How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks by Leil Lowndes

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How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks by Leil Lowndes
If you want to learn how to talk to anyone, then here are 92 little tricks by Leil Lowndes. You can use these 92 little tricks for Big Success in Relationships, in business, to attract someone you like, or to make new friends. Learning how to talk to anyone is important because first impression matters. This animated book summary will also help you learn how to improve your social skills and communications.
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@PositivelyBrainwashed 8 лет назад

Thanks everyone for all the support. I asked for 200 likes and you guys gave me over 7000. If Part 2 reaches 50,000 views I will make a part 3. Part 2 ► ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Osp20p7mHLw.html And if you like these videos then subscribe and hit the little bell button to get notifications for my next upload

@Siel-bm7gx 7 лет назад

great content .

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Siel8387 Thanks!

@acearbolado8588 7 лет назад

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@qwerfdsa591 7 лет назад

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@krishnaganeshgudi3098 7 лет назад

Positively Brainwashed waiting for part 2

@erinsmith9625 7 лет назад

Not breaking eye contact at all can be intimidating, so it's recommended to rather make eye contact around 80% of the time and casually looking elsewhere for 20% of the time.

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

I would agree with this. Although it also depends if you're looking at a business partner or coworker, your partner, or just a friend.

@Hazy4oo 2 года назад

Especially if you have a angry or boring face like me

@mellowInventor 2 года назад

@@Hazy4oo find an improv group to join! You can train your facial muscles and become more aware of your facial expression to soften it. It will take quite some years (I started acting in fourth grade and had drama class in 8th and 9th grade, have done HS/community theater plays) and I still struggle with eye contact, but yesterday I held eye contact with a random stranger for a solid 10 seconds. I definitely felt uncomfortable but she didn't look uncomfortable so that was weird but interesting.

@Hazy4oo 2 года назад

@@mellowInventor i started making longer eye contact with random people started alot of conversations i just feel like i’m on pause till someone says something

@mellowInventor 2 года назад

@@Hazy4oo technically that's completely normal. Have you ever locked eyes with a wild animal? There's conditional logic that gets evaluated by both minds, including triggering of fight-or-flight responses, predator/prey behavior, mimic/territorial behavior, etc.

@3squ1l0 7 лет назад

"Don't take this the wrong way, but you look ravishing." hahaha I'm not using that one

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

It's more about the delivery :) Believe it or not, it can work

@BatterflyHigh 7 лет назад

THANK YOU. Please don't... for some reason it sounds like you're going to cannibalize us.

@BatterflyHigh 7 лет назад

I know that's illogical, but it just sounds so creepy.

@alfieflowers8738 7 лет назад

dont take this the wrong way, but you look pulchritudinous

@redhot663 7 лет назад

The first time I met my husband, he said I was amorous. Obviously worked lol.

@dizzyiguana981 7 лет назад

men:(stares at the other) other men:"who the fuck u staring at?"

@jefenstein7694 7 лет назад

FRIES KILLER 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@jacksonjoestar5035 6 лет назад

She covered this in the book.

@Andy-lj9pr 3 года назад

Summary: 1)Flooding smile 2)Sticky eyes 3)Epoxy eyes 4)Posture (hang by your teeth) 5)Treat new people like old friends 6)Limit fidgeting 7)Read people's body language 8)Visualize/practice interactions 9)Match moods 10)Non verbal > Verbal ques 11)Wear something unique 12)Eaves drop for conversation starters 13)Limit your one word answers 14)Be a word detective 15)Focus on other person 16)Parroting 17)Raise people up with positive stories 18)Listen to news before an event 19)How do you spend most of your time? 20)Use unique words for compliments 21)Delay the me too with common interests 22)Comm-you-nication 23)Exclusive smile 24)Use unique cliches (I found 1, 4, 5, 6, 7, 9, 13, 15, 17, and 19 the most useful)

@rayboyce300 Год назад

Thank you for your insights I appreciate you

@canislupus2661 8 лет назад

Just found your video on reddit. Great stuff, man. I have this book on my kindle for 3 years but havent touched it. Youre saving us all a lot of work. Thanks, and please continue :

@PositivelyBrainwashed 8 лет назад

Thanks! And that's kinda funny. Glad I could be of use

@bbman10pwns 8 лет назад

Enjoyed the tips but had to power through the music. My critique would be: please choose something less monotonous in the future.

@PositivelyBrainwashed 8 лет назад

Unfortunately it's really hard to please everyone. But thanks for the feedback, I will take it into consideration.

