How to Stop Fighting

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@2greatagents 4 года назад

When I saw the title of this video, I thought “Why is Brendon talking about fighting?”. When I finally clicked on it and watched it, I was blown away! Thank you so much for your wisdom and clarity - I really needed this today!

@namratachatterjee5691 4 года назад

"When you feel like crap, you treat people like crap."

@bubbuhsmom108 4 года назад

I am a new lifecoach on RU-vid and I love Brendan! I share these tips with my clients everytime! Conflict circle is exhaustive...I agree. I tell my clients to consider changing their energy...

@misterinternational1739 4 года назад

Learning “how to breathe” is also key - exhale for a longer time than inhaling - this will efficiently increase oxygen in your blood

@InnerVisionStudios 4 года назад

You make such a great point about how we carry so much stress in our lives that it affects our relationships. It gets vented out in the wrong places, wrong people, wrong ways. Appreciate this video Brendon

@tami_sama 4 года назад

I wish you had Spanish subs, so I can show this to my family and friends. Love you from Argentina!

@rosaelinav8036 4 года назад

Omg you are right of people’s, all I has to say when I see something like this kind of problem... I just say I came to the wrong places...an I’m gone... Now of relationship, I pray I meet someone like you.. you since to know very well and how to find the way? An how to fix a relationship and try to make things works out for the better of understanding...yes you really change people way into be understanding, and us see the things that is not acceptable and what’s is acceptable.....everything the way is should be... love my gorgeous friend 🙏

@yukomama711 4 года назад

This is exactly what I need to hear. So glad I warned this! Thank you so much.

@PortoBelo511 4 года назад

Why do I like so much to listen you? Maybe because you are teaching something to ‘real people’ not being hang in other believe systems. You talk for all who really needs to grow healthily. Excellent clarity! Thank you Brandon!

@exercisebikes3352 4 года назад

Always great tips Brendon! Thanks for sharing! I very much appreciate it!

@TheCazTrick 4 года назад

Well I got your book recently as it just popped up like I needed it! weird! this video is ace as it is just what I needed to hear right now, I'm struggling with fighting left right and centre, so again thank you.

@harithiskandar9729 4 года назад

Thank you so much Brandon

@cryrufenacht 4 года назад

So very helpful! This is an answer to prayer! I was directed to this through a text and it couldn't have come at a more perfect time!

@lovemagicandroad 4 года назад

Very wise advise. Excellently explained. You are wise beyond your years!

@tysonballard4409 4 года назад

Everything you said is things I need to work on. You basically just described my spouse and myself how our arguments don't get resolved.i need to learn to respond back instead of shutting down and having an attitude all day. I will be buying your book tomorrow, and I haven't read in years. (Much needed)

@amberleaf7 4 года назад

GOOD STUFF, Brendon.

@gloriajaramillo8053 4 года назад

I Really Love you Brendon, your work is Extraordinario!"!!!!! it has helped me sooo Much, God Bless you ALWAYS!

@PracticalInspiration 4 года назад

Fantastic share, identifying triggers has been hugely beneficial for me to control my emotions, but more importantly, feel empathy towards others

@yolandagrady7232 4 года назад

I really needed this video. Thank you!

@CabdiraxmanQoys 4 года назад

Hello my friend thank you as always I personally appreciate videos when it comes to RU-vid thank you very much

@hamsar.l11 4 года назад

Hi Brendon, just yesterday I had fought with my sister related to work. I was thinking what to do , how to resolve the issue. Today morning got your video on "How to stop fighting" ☺😇

@nanal2931 3 года назад

You are SOO good!! I thought I'm the thinker and know and can sense it lot's of tings in life, but you are better! So thank you so much and I learned a lot from you!

@MRCarter7point0 3 года назад

This is so helpful! I really appreciate your videos they help a lot! Thank you so much 🙏🏾

@wronglayerbutok 3 года назад

Thank you! I hope I can implement these in my life. This was very reassuring and relatable. Made me feel more human and not like an irritable monster!

@BCHODOSH01 4 года назад

Great video,and wonderful strategies to deal with conflict.Thank you.

@isharaperera419 4 года назад

You are reading my mind man❤❤❤ Gratitude!

@mikestanley8907 Год назад

This guy is changing my life

@noursafi9055 4 года назад

Thank you for this video Brandon

@ahmedalabady4095 4 года назад

Love you Brendon ... Keep going

@pranoymehra2150 4 года назад

Loving this episode!

