How to Secure a Provider Man: It's all about the CHASE! 

I love this! I’m happy younger women are resting in their femininity and attracting men who will provide and care for them. I’m in the 40+ demographic and we were constantly told to prioritize career, over working ourselves and being independent to our detriment. In some regards, I can understand why some of our mothers were this way…especially if their being provided for came with a form of abuse. I appreciate this type of content because it would break my heart to see another generation of women , especially black women be used and go through some of the nonsense we went through with men because no one taught us how to properly attract and vet the best suitors. You and other level up content creators are a blessing. ❤🌷

Shera would be so proud. 💜 I’m excited to see all the great content and looking forward to learning from you ❤

I like how real and practical you your advice is. Everything has to be impeccable! These men pay attention to everything with a fine-tooth comb. I have experienced this. It’s annoying but we can do that to when we run background checks.

There are three types of male strategies 1. The Hunter: We approach several women, one at a time, But we are talking to 7 to 10 women and we are chasing all of them to see which ones give us the most of what we want. We will never be faithful or mongomous because hunting is hard work so we never turn it off we always are in the mode to hunt even after we got you. We are always looking for new conquest. 2. The Net Caster: He too is not monogamous. But unlike the hunter he is not open to one night stands, He is not constantly chasing multiple women. He will cast a wide net, To catch the females who match with him He will have a rotation of women maybe no more than 2 or 3 that he really likes, While Hunters usually have 10 to 15 women they are sexual with. His motto is there are always more fish in the sea. 3. The Bait: The man who is Trapper ie his appearance, intellect, grooming, style and body is bait to women. He is not easily impressed and he is hard to get, except for a woman who is his type. This man is usually the monogamous type or serial monogamous. He doesn't really trip off women like that, sex is no biggie to him. Because every day in his inbox on social media, at work, at college or just at places he goes were people can be social and interact he is getting offered women left and right. Even at church the church ladies are trying to get him in couples group to arrange connections for a wife . He is not in a hurry to find a wife or even be in a relationship. He has a type or a Standard. He is not picky, he is just not EASY. When a woman of his inner dreams pursues him he comes alive and immediately states his intentions for her. He will not make her wait for SEX like the Hunter will because he has way too many options to vet at one time. he wil move faster sexually because he doesnt have a rotationof women, most times he is celibate. He focuses on self care, self improving. He has no time to be chasing or hunting or being a fisher of women casting wide nets. Simply because he is bogged down with all the women who approach him on regular basis. Unlike the Hunter, He doesnt have alot options in rotation, He is not interested in entertaining a bunch of different woman, He just wants one woman in his life. Unlike the hunter, the Bait is more prone to marriage, The man who chases never really settlesdown, you can't turn off the thrill of the hunt, The thrill of the chase is eternal. But a man who attracts women or as they say allures. Doesnt have a need for a bunch of different woman, When he finds one woman who is his ideal. He is satisfied. An has no need or desire for multiple women. He doesnt have time for more than one woman because, he gives his all to just one. A man who is chaser or hunter is going to do the bare minium. Because he is always meeting new women. A man who cast his net wide, is also not gonna give his all to any one woman he will divide his time up evenly and schedule times for each of his few women A man who is Bait. Not a hunter, and Not a fisher. Will ultimately go for the woman who is up to par. He will be so enamoured with her he will adorn her with love and committment.

So happy to be a Trophy! 🏆 Gang gang lol This is right on time Sis! 🙏🏾 I’m excited for your content Queen!👑 And genuinely so happy for your growth.🥰 It’s up from here! 🥳💅🏾💗✨

I just found your videos as a mom of 2 this is inspirational ❤

I really like how slowly you talk and calmly take your time to communicate your message softly, it’s so relaxing and helps me slow down in my soft feminine ☺️🎀💅🏻 thank you for your content xxx

I really like how poised you are and the way you talk. Your voice is so soothing lol I agree with the advice you provided in this video. Thank you 💕

You mentioned my name at the end! OMG! Thanks for answering my question! I think you’re right! I’ve been fit for many years now and definitely leveled up my clothes hair and makeup, but still struggle with low self esteem for some reason. It’s illogical. Thank you for your advice!