@bbman10pwns 8 лет назад

+Positively Brainwashed you don't have to please everyone. just maybe look into some creative commons music or something.

@PositivelyBrainwashed 8 лет назад

What would I search for within creative commons? I really can't think of any type of music where no one would be complaining.

@bbman10pwns 8 лет назад

+Positively Brainwashed quite literally anything but 10 seconds of stock music looping, like you have currently

@Schpinki 8 лет назад

Your music is fine and it's not the point of the videos. As someone who understands the difficulties in putting together a video like this, it looks great. You can't please everyone, move on with your day, the videos are awesome.

@DennisEirLim 7 лет назад

If someone called me ravishing I would start eyeing the exits

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

DenkiDesu You look ravishing

@PracticalPsychologyTips 8 лет назад

Awesome video! I love your style

@PositivelyBrainwashed 8 лет назад

Thanks! Appreciate hearing that from you. Big fan yours :)

@winonadaphne6445 5 лет назад

holy thank you for summarising it i'm 2 hrs into the audiobook and the long winded stories and out of date scenarios are so exhausting to listen to

@PositivelyBrainwashed 5 лет назад

No problem lol. Glad to help

@Perryhartley 7 лет назад

Yeah because "you look ravishing" always gets the pum pum moist 😂

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

How did I miss this comment? 😊

@hemnhemnhemnhemn8059 2 года назад

how?

@Erika-pq7ip 4 года назад

I just finished reading that book and I quite liked it . The tips are practical helpful and the mini stories included show that the tips are valid and legit 😊 Some of these make me feel fake if I ever use them but fake it until you make it 🤣

@MainKick2000 7 лет назад

this video is so straight to the point and clear.. keep up this amazing work bro!

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Thanks appreciate it

@kgpgirish49 3 года назад

Dear Sir,very happy seeing such a wonderful presentation of ideas in brief.Loved it eager to see part 2.Thanks a lot.Plz make more videos

@creativejuicebyloni 6 лет назад

Thank you for sharing this: I learned a few things and will now have to find the book!

@azizaben7863 7 лет назад

I finished the audio version of This book but This animated vidéo sums It all. Thx

@bayargelenkhuu2933 7 лет назад

Dear Positively Brainwashed, I am very happy that there are people who make amazing videos like this. I really loved it and watched your other videos as well. I am glad that I am your new subscriber and looking forward to have more new videos as well as part 2 of this.Thank you so much for your help to make this world more positive.

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

This is one of the best and most uplifting comments I have ever read. You have no idea how much a comment like this means to me. Thanks for taking the time to write it 😄

@christopherarendt3531 7 лет назад

After reading this, I re-read my comment "A greatly appreciated treasure trove for this INTP!" and realized what's wrong with my conversation - I often relay what I mean without implying that the other person's reaction is important.

@kgpgirish49 3 года назад

Super

@andrija_mihalic 3 года назад

Btw, Positively Brainwashed, you have chosen a fantastic name for your RU-vid channel and an amazing channel icon!!

@dogguyful 2 года назад

Awesome thanks for breaking the book down👌👌👍👍🙏🙏

@PowerHeart999 6 лет назад

Awesome video!

@kencowie7627 7 лет назад

excellent I will watch your videos again

@Schpinki 8 лет назад

I love your videos man. This was my first one but as someone who is in a sales type business with a mostly introverted personality, your tips are really helpful to me. Keep 'em coming!

@PositivelyBrainwashed 8 лет назад

Thanks really appreciate that. Wait until I make videos on persuasion that specifically focuses on different personality types comes out. Different techniques, like if you watch my 25 cognitive bias videos work more effectively on different personality types. And the big thing a lot of sales people have difficulty with, is closing or persuading people with opposite personality types as them.

@Schpinki 8 лет назад

Just curious, do you have a background in behavioral psychology or something similar? Is this a hobby or career for you? Info is fantastic and easily digestible so the time it must have taken to compile such info must have been significant.

@PositivelyBrainwashed 8 лет назад

I have a major in psychology and computer science. So I've studied everything from social, neuro, cognitive and behavioral. While I don't have a career in psychology, it's my favourite subject. I'm also passionate about sales. Right now you can say this a hobby with a dream of it being a career someday.

@Schpinki 8 лет назад

I'd say you're headed in the right direction and your degrees seem tailor made. I really appreciate the videos, great info and easy to digest format. Don't mind the minor criticisms, everyone has an opinion on the internet.

