your time angel💛
This is so inspiring thanks for sharing your story. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I'm now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself. This is to encourage someone "you can start anytime to have a reset it's worth it! I'm striving to continue growing cus it's a journey❤
@@monica64340 Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.
¿l learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.:)
I hardly comment on videos but I just had to say that this is such an amazing video. Coming from someone who watches self improvement videos like it’s my job this has by far been one of the best I’ve seen/listened to. Your voice is perfect and the goals are practical yet make such a difference. This will be my go to video for when I need a head reset. Thank you for this! You just got a new sub!
Thank you for such a thoughtful comment, love! I'm really glad you enjoyed the video and will be able to use it as a continuous resource. Welcome to the family - so happy to have you here! 💕
I'm turning 33 this year.I feel stuck in every aspect of my life.I don't know if I'm feeling pressured because I'm getting older or it's ok.Even being in a relationship for a while and no commitment as yet smt, I feel like I need to reset and switch a lot of things about myself.Im starting with the gym.Im also working on getting my own place which I feel is essential.
Reinventing yourself will set up a new life because it will attract the people that resonate with your new energy. I began with my wardrobe..... I am already seeing changes. No lie. It WORKS. Take risks and be yourself. Have fun ladies on your new life. Stay in the Lord though.❤
I just wanted to say thanks for your videos. I put into practice your advice on changing your life by having a plan and everything and now I'm actually where I want to be. I'll be moving abroad soon. TY
I really appreciate this video. I drive a school bus. 13yrs so far. I’m 61. I get caught up in the GO GO GO pace of this work life. A simple act as wash & style my hair helps so much but I’ll put it off till I’m about ready to jump and then I think…”wash my hair”. It took all of an hour. Which is when I seen this video and turned up the volume while styling with my Dyson Airwrap. ❤. Ty
I agree 100% on all of the points but in particular be true to yourself, don't feel the need to be who society or family and friends want or expect you to be, its your life. Also love the tip to meal prep and shop once a week.
It’s a therapy listening to your voice !! I come back to your videos when I’m out of track and feeling kind of low !! Your content is highly valuable ! Love you and god bless you ❤
Thank you for this video it spoke to my spirit I've been telling myself that I miss myself when I was 21 when I would take care of me from head to toe. I'm married now finding myself in pajamas on the weekends.😢
It's never too late! Have a weekly pamper night. Get some sexier pj's. Spray a little perfume on before bed. Little things that will make you feel more feminine/getting yourself back ✨💜
Thank you so much for this lovely and gentle reminder of how we need to refresh our goals, dreams, our plans for the future as well as the ones that are right in front of us.
I loved this video so much. I used a lot of these tips before seeing this, but now I’m going to add on to this! I loved how your family and God were your sources of comfort, I relate❤❤❤
Cheers to this incredible channel 🎉 I’ve watched every video and all your information and advice is always on point. I loose myself by not being consistent but your videos have helped me tremendously. It’s been my environment and not being patient. Thank you always, may God continue to bless you and that you continue to provide us with your wisdom to become the best version of ourselves.
Babes you have opened my eyes in so many aspects of my life, I used to watch your video but not listening to the advise , but now I keep going back to listen . My life has changed to a better version of what I always dreamed of. 🙏💓💞💖from South Africa
Needed this today !! Thank you 😊 Your videos always make me feel better because I was feeling so disappointed by something I'd Applied for and got denied. It was for my business. It's been a struggle but I realize that I'm still a new business and it's only January. Growth takes time and I don't have to rush through the process. I'm glad you said we don't have to have BIG goals to accomplish but instead bite size them because it makes it more realistic. I needed to hear that as a teacher/solopreneur. Happy 2023 to you lady ❤️ May we ALL get what we want but most importantly do so in love and peace of mind.
