I am a Gemini and my partner is a Gemini and we’ve been together for 26 years - were not married we have a daughter now. But when you say that ‘he does not like the idea that I know what he will be doing in a years time’ you’re right we both can’t stand others controlling and assuming that they already know what and who I am. That’s so true. We’re both air and feel we need a certain freedom in our thinking and psychology, up to an extent.
I need advice. He said he's seeing issues with me. That my communication is one sided. He ignored me for 2 days but did finally text and call me back but that's when he says he runs from issues. Then sent this text saying he understood my view but I needed to also have an understanding. Is he done with me?
When a Gemini says "I'm done". They are. There's nothing to save. I'm a SAG (freedom and fun promoter) that was into a three month getting to know each other interaction with a Gemini. I mentioned something, the Gemini said that isn't what happened. I said it was ===== and poof. A text from Gem saying "I'm done". Me too. I'm not even sad. I feel liberated from a woman who can't step back, analyze the situation, talk it out like an adult, listen to each other and come to a happy ending.
Himself/herself only matters for a gemini, at the end of the day, one way or another. They need to be alone in life to not to harm their partners psychologically, in various ways. Because they jump from a conversation to another, a person to another, a thought to another; things are really tend to get superficial, nothing can get deep and once take the conversation to a deeper phase, they try to jump over again and if you try to stay deep with the conversation, you're suddenly accused of being stuck on things and not getting over it. They are talkative, OK but not everybody can/wants to talk all the time, besides there are other ways of communication. Because they are always in their head space like this, they become unable to read other's emotions and when you are to talk about the emotions you have (especially if it's towards them), they just press the skip button. Sometimes it is unbelievable how much emotional lackness there can be with them. They make people feel alone in this way and try to laugh it out and make you, too. It's like you laugh at it and pass and there's nothing wrong anymore. Every person is a psychological object to their mind, if you're not functioning in the way that they want or need; they just cast you out and start to see the disfunctionality in you. I got hurt a couple times by 3-4 people in my life, I recently discovered that they were all gemini and one way or another, they shared the same patterns. I'm sure there're really good geminis out there, but from my experience; best gemini is a gemini far away, thank you...
Other signs need to help the Gemini with patience and taking boredom or stop choosing to be with them. Be more talkative or let them find someone else.
OMG! Your on point. I dated a couple of Gemini's and their all the same way. They blame people for cheating on them. But now I see and understand why their partners cheat. With a Gemini nothing is ever secured and if you call them out on their bullshit they'll manipulate the situation to their advantage. They lie, they make excuses, and will drain you out mentally. These individuals are meant to be single. Most Gemini ladies I know are single with children.
Geminis cold ??? That’s hilarious 💀 they’re actually the most emotional babies who throw tantrums and CLINGY controlling asf I’m a Pisces with air/fire dominated chart and if anything my experience has been the opposite
My ex is a Gemini. We'd be doing good one day and then the next he doesn't want to text me back, doesn't want to see me, claims he's stressed and sad. This happened every other week. And I had absolutely no say. Otherwise he would pull away even more. I couldn't handle the constant shutting out. Why do I gotta wait to speak to you? What about what I want ? Don't my feelings and wants and needs matter ? He didn't want anything to do with that. Only wanted to focus on himself. And me being a taurus , clung on for dear life, and unfortunately I don't think he will ever come back to me. And I miss him so much. It hurts. He's just gone. Poof. 2 years down the drain.
They get in their head alot ...sometimes cant get out and some need constant attention to their needs and thoughts ...selfish majority of the time and communication. Is what only they feel you need ...which causes stress god forbid you omit anyrhing... its which way is the wind blowing and hopefully in a positive favor....The moodiness is than a sugar junkie coming down.
Yup mine disappears and reappears and then disappears again. We never been intimate, only kissed. One minute I'm thinking ok finally our "relationship" is picking up only for him to disappear again.
Im a scorpio hes a gemini, i get so jelous and i have reasons too and its been prooven i feel like me being very angry and bringing the negative energy kills the realationship. Im very passionate, love me back 😒
Awe .. I’m a sun gem, Venus and mercury Gemini and I love scorpios passion . But Scorpio doesn’t like to talk or try to understand how Gemini likes to communicate . Mentally stimulate them .. sex talk us good too
@@a.knottycurl same here. Sun, mercury and venus in Gem and dealt with a lady with sun and mercury in scorpio. Mehn it was tough to communicate, she would immediately shut the conversation with a blunt "I dont know". That was tough since I wanted to communicate through words and she through touch and sex
bjorn sagres yeah in the end, I had to let it go. But I still think it can work with the right people who put forth the effort in getting to inner stand each other’s differences.
