How To Stay CALM When You Feel Like YELLING

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As a parent, we want to avoid yelling because of the negative effects it had on our children. In this episode, let's dive deep to understand what is happening to our brain when we yell and I will give you some tips on how to stay calm when you feel like yelling.
00:43 What is yelling all about?
04:23 Try this calming technique
06:39 Look into these underlying causes
08:10 Practice this thinking
10:18 Practical scripts that you can use
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Dr. Paul Jenkins
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@AnubisHalo 4 года назад

My teen son came to me the other day and said “ mom , I can really see you change and not yelling anymore “ and my 4 year old who is extremely wild and full of energy - hard to keep out of trouble ♥️😭 I stopped yelling and gave him “choices” . We have only been practicing one week and the impact has been monumental . We are all happier because of this . I wish I would have known how to do this years ago . I feel like I’ve wasted so much time and caused hurt , especially with my teens yelling and having blowups .

@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад

Kimberli and Nathan Sehrman, I am so glad these methods are working for you and your family. I'm truly honored to be on your team! I understand what you mean by wishing you could have known about this sooner, but perhaps your teenagers will see that this new way works much better than old way; and when they become parents, they will choose positive parenting.

@lilmissranichi 4 года назад

So lovely to read this has worked for someone. I'm stuck yelling at my wild hyper 4 year old and I'm exhausted. Going to start implementing this and see if my boys notice too.

@gloriatuvalu9906 3 года назад

It is a joy to hear especially from kids and teens these kindly words recognising some change in us, parents. Well done 👍 and keep it up Kimberli and Nathan.

@nancytucker6365 3 года назад

It it has been working with my three year old grandson also what a difference!!! Where was this advice 36 years ago LOL glad to have it now

@ginamoreau3651 3 года назад

You are right on time! Remember. However I see your point, years of yelling and frustration with my 2 daughters drove me to these videos and thank Goodness they are helping so much ... I might be able to get along with my teenagers from now on :)

@titabelski7731 3 года назад

I used to yell when my kids were small because I felt like talking to a deaf ear until my son told me about how he heard me. He said I just sound like a banging drum. I began talking in a calm caring way and they begun to listen. I did the technique of deep breathing and focus on their being an innocent child limited in their understanding... The word says, "Be quick to love and slow to anger." And mostly pray for them.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

I am glad you listened to him. Thank you for sharing.

@selenachannel2782 Год назад

Banging drum🤣🤣🤣

@Salomesaville Год назад

Jesus keep helping us please.

@HiLoGuurl 4 года назад

I am a yeller and I don't even have kids!! I am definitely gonna try these, thank you doc 😊

@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад

HiLoGuurl, yep, this is for anyone, not just parents! Glad you are willing to try. Thanks for watching!

@jeremyfridley2862 3 года назад

Great idea! Practice this before having a child, while the stakes are low. You'll be pro level by the time you're a parent and the mistakes you made along the way will carry less consequence.

@homeyes3070 3 года назад

Lmao same

@ali_plz 3 года назад

I yell at my kids because that's all I ever known. My mom always yelled at me even though we're really close. So, I try to change my behavior and yell at them less, because I've notice if I'm calmer, they're calmer too.

@anna8389szczerba 3 года назад

Oh gosh LOL I have 5 kids under 10 and I am a HORRIBLE yeller when my kids hurt each other!!! Especially my boys towards my girls or the bigger kids on the smaller more defenceless kids! Ooh boy oh boy, God help me.

@auntieb3621 3 года назад

I am loving these videos!!!! I was sold into human trafficking when i was a toddler. I've been free for 6 years now. So many of these are exactly how I've been able to navigate life and it's so incredibly heart warming to see a platform based upon grounding and love. Thank you so much. Invaluable doesn't say how MUCH I'm grateful and impressed at the same time. Thank you will have to do for now. So, thank you

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Sabrina, I am honored to be on your team.