@PositivelyBrainwashed 8 лет назад

I really appreciate your comment :) But I love the minor criticisms. You're watching my latest work. But if you look at my earlier videos, you'd see a big difference in quality. Criticism is what allows me to improve. I think the worst thing for a creator is to get no results and no feedback to draw from

@seth4321 7 лет назад

I really enjoyed this. Incredible content and TERRIFIC delivery and animations. Thank you!

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Thank you. Hope you enjoy the second part just as much, using a newer style of animation

@mohdshahnawaz3864 3 года назад

Absolutely loved this video. Thank you so much for this valuable information mate. Lots of love from an Australian 🇦🇺😀

@PositivelyBrainwashed 3 года назад

Glad to hear. You're very welcome!

@erikarenataorban5072 7 лет назад

This video was very useful for me. Thank you for your efforts making it!!😊😁

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Renata Orban You're welcome, hope you enjoy part 2 just as much

@richardsrensen4219 7 лет назад

many things to learn here i love to learn new positive habits

@dizzyblizzy3468 7 лет назад

gread video, i learned a lot! please make a video on the other tricks as well, i would really apprciate it!

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Just released the second part yesterday, hope you enjoy it.

@jessiepoirier8962 8 лет назад

Your videos are getting better and better!

@PositivelyBrainwashed 8 лет назад

Thanks very encouraging to hear :)

@irenekamal4786 4 года назад

Thank You!

@crosswire7777 7 лет назад

Avoid talking about being a fucking vegan

@adrianb2232 7 лет назад

crosswire7777 IM VEGAAAAN

@limon2796 7 лет назад

crosswire7777 why

@Zoey0407 7 лет назад

crosswire7777 I agree, it makes people uncomfortable meeting someone who is actually living according to their own values.

@morganthem 7 лет назад

Zoey0407 no it's true. I'm pretty sure i can make anybody anywhere at anytime uncomfortable if i want by just talking about animal cruelty. It's like a minor superpower.

@rebecaacuevasa 7 лет назад

Avoid talking about how you ignore cruelty and the leading cause of global warming just for the taste.

@yvesx4x 6 лет назад

Thanks for the video! 😊😊

@PositivelyBrainwashed 6 лет назад

You're welcome

@servantrose 7 лет назад

thank you for posting

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

And thank you for commenting :)

@aimalkhan9610 7 лет назад

Great book. Worth reading. Currently reading part 4 and keeping notes in my phone

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Thanks, glad you enjoyed. Although you just made realize the link to my book in the descriptions is my old version. This is the link to my latest version. www.smashwords.com/books/view/633466

@aimalkhan9610 7 лет назад

I already have the book in pdf. Update the link in descriptions for others. It's a book worth reading

@villanelle1896 2 года назад

My favorite book now, currently on part three 😁

@SimplyJeet 8 лет назад

No way! I bought the book 3 days ago then I saw this video

@RICKYDUVALL 8 лет назад

Nice, very informative and useful! Great job!

@PositivelyBrainwashed 8 лет назад

Thanks really appreciate that :)

@rosewalsh5444 7 лет назад

Excellent.. Your a well rounded knowledgeable chap.. You will definitely be sort after.. Keep going.

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Appreciate that Rose Walsh and thanks for the motivation 😀

@andrewsilver2611 7 лет назад

Where have these videos been all my life?

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Well what matters is now you've found them 😊

@alex.sand1r 4 года назад

Subscribed!

@giulijuls6424 7 лет назад

I just found this video through RU-vid suggestions. It is full of little wisdom pills! I just subscribed to your channel. Continue your adventure: bravo and thanks from Italy! :)

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Thanks so so much! I made this 6 months ago, and currently working on the 2nd part

@RusticB 8 лет назад

Nice video, man!!!! Love it! I want to do more motivationally positive videos, as well..

@PositivelyBrainwashed 8 лет назад

Thanks, looking for it! 👍

@VictorFoote01 8 лет назад

Awesome work man. One of my favorite books :)

@PositivelyBrainwashed 8 лет назад

I can tell :) I've watched all your videos

@rosaliemarie4620 7 лет назад

thank you

@joeboyd8702 7 лет назад

I enjoyed watching this.

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Thanks Rick, glad you enjoyed it

@ksatriasufentonto6959 6 лет назад

Most fascinating to me is how many of these tricks creep me out.

@RoseNoho 5 лет назад

That eye glue one would really creep me out, especially if it was a man I just met.