Pre Madonna im a Capricorn, and i did have a argument with a gemini, and it was my fault, but i dont want to push it, butbi also dont want to move on😩😩😞
Im an aries woman dating a gemini man , gemini representing the twins are fickle , one day he is the most romantic man ever and the other day he's like the most carefree human who wont even text me back lol it gets kinda tiring tryna be on the same page , i guess giving space is the key not only with geminis but all men in general coz that makes u unpredictable to them and that is when they wanna know what u r up to , relationships are a lot of work but if two people are willing to put in the effort , they are the most beautiful thing ever !
I am a Sag and my Gemini friend is the same. Very finicky. Sometimes very talkative, attentive, and other times withdrawn and takes forever to text back. Im tired trying to figure you out lol.
For some reason I attract Geminis. I am a Virgo, and it seems like the chemistry is strong but we can never seem to get on the same page. I was engaged to a Gemini, we were going to get married this April but I found out he was cheating, now he's saying he still want to be with me, and allow him to fix it, and do I trust him... Part of me wants to stay because I'm still in love, but the other part is screaming leave this situation alone...
Thanks for the good info! I'm a gemini guy and alot of this rings true.... I also think alot of Gemini get better and more grounded with time and age. If they are willing to put the work into self growth.... One thing that is hard for me and some of the other gemini I know is that we are soo in our heads we don't always remember how to say what in our hearts. When I love someone wich is rare I love them deeply! It can take me year's to get over that person if ever.... even if it seems like I have moved on. We are a challenge for sure, but I think most Gemini really are well intentioned. :-)
We are good people but ur right I’m a Gemini man our intentions are good but it’s tough settling down. We need space and time to grow in the relationship and in ourselves. My wife is an Aquarius and we been together 4 years but learning myself and learning her helped. getting older helps too lol.
I'm a 55 yr old Capricorn and madly in love with a very youthful ( both physically and mentally ) Gemini woman, 5 yrs my senior. When I first laid eyes on her she didn't impress me much and apparently it was mutual. However by the end of the evening ( yes alcohol played a part lol) we couldn't keep our hands off each other. 2 months later lock down happened and it put a huge strain on us to the point where she told me she doesn't want a relationship at this time. We continued to see each other but only once a week or so..and when we do the chemistry is still mind blowing ..I love her outrageousness and she says with me she can be herself. I'm not your typical Capricorn but some of her Gemini traits has taken some getting used to ..I've never met any woman who is anything close to her all my life. She is currently overseas for a month and my life and the town I live in , feels so empty without her. I hope that when she gets back and when this Covid19 Crap has subsided, we can be happily together on a more committed basis.
This coming from a Gem. If I'm done, I'm done. Nothing is going to safe the relationship. You might THINK so but reality is we've had our time and now the jigg is up. I used to give people (read: water and earth signs) the benefit of the doubt but nah you can miss me with the bullshit.
I'm an Aries and the only thing I want from my Gemini is everything she has to give. I promise to give of myself that much and more. I must have equal footing & her willingness to forgive as well. She finds it impossible to do so; able to remember every bad detail yet not recall all the goodness of rain. It's not what I feel for my Gemini that makes me love her so much; it is what I do not feel for anyone else but her.
So on point!!! I need ridiculous honesty, I need humor, I need to engage in stimulating conversations, I need my space at times, especially if hurt!! And most definitely I don't want to take care of them non stop like a child, and they need to actually take care of and fix the things that they say they will, including their anger issues and to show sympathy and validation for the wrongs they do!!
Wow! I am glad someone knows us this much (not deep) but you speak of us knowing us this much....thank you for your positive output... - I am Gemini May 28th. 🌬💨🌪
My Gemini does not like honesty. If he cooks something and asks me if I like it and I only say it wasn't his best dish...he gets mad and sensitive about it.
Oh, OK, that really clears it up. He behaves in a way that is frankly hurtfull to the honest feedback giver BUT he really does like the feedback AND if you didn't provide it and get hurt for it then he'd get bored of you. Nice... NOT. How about instead of Gemini being an ass they LEARN to be a descent human being? Nah, why do that when there are excuses like, 'that's just the way they are.' It's infantile.
Why would anyone want to keep someone she is referring to? Horrible. Never burden them with having 'emotions'. If they cheated, must forgive them. Appologize and be quiet, oh, hell NO! Horrid, good riddance.