@dvandervan 3 года назад

Thank you so much Brendon!!! Great points to live by. :-)

@megadragonzilla5807 3 года назад

Love this video!!!

@itsmylife8164 4 года назад

Be responsable for the energy you are protecting into the World💝

@NEKORID 4 года назад

You’re amazing man

@MissyonaMission 4 года назад

This was so helpful!

@mohamedelgerainy6613 4 года назад

Thanks Brenden for this share

@vivianvennicia 4 года назад

Thanks man.

@arescue 4 года назад

Great video, really good content.

@noursafi9055 4 года назад

I m one of those people who cannot stop this bad habit 😕😕 I took notes from this video and I will try my best to make it work

@RahulKumar-ik3sn 4 года назад

Hi Brendon I absolutely love your work but can you please make a video on how to create a burning desire..plz...plz

@Drum3Matrix 4 года назад

What! No you wouldn't suck to get into an argument with, Brendon! One day I hope I am able to argue with you because I would learn SO much about how to think right by paying attention to your angels and approach.

@larasmith1022 3 года назад

🦋love your book 📖 stress is killer

@HoneyBunnyOnline 3 года назад

I need this

@Mushroom321- 4 года назад

Yes, Well said! Relatable.. So much nodding . 😁 Yes, interruptions are a trigger.. however with some other friends,in their culture It's not considered an interuption... 😃

@nua.h2757 4 года назад

I like your talk and i shared with the people i know 😊

@aliraza-eq3if 4 года назад

exactly brendon it happens with me.

@nisoouertani59 4 года назад

4 advices, done! start working on it..

@motivationweightloss34 4 года назад

I lost it recently. This is spot on.

@stacyhaynes4832 4 года назад

Subscribed!

@sadiaswr 4 года назад

Breathe and hold

@Mushroom321- 4 года назад

YeS!, "it's about managing ur state of being. " 😼 " challenge to be the generous one. "Have them have their pts. Go first." Realize people have their conflict styles & to work with them together. 🤔👏 meet in the middle . Yep.. Yes, I was thinking of somebody , I have challenges with..

@SkineBread1 4 года назад

I need the background music.

@ryanng754 4 года назад

better just think operating hour mean a lot to the worker who said i only doing my work not here for listening complain about what is done, you have to think of working hour is what actually.

@jesstiss222 4 года назад

Letting everyone have their “passionate “ “style” in some cases translates into allowing inappropriately aggressive and/or abusive treatment! That should NOT be tolerated. But then the question is, how to help the aggressive person see that and how to somehow work toward a healthy relationship? Yes, certainly therapy would be a huge help but I still need tools to help GET to that step.

@TheCazTrick 4 года назад

I will say some people wont ever change no matter what. So you apply these ideas and/or get them to watch the video aswell and nothing at all changes in them, remove them from your life.

@buddhaneosiddhananda8499 2 года назад

If there is any conflict you need to end the relationship...

@annakhylnn1643 2 года назад

Do you need help I will help you it's worked out for me what'spp me 👇

@ellaawang2679 4 года назад

Can a 16+ year old student takes hpx optimized?

@queenofthorns4053 4 года назад

How can I eliminate my son's father presence when he's dying and stressing me out the F out?

@yaronamitai2490 4 года назад

Do you believe life should be taken as a game? Because on one hand it makes life less serious and it helps you focus on your goals. But on the other hand it leads to rejecting compassion and putting your wants above the need of others and you become selfish and manipulative. Please share your thoughts

@krish.5823 2 года назад

It's better not to talk!

@abdulmohsin23101982 4 года назад

Out of context but wondering why are you wearing a watch :)

@charmedprince 4 года назад

I am a perfectionist, so you better believe me when I say I have fight with everyone everyday! *Also, I had a rough childhood. I had to be perfect for everyone, and I always was forced to be number 1. Second best was never an option for me growing up. I grew up to be a neat freak and anyone underperforming is a trigger for me. It put me in a position of control. But I am learning to be more forgiving. But I still expect everyone to be at my level because if I can, why can't they?

@JackyTMusic 4 года назад

Man this video made me wanna fight Brendan.. but i know his love and pragmatism would overwhelm me into passivity As someone with Primary hypogonadism, youre spot on homie.. the struggle with hormone imbalance is real