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In this fictional story, we follow a young woman as she awakes from an incident, having forgotten everything she knows and loves in life. Now, she must relearn how to live and, more crucially, what makes life worth living.
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@borisrussko5898
@borisrussko5898 Месяц назад
When you're trying to forget something and then you finally do... It's like heaven
@movement2contact
@movement2contact Месяц назад
What makes it "heaven" when you cannot remember what you forgot...?
@borisrussko5898
@borisrussko5898 Месяц назад
@@movement2contact that's exactly what makes it heaven. It must've truly been horrible if I wanted to forget it
@borisrussko5898
@borisrussko5898 Месяц назад
@@movement2contact i imagine myself leaving a note in my pocket before changing my brain chemistry that says "don't worry, you wanted to forget" or something along those lines
@elizabethCorkins83
@elizabethCorkins83 Месяц назад
Hugz
@MsClaudia_
@MsClaudia_ Месяц назад
How do you feel this if you “cant remember” … i meaning you dont feel the heaven because you “cant remember”
@Veed.l0
@Veed.l0 Месяц назад
I've spent so long chasing nostalgia and wanting to relive the past that it became a curse. When I realized that it's impossible to reattaine the happiness of the past, it made me wish I could just let go and forget this compulsion towards the past, a fresh start like this story.
@just_some_greek_dude
@just_some_greek_dude Месяц назад
Well at least you had happiness in the past idk if this is good or bad but I never had true happiness until very recently sure I had some happy moments but they never last above few days its like I was born anxious and depressed
@ifrankenstein7455
@ifrankenstein7455 Месяц назад
@@Veed.l0 I realized this same lesson when I watched a video on this channel titled "the feeling that life would never be as good as it once was" and ive figuratively never looked back
@spaceballs4203
@spaceballs4203 Месяц назад
Where you able to forget?
@Veed.l0
@Veed.l0 Месяц назад
@@spaceballs4203 it's impossible to force yourself to forget. The best you can do is understand why it's a flawed mindset to cling to the past.
@spaceballs4203
@spaceballs4203 29 дней назад
@@Veed.l0 i always cling to the past. I can never move forward. Im always looking for a way to bring back my happiness. Im always thinking about my ex and how i miss her. I think im even gonna start texting her tomorrow to see if we can hang but i dont want to. I want to stay strong.. but i miss her...
@fireoli1234
@fireoli1234 29 дней назад
This hit hard. The moment she said " why did I do that?" I shed a few tears. When we are being drowned by problems and depression it can be almost impossible to see the good things in our life that took us so much time and effort to get.
@juanroman1767
@juanroman1767 11 дней назад
Felt it deeply
@suzannecarter445
@suzannecarter445 Месяц назад
"Pay attention to what we pay attention to" - that's really a wonderfully truthful statement. If you want to have free will - notice and control what you pay attention to - otherwise you're just a reactive automaton.
@pyewackett5
@pyewackett5 29 дней назад
Wherever our attention is drawn to , energy follows ...
@farnimarni
@farnimarni 26 дней назад
Thank you! Perfectly put into words!
@IisLasagna
@IisLasagna Месяц назад
I really love the shaky artstyle mixed with real pictures. It gives off an unstable feeling
@user-nm8sj6rh1q
@user-nm8sj6rh1q 29 дней назад
I know right? I love it that way as well...
@huyup123456
@huyup123456 6 дней назад
It reminds me of shivering while pooping.
@north_star_yt
@north_star_yt Месяц назад
I honestly appreciate having a crappy memory. It has helped me forget so many gut wrenching painful moments.
@chronicallyalive
@chronicallyalive 22 дня назад
Same and agree. However the downside to that is you don't feel like you even lived your life. On the contrary, I've noticed that people with excellent memory appear more alive, and they tend to have a coherent personality
@yhamez37
@yhamez37 19 дней назад
I have a good memory, out at least I’ve been told that a lot. But I don’t remember lots of things from my life, thankfully. That may be purposeful though even if I’m not consciously aware of it. I feel like I don’t have a coherent personality or that I’ve lived my life. Maybe something to what you are saying
@chronicallyalive
@chronicallyalive 19 дней назад
@@yhamez37 Look up SDAM (severely deficient autobiographical memory), might be your case
@moniqueengleman873
@moniqueengleman873 17 дней назад
​@chronicallIyalive I remember everything. I think of it as a gift. People are amazed but I have always been that way Now that my friends can't remember crap, they call me for their memories 😂❤
@AM-hz3bi
@AM-hz3bi 2 дня назад
forgetting can be beautiful in itself
@TheDarkPlace-p6t
@TheDarkPlace-p6t Месяц назад
Each day would be a fresh start, but it would feel empty without the memories that give life meaning. No nostalgia, no regrets, also no sense of continuity.
