I love this! I’m happy younger women are resting in their femininity and attracting men who will provide and care for them. I’m in the 40+ demographic and we were constantly told to prioritize career, over working ourselves and being independent to our detriment. In some regards, I can understand why some of our mothers were this way…especially if their being provided for came with a form of abuse. I appreciate this type of content because it would break my heart to see another generation of women , especially black women be used and go through some of the nonsense we went through with men because no one taught us how to properly attract and vet the best suitors. You and other level up content creators are a blessing. ❤🌷
I hate that we as a culture aren’t taught how to properly vet and choose husbands. I’m determined my daughters will know differently ❤️ thank you for being here! 😘
I really like how slowly you talk and calmly take your time to communicate your message softly, it’s so relaxing and helps me slow down in my soft feminine ☺️🎀💅🏻 thank you for your content xxx
There are three types of male strategies 1. The Hunter: We approach several women, one at a time, But we are talking to 7 to 10 women and we are chasing all of them to see which ones give us the most of what we want. We will never be faithful or mongomous because hunting is hard work so we never turn it off we always are in the mode to hunt even after we got you. We are always looking for new conquest. 2. The Net Caster: He too is not monogamous. But unlike the hunter he is not open to one night stands, He is not constantly chasing multiple women. He will cast a wide net, To catch the females who match with him He will have a rotation of women maybe no more than 2 or 3 that he really likes, While Hunters usually have 10 to 15 women they are sexual with. His motto is there are always more fish in the sea. 3. The Bait: The man who is Trapper ie his appearance, intellect, grooming, style and body is bait to women. He is not easily impressed and he is hard to get, except for a woman who is his type. This man is usually the monogamous type or serial monogamous. He doesn't really trip off women like that, sex is no biggie to him. Because every day in his inbox on social media, at work, at college or just at places he goes were people can be social and interact he is getting offered women left and right. Even at church the church ladies are trying to get him in couples group to arrange connections for a wife . He is not in a hurry to find a wife or even be in a relationship. He has a type or a Standard. He is not picky, he is just not EASY. When a woman of his inner dreams pursues him he comes alive and immediately states his intentions for her. He will not make her wait for SEX like the Hunter will because he has way too many options to vet at one time. he wil move faster sexually because he doesnt have a rotationof women, most times he is celibate. He focuses on self care, self improving. He has no time to be chasing or hunting or being a fisher of women casting wide nets. Simply because he is bogged down with all the women who approach him on regular basis. Unlike the Hunter, He doesnt have alot options in rotation, He is not interested in entertaining a bunch of different woman, He just wants one woman in his life. Unlike the hunter, the Bait is more prone to marriage, The man who chases never really settlesdown, you can't turn off the thrill of the hunt, The thrill of the chase is eternal. But a man who attracts women or as they say allures. Doesnt have a need for a bunch of different woman, When he finds one woman who is his ideal. He is satisfied. An has no need or desire for multiple women. He doesnt have time for more than one woman because, he gives his all to just one. A man who is chaser or hunter is going to do the bare minium. Because he is always meeting new women. A man who cast his net wide, is also not gonna give his all to any one woman he will divide his time up evenly and schedule times for each of his few women A man who is Bait. Not a hunter, and Not a fisher. Will ultimately go for the woman who is up to par. He will be so enamoured with her he will adorn her with love and committment.
I like how real and practical you your advice is. Everything has to be impeccable! These men pay attention to everything with a fine-tooth comb. I have experienced this. It’s annoying but we can do that to when we run background checks.
So happy to be a Trophy! 🏆 Gang gang lol This is right on time Sis! 🙏🏾 I’m excited for your content Queen!👑 And genuinely so happy for your growth.🥰 It’s up from here! 🥳💅🏾💗✨
You mentioned my name at the end! OMG! Thanks for answering my question! I think you’re right! I’ve been fit for many years now and definitely leveled up my clothes hair and makeup, but still struggle with low self esteem for some reason. It’s illogical. Thank you for your advice!
Thank you babe ❤️ there’s so few quality women, that they will become more and more accepting of us women with children. They’ll do anything if they want you bad enough 😉😘
Stop lady! My friend was depressed was a teen mom had two kids from a diffrent men was always getting abused years later she got married and a new child! Dusty men are delusional usually ppl in their late 20s 30s 40s and 50s have children!
Just came across your video. Wow, such great advice and oh so true! I dated this type and what you are describing, all of these things do count. The thing though is you have to keep it up and make it part of who you are for the rest of your life. These types as soon as they see a falter later on, can dump you like a hot potato.
Ladies don’t send pictures to males your photo holds a lot of information and invest in a pre paid phone from Walmart or target don’t give out real numbers pay cash when putting data etc on it (text free apps aren’t good either btw )
Omg I’ve been binging your content girl and I just can’t get enough lol these are such great tips!! Some of these I’ve never even thought before with the man and being mysterious with them! Omg I’m so excited to try these tips on a future date!!
