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I was married for 31 years and 3 days.... I failed her miserably in helping her around the house, paying attention to her needs and serving her. Most importantly, I failed at communicating my love for her. I encourage every man who loves his wife to listen to this and DO what is recommended!
This is what I'm hoping my husband will learn. Can I ask a question? Would sending this to him be rude? It feels rude. But I've already communicated all of this video in person over the months and years and he hasn't put it to action yet. So I'm thinking maybe seeing a video would help.
I Kno this video sounds simpy but the point is, if you show love and affection to your wife, she will give you the respect and appreciation you need. Since different people have different preferences for love and affection, you should ask you wife if she can tell you about a time when you did something that made her feel loved.
I love my wife so much. She is literally the single most amazing person I know. I analyzed myself and I am such a bad husband. I don’t deserve such a woman. I want to better myself for her to be what she deserves.
Hopefully your partner (if you’ve got one) learns to love you the way you desire the most. I firmly believe we deserve to have our needs met by our long term partners
Same here. My husband is great at acts of service, but he has a servants heart and does that for everyone. Nothing about his acts of service feeds my need to feel cherished above all. I need words of affirmation, not him telling me I should go to the gym and get my hair done. I need him to value and appreciate all I do as a stay at home, homeschooling mom. Picking up after himself would be a great start, helping run the boys to baseball practice, and definitely not adding to my duties by telling me I should make time for the gym. I need quality time and self sacrifice. Get up and go shopping with me sometimes, even if he hates to shop. Understanding me and knowing what I like and dont like, knowing my buttons and not intentionally pushing them. I need him to be humble and be able to own and apologize for his mistakes instead of prideful amd casting blame. And certainly not telling me he can do better than me whenever I try to communicate my hurts. 18 years and while I only have faith the size of a mustard seed, I cant give up on Gods ability to repair our marriage. I'm broken and weary though.
I don’t have a wife, neither a girlfriend. I’ve spent years chasing the wrong ones, but when I find her, this video will be remembered. I’ll be making sure my future partner gets all of her needs met. Great vid
In short, he gave a suggestion to give a massage. But listen to this in a metaphorical way and run with the principle. Help your wife in places you see that she needs help. When we get overwhelmed, it's nice to be reminded you're important, and same goes for your wife. I love my wife a lot.
OH my God.... felt like crying.... that will really make a women feel better... you have so deep understanding about what women want.... that was super sensitive advice with so good intentions...... God Bless you....
❤ i would prefer if my husband just asks me what makes me feel loved and work on doing it cause the need is different for every woman, I just want him to ask
Ok I cook, I clean, I give her massages almost every night. I tell her I love her , I send texts during the day and I tell her everyday that she she is beautiful. Only been married for 2 years and my wife doesn't respond like you said she would. I really don t know what else I can do?
@@kimberlygracie i m sorry but what is love language ...btw my wife might not be affectionate and cuddly like the guy said she would be but she is still my shining star. Thanks for the compliment.
There are five love languages: Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch. Each one is important and expresses love in its own way. Learning your partner's and your own primary love language will help create a stronger bond in your relationship.
Only you would know your wife and how long you can tolerate her response to your attention. Keep focusing on what you love about her and not what you expect
I do so much for my wife she knows I would do anything for her but she isn't an affectionate person in any way I can't tell if she Take me for granted or if she appreciates what I do for her and just doesn't know how to show it.
To counter balance this video not all women’s love language is acts of service. You mentioned earlier in your presentation that your wife is very busy and active, i would ask you to evaluate whether your wife is over functioning and if she is what is driving that behaviour? There should be a balance between doing and being. Then discover her love language if it is not acts of service as you describe. It could be receiving gifts, words of affirmation, focused attention, or , physical touch, the key is to discover the channel that she likes to receive love , so you can be attuned to her. The other important aspect is developing health communication, with low levels of criticism and high levels of empathy so you are not in polarising cycles of stress , tension , and hostility. If you can at least do these basics you have half a chance of building a healthy relationship
I was hopeful for this video until you mentioned the foot massage. I couldn't pay my husband to rub my feet, even during both pregnancies when I was at the point of being unable to walk. He HATES feet 🙄 he does know how to take care of things around the house, but there's not much in the affection department.
sorry for being a ......... foot massage needer. :-( ( hey can I please actually find a way to help you help women that are overwhelmed feel better????) F M
Ok this guy sounds like a complete submissive servant of his wife BUT. But... He really knows what he's doing, I wouldn't mind my guy learning a thing or two from this 😂