@borisrussko5898
@borisrussko5898 Месяц назад
@@TheDarkPlace-p6t and the emptiness can slowly be replaced with a more easily fulfilled purpose without the burdens of tragic memories
@everyoneelsemovedonfan
@everyoneelsemovedonfan Месяц назад
The point is that you have the choice of a fresh start whenever you want
@DashMatin
@DashMatin Месяц назад
thats good tbh...
@everyoneelsemovedonfan
@everyoneelsemovedonfan Месяц назад
@@DashMatin right? Literally perfect stoicism can be accomplished if you aren't trapped by your ego 🙏
@GITAisBASED
@GITAisBASED 10 дней назад
This is defined as Samadhi (oneness) in hindu scriptures.
@stickibug
@stickibug Месяц назад
I'm glad she has her family. I hope anyone recovering from S attempts can get the help they need to manage the underlying issues, and to recover from the attempt itself.
@jaynotjoe7589
@jaynotjoe7589 Месяц назад
Pure Mindfulness, so simple and impactful, the pursuit of wonder, great and inspiring and so immersive. 🙏😉
@DannyTheManny08
@DannyTheManny08 Месяц назад
You truly make philosophy that a lot of people find monotonous truly entertaining, Thank you.❤
@Silks-
@Silks- Месяц назад
Truly
@user-zp8kj2cl9g
@user-zp8kj2cl9g Месяц назад
You're wrong if you're studying philosophy to be entertained.
@DannyTheManny08
@DannyTheManny08 Месяц назад
@@user-zp8kj2cl9g it's not that deep bro😭
@joshy2joshy
@joshy2joshy Месяц назад
@@user-zp8kj2cl9g Sounds like that's YOUR philosophy- User-zp8. Perhaps Danny finds the material more approachable in the style of this content and there's nothing wrong with that. Each to their own.
@user-zp8kj2cl9g
@user-zp8kj2cl9g Месяц назад
​@@joshy2joshyPhilosophy is a general field of study and discipline. Saying "that's your philosophy" is like saying "that's your science"... It makes no sense.
@Rana-yk6xn
@Rana-yk6xn 28 дней назад
This made me cry and it came in a really good moment, thank you so much, you might have saved a part of me, or at least helped a part of me come out from a dark place.
@syzygy4365
@syzygy4365 28 дней назад
Im seriously crying now. I feel like so much of what I want is outside of my control. The dispair, how tight I hold on to existence, and just trying to balance it all. I think in a way my own happiness is in a fragile state. I can't help this. Seeing how this character wanted so desperately to end her suffering. The level of despair matches. Id love to be about to wipe the slate clean and people who care show up to help guide me. Just some clarity beyond the pain would help. I'd never attempt this my kids mean everything to me. I think it's best if I take the high road. I'll remember this compassion if they need it.
@jansobolewski708
@jansobolewski708 28 дней назад
You've got this. Everything will be okay.
@carlosizaguirre2915
@carlosizaguirre2915 26 дней назад
Therapy?
@Wheresmy240
@Wheresmy240 25 дней назад
I've been sober for 6 months and that's how I always felt during active addiction. What helped me tremendously is basically what he said in this video. Pay attention to what you pay attention to basically. We can't control our senses and how our subconscious perceives them, but we can control where we point them and what inputs they receive. I've always been an optimist and valued positivity and it made me happy seeing good people doing good things, but the negative slowly started taking over because we're surrounded by it and media loves to portray it. Sadly, much of what we see is controlled by an algorithm now and you can either stop using it to the best of your ability or train it to help you have more positivity. Also, focus on your spirituality. Live in the moment and meditate. Chase the infinitesimally small measurement of time that is now. The delay between input and perception. Nothing else matters. Regretting the past and worrying about the future do nothing to serve you. Build the foundation and everything else will fall into place. I know it's easier said than done. I'm only 6 months sober but I feel like I've been given a new lease on life. This isnt my first time attempting sobriety and a change in my mindset, but this is the first time I've focused on myself rather than just what chemicals I ingest. Go get professional help to start off and get you going down the right path. Take suggestions, get physically active, and feed your mind and body good things. I'm not religious, so many people find "God" and it helps them tremendously, but I find it's often temporary because nothing else about them has changed other than verbally praising some deity. I'm not knocking it, if your spirituality leads you to a religion or if you're already devout, so be it. But do yourself and your loved ones a favor and work on your mental health.