I've been watching a lot of videos about perfumes men love on women, so here's a little list of some fragrances and how the men described them: - Angel Muse by Mugler “Smells like a mystery.” - Mon Guerlain by Guerlain “Smells like a wife. The woman you’ll never leave.” - Elicit by Jimmy Choo “Very beautiful, you smell like a clean, elegant lady. Big compliment getter.” - My Way by Armani “The word ‘beautiful’ comes to mind. Instantly makes you smile.” - Idole by Lancome “Pleasing to be around. Mature and classic.” - Decadence by Marc Jacobs “If you were in the presence of a queen, that’s what it would smell like.” - Cloud by Ariana grande “Smells like the mother of my children.” - Blouse by YSL “A bright, fun, sexy, head turner.” Try looking for more reviews of perfumes men love, buy sample sizes and experiment with those. Although the risk with popular, mainstream perfumes is that you might end up reminding a man of his ex or his sister/mom. So look into layering a mainstream fragrance with a skin scent like Molecule 01 by Ecsentrics or Missing Person by Phlur. Those amplify your own natural pheromones and can give you a truly unique smell that attracts men on a biological level.
I like this advice, I just wish it wasn’t a game or strategy. I just want to fall in love and be loved and taken care of. I can be genuinely ME and he can be himself and that works for US.
Providing for a modern woman in the west in 2024 is a scam. Dont fall for what they say. They only trick you into believing they will follow and submit to a provider and a protector. But the trick is, Providing and protecting would be in their discretion because they will some day leave and say, you were good but not good enough or you were leading them to trenches when you don't do what they like. And at that point, you would be screwed because you might loose kids to her, pay child support, alimony and potentially half of your stuff. They are the ones leading because, you have to play according to their rules. You are just a shield to them. Guys, don't let them deceive you into, real men do this or real men do that. It is a tool they have used for years. The only difference is, women in those days were worth taking the risk and there were no laws incentivising them to divorce. Beware of the scam.
Lollll youre so funny 😂 love it I love the tips and advice. I gave too much of my time and not giving enough insecurity. I will do better with the other who will come my way. Love your composure and overall vibe ahaha. Really good !
👑 Queen Isis,Thankyou ... I just subscribed & I do subscribe to Shera too. 🥰 I Lo♡e your channel & you have made me start improving myself ... I'm trying to make changes to implement all your tips.
I love this talk ..this reminded me of one time we had a girl's night out so we used one of my friend's cars and it broke down haha. I had to use my engineering skills to fix the car ..with the tools available ..ha ha ha to cut the story short when we went out people were always asking can you smell diesel ha ha ha omg 🤣🤣🤣 crazy night I must admit
I’ve made it so easy for him. I’ve been very attentive & very flirty but also I’ve been pushing him away which in turn makes me feel bad and I end up apologizing (I have an anxious attachment style) Any tips on making him chase? Or is it too late?
Find something you enjoy to keep you distracted from him. This way he can miss your energy. Once he starts chasing again, Rest in your femininity and don’t go back 😘
Work on your attachment style sis. If not those issues will constantly pop up please understand this. I have had similar issues with my attachment style and it's cute in the beginning but once the mind gets to doing it's thing then the thoughts become intrusive and now you're awkward when you're around him and I'm sure you know the rest 😂
LMFAO.. wasnt sure this video is serious or some funny parody. However, as a man this is the type of woman my mother warned me about. Its sad society has turned this way. A logical man will not even bother about women like this. Ladies, just be genuine and get your things sorted and the man will follow.
It’s crazy this guy I assumed was a net caster is transitioning into Bait. We’re friends but he’s leaning in and preparing to lean in. I feel watched and observed constantly and he always asks if I’m seeing anyone. He deleted 50% of his ig and wiped the past! He is not slick
I'm in a conundrum.. so I've secured a financially secure provider type man who's alot older however we're still in the courting stage. when do I actually go from dating casually to sleeping with him. I'm taking things slowly 🐌 but I'm thinking if it's too slow he could lose interest. We've had serious talks on long term commitment ect and he seems to say all the right things and jokes frequently about him buying us a new home ect ... I'm not falling for words yet. What do i do?! 😂
I’m not going to lie about my age or be dodgy about it. I’m 37 and I like my age. I don’t understand this thing about it being rude even for children to guess
Very nice video and you look so pretty. But just some kind advice, avoid the lip smacking. Its distracting and off putting but other than that I enjoyed the video
Thank you for starting your channel. I am so happy to get my hands on to this precious gold mine. 🙏 Quick question, how do you communicate to a man when you're only interested in being a wife and not a girlfriend? Thank you
This doesn't really work for 2 reasons : 1) any man that knows his value isn't into chasing women. Additionally, any man that has value , has options (and any woman who has good looks has options). Which brings me to 2) when women are chased, they become arrogant and begin to look at a man as being weak with no options . Instead, they should just appreciate being pursued (especially by a man they find attractive) ..but then again, with social media, how can you appreciate being pursued when it comes a dime a dozen ? All of these games we play is really sad and the entire demographic needs therapy Ladies, if you want a man: be different . Don't be a carbon copy of other girls you see on Instagram . Plastic surgery, 75% naked post, random pictures of you in Dubai (EXTRA RED FLAG) , cliché comments etc is detrimental to your chances. Do your own thing. Know yourself enough and have realistic standards about who you are and how you look. Be grounded in reality , and DO NOT BRING CHAOS into another mans life. STOP LOOKING FOR UPGRADES (always wanting more is a sign of being ungrateful and unhappy within) IF YOU LIKE THE GUY THAT YOU HAVE AND HE'S THE BEST YOU'VE EVER GOTTEN , stick with him.