I'm a pisces man and my gemini girl left me for a convicted murderer serving life in prison, worst part is shes the mother of my children and I still love her is it possible at all to get her back?💔💔💔😖😖😖
A lot of comments state once a Gemini is done they aren’t coming back. From my experience my Gemini was very understanding that I came from a battered home and gave me many chances to work on myself and change. We’ve know one another for 3 years and dated for 1 1/2 but we’ve lived together when we broke up I left the state. Months later he reached out to me for a try again. … again we didn’t work so I left the state for work and moved to colorado he reached out to me again to come out here so far I have not shown any improvement as far as being less clingy more confident less emotional bc I fear he isn’t mine but all this time I’ve had the proof showing he is there for me and has been. Thank you for your tips and advice I will practice them and hope for a better relationship but I need to also practice some of these methods for myself I realize I am clingy bc of my past I was abandoned and I am working on it. Not every relationship is meant to be forever some are just lesson but never give up I’m sure the answer will reveal it’s self. I believe every relationship is a lesson
This was a really good video I got a better understanding of Geminis...u went in depth I appreciate it. So basically what I gotta do now is get back into being me and while doing so reinvent myself then come back to him a brand new woman. This should be fun for this Aries lady bc I was getting bored with myself 🤣
When we stop loving you, we have usually stopped for a long time. Doing things that would touch us to the point we want you back is rare, not impossible, but rare.
we haven't fought.....I think he is actually perfect for me but he does not like the drama that my life was. He is very low key and not one to have issues with people. DEFENITELY NO CONSPIRACY THEORY CONVERSATIONS! I like that one.
Wow...you just described so much of my man. The one thing we love of eachother is we are both very honest...but its been an issue with me giving him his freedom. I see now I need to not only accept it but offer it.
My Gemini sent me a text implying he needs space but not quiet clear so a week goes by and I text asking if he is ok since we talk every day and he replies immediately that he is feeling unwell and needs time off to get his shit together and he will get back to me soon. Lmfao 😂 The way that reply came two seconds later was hilarious. So you know am going to enjoy my life while he be gone and if he disappears again without proper communication bitch he out. I am a Gemini rising myself so we are four of us in this relationship. Also he is going to have to entertain himself in the future. I am fucking busy too and too much in my life. The idea for me is if he likes he can stay or go. I won't forgive unfaithfulness though but he is an honest spiritual man. Just crazy 😭😭😂
So agree! I’m all about your space or not feelin it but shit be honest about it? Adult and don’t leave it open? “That’s their nature” nah that’s their passive aggressive sting, they wanna quit in the most cowardly way not unlike a Virgo tbf. I’ve had a fair share and I’m an air sign with not so typical air qualities and I seem to always have drama with them and newsflash- anyone who can’t be honest and END a friendship/relationship properly is drawing drama in- period. No matter the astrology! I don’t have to accept shit and I say play their game! Charm them and confront their scaredy puss ass- watch for contradictions and manipulations- say your peace and leave intact than confused which they seem to get off on the latter. I’ve had the volatile Geminis often with Leo and Scorpio all up in their chart and zero chill- I’ve had super similar ones who are all hot but like babies they run at any difficulty. These ones tend to love the ones that treat them bad so I always smile to myself knowing that’s what they after in the long run it seems.. they are just not in touch even with some water in their sign- hard to avoid it in the chart I’ve also had some amazing Gemini people who had enough from other elements (not fire lol) to balance them and make them whole but Gemini’s at their core are straight boring, predictable drama. You can have your disagreements and wanna move on but you can be a decent adult about it. They throw tantrums, get off on mind games + assholes and can’t stand their ground. Little bitches at the core.. finding an evolved one imo is only possible with other elements overwhelming the mercurial nature. I guarantee you they end up with doormats or people who treat them like shit or people who are just as distant as they are so it’s not even a relationship. Out of every sign, no sign matches the stereotypes as much as they do. I do have a solid amount of mercurial ppl in my life but gotta treat carefully always with a Gemini. I’ve learned in general* that passive aggressive communicators don’t expect confrontation- time to give em a shock- get your backbone up and say your peace cause you will never get closure if you let this child run the show👏🏼 Do not accept them back either cause it’s just their round 2! Idc if they propose off the Eiffel Tower- they ain’t trustworthy. And I’m speaking of the immature gem ofc- a good one is worth it and you’ll notice when they like to communicate not run or throw tantrums.