@nidhishsharma9471
@nidhishsharma9471 25 дней назад
@@Wheresmy240well said…
@bekkakay8573
@bekkakay8573 14 дней назад
Dealing with depression is a battle. Wear the proper armour. Discover what these words mean in your life: Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faith, Mildness, Self-control. Please remember you’re not alone. I’ve survived depression for nearly 40 years. Things continue to get better. Recognize your right to wellness and FIGHT for it.❤️‍🩹
@nathanielmikkie7171
@nathanielmikkie7171 29 дней назад
I'm from a palliative care hospital to visit my uncle who's suffering from prostate cancer stage four. To distract myself from the awareness of the miserable heartbreaking scenarios I had encountered, I had decided to rewatch the true detective season one......now I'm here
@HibaSiddique101
@HibaSiddique101 18 дней назад
I broke down like a child when Anastasia asks Tyler.. “Can you tell me what I like?” It felt like one of those deep existential questions about yourself and you don’t even know what to say, mostly because you just don’t know. Such a raw, deep emotion
@aaronbieleck8305
@aaronbieleck8305 Месяц назад
My partner of 18 years is in residential treatment for alcoholism and our relationship is likely ending because of what has happened over the past few years….really challenging time to say the least, and have a bunch of memories I wish I couldn’t remember so well. Still though, like in the video, I find contentment and purpose in the small things. My fav music that hits deep, poking around my garden to marvel at nature, a mindful walk around my neighborhood, and sharing a meal with friends. Realizing that at least for me, right now, my purpose is to connect. With all those things/people I mentioned and the world around me. Videos like this are a great reminder and now I want a tapestry for a visual :)
@bravenew1934
@bravenew1934 27 дней назад
New fear unlocked: suddenly losing my memory in a freak accident, because there is NO-ONE who would ever be able to help me remember who I am because basically no one currently in my life actually knows me. Like, at all. My own family wouldn’t be able to say much more about me than a casual acquaintance. I’d have to rely almost exclusively on journal entries and digital files if I ever wanted to piece myself together again 😐
@slantedandenchanted.1992
@slantedandenchanted.1992 26 дней назад
I know how you feel. Sometimes I don't even know myself.
@frozenfire2634
@frozenfire2634 25 дней назад
u dont need to figure out who u were, just create yourself anew
@DittersGustav
@DittersGustav 23 дня назад
That might be a blessing in some cases
@mannutdutd
@mannutdutd 19 дней назад
@@DittersGustavI would love it. I don’t like who I am, how I am, how I live, what I think about. A reset would be amazing
@svenicarus4872
@svenicarus4872 18 дней назад
It’s not as bad as you think. Sometimes the person you think you are isn’t as great as you’d expect and the person others think you are is the better version. I started to embrace the fact that people thought I was somebody else and started to like the things I was expected to only to find out I really did love those things. It changed my life for the better. The person I thought I was was a bad person and someone who had no courage. Friends didn’t agree - they’d seen me speak out for others and be a kind person when I didn’t have to. I never thought of it like that, but that’s what they’d seen and what they believed. I began realising that it didn’t really matter who I thought I was but rather who other people thought I was. I embraced that and changed for the better.
@catshup0821
@catshup0821 Месяц назад
This video is absolutely perfect for all that has suffered a painful loss.
@JohnDoe-vi1im
@JohnDoe-vi1im 29 дней назад
Another beautiful and touching story. This channel is a real gem.
@AntonyCannon
@AntonyCannon 24 дня назад
Viktor Frankl wrote about the three values one can find in life; Adlerian (achievement), Freudian (pleasure) and his own (Logos, or meaning itself). Through his time in the Concentration camps of WW2, Frankl observed that Adlerian or Freudian value won't save a desperate prisoner or an invalid in great pain. Instead, Frankl suggests that the best value, in fact very _meaning of life_ is the meaning _one finds in life_ (even through great suffering) and that this meaning can help sustain a person through any unpleasant condition. I'll buy that from a guy who survived Auschwitz.