@The.Indian.Goddess 2 года назад

So am i was trafficked by my classmates in seminary and my family ...they treated me as an animal ...and used me for porn ..they put a camera on the ladies dorm and my moms home ....i am afraid am not free yet ...am still in this country ...but whatever he is teaching is helping me ...my life is still in danger ....but i practice calming techniques ...and it works ...sometimes when i am flooded ...and if i keep practicing this i can keep calmer ...it works

@EC-yd9yv 2 года назад

🙏💜

@vickyandersen8660 2 года назад

@@The.Indian.Goddess pray to God. You might now believe but it won't hurt you. I pray you get set free

@stormberrymc4510 4 года назад

My mom was a yeller (and a hitter but that's neither here nor there). I wasn't able to show strong emotions in front of her, but she constantly was in front of me. Now that I'm an adult, I always feel repressed and like I need to yell in order to stand up for myself in a conflict, and I constantly feel defensive. Now that I can yell after so long of not being able to, it's even worse. I want it to change that before I become a parent. Videos like this are really helping, so thank you!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад

StormBerryMC, honored to be a part of your team.

@The.Indian.Goddess 2 года назад

Same here. ..i yell alone sometimes when am flooded but am learning from this channel and others esp about narcissist and their game ...and mr live on purpose here makes every sense ...glad i found him and the others ...

@banniesmile 3 года назад

1. Practice deep breathing when not angry. 2. Think deep why you are angry. 3. Change your thinking.(you are right on schedule. This is perfect for me. I am present ). I will try that. Thank you

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Love it! banniesmile, I am so happy when people will at least give it a honest try.

@virginiaw8608 3 года назад

We start therapy this week. But I'm so grateful for your videos. I'm so tired of yelling and than apologizing. I realize I'm in a loop of sadness and anger, being triggered by stuff that doesn't need the anger. Prayer and your breathing technique are helping. Thanks. I am changing.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Virginia W, best of luck to you in your therapy. Better days ahead.

@debleeann81 3 года назад

This made me realize kids also have the same response so they yell,cry or throw a tantrum because of chemical reaction,or response.Thank you! I work at a daycare so it’s very important to remain calm.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Deborah Spencer, thank you for the work you do.

@andreapatane4204 3 года назад

I have tendencies to raise my voice, but it was hard for me to calm down when I felt like yelling since early childhood. Many adults told me to lower my voice, but it took awhile to develop self control. 👍🏻 if you strongly agree with my comment.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Andrea Patane, we are all working on something.

@andreapatane4204 3 года назад

@@LiveOnPurposeTV Is that right,?

@sharisdiyworkshop7437 3 года назад

I’ve been binge watching your channel the last few days desperate for answers on how to deal with my angry 12 year old who goes from 0 to 10 in a second! I feel some hope just watching these and realizing I’m just as much to blame as him. Thanks for the insight and I really hope I can put these to work and get my husband on board as well. Thank you!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

You got this! We are here to help.

@gaywizard2000 3 года назад

Sounds like he needs a diagnosis, why would you blame yourself? Don't do it.

@Petuacapturesit Год назад

How is he doing now??

@jahall257 3 года назад

I recently was preparing dinner, I decided to empty the dishwasher and was over tired. I pulled the cutlery draw out onto the floor, my mind started to shatter. Before it did I calmly left the house in bare feet walked about 3 mins Decided not to be upset, walked back lay on my bed texting my friend laughing about it. Went back to the kitchen and cooked tea. Then I choose to pick up the mess, choose to repair the drawer later.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Ja Hall, sounds like you have this under control.

@willyh.r.1216 3 года назад

I should have watched your video in my twenties. Now I'm so grateful for discovering this treasure.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Willy H. R. I am glad we could connect.

@caseywilson6893 3 года назад

Hey, I just wanted to let you know, your channel has changed my parenting. Really love your techniques. A lot of it overlaps with my attempts at implementing Love and Logic techniques... but not everything my kid does is "by the books", and you cover a much broader array of topics.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Wow, thank you! Casey Wilson, you made my day.

