How To Turn Around ANY Rejection 

“She Didn’t reject you, she reject the opener. She doesn’t know you”. Well said. Understanding this instills confidence when approaching.

Todd: Tree dog T-shirt Building with a pizza under the seaboard and the fish's pyjamas Girl: *Pants drop* 4:50

A genius makes a complicated topic (game, intergender dynamics & interactions) simple. This is exactly what Todd is doing here

Todd is a certified verbal mechanic.

By popular demand. This is one of the most fun and satisfying skills in game, and it will help you sleep with those hot girls who give you the blasé... but the fundamentals of having good overall game are still far more important overall, so try to focus your energy on your GOOD sets rather than heavily on turning your bad ones around. It's better and easier to just do a good job from the start and have nothing to correct.

I look at rejection as a motivation. A lot of guys sees rejection as a bad thing. Men needs to realize that women are opportunist. They're always looking for the best possible outcome to best suit them, that's why 99.99% of women date multiple guys and so men always needs to date multiple women so that way, you're not putting all your attention on one person.

The lawn mower analogy is perfect for opening/hooking a set.

I don't get rejected she just has bad taste 😉

Definitely gotta be one of your best, most useful videos, fantastic. A lot of practical advice and a bit of mind frame adjustment. Only thing I would consider adding is actually skimming through a list of different emotions you can pull on your first opener, along with one example for each. Would make it easier for beginners to understand what you mean. Anyway, love it! Thank you.

The lawn mower metaphor was spot on, thanks for the video and keep up with the good work Todd!

Not quite that easy: she may not just be rejecting your opener, she might not find you at all attractive.

Best advice I’ve had, ever. Great view of opening. Thank you Todd.

man, your words are gold. keep doing this great work!

the worst feeling is to be rejected. But to turn it around and hold your integrity intact you just have to walk away. Nice Video Todd

make a video of how to hit on girls that you already know.

Great video as always Todd. Iall keep my fingers crossed

Worst rejection I had was "errr no thanks" 🙈😂

Todd V ... you are easily the top 5 baddest ass dudes I've never met. Your ability to swiftly and pithily pick logic out from any circumstance and turn it into actionable insight is unfathomably immense. I'm quite impressed. I hope one day to meet you.

Hey Todd, you know what the best lawnmower is? A push-pull.

"We've all kind of been there" That is literally me with every conversation I've ever attempted with women.

Thanks Todd simplicity. Great work

YOU ARE ABSOLUTE BEAST TODD AND I KNOW THAT YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE AWESOME LOVE YOU!!! Wow that was emotional but yee todd rules

Just subscribed to your channel. i have watched few of your clips. You have got GEMS mate.

Thank you Todd, you've helped me more than other coaches

Thank goodness you're still around to guide us lost souls, Todd...Hope to learn from you in person someday!

I really liked this about trying different approaches. often times I think I'm really quick to say something, and I could get a positive reaction, but I'm quick to just move on instead of digging deeper. thanks!

Dude wtf... what youre describing at 1:55 legit happened to me yesterday. I sat down next to this girl on the train and during the train ride the train stopped for no reason. I took my earbuds out and she took her headphone off one of her ears a split second after... kinda like how a friend would do if they were expecting you to say something. I said to her "did you hear any announcements", she replied with a pretty unenthusiastic"They said they're waiting for a signal". That was it. I didn't say anything else and just sat there watching netflix on my ipad until it was my stop. Feels bad man, I dont want to make excuses for myself, but maybe I would have done better if the carriage wasn't full of people and dead silent. I told myself I was gonna ask for her instagram one stop before I got off, just to practice putting myself out there. Bitched out of that one as well... I still have a lot of work to do.

1. Instigate: a reaction is better than none 2. Do not do what didn't work before 3. Understand what works, and what didn't.

Valuable!Thanks Todd!

Laughing after every 'rejection of your approach method and congruency' is my best bet. Thanks Todd

Todd is black magic.

Really great video, thank you so much

Clear, efficient, value-packed & no bullshit dating advice. Is this real life?

Awesome vid Todd, honestly. Btw, when you mentioned switching the ways of talking, how many are there? Like jokes, trust & cocky things. Not the ones in pants.