I'm a Gemini and one of the lying tactics I use is I'll tell a bunch of stupid obvious lies for you to catch me I'll act nervous I'll make myself look like I'm lying only to throw you off and have you think I'm a bad liar and then when I'm really lying I'll look you straight in the eyes all calm and seriously tell you the lie mixed with a partial truth so that way its believable
@@edithasd2806 my sisters a triple aries and she’s pro as sniffing out the bs even the best lairs you can think of but it took her years to get there. Me on the other hand a Pisces who carries all 12 signs in us and psychic abilities are untouchable we feel that fake shit in our soul and as a mutable sign ourselves you’re playing in our field :)
Capricorn M here . I watched and commented on this video 7 months ago. Only now does it really sink in what I should have applied back then . But a lot has happened ( break up ) since then . I was clingy and often needed her validation, was drinking to much as well. Now I’m sober , stronger and pretty sure I don’t want a relationship with her anyway . Haven’t seen her for 2 and half months and next week we gonna have a meet . I’m good . Friendship or not is fine by me
Gemini is the only sign that cannot be controlled by anytning ever called a human .. If we are done with someone then its done .. Forget about capricorns , scorpios or even a aries or taurus ... we are more stuborn then them and when needed we are 3 times as cold as them all together. Point is tbat everybody hate us for that We all have at least 2 faces but most geminis have at least 6 . But they all are real , and not as fake as other zodiacs who have one steady persona wich they cover up with a fake one .. We go on after bad things more easily then most . We do not telll you we love you every day ..we do things for you instead . .. leo , sagg,s , and aquarius will most of the time be on our side ...sometimes libra as well.. And i very much want to tell other wise but capricorns seem to attract us and vice versa .. While in the book this is a odd match even by some called a miss match there is something about that , that is magnetic .. Like .. capricorn is serious but is screaming and funny on the inside .. Gemini is friendly and outgoing but is very serious on the inside .. They meet each other in this aspect pretty spot on.
Women of other zodiac signs that are less direct, play mind games and are less consistent irritate me more than the emotional and clingy ones that I can handle. Expecting me to read your mind omg.
@@dianaesquivel9915 you need to speak up and tell them how you feel... communication is key with geminis if you don't tell us we won't know and will assume it's over and move forward but if you let us know how you feel we can talk about it and proceed from there.
I love Geminis generally, though I'm too uptight to date them - I always control my behaviour, what disables me from being fun and adventurous. :/ Time to give up on them. Besides my confidence is almost non-existent - reason why one of them wasn't able to fall in love with me.
Lizzie Martin, from the insecurity in me there is clinginess if I don't get enough intimacy. Good for you, I have yet too many causes of insecurity to date. What's funny, I started to gain confidence around people I don't care about that much. I'm still insecure around that Gemini guy though.
A Gemini can be very affectionate. Like with mine..he's very affectionate at night or if he worries I'm uncomfortable around a lot of people. If we are just sitting at home during the day he's not that affectionate if he's busy...but he is affectionate daily. And no matter how much we fight..if we are around people he checks on me because I am not a social butterfly by any means like he is. BTW..I am a Cancer. So you know I am not a social butterfly like him.
My bf is gemini, without asking he already told me all his plans, is that a bad thing? Help? We are also trying to fix the relationship but I feel like he is hiding something. I'm an aries and I'm very dumb...
gin martha this is not fair 🤦🏾♂️I always hear how other Geminis date another Gemini I’m a Gemini and I want to end up with a Gemini woman too I’m tired of dealing with other signs other than my own 😩
I'm an Aries and the moment I gave my Gemini man some space, they were transformed and not put off anymore. They became flirty and interested again. Clingy is for Saran Wrap, not people said the Gemini. NOOOO SMOTHERING. They do like variety rather than predictability. Deciding on a place to eat? Hand them the internet and ask them to exhaust it first. How about variety in the bedroom?? It's not that they don't like sex, just be prepared to spend a small fortune on some of the weirdest looking marital aids you've ever seen, and "kink" will have met its match. LOL. My Gemini isn't just a stereotype, he's a proverbial cartoon character. If the Gemini twins are debating something pretty serious, just make sure you let them have the mother-in-law suite so they can have their own wrestling match and duke it out. As this takes place, be sure to give them a lot of SPACE and say, "Here's my number. Call me in the next decade or so when the twins work it out." But in reality, if you don't call or text them in the next two weeks, you can just forget about your own emotional meat grinder and you'll hear from them as if nothing ever happened. I get mocked because I wear my heart on my sleeve, but be sure to keep all your paper products in the bathroom because that's where they always do all of their their crying. LOL. They are insatiable seekers when it comes to spirituality. I want to be more like him. I love him so much.