@silverthornehomestead 4 года назад

Just discovered you today. Thank God for you! Seriously!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад

Elizabeth McKeough, honored to be a part of your team. Welcome.

@Fergy00000 Год назад

I'm not someone who yells but if I'm frustrated in a family situation I can raise my voice. Or so I think. My daughter will say to mom that daddy yelled at me, I feel I didn't yell but I guess I need to understand peoples perception of the word and the feeling it gives. I love my family and would do anything for them. You can never stop learning. Thank you for always taking the time to create your videos. I really appreciate your effort. Breath in... breath out slowly:)

@LiveOnPurposeTV Год назад

You got this. Powerful insight.

@baldman5k Год назад

12:21 THIS RIGHT HERE, just helped me SO DANG MUCH, you have NO idea… I had to rewatch it three times because every time I would watch/listen to that statement, I would only get ONE word further in the statement, before bawling like a baby again. 😂 Every. Dang. Time. Such a powerful and incredibly insightful and intelligent piece of advice, that is. Just wow. So, I’m not on my last leg, near the end, on the edge of my worst “season”in life. Where am I? I’m PRESENT, I’m BREATHING it out, and I’m RIGHT ON SCHEDULE, where I’m supposed to be, in the middle of my inspiring story. That’s so incredibly powerful and empowering. It gives me the power to get back on track in writing my own story, instead of allowing my hurt, my anger, and my resentment write the story. Turns my biography back into an autobiography again; the way it SHOULD be. Wow. Thank you SO MUCH, Dr. Paul. Much love from Texas! 🤟

@LiveOnPurposeTV Год назад

Honored to be on your team, Baldman5k.

@gwarlow 3 года назад

“Serenity now! Serenity now!” That seemed to work for Frank Costanza…

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Love it.

@rasathuraisivaram8301 3 года назад

I have found my self as a yeller. Fortunately, I watched this video. Thanks Subscribed

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Awesome! Thank you! Welcome to Live On Purpose TV.

@vinylcollectors 4 года назад

Thank you! I needed this. The other day my toddler imitated my yelling at him and I felt so ashamed. I am going to use these tools to do better

@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад

You are welcome, vinylcollectors. Honored to be on your team! Please check out our Positive Parenting playlist for more tools if you haven't already: ru-vid.com/group/PLq2mRDkHEBPCclxt6agg3wrLBRkL7CCwU

@chizynweze4165 3 года назад

😂😂🤣🤣 Waooo. Kids!

@chizynweze4165 3 года назад

My son is 5 today, trust me he can push someone so badly to the wall but I'm learning alot from this channel and start practicing being a better parent.

@lanabear2707 2 года назад

I’ve watched this one a few times already! It makes so much sense every time and can’t wait until I start to believe ‘I am right on schedule and that this is perfect for me’ ❤️❤️ do you have a video for transitioning from “jealous that your partner seems to have all the free time” as that would also be super helpful 🙌

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад

LanaBear, we need to free up some time for you. Figure out what you can let go of or what you can get help with.

@VinegarWithAnAttitude Год назад

Subscribed. I’m a teacher, a coach, and a parent. This is the stuff I need

@LiveOnPurposeTV Год назад

Honored to be on your team, Herbinislander. Consider our Positivity Practitioner Certification. Get more info from my assistant.

@rickyboyce2323 2 года назад

I Love the fact that the tips in this video can be applied in your daily life and parenting. Definitely going to try these ideas for work and with my daughter. I keep having this feeling in my gut that I need to change the way I parent, and after watching several episodes from your channel I’m beginning to find that not only do I need to change.. but I actually have the ABILITY to change using your awesome tips. I think it’s fair to say that most parents don’t want to yell at their kids or make their kids “fear” them. They just want to be respected, and there really is a fine line between those two concepts. Thank you so very much for sharing your wisdom and experience on this channel. Real Game Changer!!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад

LOVE to hear this, Ricky. Exactly why we put the channel together. Please share with anyone else who could benefit.

