I want to put it in my style, everybody just read my comment..you will learn more than you will learn in a lifetime through videos. Be rooted into power..power means not force but effortlessness. Example: like a mountain in the ocean..water hits you but you remain grounded.. same are the life situations and interactions. If you are spiritually powerful or free..you can play with eye contact, silence and pressure that comes with eye contact. Second..feeling the need to fill silence comes from social insecurity..means, you think you are as good as your dialogues.. feel secure in silence too..like when you are with close ones.. social security is freeing yourself from external results, validations or expectations whatever word suits you. Voice and body language fluctuate when we feel the pressure everyone must be well aware of it. If you are rooted in power.. you are able to walk slowly, talk slowly and take pauses..that's natural.. It will automatically enhance your body language and voice. Work on the cause and effect will follow. Learn charisma and charm to talk to people.. thats best..dont assume interest it can make people roll eyes on you.. Pick anything from situation to start, or the way you feel after seeing the person just vomit that respectfully..thats the best starter.. or if nothing comes up then say hi..just simple hi..clear intent.. once fear is gone..your creativity will automatically come.. there is a genuis in all of us..we just are afraid of consequences. Dont expect or do anything for result for now..results are by product if skills..focus on skill and result will come.. and be okay to lose the girl you are interacting with..then only true potential will shine out of you. Last point, in the moment of awkwardness, dont let your energy be lead by girls energy..they may at times react scared confused or will make a shit face in the very moment you stop them.. but keep penetrating your smile and intent..you will see they will join you.. if you are comfortable which is other word for confidence..they will feel calm as well.. Deliver with calmness and straight simple words..they will feel you.. dont try hard to be flashy because you will be caught. Be genuine..people will either love you or hate you..there is no in between. Last words... You learn by doing..you dont do by learning trust me..I wasted alot of time perfectioning before doing..so kuch info only confuses.. just do it and see your wisdom getting formed. thats the key. Thanks lovely folks.
As an author, I have the advantage of being able to stare at someone and maintain eye contact until they get uncomfortable and call me on it. At that point I will apologize for making them uncomfortable and tell them I was creating a scene for my next book
My wife told me one of the first things that turned her on was my eye contact. I had always held strong eye contact because it allows me to pick up on the other person's mannerisms. So I didnt think much of it until she mentioned it. She said it showed confidence and not being shady.
i think there is nothing wrong at all if some are weird awkward and shy i don't think it's a bad thing at all i think it's ok and good natural to me if some choose to be weird awkward i will admit that i love embrace being aweird awkward and shy
Yes, stare down strangers in public...that sounds like a splendid idea...lol for an attractive women that works 100% of the time. For a man, (unless you're joe millionaires or Chris Hemsworth, some literally get the cops called for stupid stuff like this. I've seen the videos and read the comments.
I would like your opinion about flirt between friends, friendzone how to get out etc big topic. My girl friends flirting with me and makes me feel awkward because at some point i like it but i don't know if its friendly or real or something else and i don't want to blow up my friendship for nothing
