How We Fell in Love in 3 Days | Dear Black Love | Refinery29 

This is cool. The communication, intellect, and sensibility mentioned in this video is amazing.

I’ve been waiting for intelligent lesbian conversations that elevate us. The way in which you two effectively communicate, understanding that you each require separate healing. Mentioning the 8 year old version was offended; many women have yet to comprehend the little girl in them must be healed. I fell in love at 55, met her online, after three months I moved in with her (when you know, you know; I definitely knew she was my special person). We’ve been together for six years and married for five years. I feed the little girl I see in my wife, she asked me how I know about her childhood, my response was, dearest wife, I’m a great listener, plus I love observing you: Fears brought on by things happening during your childhood, being mistreated for the darkness of your skin, and more. A willingness to open up, revealing your truths although is totally uncomfortable, yet necessary to maintain a healthy relationship in my opinion is a must. Thank you for this video, keeping a journal then sharing a entry was profound.

I soooo feel this ❤️❤️❤️❤️

If it works for them it just does ..

🤣🤣 ok 👍

Love what you said

❤

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I completely agree with this.

Agreed

this is random but are there any black lesbian influencers, writers etc that you specifically follow?

Love this comment and the connection to spiritual knowing. I had a “late-in-life” discovery of queerness and it wasn’t because I fell in love with a particular person; it was truly a spiritual discovery. I feel like God opened me up and guided me along this journey. It’s challenging to understand why it happened in my late 30s/ and into my early 40s, but such is life:)

Sooooo true

Indeed 💕

Are you seeing someone currently 🌈

What you looking for ?🌈

I guess bisexual people don't exist then?

But she’s in a gay relationship, so she’s definitely not straight. The label ‘gay’ isn’t a negative thing. If she goes back to men for the rest of her life after this girl then she’s bisexual/queer/whatever… but straight? No. Words have meaning.

Sexuality is fluid and each individual can choose to identify however they want, whether it's straight 5 years ago, gay now or pansexual in the future. You never know what life could throw your way.

😂😂 girl bye

We label ourselves so much as if categorisation is needed when feeling and experiencing the wholeness of Love and the energies going with that.

Same

@Clari... Same here. I'm single let's connect and get to know each other

​@@yungshaaaa777me too, how are you doing?

With a female interesting

Same here

Deviant love.

That part girl 💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 cause these men, Lawd!

You single ?

Hi there, I line in Switzerland. It’s funny to see someone talk about Switzerland. What part in Swiss do you live ? Vous parlez français or Deutsch or Italiano or Romansch maybe ?

Meee tooooo

YES! No matter what age everyone deserves love!

🤢

It's amazing 😍

Okay 🤣

Agreed

They already are most black women are with studs

Yep, I’m getting ready to wrap up a 3 year relationship, no more males for me 👋🏽

This sounded funny in my head the way you said it lol 😂😂😂😂 because black men keep wanting black women to struggle and build them up and deal with their drama. The last guy that tried to talk to me was married and just had a baby and several baby mothers that he tried to hide. I felt something was off when he hugged me and that was the first and last time he saw me. On a serious note. I have been have same sex dreams and I don’t know where they are coming from. When I was younger a friend of mine touched me but she passed but before that, we talked about what she wanted me to do or what she wanted to do to me. When she said what she said I wasn’t turned off, like I am with men. They are just straight up aggressive. A couple of guys got mad at me that I didn’t want to sleep with them and I felt my life was in danger. This is why I haven’t been alone with a man in over 15 years. I think men are attractive but I didn’t feel connected it’s them and don’t want them touching me and I don’t care if I see another penis in my life. I don’t want it. 😂 it’s ugly looking lmao. The last guy I dated, I felt nothing. As he was down on me, I wished it was a female, from this same sex video I saw. It’s like they took their time to please each other. I have dated gentleman in the past but it never went anywhere and we never did anything. The day my friend and I was supposed to explore, she wind up moving. I wind up seeing her many years later before she passed but she was pregnant but seemed unhappy. But just talking about sexual and wanting to explore what we liked, it didn’t feel like a lesbian thing. I honestly didn’t know what that was. When we fooled around, it just felt natural and safe and it was fun, no pressure. She knew how to touch me and men don’t know how to touch me. I don’t know if I have the courage to be with the same sex, I don’t want anybody crazy or too masculine, no offense and I don’t want anyone clingy. I like living and being alone and if I did try to go that route, I want someone who has their own life and doesn’t need to see me 365. I need a person who has great hygiene in that area too 😂 But thanks for listening. I feel like I missed out on my chance to explore, before social media because now a days you can’t trust people. I don’t want to be out with a woman on that level 😂 I’m very private and if this person wants to be all on social media forget it.

Queens and boss ladies 🤣🤣🤣