@monterreywilliams5829 2 года назад

Dr. Paul, We have our two grandsons, ages 6 & 11 for 8 nights. The entire video gets to the point and is very helpful. Your suggestion of telling yourself “I’m right on schedule” helps me this morning. Throughout the day, I observe the boys vacillate with their attention between me (Grandmother) and their Grandfather. I don’t like being left out so I make myself feel bad with negative self thoughts. This video has energized me to know I am a worthy, participating significant person in their life. When your tired and low in energy (and I’m usually a motivated, adventurous person), these guidelines are a challenge. Thank you for the motivation on this Sunday morning--while the boys are still sleeping 😴.

@LiveOnPurposeTV Год назад

Thank you for taking the time to comment. Glad you have the time to spend with your grands. They are the best.

@prezidenttrump5171 4 года назад

I just wanted to drop by again and let you know how much you helped me. I was (still am, but working on it) focused on myself, me me me. I had a horrible childhood that you helped me clarify with another video. My family is worse than some, but not as much as others, and to be grateful. You are helping so many people, most of whom will not comment yet still be healed in various ways. The unconscious mind video in particular with your male guest was of great interest. Another video that stands out is you talking about the quick n' easy ways you can ruin relationships. I have a wonderful relationship with my Girlfriend, but realized I was doing many of the things that would ultimately lead to ruin. So many things left to ponder. Fascinating how the more we learn the more we realize how much we don't know. Have an incredible day, and an incredible life. Thank you.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад

PrezidentTrump, thank you for your kind words. So glad we can be a part of your journey.

@MegsCarpentry-lovedogs 3 года назад

Dr. Paul, I have to admit, during the covid pandemic I have lost it and yelled and cried, privately in my home, from the overwhelming feeling of despair. At some point during the break down I manage to click on to any one of your vids to help bring some perspective. Reassuring to feel that I am not alone. In a safe place yelling is OK and so is crying my eyes out. In reading comments on your vids the community indicates that everyone at some point or points in their lives feel like yelling. The isolation due to covid deaths and now 3 new strains of covid does get overbearing to handle-so my thinking tell me. 😉 So much suffering happening, including animals too. Thank you for producing your channel Dr. Paul. 💛 🇨🇦 😷

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Meg's Carpentry, we are human and our experiences are more universal than we sometimes thing. Glad you are at the channel.

@humbledmuffins7787 3 года назад

Doc needs a podcast on Spotify

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Nur Mashitah, I have a podcast, Live On Purpose Radio.

@CB0915 4 года назад

Thanks for this video I need something like this to calm down and realize i dont have to yell

@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад

CB 1014, the first thing is realizing we have a choice, you are on the right road.

@Jmtg84 2 года назад

Thank you for this video! Those three things to remind myself really hit home. I constantly feel two steps behind other moms who make well balanced meals that their kids actually eat, have a structured morning routine, sit down and study with their kids each night, etc. I try, but it seems like I must not be doing it right. That’s when I watch your videos and get advice. You’ve been so helpful! Thank you. I still always feel behind, but I’ll try this out. :)

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад

Don't compare your worst moments with their best. Remember, what you see on Instagram is not the full story.

@vminus7505 2 года назад

so glad i found your channel, jsut wached 4 videos back to back and already feeling calmer and more confident to be able to manage my frustrations and iritations with positivity and re thinking how i feel about situations that will arrise in my life, thanks so much for these videos, will be playing them a lot for the future

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад

I'm so glad! Welcome to our channel and revisit the videos as often as you need to.