@negativelybrainwashed6755 8 лет назад

I hate life and nobody likes talking to me :(

@sirliridon.4419 7 лет назад

Negatively Brainwashed hey bro

@negativelybrainwashed6755 7 лет назад

+Stay Skeptic Leave me Alone

@syedazahid8953 7 лет назад

Negatively Brainwashed Same here

@R.G.962 7 лет назад

Says nobody likes talking to me and then said leave me alone. Logic.

@AlGhifari7 7 лет назад

Negatively Brainwashed hi

@Vishplus 3 года назад

Thanks a lot I wan going to buy this book but you've saved my money 😁and time 🙏

@PositivelyBrainwashed 3 года назад

Haha, well you're very welcome then 😊

@Neo-wv1om 5 лет назад

Im definitly buying this book thank you for this video

@PositivelyBrainwashed 5 лет назад

You're welcome :)

@shaymsourav304 3 года назад

Ok i am gonna try this methodes ☺

@henryzepeda1159 6 лет назад

Good . Trying to use new words here

@wonthangsoop 7 лет назад

Won't watch the video....because the book is SO good, I can read it 100+ times!

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

No problem with that. It's just some people don't have the time, or don't like reading :)

@licker5 6 лет назад

Very effective. D.

@azizaben7863 7 лет назад

heyy thanks a lot for ur efforts :) can u Please make a video on this book "You are a badass "?

@martyg8137 7 лет назад

I always wondered why people responded badly when I see "me too". It all makes sense now! cheers.

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Me too!

@martyg8137 7 лет назад

;)

@bitesizepsychology4099 7 лет назад

thnx

@marknowrans7499 8 лет назад

Haha I like the eaves dropping one.

@PositivelyBrainwashed 8 лет назад

It's a very easy way to enter group conversations. It can get awkward for the first few seconds, but after a minute, no one will even remember how you entered.

@AE-is4rj 7 лет назад

"Can you tell me where the closest restaurant is?" Is the correct sentence though! But thanks for the useful video!

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

You're welcome :)

@AE-is4rj 7 лет назад

Positively Brainwashed 😉

@globaltrotter7830 7 лет назад

worth watching...gonna read this book :)

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Thanks for feedback! 😊 The book is a classic

@onestephigher5045 8 лет назад

enter peoples world before you bring them to yours,.. I tried that man but they didn't like my version of middle earth. good vibes, keep it up!

@PositivelyBrainwashed 8 лет назад

Thanks always appreciate the support from you :) But what exactly do you mean by middle earth in this context?

@onestephigher5045 8 лет назад

+Positively Brainwashed my weird world 😁 oh yeah. make sure you put my name there like 50 times. I want that book 😜. take it easy man

@ynoter 7 лет назад

very powerful im getting the book now tnx

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Thanks for feed back. This book is a classic :)

@charlessmith1718 7 лет назад

+Positively Brainwashed I buyed this book and walked away while everyone in the bookstore were looking at me. However, reading this book was like talking to the most interesting person in the world.

@Princessofthelake 7 лет назад

I really like this. I wish people skills were covered in school

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Thanks Lynnelle. Hope you enjoy part 2 as well that's finally coming in 2-3 days 😊

@RAPLEESTYLE 4 года назад

So this quite help , i think.

@Maraldehghani 2 года назад

I want one of those books😁

@mariaunuzeta7131 Год назад

#10 so important

@celine.nm888 7 лет назад

idk but i feel fake when doing that, don't you think?

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

That feeling is natural whenever you do anything in life outside your comfort zone. So like most things when you do something long enough it can become natural. Humans are dynamic beings. Your personality, skills and experiences today may not be the same as when you were younger.

@enderzebak2863 5 лет назад

Therex a saying "fake it till u make it"

@jdc4316 4 года назад

ender z dead straight

@fotpjusto457 11 дней назад

I’m watching this video knowing darn well I don’t want to talk to anyone.

@Milonimbus 7 лет назад

Lovedddd yhis

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Thanks Mikey, appreciate the feedback :)

@ZOD4 7 лет назад

Your voice is adorable.

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Thank you! Haha some can't stand it.

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Thanks!

@supersurya2364 2 года назад

Sir please change the font colour.. red is not clear enough on blue.. try white or any light colour..

@tejastamrakar4479 7 лет назад

hi make this kind of video i will watch your all video

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Thanks for you the feedback Tejas.

@orangeshoes 7 лет назад

i have read her book! (:

@charlessmith1718 7 лет назад

Spotlight technique of Brian Tracy WORKS.