@dylansatkunam
@dylansatkunam Месяц назад
These are the videos that I truly love. You are seriously the best RU-vid channel I’ve ever seen and every time I watch a video you make it always gets me thinking and I leave a better man. Keep it up, you are doing so great!
@progressful
@progressful 25 дней назад
thank you pursuit of wonder. You’re changing lives
@Hyper_Dreamer
@Hyper_Dreamer Месяц назад
Been loving your channel for a while, this one is particularly meaningfully, well done
@AnimeSmash37
@AnimeSmash37 28 дней назад
All your videos are great, this one really speaks to me in this moment. Thanks.
@TheMightyPika
@TheMightyPika 29 дней назад
LOVE LOVE LOVE that short story at the beginning WOW that was good!!!
@Mixolydio
@Mixolydio Месяц назад
Real gem today, thank you
@GreatBunny
@GreatBunny Месяц назад
I think that way in the future, when none of us who are currently here are not here anymore, you will be regarded as one of the greatest philosophers of this generation. I already know you are.
@zauberschurke4012
@zauberschurke4012 21 день назад
This is so beautiful. Thank you so so much!! I had to deal with a lot of pain and anxiety in my life. As a help I‘ve been reading, listening and watching a lot about philosophy the past years. From stoicism to absuridsm and taoism. From tolle and watts to some weird new age stuff. This video sums up my thoughts and feelings so well. Your channel is amazing. I hope you know how many people you are helping! A lot of love from Germany!
@ujjwal3173
@ujjwal3173 Месяц назад
Most needed video rn 😊
@FuzeRG
@FuzeRG 8 дней назад
I used to watch these videos years ago I'm glad to see the quality is the same ❤ love these videos
@toviazs
@toviazs Месяц назад
As always, amazing
@roninbayacal7857
@roninbayacal7857 20 дней назад
The introspection on the transiency of being alive here is insanely good! - "you are you right now - for the first time, and in every moment to come."
@alexfreese3088
@alexfreese3088 6 дней назад
Amazing animation and sound design. You create amazing works.
@logicake
@logicake Месяц назад
This is beautiful.
@annoythedonkey
@annoythedonkey 29 дней назад
There is a really beautiful quote from Warren Zevon during an interview to VH1 “Bad Luck doesn’t define you, it makes you the person you are” I’ve been telling this to myself for a while now.. I have cancer, and it’s all over my body. It’s also very rare, and aggressive. I can see my body getting sicker and sicker. Have I thought about throwing in the towel (not suicide)
@Exxperiment626
@Exxperiment626 26 дней назад
Our experiences truly makes us for better and worse. I hope you beat the sickness ❤
@kuuleihunter1044
@kuuleihunter1044 18 дней назад
I wish you all the best in defeating this I know the weakness you feel is going to be your greatest strength in the end. Bless you
@eddiefenton6309
@eddiefenton6309 Месяц назад
This is so beautiful
@waltjg7568
@waltjg7568 8 дней назад
This is so good
@desmofc
@desmofc Месяц назад
Beautiful:). Thank you👊🏽
@kimsherlock8969
@kimsherlock8969 Месяц назад
So beautiful her brother really knew her best lifes memories ❤ Not many people have the wonderful experience of being loved in this sweet example.
@hazelnutmeg3897
@hazelnutmeg3897 23 дня назад
I'll try not to get ahead of myself but I think this video just unexpectedly began to snap me out the survival mode paralysis I've been in for the past week and a half. 'Unexpectedly' because it wasn't one of those kind of snap. Just a gentle nudge, a soft and slow realization of something I already knew but needed to be reminded of from a different angle. "Every day is day one"... 'I already know that' and yet... So I ordered the book, wrote a note for my future self because this is a gift and then, in the strangest way, almost immediately got up to start the piano lessons I have procrastinated on for too long, and from there on, it's been one little task after another for the past 2 hours. All this to say, whether this is a temporary jolt of clarity or the actual way out of the hole, thank you. Thank you for helping me help myself. And thank you for reminding me that the internet is sometimes a really good place to hangout. ❤
@Kazuma11290
@Kazuma11290 Месяц назад
I'm so sick of everyone telling me I'm the fucked up one. Everyone else is fucked up for letting things get this way in the first place.