@jbn9029 3 года назад

Before I got married and had kids myself, I used to judge a friend of mine who I used to see yelling at her teens and getting all bent out of shape. I used to say, "Why are you so angry? Can't you go and take a breather and walk away?" Now, I'm in the midst of the same scenario and I realize that kids will show you what's inside of your heart and brain clearer than anyone else. What comes out of us in these situations stems from our own programs that these kids are triggering. I love his techniques in all of his videos because it takes that emotional reaction out and gives us a way to handle kids in a very healthy way recognizing we parents are responsible for our own emotional responses - period. No excuses. My only regret is not listening to him and applying these techniques earlier when the kids were little. God bless you Doc! ❤️

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Thanks, JB N, you are so correct about the programming. We need to reprogram our actions and it is difficult, though possible.

@ISAE81657 4 года назад

Seriously I connect so much with everything you say, I saw you the last time you came to Edwards Colorado. Your videos help me so much, thank you! I'm a follower and a fan.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад

Isabella Estrada, thank you, glad you are in our community.

@normaharlean4457 3 года назад

I have to say that saying ,”I’m right on schedule “; is pretty hard to say in any other tones except for optimistic and happy. I honestly don’t want to attempt to make that possible because even attempting to use a neutral tone is not going to happen. it is an “ insta-calmer” so, thank you :3

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

You are very welcome, Norma Harlean. Honored to be on your team.

@waynehurt6397 3 года назад

I yell at my dad somtimes and i regret it right away so this was helpfull thankyou😁💕 i am on my dads account im a girl btw so ya lol

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Glad it helped!

@selenachannel2782 Год назад

I love your videos when you're by yourself... love how you do your best to reach out to our major problems with ourselves and kids

@LiveOnPurposeTV Год назад

Thank you, Selena channel. I'm working for you.

@missionofelijah4682 3 года назад

Thank you for taking you’re time !

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

My pleasure!

@itsthetinysistersshow327 4 года назад

I’m so glad you have a podcast! I just subscribed to it. I appreciate your content very much.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад

Thank you for subscribing to the podcast, It's the Tiny Sister's Show! Honored to have you at Live On Purpose TV and Radio.

@christophertaylor6866 4 года назад

I love podcasts thsnk you

@chloemurray8092 3 года назад

Paul, this is excellent and thank you so much! 'This is perfect for me' 😉 Just love it. Am watching you more often from now on. Mind 'set' or the way we think, our repetitive and learned patterns is EVERYTHING. My tough story starts to turn around now. Thank you 🙏❤

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Wonderful!

@marymutheu5471 3 года назад

Ooooh my ....hmmm I always yell....am so happy I found this video because this is what I was looking for....thanks so much..

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Glad it was helpful!

@teresachaperlo8356 4 года назад

We are signed up for virtual school this fall.... I just took a whole page of notes from this video; I am going to start my breathing exercises now to get ready for this new "adventure" in the fall. Thank you for your support and advice!!!!!!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад

You got this! Give us any ideas for videos on how we can support you.

@jolene9952 3 года назад

I wish I could force people to watch your videos! They are so helpful! Thank you! I always share them ☺️

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Wow, thank you! Glad they have helped, Jolene.

@gaywizard2000 3 года назад

Why don't you just yell at them till they do?

@dawnm.h.reeves5717 3 года назад

Awesome! I have a lazy roommate that drives me crazy! Lazy, messy, smelly and now after complaining, I plan on moving but while I'm waiting on a place to move to, I'm relegated to my room. I'm tired of being angry and feeling like a grumpy ♡itch all the time. Thanks for the strategies. It's better than going to jail!!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Dawn M. H., I am glad you are making a new way for yourself.

@angiejones968 3 года назад

Thank you for pointing out that I can use this when I want to yell. I never thought to use this technique for that. I was taught to use it by my therapist to calm myself. It really does work! Now I'm gonna use it , if/when I remember for yelling. Thanks again for the help!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Angie Jones, glad you connected with the video.

@julietaprofe2131 2 года назад

I have been practicing this for some weeks now and it absolutely works for me. I am infinite grateful! Thank you so so much.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад

Thanks for letting me know.

