How Min and Jae met while living in South Korea. 📹 Filming Camera - iPhone 12 Pro Max 📱IG - we.min.jae 🎼 Intro Music - Chillout Commercial 🎶 Outo Music - Winter Bear - BTS V
I love how open you guys are. Even with each other’s sexuality. Your first meeting wasn’t quite the conventional one but if it’s meant to be it’ll surely work out! Thanks for sharing a part of your lives with us. Keep on being cool!
I love your story. It’s definitely not typical, but very interesting and honest. I usually don’t follow “couple” channels but you two are so cute together..it irresistible🙂 I wish you the best of luck with your relationship. ❤️
@@MINJAE1I just saw you both getting married today accidentally on my feed... I get teary-eyed... beautiful wedding. Congratulations for both of you! The Lord bless your wedding ❤
Diversity I think is the key 🔑 in any interracial relationship!! To me it means both parties are willing to Step Out of their comfort Zone and try something NEW!! Just the fact that you two were willing to take a leap of faith says that you both were meant to be together!! I came to Seoul in 2019' for my Birthday and took a excursion with a Great Guy who was korean!! And all I have to say about that is I have never meet anyone quite like this guy who treated me So Good!! Ladies FYI korean men are very Gentle Kind and Sweet and they treat their ladies like Princesses!! I wish you guys all the Best💜💜💜💜
Unique beginning. It is good that you did not rush into anything and allowed time to develop into where you are now. I truly appreciate you sharing your journey into love.
what you said about showing your bare selves from day 1 because you weren't going on dates is just so incredible. I can't put it into words. I grew up with siblings so, unlike only children, I did have people around my age that I showed my true self to. I've never been in a relationship in my entire almost 21 year career on earth (💀) and so the idea of being with someone, never mind someone you've just met, and acting the same around them as I do (or similar to) with my siblings aka letting them see how you act at home (my only reference is life with my siblings and how I act around them), etc... feels very, very scary. yet liberating. you guys are super cool is what I'm trying to say :)
Awe thank you! I totally understand~ I’m sure that’s the same reason people have a ‘different side’ in the beginning of a relationship~ to show someone your craziness from the start can be hard lol, but still possible :)
You and me both, my darling 🎈. Im single and scared of guys out there, i have social anxiety and zero sociak battery. I'm so skeptical about people,mainly from the stories i have heard and seen myself of my friends and acquaintance. God bless your heart and your relationship 💕
Just watched this again, and I was again charmed by you, by your honesty and straightforwardness and how "real" you are. So glad RU-vid put your video in my feed...and so glad I started following you! Thanks for being you and for sharing yourselves with all of us!
I think your story is amazing from how you met and had such great connection. You both were quite brave with everything going on in the world that you didn't pick an outside place to meet. Anyway I love you both so happy things have worked out for you, wishing you forever love and happiness❤🇺🇸
I so enjoyed hearing your story. I like the natural progression of your friendship and love. I found hope in your being yourselves. I also just watched your marriage proposal. You are both so fortunate to have found each other. Congratulations and I wish you both a blessed and beautiful life together. In addition thank you for sharing your amazing, gentle and warm lives with all of us.
I so enjoyed listening to you two. Best of luck to you both. When you find someone you can connect to just work on your relationship. I met my husband about 49 years ago and we have been married for 48 yrs. I am glad I found you.
wow, that is just amazing! Relationships are never easy and will always require work, but it’s so amazing to hear about and see those that have been together for so long! A true inspiration of love and dedication ♥️
WOW! I subscribed to your channel after being so impressed with this video on how detailed your memory was kicking off after the initial meet on Tinder. Really, really, never saw a couple agree on every aspect of your relationship. Thumbs up to both of you.
I just watched your proposal video and now I really enjoyed hearing your "how we met" story. I love to hear the more unconventional stories of couples, and yours is certainly unconventional. You both were open and honest with each other from the jump , and in todays world it's a rarity. I think the pandemic helped in stripping people of their artifices. You been in the house for months on end, wearing t-shirts and yoga pants. Face-timing people to have connection, it's no need to be nothing but raw with each other. I hope for all the best for you both, your relationship ,and your future together. 😀
That is an original drama🤣i love it 💕👌That's fate, if you are meant to be together, one day you will meet! no matter the place. Love u guys thank u to share yours story with us😊
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I am 64 years old married for 45 years, and I hate labels that people need. Your refreshing to say the least. No BS for you. Your raw and yet very down to earth. Whether that comes from your youth, or your own sensibility, I don't know. However, it is refreshing to see. When I dated almost 50 years ago, labeling everything was the norm. Oh do not date anyone not of your race, don't socialize with her, she is guy, don't talk about finances, or heaven forbid sex with anyone. We, my husband and I grew up with strict parents. We could not even stay alone in a house we purchased before we married. It was crazy. But times have changed. Still you need to be cautious and honest. I would not have probably let him stay over night, but It seemed to work out. You were very lucky. Min is a good man. Your a smart lady and I am glad to watch both of your growth as individuals and as a couple.