@Dacky1989
@Dacky1989 Месяц назад
Amerikkka is a fucked up place if not the most fucked up
@mathw1-1
@mathw1-1 28 дней назад
i don't think you or anyone else is the fucked up. things just happen, good or bad. no one really gets to choose the way their life goes. we can make plans and have goals and do as much as we want, but in the end, things can just happen. today you could win the lotto or you could get into car crash and no one really has control over these things. whatever you're going through, i sincerely hope you get through it. i know that bad things do happen, but that doesn't mean that good things don't happen. if you only look for the bad, that's all you'll see. if you try to look for the good, you might find something unexpected. and who knows, maybe one day you'll be that unexpected good thing someone else is looking for too :)
@Kazuma11290
@Kazuma11290 28 дней назад
@@mathw1-1 Tell that to my native ancestors, the rising tides of suicide, and all the wildlife both plant and animal wiped out by brainwashed apologists like you who don't even think about the damage you cause every day. Everyone is sick, and have been for so long that they think it's normal. Governments, corporations, religions, militaries, all institutes of control justifying endless atrocities for mere comfort. You disgust me. At least I would rather end this world mercifully than slowly bleed it to death for amusement.
@Funwithgizmo
@Funwithgizmo Месяц назад
Thank you! ❤
@binodtharu4784
@binodtharu4784 Месяц назад
Ok, I'll watch true detective
@PapaSquig
@PapaSquig 24 дня назад
Great video
@user-oe7co8jg8e
@user-oe7co8jg8e День назад
This video is a masterpiece
@petardodov9503
@petardodov9503 Месяц назад
This is a classical pursuit of wonder at it's best
@KCJaguar8-6
@KCJaguar8-6 Месяц назад
Great video..R.I.P. Mac Miller
@completelytransparent6320
@completelytransparent6320 29 дней назад
Mac still and always will be helping me and other with that pure authentic love and passion for music and life. Hes still here, he just turned into the music, the vibrations
@KCJaguar8-6
@KCJaguar8-6 29 дней назад
@@completelytransparent6320 most definitely 🙏
@werrutkyupnext
@werrutkyupnext Месяц назад
Amazing Video
@kimsherlock8969
@kimsherlock8969 Месяц назад
Thankyou you are a wonderful mind and a Muse ......music ..... to the ears 😊 encouraging people creative ❤ To continue to work with their chosen expressions of how they see 👀 😊
@Paul-jp8zz
@Paul-jp8zz Месяц назад
wow. I think this is one of my favorites. it applies equally to anybody, anytime, even if they never hit rock bottom and had an "incident"....
@tygerk2372
@tygerk2372 27 дней назад
I created a playlist to keep my favorite Pursuit of Wonder 'story-videos' in one place... it's great for a quick reference when I feel the need to remember something profound about life that I have forgotten 😢
@tygerk2372
@tygerk2372 27 дней назад
Since I have time, Iam going to re-watch this one right now...: The Tragedy of Being Too Early - The Timeline Effect
@mark.martinkovics
@mark.martinkovics Месяц назад
I liked the first title more... But the past is the past😉😢
@LiamCantArt
@LiamCantArt Месяц назад
What was it?
@mark.martinkovics
@mark.martinkovics Месяц назад
@@LiamCantArt something along the lines of "Woman explains what it feels like to have memory loss"
@tygerk2372
@tygerk2372 27 дней назад
I don't remember the title, but the thumbnail that caught my interest the most had a guy who looked like a character from DragonBallZ I wish there was a place where he collected the various titles and thumbnails he makes for his vids...
@Intellechawwal
@Intellechawwal 23 дня назад
Mannnn this hits hard.
@LesterSmooth
@LesterSmooth 13 дней назад
Shoots shout out to Mac and True Detective season 1. I got the feels as if I know I should be watching these videos and this channel because I am one of those people who truly am passionate about both of those topics that were brought up.
@TheLegendOfAnastasia
@TheLegendOfAnastasia 26 дней назад
My name is Anastasia pronounced just like how you say it in this video. Was pleasantly surprised to hear my name as an example
@sobiasiddiqui6501
@sobiasiddiqui6501 29 дней назад
love this
@chrisharris6462
@chrisharris6462 29 дней назад
If there was a pill i could take to sleep forever, with no dreams, i would take it. No question.
@frozenfire2634
@frozenfire2634 25 дней назад
i feel you bro
@invertedcrown
@invertedcrown 19 часов назад
fentanyl.... i've thought about this too
@QUBED
@QUBED Месяц назад
This was a super hard watch, but thank you.