@tracyfleming2678 3 года назад

I love the way you present these strategies; funny, entertaining and truly helpful

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Glad you enjoy it! Thank you, Tracy.

@Msconfesor 3 года назад

I have been implementing all of your advice for 2 weeks and I have notice a lot of changes. I have a 4 year old and a 2 year old. My 4 year old started to hit my 2 year old and everything I asked him why or how it happend, he always replay nothing. I never hit my kids, but I am guilty of yelling at them, and I don't want to i love them. Since I have been in control on talking with my 4 year old, with calm body, face and voice.now he says my brother is trying to hit me thats why I want to hit back, I am so thankful that he now explain things to me, he even not lie anymore, he says I hit him and he knows that I am not gonna yell but talk. I am amazed.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

msconfesor, thank you for trying. Awesome.

@lizzabbott Год назад

New subscriber ! Dawn, a.k.a. The Minimal Mom, brought me here. Your conversation with her on her channel today was DELIGHTFUL ! And empowering .

@LiveOnPurposeTV Год назад

Thanks for letting me know, lizzabbott and welcome to Live On Purpose TV.

@universalseeker 4 года назад

I learned & revisited a lot listening to this video. Great video!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад

I'm so glad you found the video useful, Vaness Holley. Honored to be on your team!

@sharonreneebrownmydiaries9943 2 года назад

Thank you for taking the time to make these so very important videos.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад

Glad you like them!

@tessjones5987 3 года назад

Thank you for creating a calmer more neutral reaonable attitude in this world. It takes courage to change and you make it do-able.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Tess Jones, thank you for your kind words.

@abdiraufabshir3467 4 года назад

We all need to stay calm at some point! Even holding negative emotions can be bad. This might be a video for me to learn.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад

Abdirauf Abshir, there have been studies on the negative physical effects of carrying around negative emotions. Mind and body are inseparably linked.

@athenak631 2 года назад

Thank you. Needed to hear this.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад

You are so welcome.

@catherinemcgill3004 2 года назад

I love this channel and great advice like this! When my son was a teenager, he spoke to me harshly once, which happily didn’t happen often. Well, I wanted to share that I told him “I think you forgot you are speaking to someone you love.” This was a game changer. I chose not to lash out and to focus him on what he was saying and how. I’m not saying I never shouted but I find it helpful to remember I’m speaking to someone I love and I like to think I taught him that. ❤️

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад

Love that!

@kathleenodonnell8355 2 года назад

I love that too!!! Beautiful 💕

@forvishuv 4 года назад

Love it!! Thank you!!!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад

You are welcome, ViSWA V! Honored to be on your team.

@brittanycrawford6432 Год назад

I just want to say I appreciate your parenting videos so much. I was not raised lovingly and now I am struggling knowing the right way vs wrong way to parent. I’m learning now I was raised dysfunctionally and don’t want to pass that to my little Ones. Your videos are so helpful. Thank you.

@LiveOnPurposeTV Год назад

Thank you, Brittany, honored to be on your team.

@lornangumbullu8385 3 года назад

This is amazing thank you 🙏🏾❤️

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

You are very welcome, thank you.

@Ruxingn 2 года назад

I had to take some really deep breaths today it took everything for me not to yell at my mama she doesn't deserve to be treated that way like ever me and her have grown closer together we don't fight at as much anymore it's a great relationship that was built I have had two death's in my family during this New Year, the beginning of 2022 sadly it's been really hard for me to cope with everything it has changed my personality I have been having such bad anxiety and anger at the same time I know god has plans in store for me he is always here for me even when I can't see it!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад

Thank you for realizing that you can control yourself and that you want to work on the relationship. I love that you have hope. Never give up hope.

@MegsCarpentry-lovedogs 3 года назад

This was a very practical way to support training our thinking differently. Thank you from Canada!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Glad you enjoyed it!