I'm an Aries woman, loosing my Gemini man. We have 3 kids and been together for 13 years, he told me he doest love me anymore. I hope he is not done..it hurts alot. But I'm going to take this advice leave and give him his space!
I know this is a old video. I've dated my first Gemini. We are both air signs. We literally hung out everyday. For a couple weeks going into a month. I know it's not long but I committed to her. We gone out on a few movie and dinner dates she was impressed I paid for them and all. Then when we had sex for a couple times within the week and then the one time I denied her after "Netflixing and Chillen" it went downhill after that. Then she hit me up on my birthday because I was still persistent and she liked that. Then something happen again when we went to the movies and she denied me back from hugs and kisses and everything! I then left and then she called back because she felt bad. Then it was good from there. Then I went home she texts me I want to kiss you because she was "high". She smokes to. Is this worth it only when she smokes she's nice? Why do Geminies do this back and forth!? Any advice. Thanks.
I'm confident that I'm not alive. My Gemini keeps returning. I cannot read him and of course social media doesn't get intonation across. I don't know what he meant just now.
just a piece of advice with a Gemini man,u think if he was genuinely interested in me can he give me another chance if I have made a mistake? I mean just I have fallen in love with him late, soon I saw him as a good friend so I have not encourage him, then he has become colder than I realized i loved him, but he kept a bit colder sp to make him jealous I invented things and he blocked me as it was online, u think I can do something to have him back? tks
I am exactly those traits that Gemini is looking for except for one trait which is I sometimes want to plan the future. My Gemini guy keeps coming back and going and then out of the blue he calls me then disappear or sometimes we keep contact for a while until he disappears again. I ended up getting engaged to someone else and the engagement broke so now I don't know what's up with him. I want to try for the Last Time and if this time things don't work then I think I will let this go. For good this time.
I am a Cancer with Venus in Leo.. and I met a Gemini we are friends, but we got hot and heavy and he pulled away. We used to talk everyday at first but as of last week not I am a confident woman he thought I was sexy, now I know he likes him freedom and I watched your secret video I hope he comes back I have always been honest with him and he as well.. I miss talking to him..I will give him his space though he is very special to me.
yolanda brooks He will return may take awhile. Just send a text every now and then. To let him know u are thinking of him. And leave it as that, don't go it to deep detail. He needs space and time to rest and breath.
My gemini girl left me for a convicted murderer serving life in prison and the worst part of it is shes is also the mother of my children and I still am in love with her, idk what to do ,I wish we could be a family again!! Brittany!! I love you baby girl,I miss you so much ,not a day has gone by where my heart and head dont think about you!! I know it's been rough I just need you babe!! I wish youd come back!! I miss being a family with you and our kids!!
"They can't staaiinnnddd, like the ideiiiaaaaa or you don't haaaiiivvere, or nooooiiitt, howevvvviir" Seriously what's up with your speaking pattern and style?
what do i do if my gemini says he needs space and needs to fix himself, then breaks up with me but he says there's a chance of being together again when he gets better? will he really come back or should i just move on completely instead of waiting?
My Gemini stellium ex and I broke up two months ago and I remember I would plan things ahead of time. And he would always tell me he liked to live in the moment and focus on what’s happening right now. Crazy. And when we broke up he said “in reference for your future relationships, try being less needy”
In a lot of cases, the other party tends to edit out the BS they did in the relationship and allowed too much go on. You either missed or ignored all the red flags and now you dip shits want to blame an entire zodiac sign for your lack in judgement for one or more people, seriously? We as well have to be accountable for our own actions or lack there of in the downfall of our relationships. The Gemini wasn't all bad, you two had sex at some point. I don't hate all Leos because I was hurt by a Leo. Everyone is different with different belief systems and values. You can't generalize everyone or a whole zodiac sign because your relationship didn't work out. I'm not everyone else. I'm not every Gemini and refuse to apologize for being who I'm am. Just like my race and gender, I didn't get to choose my birth month along with everyone else. Whatever sign they are won't ever stop none you from gazing at "your type". I personally have never set out to hurt anyone. If I'm ever mean or cold to anyone, they earned it. I'm always upfront & clear with my intentions from the beginning with anyone I ever date. If any ex-friends or exes talk bad about me, it's because they thought they were going to have their way with me and it backfired.
And the reason for this gemini to act out in this manner is because I havent heard an appoligie for several things but mostly the one that stands out is the way I was set up and belittled for no good reason I can fosgins but to trust and me to come to that person like I did before I'd impossible without an appoligie first