@Nasir_3.
@Nasir_3. Месяц назад
Thanks for making True Detective her favourite TV show, it matches perfectly
@utz2867
@utz2867 Месяц назад
Great vid
@christophergomez701
@christophergomez701 29 дней назад
Really good 👍
@hajarmayoun5160
@hajarmayoun5160 27 дней назад
yo this story was so good wth
@TonyCruz_Music
@TonyCruz_Music Месяц назад
Beautiful.
@rurbleburble
@rurbleburble 27 дней назад
I realize it. I feel it. I'll start again and succeed.
@over-educated-sp
@over-educated-sp 29 дней назад
EXCELLENT!!!!!!!
@nicolebogda1482
@nicolebogda1482 24 дня назад
That hit hard❤
@noveltycrusade
@noveltycrusade 24 дня назад
Good luck guys 👍
@graceface420
@graceface420 29 дней назад
The title is completely misleading.
@rr-fn5bs
@rr-fn5bs 26 дней назад
every one of us in the comments needs to form an online support group! i tear up ecausr i want to get past my addiction and live a real life again. :(
@Blueskies1180
@Blueskies1180 29 дней назад
Beautiful…😭
@smileyoumatter
@smileyoumatter День назад
We are who we are right now ! ❤
@DarkMatterLight
@DarkMatterLight Месяц назад
Very touchy ❤ I'm jealous, she's going to watch treu detective again 🙂❤
@earnyourimmortality
@earnyourimmortality Месяц назад
The culmination of our life's experiences makes us who we are in the present. They directly connect us to the world. So, who are we really without our memories? Or... Maybe our memories truly are not our own, but instead data to be unloaded to a forever expansive etheric library. Excuse me while I go ice my brain.
@Fram_CR
@Fram_CR Месяц назад
this video came at the perfect time. thanks man
@Uncommony
@Uncommony 25 дней назад
So deep, my first video was on this topic. Stay Uncommon!
@Boi33-mc4hs
@Boi33-mc4hs 21 день назад
Thank you 🙏🏼 new subscriber. 😊 this video motivated me to remember what I love about my life after a nasty divorce. I tried to order your journal 📓 from your Pursuit of Wonder page; but they are out of stock. Do you know when you might get some in stock? I’d rather order from you directly instead of from Amazon. I will order from Amazon though if you’re not getting any in stock for awhile. Thank you again. ❤😊 Edited for clarity
@AnimeFridays
@AnimeFridays 21 день назад
To anyone going on their journey of life Always know there will be bumps in the road. We will fall time to time. But the reason we fall is to pick ourselves back up. Learn from your mistakes and grow from them. If you're sad, angry anxious identify the reason why. Not just the general reason but the deeper reason. Go in layers ask yourself "what caused that reason?" Then you will know where you need to start from. Rebuild your foundation the way you want it to be. After you have a solid foundation that's when you can truly build yourself back up. If you learn to love yourself you can love anybody. Don't rely on external factors for happiness just learn how to suffice with just yourself then everything else is an added bonus to your world. You yourself are the foundation of life
@UnsuspectingCommenterPassingBy
@UnsuspectingCommenterPassingBy 23 дня назад
I wish I could forget the moment they stopped loving me, but I'm still stuck partly because we never broke contact and they keep stirring the waters with nostalgia. It might just be a game for them but I slip back into grief everytime I feel them close. And no matter how much I cling onto them, I know they're no longer the person I fell in love with. Nothing's the same, it will never be, and maybe that's what best for the two of us cause none of this is right...
@fcmiller3
@fcmiller3 Месяц назад
My process to forget and let go can take years sometimes. When I hear the instruction to “Let go” it’s meaningless and laughable. What you resist, persists. Letting go, for me, is slow and gradual.
@slantedandenchanted.1992
@slantedandenchanted.1992 26 дней назад
Definitely a nice sentiment, but it's much easier said than done. Letting go just isn't in our human nature. It's more of a coping skill that must be learned and takes practice. I doubt I'll ever be able to fully master it.
@fcmiller3
@fcmiller3 26 дней назад
⁠​⁠@@slantedandenchanted.1992exactly!!
@MindlessTube
@MindlessTube Месяц назад
I dont get it, so how do you unfuk your mind?