Thank you so much! I think labels create segregation and separation, there really isn’t any need. And I agree, there was a huge risk in having him stay the night 😅 I made sure to tell all my close friends if they don’t hear from he the next morning to report! It was a risk that was well taken 💜
Hi! ^^ as someone else said, I love how you both were open and honest about your relationship. It definately is scary meeting someone on an online dating app, as you have to think of so many things like are they gonna be crazy xD I met my current boyfriend on tinder too and its nice hearing other peoples stories about meeting their person on tinder and how easy it was connecting with each other so quickly x to many more good times together ^^
You guys are perfect and open minded person where earth needs to upgrade our society . God bless you two forever ❤. I just stumbled up your vlogs and cant resist myself from subscribing. Love from India ❤
Ok.now i believe that what's meant to be , it will be. 😭 Your story is not the typical how we met story... And i love it. 😁❤️❤️ Now i think i will continue to show my raw self in front of others even though people tell me that i shouldn't do it bcz it's too much and my openness and vulnerability scares away the guys😅
Hey Vinisha. As man in my early 40s, I prefer it if a woman shows what she's about because I don't have time to go through that dance anymore of finding out who a person truly is 3 months in. Show who you are from the start. You might be surprised how guys react to that. Perhaps a guy who's a little older might have the maturity to handle who you are.
Just a lovely story! This made my day :) Thank you for sharing it with us! I'm really interested in knowing more about your backgrounds, you parents etc and also do you have any future plans? Love your channel, congrats on the subs! :)
Omg just found your channel woe that is an amazing story but I was shocked about you letting him just come to your place wooo thts dangerous like yall said you have no idea who the person is and that really could've been horrible..but I love how it turned out you were definitely put together..I love how you met and just never left 😂..Im definitely interested in Asian men but live in the U.S. so haven't met one yet..very happy for you two!
Beautiful story. I've lived in Korea 1987 DMZ, 91 Seoul, 94 Cp. Casey and finally 2001 Daegu. (Retired Army). Hopefully my job will have me sent to Korea later this year.
So I’m a big fan of you guys and I’m planning to move to Korea in February for work. What was the biggest adjustment that you had to make when you came to Korea? What was it that made you the most home sick?
Awesome! Hope your trip is great! I think my family story is a bit special which caused me to not be “home sick” and a main reason I went to Korea. I didn’t really have a hard time adjustment 🤔… maybe I’ll make a solo video about it in the future ☺️
My late husband from South Africa. We were in India in July 1995 on the way to Africa to work there. After working in Mongol 1997 flew to SK to help that country during AFC - Asian Financial Crisis. But now my heart lost to India. My memoir Love of Life - A Miraculous Story! will be released soon.
Hello!! I’m late to the party but recently came to know you two and appreciate learning about yalls story. I don’t have much dating experience , only had one bf before and dating here and there haha so it’s interesting learning how ppl come together. I have one question if there were no labels did that mean that both of y’all were free to see other ppl during the time you were not together but still casual? I think even if labels are not important there should still be some discussion so expectations are in alignment , to avoid misunderstandings.
Good questions! I guess we could have seen someone else, but we mutually had a “feeling” we didn’t/ wouldn’t want to, but I suppose we could have an did any of us did, then it wouldn’t have been a problem since we both (at the time) weren’t looking for a relationship. Also, there really wasn’t much time apart. Honestly maximum 1 week 😂 other than that we were practically living together, so I guess just in our actions we were together (even though we never asked each other, we did tell a few friends who asked that we were together 😂)
I’m not even sure how I came across your videos but I noticed in your thumbnails that Jae was giving me fruity and not overly femme presenting. This caught my eye bc I identify as queer (pan) and I’m fluid with the way I present (both “masc” and “femme”). I found it really comforting to see you present/dress/ be yourself even on ur RU-vid videos. I love dressing in my basic tshirt outfit, “masc” vibes but I’ve been struggling w the concept of feeling pressured to be “femme” when trying to date men… idk but this just …. I needed to see this. Question, in your tinder pics Jae, this is an odd question but what were they giving? Bc even on tinder I still pressured to show only femme pics even tho majority of the time I prefer more masc/androgynous looks
I can’t say I ever felt such a pressure, I guess you can say I was lucky in my environment. My whole grade school years I dressed “like a tomboy” but these days I just wear whatever is comfy or I like. At work it’s very nice clothes and way more femme, at home it’s probably the shirt on the floor and some shorts 😂😂😂 I kind of do whatever, sometimes I have my nails all done for months, and other times I have them looking rough haha I appreciate you sharing your story, and I hope you don’t feel and pressure to live your life how you want. As for my tinder, I would say it was mainly upset body selfies, so couldn’t really tell my attire. 🧐
I cannot believe you let a complete stranger into your apartment. 😅 I hope most people watching this video do not follow in your footsteps. But, I'm glad to hear it worked out.
The most beautiful couple I have ever seen I come from your Instagram I now believe in love because of you I wish you happiness I am following you from Iraq
@MIN & JAE Thank you, I enjoy watching your videos on Instagram, you are amazing people, keep spreading love to us through your videos, and thank you for your kind words to me~❤️
Can you share how his parents react to him being in a relationship with you? Cause I’ve heard a lot of korean parents don’t want their kids to marry outside of their ethnicity?
Just being curious Jae, you dated two women before Min, what happens if you met another woman that you liked? Fair to say you are Bi, correct? The way your relationship started is very interesting & I agree it made it easy to get along since non of you was trying to impress the other, no pressure. I have watched couple videos & they have being fun. Look forward to watching more.
It is no different then any other relationship, if someone meets someone they like.. and I don’t like labels so you can’t call me bi or w/e lol I think the “term” for me would be pansexual though~ Like in a girl and boy relationship the girl meets a guy she likes, is no different if I meet a girl.. girl or guy doesn’t really change the outcome~ But I am happy with my partner for life, not saying there won’t be other great people who might enter my life, but I am confident I found my one :)
This is the third story I've heard like this w/ couples in Korea lol I wonder if its common to be like "can I stay over".. cuz that is the strangest thing to me!
