How to Share Your Thoughts and Feelings 

As a man that has now realized his faults this video was a kick in the a$$ I needed to be more open with my wife. Thank you sooo much!

My wife recently asked me to leave home. It has completely devastated me. I have not been away from her this long in 24years. I have been watching these videos and reading Marriage on the Rock, and pastor evens has really opened my eyes to where I failed. I’m praying my wife does not want a divorce so that I can show her I know where I failed and I will work hard to never let her feel unloved because on my sarcastic tongue.

I could cry right now. I am experiencing a lot of these issues that Pastor Jimmy has shared. I felt this was a message I needed to hear.

It's pretty amazing hey. Wives want honesty and openness at all costs. Husbands don't care if their wives are lying, just say something nice. So through confusion, Wives speak to their Husbands honestly and openly, to the detriment of the man. Husbands speak nice words even if they aren't completely true, to the detriment of the lady. We perish for a lack of knowledge

Good relationship advice. I particularly like the summary of the different gender’s needs - Men’s needs: 1. Honor and Respect 2. Sex 3. Friendship with his wife 4. Domestic Support Women’s needs: 1. Security 2. Non-sexual Affection 3. Open and Honest Communication 4. Leadership from her husband

Wow I cant imagine being called goofy by my own kids! It's a miracle that marriage was saved, so happy for them

That brought me to tears when you said "because you dont care" because ive been going over in my head so much my recent relationship and thats the conclusion i came to.... he just... didnt... care... q.q

This really hit the nail on the head with my relationship.

I have learned, in my disfunctional, abusive marriage of 46 years, is to stay in Protect Mode at ALL times, NEVER share a thought, feeling, idea as I Would Be WRONG.... This is how he is, this is what he does and this Is ALL He Knows...He has been taught by the best of the Very Best how to tear down and DESTROY someone's Self Esteem and Self Worth, his own family, who did it to him first...

A spouse should be the caring, safest person to share with and listen with over other people.

You are always a great blessing. I really enjoy your approach and perspective.

Love this. Great material to show you how to ma me your marriage better.

I wish I would've heard these sermons when I was married. I Love all these

Men need from woman: honor, sex, friendship with wife and domestic support. Woman need from men: security, non-sexual affection and communication, open and honest communication, leadership Quality Physical Intimacy: Sacrifice, trust, and safe atmosphere with trust are important in the relationship Emotional Stress Fighting Reasons relationships are hurt: Stress from works, sex, money, children, house work. The emotion of saying "I don't care" plays a role with these issues. You fall in love with someone for two reasons: You admire something in the other person and you like the way they make you feel.

Thank you for this broadcast

Life is better when I care... I am super blessed when I have a man who would say that he takes care of me. 💛💛💛

My feelings might not be right but they are real - so true. Sometimes you express how you feel ( right or wrong) cause your hoping to find truth by talking about them. But you can’t talk about your feelings if you don’t feel safe to do so

Thank you for a great video. I’m going to share this with my Husband.

Prayers for my marriage. GOD ONLY KNOWS September 19, 2018

Amazing!! I need this guys opinion on my relationship if theres any saving what we have.

Wonderful

Thank you so much massage advice for more help

Amazing video and God bless you :)

Wonderful! ;)

Thank you ❤❤❤

That's cool because it's true

How do you speak to a partner who doesn't care and doesn't believe in listening to marriage talks?

Amen

Do you publish or write books about this stuff?? If so please give me some information on how to go about it. Thank you

Wasn't really what I was looking for, but still good

Is it true that your spouse doesn't always think of you all the time?? Because I heard Jimmy say that once 🤔😢

I would love for my husband to listen to this with me , but he won't . I have even shared these videos with him and he won't watch them . We go to church, but he still won't listen . We will be married for 31 years Feb. 17 2020 . It's been tough and it breaks my heart .

Wow!! I clearly am with the wrong man!!

Pastor you are brilliant and insightful. I have listened to you listen and learning from you for some time. My only criticism is the gender stereotypes that are pervasive in many of your sermons/lessons. Men and women do not fall into the genalizations you often articlute. Please take a more dynamic approach. You say things like,' men need sex, wome need keqdeeship'. Also, I will add perhaps much of your gender stereotypes are based on your your generations outlook.. please upgrade your approach and expand your outlook.. it compromises the power of you messages. To be honest some of your messages have a slight sexist under tone in terms of how you see women's role in the family. Please upgrade. Much love and respect.

Something that I see missing in this discussion, is grooming on both sides. Dress up the package

People that encourage these money "gifts" especially when they get these gifts a plenty elsewhere are iffy, these things should be free if you truly want to help marriages

His mask is thick.

A MAN SHOULD NEVER SHARE HIS FEELINGS WITH HIS WIFE AS THE HEAD AS MEN NATURALLY DON'T HAVE EMOTIONS