Omg I’ve been binging your content girl and I just can’t get enough lol these are such great tips!! Some of these I’ve never even thought before with the man and being mysterious with them! Omg I’m so excited to try these tips on a future date!!

Minus 10 points 🤣🤣 my new reminder to keep myself in check, thank you for this!

You’re so gorgeous! Hair and makeup is on point 👏🏾

Being a divorced single mom of 4 dating has extremely difficult! I’ve running into men with the red pill /manosphere rhetoric it’s exhausting

RU-vid algorithm suggested your videos and shorts before I became a subscriber. Your channel name, set up and look is perfect!

Love your content. Immediately followed 💕

You are super pretty, I’m on my journey to find my provider now too🎉, stepping into my feminine and dressing classier

When I was younger, I wanted my name to be Crystal too! 😂😂

Just came across your video. Wow, such great advice and oh so true! I dated this type and what you are describing, all of these things do count. The thing though is you have to keep it up and make it part of who you are for the rest of your life. These types as soon as they see a falter later on, can dump you like a hot potato.

This is a master class.

Love your videos, please keep them coming! Love when say “minus 10 points” lol makes you memorable…

New subbie, looking forward to your channel growing and more gems being dropped :)

The more impressed you are the longer you need to wait to be ina relationship with him. Gems💎

Lollll youre so funny 😂 love it I love the tips and advice. I gave too much of my time and not giving enough insecurity. I will do better with the other who will come my way. Love your composure and overall vibe ahaha. Really good !

I love this content new subscriber!❤

You are goals! Love your content.

NEW SUBSCRIBER ✅ AMAZING! Keep up the great work 👍🏾

You nailed it Queen 👸🏻 🌹

as a woman and SAHM married to a provider I 100% agree

10/10 video!

Ladies don’t send pictures to males your photo holds a lot of information and invest in a pre paid phone from Walmart or target don’t give out real numbers pay cash when putting data etc on it (text free apps aren’t good either btw )

So beautiful and just genuinely pleasant to watch. I'm happy for you girl

I love your content. I was literally taking notes on this video. Thank you so much

You look gorgeous and thank you for sharing

New subscriber ! Love the channel…. You remind me of Ziva 😊

You and your background are both so beautiful I love taking notes from beautiful feminine women

At 105 she may be underweight depending on her height. The look to go for is "healthy".

I just found your channel and I want to say you are so beautiful I’m in love with your energy !!!

💖What are the perfumes that you ladies have the most complements from guys?

So happy I found you before you blow up big ❤

Hello beautiful! Interesting video… I totally enjoyed it. New sub❤️

👑 Queen Isis,Thankyou ... I just subscribed & I do subscribe to Shera too. 🥰 I Lo♡e your channel & you have made me start improving myself ... I'm trying to make changes to implement all your tips.

Subscribed ❤

Less than two wks later and you now have close to 3k subbies

Preach sister- into wanting provider not dusty

Trophy 🏆 GANG

what's the app to do a background check?

I love this talk ..this reminded me of one time we had a girl's night out so we used one of my friend's cars and it broke down haha. I had to use my engineering skills to fix the car ..with the tools available ..ha ha ha to cut the story short when we went out people were always asking can you smell diesel ha ha ha omg 🤣🤣🤣 crazy night I must admit

What’s the app called for the background check?

Can you do a video on how to be more confident please 🙏🏽 I get shy around men 😂

I’ve made it so easy for him. I’ve been very attentive & very flirty but also I’ve been pushing him away which in turn makes me feel bad and I end up apologizing (I have an anxious attachment style) Any tips on making him chase? Or is it too late?