i just want you to host a women’s convention already😂 im ready for 3-day weekend all things reinventing the self - or uncovering the true self rather ❤🎉 happy new year tfu, i anticipate an an abundant one ☝🏽
This comment is everything! We'll see what happens - you might be speaking things into existence😉 I always love hearing from you, darling! Your energy is so positive and infectious. Happy, prosperous New Year to you and yours as well 💕💕
@@TheFeminineUniverse Lol aww thank you! And Lawd knows I look forward to an opportunity to gather, build and grow with like minded sisters 🥰 I struggled with maintaining relationships for most of my teens and early 20s. I grew up in a tough neighborhood and my mother was rough around the edges God bless her 🙌🏽 She did her best I know, but for most of my later 20s I saw how my patterns had pushed people away. I’ve since worked diligently to unwind, unwound and detangle my areas of need. I’ve been growing alone, in the dark (without deep/close friendships) for about 5 years now. RU-vid and channels like yours, self improvement books been keeping me company 😉 I know in God’s perfect timing I will be blessed with a sacred sister circle and actually be EQUIPPED to treat them the way healthy relationships DESERVE to be treated 👏🏽 Thank you for your channel, your work and walking in your purpose to help us. “As you let let your own light shine, you unconsciously give permission for others to do so!” ☀️😎✌🏽
Thank you sweetheart for this wonderful video. I am at my lowest today and I really needed inspiration on what to do to completely reinvent myself and this video has given me the inspiration I needed. Stay blessed!
just found you on the youtube. I love that you mentioned being consistent. sometimes we just need to stick with something to find if it really works for you.
I loved your video. The first tip you gave about knowing where you want to go in five years was amazing. I never thought of it that way. I’ve never had a five-year plan for my life. But it makes perfect sense to have one and I never considered that before , thank you
I always make these and I usually get to make sure I'm on the right path once in a while. And if I feel there is need to review them I do. I just make sure they shouldn't restrict my growth or stifle any changes that may be needed
This was the best video, every tip was backed up by actual things that can be done. Loved every tip. Loved how you mentioned that you are wonderfully and uniquely created by God. Also loved that you said you can reinvent yourself at any age, any stage.
Thank you, love! I'm happy to hear that! Feedback like this is so helpful in making sure I'm catering to my ladies who are non-native English speakers. 💕
I’m expecting and felt like all my plans for reinvention went down the drain! Only due to morning sickness etc. But I’m not going to let it stop me and start today!
Thank you so much. Your visuals are exceptional. I compare everything I see to them. Beauty to perfection. The hair, makeup, clothing, etc. Just beautiful. It makes you strive to do your best. I don’t get chicks who go on camera looking a mess, to put it plainly. Love all your videos and your format. Your voice is very soothing. Your channel is the only Feminine channel I watch now. I don’t want to watch someone sitting there talking.
This content is solid gold. But I do have to mention that you missed the first R in Quarter all 4 times under point no. 5. It's a tiny thing but when the content is this good, it stands out like a sore thumb. You might want to make a note for future reference to spellcheck (if that is possible) when making images featuring words in a video. I really enjoyed this video, please don't be offended at my feedback. I will watch more of your output. You seem to have a lot sorted out here. I'm subscribing, although I am not sure my definition of feminine is going to be the same as yours - but that doesn't mean I can't learn from you. Thank you, this is one of the most value-packed videos I have seen. If a woman acted on the content of this video NOW, in one year she truly would look back in amazement at how far she had come.
Hey! Just want to tell y’all to watch and re-watch this video… cause girl you might have missed some stuff or forgot…. I’m re-watching rn and I’m re-learning some stuff that I started doing and just fell off.
No matter how old you are you can start now .i want a better body,i want a cleaner home i want to be a more patient mother...i always try ..i am a warrior.whatever flaws i had i worked and became better..
These are wonderful, darling! Better body - fast, meal prep, walk (at home walk workouts on YT) Cleaner home - clean one area a day, have one deep cleaning day & get kids to chip in/do chores if they're old enough. Get a professional once a month if it's in the budget. More patient mama - be patient with yourself; relax, read, take baths, face mask, nap. Sometimes a short fuse or lack of patience indicates being overworked/overstressed. Create a family schedule - make sure mommy time is part of it 😉 You've got this!
Glad you appreciate that, Monique! I try to walk the line between not making the videos _too_ long but still feeling like the information is laid out clearly.
This I needed. It’s like a swift kick in the butt. Although I’ve already started doing the things to put me on the right track this is definitely a confirmation that I’m on the WAY TO GREATNESS Thank you.
Finally got a chance to watch this one! Lovely, I really love the well rounded approach you use to this type of content. Would you consider doing a planning video? You talk a lot about planning and it's importance. But I don't think you've done a video on the topic exclusively. I'd love one if you could.
It found me at the right time ❤️🥺I believe that .Thank you for the tips cant wait to execute..Rebrand and Reinvent ✔️🌼It takes time but I'm here for it
Thank you ma'am,I am just coming across your channel now,I absolutely love this video.I am currently reinventing myself.i also just began a RU-vid channel,you inspire me!👌🥰