@@durgalakshmi2793 You're not paying attention : I said, "if he's the BEST that YOU can get" after stating being REALISTIC with yourself (meaning most women overrate themselves as '10's' when they're not) The 2nd flaw in your statement is : when does getting better stop? It doesn't You can have a rich, good looking guy with good s3x and a nice body, and compatible in every way, but still want "something better"..then you leave what you have to get another guy who actually isn't 'something better'--all bc of your unrealistic selfish needs of always wanting more. A perfect analogy : Thats like hitting the jackpot in a casino and then pressing your luck and gamble yourself back to broke. Greed is a cardinal sin for a reason . Temper and control your desire for more or you'll be put in a position to lose it all
❤. What to do if you been with him for 3 years and have a baby together and you want him to marry you? My name is Erika. Thanks for the video By the way we have a 20 year age gap. I just turned 28 he just turned 48! He got me a house but still hasn’t proposed to me. Please HELP!❤
@@caribbean9829In passing. Not a topic we really discuss. But he told me he wants to. I don’t know what he means by that cause I’m still here waiting for a ring 💍
Men: "Never pursue a woman that doesn't have genuine burning desire for you" Women: "Pretend to not have desire for him" How is that working out for you ladies?😆
Providing for a modern woman in the west in 2024 is a scam. Dont fall for what they say. They only trick you into believing they will follow and submit to a provider and a protector. But the trick is, Providing and protecting would be in their discretion because they will some day leave and say, you were good but not good enough or you were leading them to trenches when you don't do what they like. And at that point, you would be screwed because you might loose kids to her, pay child support, alimony and potentially half of your stuff. They are the ones leading because, you have to play according to their rules. You are just a shield to them. Guys, don't let them deceive you into, real men do this or real men do that. It is a tool they have used for years. The only difference is, women in those days were worth taking the risk and there were no laws incentivising them to divorce. Beware of the scam.
Love this advice ❤! Now please share where to meet wealthy men with exotic luxury cars or places where you suggest going. We know you snagged your husband on eharmony girl but let us know other places 😅✨💗🙏🏿
Gotta love how this 20-something knowitalls come to give you life advice. "Don't tell your date what you actually do for a living. Much better if you lie to him". Yeah, what great advice. You know how you've met a good man/woman? When he doesn't give a fuck about what you do for a living but what kind of a person you are. I couldn't care less whether you're a CEO or a maid as long as you are a good person and have a job. Jesus fuck shit like this drives me up the wall.
@@Loner-DestroyedWoman because knowing that my potential partner has ambitions is important. The specifics of those ambitions are not. There's a difference.
@@anttiranki3690 i think if men truly didn't care about what women did for a living then they wouldn't ask. I just don't understand why men lie about this. Why can't you ask about her other interest instead of employment? Because you care about her employment.
This is horrible advice, pls don't listen to this nonsense. Just be you and the best of you will attract options. You choose who you want accordingly after
They do she is telling the truth. You have to remember what YOU wont do another man will. Men with money go after what they want how else did they make their money?
@MariaLiLV Now with drizzle drizzle. Men with money now know women just see them as wallet,insurance, and laborers😂. If you ain't providing what you are asking for from a man, just pass. That providing and protecting would be no more in few years to come because as modern women say, cooking and cleaning shouldn't be a defined gender role. They forgot to add providing and protecting as well 😂😂.
Providing for a modern woman in the west in 2024 is a scam. Dont fall for what they say. They only trick you into believing they will follow and submit to a provider and a protector. But the trick is, Providing and protecting would be in their discretion because they will some day leave and say, you were good but not good enough or you were leading them to trenches when you don't do what they like. And at that point, you would be screwed because you might loose kids to her, pay child support, alimony and potentially half of your stuff. They are the ones leading because, you have to play according to their rules. You are just a shield to them. Guys, don't let them deceive you into, real men do this or real men do that. It is a tool they have used for years. The only difference is, women in those days were worth taking the risk and there were no laws incentivising them to divorce. Beware of the scam.
I just subscribed- I like your titles and content , but please don’t do the ‘sucking lips ‘ or breath sucking / lip smacking stuff , it’s a turn off & seems so fake compared to your great topics and opinions . This sort of thsp thsp sound that some women do when they want to appear special or beautiful. You don’t need it because your insights are enough 💖🙏🏽