Your videos come up on my feed at such a convenient time😭💯 literally just failed a shit test now I'm sorta dealing with a rejection. But ayy Great stuff Todd!!!👌🐺

Great video as always! What a shame we lost Todds Backup Channel. Could you restore it? - I found there couple of best motivational speeches. Thanks.

Gosh how many videos have I watched on dealing with rejection. I just have to let somebody like me who doesn't know they are like me, know this. If you have ADHD, Bi-Polar, or both then you have something called RS. Rejection sensitivity. Basically what this means is that you take rejection a lot harder than everybody else in the world and even when people in general haven't rejected you it still feels like they have. basically it also feels very personal whether you know it is or isn't. and this was a huge problem for me in pickup when I would get rejection. one after the other instead of feeling better and it not being scary it got worse and I fell into depression. but that's because I have ADHD and Bi-Polar and RS. I now have been diagnosed and am taking medication for this. I have never felt better and my game/pick up has gotten better as a result. I again am typing this for anyone who may be like me and doesn't know it yet. I encourage everybody to go to a psychiatrist and figure out what you have. (be careful though some depending on what you say will tell you that you are a trans person and need hormone therapy which has caused a lot of problems for people in recent years. i would advise going to a religious one. not because of their religion but they are less likely to advise hormone therapy and give you the medication you need. at least that's what I have seen in my experience and I'm thankful for switching psychiatrists and am still a man (very happy as a man) to this day.) it seems everybody has some mental health issue and could benefit from medication. anyways this video has helped me only now that I am medicated and functioning like a normal person. but for anybody ls this is here for you.

I have had lots of rejection work out in my favor. Because I get a sense of relief more times. I find the hard part of asking a girl out is if I’m going to regret it. The more you get rejected the better. Think about it you see girls with jerks that hit them and they have no courage to leave the situation and it started from before they got together. I can see why it’s hard for women to make a decision. A lot of times I feel better that I’m single. I’m also finding more women wanting less commitment maybe we have finally turned the corner in getting what we want as me. Just a thought

so true. i thought i was rejected so many times. most times it was really just lack of follow thru...

Right off the bat This guy is the real deal

Lol you get the engine started then you can mow the lawn 😂😂😂 shit was pretty funny n ice analogy

Awesome vid, one question though... how the hell do you guys find instrumentals for the latest/dopest songs all the time?

Todd es claramente un exponente de la comunidad de la seducción. Sus videos son tecnicos y van justo a lo que se necesita. Son maestros como el los que me motivan seguir con mi canal y con videos que ayudan a las personas! Gracias Todd!!

Women are lawn mowers. Ok, got it! Seriously though, Todd makes some great points here and in other vids. Glad I found his channel in this modern age of mostly neutered pick-up coaching.

Game analogy: “You make the engine start then you mow the lawn” gets my like

Hey Tod, do we get some kind of weekly 1 on 1 or any kind of personal mentoring when we sign up for your course?

Lawnmower metaphor; if it doesn't go on the 1st try, choke it

Hey Todd, love your videos. Thanks for the great content. Also, I have a question: I’ve been seeing some decent success on Tinder, thanks to your videos on text game. A few times I’ve had great conversations with women via text, asked them out on dates, they say yes, and we start planning the logistics of the date, and during that process, out of nowhere, they suddenly stop responding. There’s no hint that it’s coming. They seem completely receptive and excited about the date, and then suddenly I get ghosted. Pinging value to them occasionally has yet to resurrect these conversations. What’s going on here?

Suppose to use premium or midgrade gas for a small engine. Mine starts first pull.

You have some good analogies

4:53 As soon as Todd said that it was so weird. I'm a straight guy but I became instantly attracted to him for at least a few seconds.

Todd the Big Boss Love you

This is a crazy shot

You can't turn around ANY rejection. Nobody clicks with absolutely everyone.

Thank you for the vid i just realised my openers sucked

Mocking Tyler/RSD free association idea there 😂. I personally think free association is not a fucked up concept as long as you make things relevant to her at some point

Hooefully u can do a video on the fundamentals

You really did a great job turning around that rejection on those 3 girls talking to each other on the park bench pal!

very good todd

I have a similar Problem, when Iam texting. In the real life I have no problem with Woman, but in Chat Most of the Interactions Just die. Has he made a video about something like that?