@sidVargas949 2 года назад

Mr Tracy knows his sales techniques! I would love an opportunity to watch him give a live talk someday. But hes got Plenty great videos online!

@Rivka45 7 лет назад

married 3 times: Ross Geller xD

@lancebriggs3404 8 лет назад

So I should dress up as batman to get the ladies? Haha nice video man

@PositivelyBrainwashed 8 лет назад

Nobody can resist Batman

@roboliver623 8 лет назад

Just became the 150th like...

@PositivelyBrainwashed 8 лет назад

Wow thanks so much. Lol I really didn't expect to hit 200 anytime in the month as I have never passed 100.... This video took me like 20 hours of editing. I guess I got a lot of work on my shoulders...

@saivickyccharancherry7731 6 лет назад

Hii Did gave ur book to any one else????

@ThePiko800 7 лет назад

5:12 Thanks for clearing up if he's dead or not👍

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Hehehe, you're funny

@ThePiko800 7 лет назад

Positively Brainwashed lol

@Suggaz 7 лет назад

How am I going to remember all of these tips?!

@katromero4456 7 лет назад

Right?!?!

@capkarr 7 лет назад

I'm in sales....this really really helps

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Glad it helped. More videos related to sales will be coming in the near future :)

@dannydg1985 7 лет назад

Nice video, you have a good voice for this! Is there a part 2 for this book yes?

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Working on it as I write this, Expect it in 2-3 days.

@dannydg1985 7 лет назад

Awesome, i'll keep an eye out, thank you :)

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

It's out now incase you haven't seen it :)

@dannydg1985 7 лет назад

Positively Brainwashed sweet thanks for letting me know!

@Jaxonstek 2 года назад

Hopefully this is going to help me talk to a girl in school that I like…

@thebestbondeva 6 лет назад

very helpful videos. thank you for making it so simple to understand. please can you make similar videos on "how to make someone fall in love with you ", by Leil Lowndes.

@ChillMrShade 7 лет назад

cool video

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Thanks Brian

@philg4678 3 года назад

was there a part II?

@PositivelyBrainwashed 3 года назад

Yes there's a part 2 and 3

@ramborai7127 7 лет назад

Hi bro thanks for support

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

You're welcome, but support for what? 😊

@GAVIN9419 7 лет назад

So I tried the "You look ravishing" and lets just say it didnt go to well.

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

There's many other factors involved when approaching someone. The situation, your body language, her mood, your angle of approach, tone voice how sincere you were, if you said a pre-frame or not and so on.

@yutaluv9068 7 лет назад

Gavin Hanson yeah, I wouldn't use that phrase again.. To ravish literally means to passionately make love to someone. It's a phrase for your partner, not good for an acquaintance you want to like you.

@nicoleryan197 3 года назад

Sweet video! Is it still worth reading the book after watching this video?

@PositivelyBrainwashed 3 года назад

It's really up to you on how much detail you want.

@crisrobles3425 7 лет назад

I think #29 is ironic. Doing that would actually make me feel fake, and if I saw someone else do that, I would feel as if they are fake.

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

How would you know if a person doing it was faking it? People naturally do this all the time. There's often someone ina group we like more than the rest and are more happy to greet.

@WolfJulia2001 7 лет назад

lmfao wtf are #29 and #30??? the rest are super good, thank you for the video. Personally I wouldn't compliment someone by changing the word, instead I think it's more charismatic to say it differently altogether.

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

#29 is good when you're in an environment like in a party where you have to shake a lot of people's hands. Someone might notice you're just giving the same smile each time and might think it's fake. As for #30, the examples I used were the same from the book. The book is a little outdated, but I was hoping you get the concept :)

@WolfJulia2001 7 лет назад

Positively Brainwashed ahhh thank you for noticing me ❤❤ and true, that makes more sense for 29, I remember times where my likes for someone decreased when I realized they were did the same thing to everyone else lol

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

You're welcome Juliet 😊 Glad you found the video helpful

@gerRule 7 лет назад

Juliet You look ravishing ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

@katarinaklits8025 7 лет назад

Did anyone else think of Ross Geller at 22? 😂

@wazgoin6926 4 года назад

Many points to note...idk what are the main ones😂

@PositivelyBrainwashed 4 года назад

Depends what matters to you, and what you personally find useful given your personality and goals.

@BEPPEJHA 7 лет назад

i like this videos, researching how to be nice etc but then i think :"why have I to do all the stuff, when will other people use those tips on me?"