@natural9743
@natural9743 29 дней назад
Well if it's not broke don't fix it
@282XVL
@282XVL 10 дней назад
Worked out better than one could hope. Hard reset without permanent disability, allowing her to forget her problems. Only issue with that is, you spend 2 weeks rediscovering the little things or whatever whimsical nonsense, then to your horror you realize you’re still hopelessly poor and alone. The rent is due, the debt has grown and you’re expected back at your shitty grinding poverty wage-slavery. Well, shit.
@kamojet
@kamojet 29 дней назад
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind....
@webdrivertorso9998
@webdrivertorso9998 28 дней назад
Bro changed the title and thumbnail like 6 times by now 💀
@tygerk2372
@tygerk2372 27 дней назад
I wish there was a place where he collected all the different thumbnails and titles he makes for these vids... The thumbnail/ title that I clicked on, was not the version that I liked the most The one I liked most was a thumbnail with a guy who almost looked like a DragonBallZ character...
@hamdani3178
@hamdani3178 14 дней назад
So beautiful
@frozenfire2634
@frozenfire2634 24 дня назад
when you are trying to forget somethign but instead you start seeing so much more. Thats what we should all strive for i think...
@tails183
@tails183 Месяц назад
The problem with memory is forgetting about the person with their feet in the water.
@kernsanders3973
@kernsanders3973 5 дней назад
Knew a guy who this happened to, pretty crazy. He had a motorcycle accident. His wife sat by his side while he was in a coma. When awoke he couldnt remember anything but could talk walk etc. Later his wife divorced because he "wasnt the same man she married". Nice guy though, fascinating how memories can make or break our reality
@thunderstarlegends
@thunderstarlegends 27 дней назад
I can see it too ❤.
@chingshady2689
@chingshady2689 28 дней назад
Damn this one hit different
@Geechee_Chick
@Geechee_Chick 18 дней назад
"pay attention to what you pay attention to"...i guess i pay attention to the loneliness i tend to feel and the monotony of my existence. I do the same thing every day. I get up, i go to work, and i go to the gym, come home, eat, maybe read a book or play a game, then go to bed. I don't have any friends, just a handful of acquaintances i sometimes hang out with, and i dont have a close relationship with my siblings or cousins. My life feels really dull and unfulfilling, it has been this way for my whole life and i see no reason to believe it'll change in the near future.
@spaceballs4203
@spaceballs4203 Месяц назад
Can you do something about addiction on social media in our days?
@heyyoimgrace
@heyyoimgrace 20 дней назад
Cried :,D
@user-uj9cc5ch5p
@user-uj9cc5ch5p 13 дней назад
The sense I would let go is my siXth sense, my perception of the multidimensional world that leaves the rest of your Earthly Xperience meaningless. Then I could be human all over again but instead I am connected to the totality of the universe but unable to call any of it mine. NEO X
@Conker51500
@Conker51500 5 дней назад
Reminds me a lot of it’s such a beautiful day by don hertzfield
@GreyGoose000
@GreyGoose000 24 дня назад
This. This video title gave me hope.
@28russ
@28russ 4 дня назад
Hmmm, thankyou. I think I needed this. I wake up everyday and wish I'd died in my sleep. Things haven't been good for a long time and have only gotten worse the last few years. But I suppose just being happy with what I've still got and being at peace and working with that is all I've got now. There's a simple beauty in that. 🤷‍♂🤔🙂
@kylestoff8987
@kylestoff8987 23 дня назад
The advantage of a bad memory is that one enjoys several times the same good things for the first time. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche
@beyondcringed7480
@beyondcringed7480 Месяц назад
Are we only memory 💔🌌?
@deadghost7052
@deadghost7052 22 дня назад
So I'm supposed to overdose to get amnesia to unfuck my brain? Okay got it thanks for the advice.
@johnalbert5786
@johnalbert5786 26 дней назад
Is there a new book coming soon ? I’ve read every book so far. 😎
@SaturdayTwitch
@SaturdayTwitch 29 дней назад
Sometimes it's good to reset
@error53ish
@error53ish 10 часов назад
Jesus. I've dreamed to have a situation like this happen to me. It's the closest that I'd ever get to a "do over". Only difference is that I don't have a support system to be there for me when I wake up. I don't have a happy backstory to be told by a sibling. Best I would get is a doctor telling me what happened and a stumbling journey back out into the world.... but hopefully a chance at peace and happiness. But I don't have that... so IDK what the hell to do.
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