Todd what do you think of the SHOGUN method?

So, anyone got some examples of good openers?

Where is Todd Backup channel?

I’ve been meaning to ask: for those of us who have bought The System, would it be considered illegal or copyright to share its contents to those who haven’t? I’ve learned a lot of useful things in here that I’d like to share on my own channel to explain communication in a lot of ways. Not sure whether piracy is based off of the contents or just the copies of the system itself

Is this topic covered in the System? (engaging conversation etc..)

0:31 Dope cole intro 🔥

Hey dude I was watching old vids of you from back in the day

The middle child beat 🔥

The lawn mower metaphor is genius

Awesome video Todd!! Your vocabulary is impressive, had to look up "instigate" again.

- If you pick the RIGHT girl, then ANY opener works, they usually sub-consciously send signals to the mate they like, you just need to be able to read the signals and the body-language from the women around you.

Hey man i saw that the todd backup channel is down. Will you revive it or is it done for? Btw live your vids and good luck in the battle against rsd.

Good stuff

Question: Todd, I had my first approach, everything I thought I knew flew out the window and my heart could not handle the situation to use any flirting instead I kept it logical pleas tell me some techniques to overcome this. Ps: there was other people there, male friends, female friends etc I also did not want to be embarrassed.

Rock on todd!

Todd , can you do a video on emotional reactions, like what can we do to get that ? Or bring it on a conversation.

Is this system only applies if I am approaching new girls or can I even apply to a friend who might be attracted to me? If yes, what kindof premise do I need to set as an opener?

As long as you have clarity of intent and no ego into it, you should be fine. Don't forget that sometimes some girls are just not your audience.

Wow... amazing content...

I can see signs of initial interest almost instantly. But as soon as I start speaking everything goes downhill. Todd, what do you think I should focus on just to have the right energy and right verbal game? At least to feel like she wants me to stay in the conversation because she isn't bored. Any advice is truly appreciate it.

FRED Method Bruh.. focus, relevance to her, emotion, logical decision

You are a genius

Hey todd, can you do an analysis of think like a man movie. The scene where the "player" picks up the chick in the bar after Keven hart gets rejected.

PURE GOLD

Todd John Antony said it take 1-2 hours of correct training to become advanced. Is this true and that it is a myth that it takes Long to get Good at this?

You ever randomly start texting someone online, and they force you to slam the brakes hard? - I tried randomly texting a 10, but this one is giving me quite a hard time!

lol Hahaha, I love your shot at "A Million Dollar Mouth Piece." So true, by the way.

I just wanted to comment on a Todd video to mention that RSD is "moving on" to a self-help and away from pick-up. I knew this was going to happen since a year ago because Todd is now cornering the market and they cannot compete

Todd "ValueBOMB" legend

Todd I really need some advice. I was just walking down the road and had a 10/10 ignoring her friend that was talking to her and gave me the most serious fuck me eyes. She didn't waver at all despite me looking away for a second when I looked back she was still looking deeply into my eyes with raw sexual animal like tension. We past and I didn't know what to do to open and I am feeling frustrated that I was internally overwhelmed despite not showing it. Any advice on how to deal with this situation if it happens again?

Game is like a lawn mower, it takes a couple pulls to warm up. - Todd V

Wouldn't the use of a disqualifying opener be too early to use immediately after a failed opener. I thought disqualifiers only worked after you've gained a certain amount of attraction.

Thank you dude😎😎

Instigate from an arrogant frame. Calibrate and use a different opener if necessary. She's not rejecting you; she's rejecting your opener. Thanks, Todd

Great video but the problem I have is getting rid of a girl I'm not feeling anynore

Nice example of the lawnmower Todd hehe...

thanks

Watching pick up vids for 4 years now. Think I'll never cold approach 😂

There's a girl I like but she said she has a bf, but she talk to me for like 4 hrs and sometimes the whole night. What does it mean ? I'm confused.

😂😂😂 this dude’s metaphor for the lawn mower