@lauraheyman2011 3 года назад

I yell and cry and pray and yell and cry and pray. Thank you for teaching these skills.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

You are so welcome

@FitWithGrace 3 года назад

Always great stuff, thank you!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

My pleasure!

@cg741graf5 3 года назад

Oh man: I needed a tune up on my practice. I had a rough morning after being triggered and it created a horrible storm. 🤦🏻‍♀️😞

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

CG Graf, deep breath, we can start over. You got this!

@MegsCarpentry-lovedogs 3 года назад

The equipment in our own mind...LOL! I like that explanation. Breathing... got that and in progress regularly. 👍Honestly, during this pandemic covid yelling privately in a few breakdowns is needed. Feeling flooded is reduced by not watching too much news on social media. 😑Thanks for letting things feel it is OK to feel like yelling.😡 If done in the privacy of ones own personal space then the yelling, the energy of worry, frustration, fear of what people are "not" doing to protect each other from the virus, is alright. 😐 Yelling privately to release the pent up energy is a lot better than yelling at other people or animals.😇. 🇨🇦

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Meg's Carpentry, there are so many things we can do to stay calm and they can even help other people. Thank you for commenting.

@Venus77x 3 года назад

I have to say Dr. Paul, that you and your lovely wife have inspired me so much through your videos, that I have signed up for a course in Child Psychology in order to add more knowledge to my business of being an NLP Practitioner and Naturopath. I feel in society today, there are so many families struggling with behavioural issues and the wrong methods are used in order to deal with them. We have gone from severe corporal punishment which is vastly wrong to no consequences or understanding of the underlying behaviour, and if we never understand the root of the problem we never actually cure it, only suppress it for a short while, as with physical health problems. There are so many people needing supportive resources out there that I now run my own website, that provides NLP, NATUROPATHY, NUTRITION AND FITNESS SUPPORT along with my daughter, and now would like to help families with their issues. Today because of the 'virus', I feel society has been infected with knock on psychological issues which will prove to be a bigger fallout than the 'virus' itself....all of this collateral damage needs dealing with and never more was it as important to keep mentally well and help and support one another. My answer to that is to ban all forms of media and only listen to positive input such as your advice and others like you, anything else serves no purpose in our lives. Thank You for inspiring me x

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Venus77x, we are honored to be on your team.

@JennWatson 3 года назад

This is brilliant! Thanks!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад

You're very welcome!

@roben9580 11 месяцев назад

Excellent presentation...thank you

@LiveOnPurposeTV 11 месяцев назад

You are welcome.

@nathifamodeste3691 2 года назад

I am so glad I came across this channel

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад

Nathifa Figuera, I am also

@medispin6607 3 года назад

❤️ Although yelling is not my response, but I do tend to panic or start feeling uncomfortable and fidgety when faced with a tough situation. It always helps to hear good and very apt advice. You are extremely well read and you have great understanding of human psychology

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Thank you, I have been at it for over 30 years.

@dinasmairat4708 4 года назад

Love all of your videos 💕

@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад

Thank you, Dina Smairat. I'm honored to have you at Live On Purpose TV!

@kapatactical355 Год назад

Thanks for helping. Life preserver in a stormy sea 🌊

@LiveOnPurposeTV Год назад

Kapa Tactical, you got this.

@zibaa1234 Год назад

Thank you dear! Your videos really help parents!

@LiveOnPurposeTV Год назад

You're so welcome!

@gloriayoung392 2 года назад

Beautiful knowledge Thank you for sharing🙏👍✌

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад

Honored to be on your team.

@curtiscarlson8958 3 года назад

Great advice!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Thank you, Curtis.

@1234piano 3 года назад

Jolly good stuff!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Chris Graham, thank you!

@jldonnell1 3 года назад

Serenity now!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

James D, so glad for you.

@Travis.scurts Год назад

My 11 year old son was diagnosed with Odd, and ADHD! And he tells us what he’s going to do. And what we should do.