Subscribed after seeing your shorts video on assets. Ladies remember to put some effort into yourselves because trophy wives always look good

Please 🙏 share wht type of body shimmer do you use for glowing ✨️ skin. You glow my beautiful 😍 🎀🩷 I'm loving your channel

all we shera seven watchers have a lot in common but one trait is highly common 😂 is the “okayyy?? 💅🏽💀🌝🤭🤭” ❤❤❤ SPRINKLE SPRINKLE 💅🏽💅🏽💅🏽💅🏽

Thank you for starting your channel. I am so happy to get my hands on to this precious gold mine. 🙏 Quick question, how do you communicate to a man when you're only interested in being a wife and not a girlfriend? Thank you

It’s crazy this guy I assumed was a net caster is transitioning into Bait. We’re friends but he’s leaning in and preparing to lean in. I feel watched and observed constantly and he always asks if I’m seeing anyone. He deleted 50% of his ig and wiped the past! He is not slick

You’re the goddess sister i never had I LOVE YOU ❤️

Name of the app, please! 😊

You are so gorgeous girl! 😍

U and ziva are twins omg 😊😮

“This like nasty mini van shows up, embarrassing us” 🤣

I'm in a conundrum.. so I've secured a financially secure provider type man who's alot older however we're still in the courting stage. when do I actually go from dating casually to sleeping with him. I'm taking things slowly 🐌 but I'm thinking if it's too slow he could lose interest. We've had serious talks on long term commitment ect and he seems to say all the right things and jokes frequently about him buying us a new home ect ... I'm not falling for words yet. What do i do?! 😂

I remember that app 😂it was FREE!!!!

U remind of the old Carrie b before all her surgery

I’m not going to lie about my age or be dodgy about it. I’m 37 and I like my age. I don’t understand this thing about it being rude even for children to guess

I say I work part time at dental office 😆 doing dental insurance

Any suggestions for good quality/classic/femenine dresses 👗 🎀🩷

The Uber story 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

The minivan 😂😂😂

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Very nice video and you look so pretty. But just some kind advice, avoid the lip smacking. Its distracting and off putting but other than that I enjoyed the video

Love this advice ❤! Now please share where to meet wealthy men with exotic luxury cars or places where you suggest going. We know you snagged your husband on eharmony girl but let us know other places 😅✨💗🙏🏿

❤. What to do if you been with him for 3 years and have a baby together and you want him to marry you? My name is Erika. Thanks for the video By the way we have a 20 year age gap. I just turned 28 he just turned 48! He got me a house but still hasn’t proposed to me. Please HELP!❤

You look like a classy version of cardi b and I love cardi di.

Pleaseee try not to smack your lips so much, good lord girl lol

Uber black always 💋🤌

Are u n ziva sisters

LMFAO.. wasnt sure this video is serious or some funny parody. However, as a man this is the type of woman my mother warned me about. Its sad society has turned this way. A logical man will not even bother about women like this. Ladies, just be genuine and get your things sorted and the man will follow.

This doesn't really work for 2 reasons : 1) any man that knows his value isn't into chasing women. Additionally, any man that has value , has options (and any woman who has good looks has options). Which brings me to 2) when women are chased, they become arrogant and begin to look at a man as being weak with no options . Instead, they should just appreciate being pursued (especially by a man they find attractive) ..but then again, with social media, how can you appreciate being pursued when it comes a dime a dozen ? All of these games we play is really sad and the entire demographic needs therapy Ladies, if you want a man: be different . Don't be a carbon copy of other girls you see on Instagram . Plastic surgery, 75% naked post, random pictures of you in Dubai (EXTRA RED FLAG) , cliché comments etc is detrimental to your chances. Do your own thing. Know yourself enough and have realistic standards about who you are and how you look. Be grounded in reality , and DO NOT BRING CHAOS into another mans life. STOP LOOKING FOR UPGRADES (always wanting more is a sign of being ungrateful and unhappy within) IF YOU LIKE THE GUY THAT YOU HAVE AND HE'S THE BEST YOU'VE EVER GOTTEN , stick with him.

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Men: "Never pursue a woman that doesn't have genuine burning desire for you" Women: "Pretend to not have desire for him" How is that working out for you ladies?😆

I just subscribed- I like your titles and content , but please don’t do the ‘sucking lips ‘ or breath sucking / lip smacking stuff , it’s a turn off & seems so fake compared to your great topics and opinions . This sort of thsp thsp sound that some women do when they want to appear special or beautiful. You don’t need it because your insights are enough 💖🙏🏽

No man of means is doing this.