i actually love u, i never thought i could love my body or live a good life in it, i thought it was just over for me unless i got surgery or something lmfao, especially with sex! finding content like urs has motivated me to have a better relationship with my body sooo muchhhh, i truly believe i can be free and happy and take this world by storm
pls you have no idea how happy that makes me!! but i definitely rate, i never thought i'd have a life (yet alone a love life) until i got lipo and/or got skinny. i'm so happy ur learning that you don't need to change your body to live your life or be happy. sending u all my love
What makes me feel more comfortable is not showing my face... and having a neutral background that could be anyones home. I just think that if they ever got leaked/shared then there's no proof the photo is actually me you know?
oh i completely understand! i'm in a long-term committed relationship and even though i trust my partner completely, part of me is super paranoid my phone will get hacked somehow so i feel uncomfortable taking nudes with my face in them!
When I was 15 and had my pictures shared about, an experience like that really makes you not want to bring yourself down to a level where you can be exploited, some men can be creepy and anyone could easily see something you posted on social media no matter how long ago, I just want other women to stay safe, if you're going to do it, do it for art, stay anonymous, don't post thirst traps
Hi dear, I'm so sorry u are going through this.... does this happen at ur school? If it does, have u already asked for help ? I hope there's a way of u get heard and be protected ♡ You are not alone , sending love from Brazil ♡
Call me "basic", but you shouldn't deal with that kind of people. I personally would ignore them, like if they doesn't exist. It may be hard for you because they will be saying things still, but... idk, that way they will feel something. Believe me, i have been being bullied since i was 6 years, it works.
Oh man, I feel that. I started developing boobs at 11 ... i was wearing the same clothes i wore when i was ten, was not behaving differently yet all of a sudden these were "wrong" and i was being objectified. I am so sorry. I'm 24 now and only now starting to feel more comfortable again. I wish I could tell you more on how to deal with these things, but I really cant? I think for me it really helped finding a circle of feminist and queer friends and experiencing respectful sexualization with my boyfriend (as is he asks kindly, doesnt pressure me, sees me for more than just "boobs and ass" yet also desires me if context allows) but for a really long time I had - and honestly still have - a lets say weird relationship with my body and sexuality. This may just be me but reading into feminist theory and media analysis also helped me? I saw a lot of other strong women working against a system, analyzing and questioning it and it made me feel less out of place. I am now doing my masters in Game Studies and it still gets rough some times given that well ... video games are so male dominated. But I am trying to go into academia (I know ...) and I would love to contribute to feminist theories and open them up more to video games ^^ For now know: Its not you. Its them. Theres nothing wrong with you and I am certain you are so much more than just that body. Focus on your hobbies and strenght and rather pull confidence out of that.
How is it that u keep uploading things that nail my current "body acceptance and love journey" state?? Thank u for talking about this, sending u love 💖
this is the stuff that gets me through the day. It reminds me that i am beautiful no matter my size or weight or appearance. i love this and all of your other videos you create. this was so fun to watch and the editing was really awesome, good work!! video suggestions: room tour gaining confidence while getting back to school, when you were able to expose yourself more on social media during the summer but now how going back to peers can be hard? ideas for distractions when negative thoughts come into brain I LOVE YOU SM KEEP SMILING CAUSE ITS REALLY NICE TO WATCH YOU LAUGH (not in a creepy way lol 😳✋)
Thank you! I’ve been thinking about this lately. I wanted to expose myself on the Reddit /normal nudes but I am worried about somebody else copying or circulating my photos on the internet, or getting doxxed. I wish we had more control over our information and what gets out there so I am more careful about it. I also don’t share with people I like because I have heard of websites where men search for and post women from their home town. Granted, it’s more targeted at the popular girls from high school. But still I generally don’t trust that they will delete the photos or show other people, etc. I do respect the courage of women posting on Instagram but I just don’t understand how you deal with all the comments or the potential stalkers.
Loved this video!! ❤️ for possible video ideas, maybe like a story time on how you learned to love your body and accept it for how it is? I know you mentioned your relationship and finding someone you trust helped you, but do you have any other advice for people who may be struggling to accept their bodies?
most social media apps have an option to send a picture and it will erase itself after the person saw that (it doesn't let you save it or take screenshots either)
Same I am 26, I can't believe I'm a few years older than Jessica and I still look like a doll because of my petite body and facial structure, I wish I had a more adult body
I hate myself so much I feel like I’m not worth of being loved I have a crush on someone and we often flirt but I feel like i‘m to fat to deserve her :(
I love your perspective on the male gaze… sometimes I feel like even my perspective is heavily influenced by what men like. Does this make sense? I’m not a lesbian or bisexual. I was “bi-curious” for a portion of my life (sexual only, not dating). I’m not sure if my admiration for women has been pigeon holed by the patriarchy.
No. I used it perfectly and I'm perfectly capable of forming sentences or doing anything else on my own. I'm a fully grown man I don't require a bunch of drooling simps or big daddy government or mommy and daddy exct exct to make my way. Have fun with your nude selfie experimentation. Yikes.