@LiveOnPurposeTV Год назад

Something is not quite right with this. Sounds like he needs some consequences and counseling.

@leslielou4970 3 года назад

Thank you!!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

You're welcome!

@meriemeelorch8311 Год назад

Just THANK YOU 🙏👌

@LiveOnPurposeTV Год назад

merieme elorch, honored to be on your team.

@noemig4619 2 года назад

Great video ♥️

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад

Thank you.

@zachR937 7 дней назад

Very nice.

@katiehauer1266 3 года назад

Thank you so much 💛 A very Thankful Mom of 3 in Pennsylvania

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Katie, honored to be a member of your team.

@bhineka8936 2 года назад

I will try to practice what I got from this video.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад

Thank you!

@ALLNighT817 3 года назад

this is really helpful.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Overnight Coffee, honored to be on our team.

@gabby7882 3 года назад

This is a good video. I'm not an Old yeller but I did learn about synapses. I never understood. Thank you

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Gabrielle Stargel, honored to be on your team.

@danthoreson4062 3 года назад

Very useful stuff

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Glad you think so! Dan Thoreson, honored to be on your team.

@tatianahawaii13 2 года назад

Thank you

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад

You are very welcome!

@bethanyg153 2 года назад

Oh man! I used to fly off the handle. When I got physical things like thyroid medication and sleep apnea taken care of it was amazing how it changed my brain. But I do still have moments. Lol! This will be helpful!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад

Thanks for sharing!! Sometimes there are underlying medical conditions. Glad you are in a better place.

@anaserbanescu7623 3 года назад

Huge thank you for your help with this videos! I am a new parent and I am yeller mom already 😭

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

You are so welcome! Ana Serbanescu, you can learn tools that will help you to remain calm.

@rest1000 3 года назад

4:28 put the wrong “your” but so far no other complaints 😂

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

Thank you.

@mahiansari5058 Год назад

GOD bless you dr. Paul.. ❤️ the way you explain in your videos just amzaing.. after watching your videos nobody inspires me anymore more than you.. you're just awesome .

@LiveOnPurposeTV Год назад

Thank you, mahi ansari.

@himats7195 3 года назад

Thank you so much

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

You're most welcome

@nicoleosborn7187 4 года назад

Thank you.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад

You are welcome, Nicole Osborn. Thank you for watching.

@heather2761 2 месяца назад

Having PTSD, I find it even harder to not yell or overreact. Also my toddler hitting or kicking me makes me burst into tears and sometimes have flashbacks. I wish I could figure out how to overcome this.

@BestBFam 4 года назад

Thank you very much.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад

You are welcome!

@chynar1630 Год назад

Life saver 🙏🙏🙏

@LiveOnPurposeTV Год назад

Thank you, Chynar.

@jakeniemiec8559 3 года назад

I've never been a yeller, but I did yell that last time my mom yelled at me. I guess I'm worried that I will repeat the cycle unintentionally

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

jake, you got this. Yelling is a choice and becomes a habit the more we do it. You can decide not to yell.

@chiaranath3479 4 года назад

you are awesome..thankyou

@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад

As are you, Chiara Nath. Honored to have you at Live On Purpose TV!

@MariaSantos-gm7ps 3 года назад

Thank you doc”

@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад

You are welcome.

@susanb8049 4 года назад

So I'll be trying calming methods

@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад

I'm honored you are willing to try Susan B. I hope you see results, but please be patient with it.

@Claudia-7777 2 года назад

I don’t remember being angry as a child. Parents were always working and we were very well behaved kids. Now as a mother, I find myself getting angry at my boys. My husband handles them well but when ever I try to replicate my husband it doesn’t work. And I end up being the wicked witch because they don’t listen. I feel like giving up. 🤦🏽‍♀️😭

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад

Nope, consider a membership to go.liveonpurposecentral.com.