@annileta6541 7 лет назад

22 997 subs.... after almost a year! Wow

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

23,039, that's always behind 😊 Gonna aim for 30,000 by my birthday in 13 days

@roboliver623 8 лет назад

I have an issue with talking to people and they NEVER reciprocate and ask about you...It gives me the impression that they don't like me , thus, I don't care to talk to them again. For instance I will talk to someone for ten minutes and they won't ask about how my summer was or what I did over the weekend. It's al ME, me me....

@PositivelyBrainwashed 8 лет назад

It's difficult to asses anything without me getting to know you. It could just be your environment and the types of people who live there. But one of the best things tips I've learned from my mentors is to occasionally ask people I know 3 strengths and 3 weaknesses about myself and to be honest. Most of the time, people will be very surprised with the weaknesses they hear.

@gedr7664 8 лет назад

I find myself in the same situation, and honestly most of the time its because they are either socially inept, too self-centred or they just don't care about you. If they don't reciprocate your questions and it becomes a one sided conversation, make an excuse that you need to go and start talking to someone else. There is no point trying to become friends with someone who is not interested in you. If they are, they will talk to you in the future, but that is rare. You could also try to turn this into a game where you try to find out the most about the other person without disclosing anything about yourself, it's hilarious how much people are willing to talk about themselves, yet at the same time annoying/sad. Best of luck!

@PositivelyBrainwashed 8 лет назад

I agree most people you meet will mostly care about themselves. But I have grown to accept this over time and really don't let this ruin my life. Like you said, you can just move on to the next if they're being overly selfish. But I do believe in the law of average. If you keep meeting new people, you'll eventually meet others who'll respect you as their equal, or even look up to you.

@unlikev4n310 6 лет назад

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@PositivelyBrainwashed 6 лет назад

Logan from X-man? Pretty sure I made this video before the movie, but you're welcome :)

@unlikev4n310 6 лет назад

No lol i meant the song "logan you are my hero" LOgan paul thx for reply LOve you channel

@PositivelyBrainwashed 6 лет назад

I see and thanks. I'll be back soon to work on the part 3 incase you're wondering :)

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@WastingtimeInc 7 лет назад

You are Breautiful!

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Thranks!

@bodenkree7053 7 лет назад

the eye contact thing is so difficult for me to execute. I just can't keep eye contact for long at all and I find myself looking away so often whether I'm talking or listening. This leads to people assuming that I'm lying or I'm not interested but that isn't the case, I just find it extremely uncomfortable to look into someone's eyes for a certain amount of time, I mean, obviously I look into their eyes, yes but to keep that contact? I look away seconds after. This also applies to the close people within my circle. Can someone give me some advice on this? because I just don't get it

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Here a few simple tricks. First practice eye contact on yourself daily! Whenever you're brushing your teeth, look at your eyes for a few minutes. Then next start practicing on strangers when you walk by them. I'd add a smile as well. Start with a 0.5 seconds eye contact and smile, then slowly over time increase it. Then start practicing with real people and again start with just 0.5 second eye contacts and work your way up.

@bodenkree7053 7 лет назад

Positively Brainwashed thank you for replying so quickly, my gosh!haha I have no problem looking at myself tbh I do it all the time 😂 I'm super vain in that sense but to look into other peoples eyes for a certain period of time? I find too uncomfortable however the odd times that I do try my hardest to keep eye contact, I feel like I'm making awkward facials? idk. but the rest oof what you said, I'm totally going to give a try 😀 thanks so much!

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Fast replying is what I do 😊 Another thing is play around with distance. It's much easier to give eye contact the the further away you are.

@bodenkree7053 7 лет назад

Positively Brainwashed Its a nice change lol ok but what about during situations such as interviews or meetings? things like this wouldn't give you much distance from the person you're speaking/listening to. Even things as simple as standing at the check out of a store (this is a prime example of my problem as it happens EVERY SINGLE TIME lol) I'm standing at a check out asking to buy something, for example making an order at a restaurant, the whole time I'm ordering, i, from start to finish, focus solely on the menu board (acting as if I'm reading out what I'm ordering which I'm usually not) that's just my defense as a means to not look at them. so how would one go about this when you don't have much of a distance between you and the person your talking/listening to? ps, sorry about the long replies

@PositivelyBrainwashed 7 лет назад

Of course there are situations you can't stand far. I'm simply suggesting you come up with a progression to work your way towards giving eye contact at the proper distance and duration.