How We Saved Our Marriage After A Rough Time… 

Destiny is so gorgeous ❤ Marriage is never 50/50. It's 100/100. You wake up daily and choose to stay married, to love, hell sometimes just to put up with your partner. You give everything you have every single time. Some days your 100 won't cover it and your partner will have to make up the difference. And that's fine. Both of you having the desire to serve each other daily is what will get you through. All my love 💓

Des , don’t forget you guys married at a young age. The truth is us woman we don’t find our true selfs into we turn 30. Put God first into your marriage and watch how your hard times will fade away with the power of your union and love to one another .

I've never liked the phrase "Happy Wife, Happy Life".... That's all wrong in so many levels... It's "Happy Spouse, Happy House" God bless you guys.. Never ever stop Communicating to me that's the main ingredient in a marriage... Luv you guys ❤❤❤ Marriage is beautiful thing when done right...Remember you guys were boyfriend/ girlfriend before y'all were husband/wife and the kids will get older and leave the house to start their own families and you'll just have eachother so keep it live, go out on dates alone no Koa.. spice it up.. when we start a family sometimes we're consumed by everyday work and kids and put our spouse on the back burner, don't do that this is our FOREVER PERSON.. Stay lit fr fr... ok enough I'm talking too much 😂

Baby marriage is WORK!!!! The thing is finding someone you want to put the work in with. Destiny it’s really unfair how freaking stunning you are inside and out🥺 ❤one thing I Love about my girl , Des be like we got restaurant food at home sis stay creating gourmet meals. 😮‍💨 I’m with Koa I’d be stealing strawberries too that baby don’t play about his mama’s food. 😂This vlog was toooo good! Food looked delicious 1000/10 🔥I love y’all 🫶🏾

His eyes say it all,he smiles but you can see he has a lot going on he’s usually so happy and hyping everything up 😢❤❤❤

Love how open you guys are about marriage ❤️ it’s one thing just being couple but once kids and marriage happens, everything changes! Key is not to give up on your love and family ❤️

Awww Des seeing you get emotional was beautiful. You and Julius truly love each other. Love/marriage could never exist without challenges and that just reminds us of why we fell in love with that person in the first place. My husband grinds my gears sometimes but I couldn't live without him❤❤❤❤

Thank you for sharing your private experience in your relationship with us. When we always watch people at their best on social media and here, it can give a false sense of how everybody is doing well in their marriage/relationship and how you are like the only one going through tough paths. It can give a sense of like how your own relationship is not okay because everybody only shows themselves as they are always happy with butterflies around. So, it means a lot for me. I remember your video back in the time where you opened up about how you argued with him and how you wanted to make things right because things happen and you should not give up, it gave me so much inspiration back then, it made me realize that I mostly expect but I don’t give apology. So, I changed my ways and it worked like a charm with my now hubby❤️❤️❤️ You are such a special soul, I believe in your sincerity amongst everyone else. I wish you guys and myself and everyone who is in love a long and happy married life🎉🎉🎉

I can definitely see his energy being down in this video! 😞 but Des, I admire how you do your best to keep the energy up and happy during this time. Give him a good ole HAWK TUAH and call it a night lol

Desssss your such a chef, you need to make a cook book! ❤such a beautiful family 😅

Dez I feel like you two have grown closer and are more genuine with your viewers since your move to Texas. Life in Cali can be very fast and it can be exhausting trying to keep up with that lifestyle. I hope you both find yourselves, wishing you both success and that you both grow more in love every day!

Someone you can be this vulnerable and soft with, who receives your love and reciprocates it AND yall elevating it, learning new ways to love each other, communicate and make money together….Definitely a blessing! Prayers up for your family 🙏🏽💗 KEEP GROWING ✨ #keepfighting

For the record I saw it in both your eyes when y'all were going thru it... We can't hid it... I'm glad y'all found your way back it's not easy you gotta work at it and stay working on it 😊

Destiny girl you made me cry. I’m going through something with the man I love and wanted to spend my life with. He’s also my Daughter’s father. He’s just not on the same page as me and it looks like it’s over for us. You have been blessed with a beautiful Son and a great Man who loves and respects you. You are amazing and you deserve it. I say that from the bottom of my heart💜

Moving… moving out of state.. having a baby, no family around…. Takes a toll on a marriage. I’ve been there and it’s all about giving it your all. 😊 love you guys ❤

What I LOVE so much about you guys is how real and vulnerable you guys are. I am a newly wed and we had a period of also feeling disconnected. This point of view is so real. Im praying that your marriage continues to grow and you guys are able to flourish together. Also, don't forget to keep God as the center of your marriage

I’ve been watching you guys for so long and it’s amazing to see the progression you two have had through the years. Thank you for showing us some of this side of your relationship! Marriage is not easy and love to see an example of a couple putting in the work.

Des you have this energy about you that feels so bright, love yall🥹🤍

I have been watching y’all for over 6 years and I am genuinely so happy for you guys and every single milestone. Relationships are 100% about showing up for each other every day and sometimes we all fall short. Everything about your dinner was precious. God gave you two a beautiful family; cherish each other forever❤️

Yall give me hope that real love is always alive !!! I love yall fr ❤

How sweet. I’m pretty sure the video you’re referencing is the first video on your channel I ever saw. Thanks for sharing and being so vulnerable ❤

Marriage does have its highs and lows and is hard work, but you guys are a great team and work well together. Saving time for each other and being open about how you both feel is very important. I hope that things stay ok with u both, plus I love watching your vlogs!😊

Thank you for sharing that. I know it’s hard especially online for so many people to see. But it made me feel less alone. No relationship is perfect and you’re 1000% right that all marriage is work from both sides. So happy you guys are such an exemplary couple and I look up to yall so much. Keep loving each other because love conquers all!!

Des you’re amazing for your thoughts of cheering up your husband. Losing a friend let alone a best friend is very heart breaking, the grieving never stops.

I love the dark hair on Destiny! ❤ Blessings to you two as you navigate through the ups and downs of marriage.

I can remember the video Destiny mentioned when JuJu said that was his last year not being a dad. He was correct. You all have came a long ways and I’m very proud of you all. 💙💙

Loveeee this! Thank you for being raw des! Many don’t like sharing the deep/raw/realistic parts of their life so for you’s to choose to share it means a lot especially cause many can relate! I for one know for sure I do! I’m proud of you proud of you both! God bless your unity & your growing family ! ❤❤❤

Des would love an in depth video of how you both came into terms with you both weren’t happy and decided to change. What did you 2 do to fall in love all over again? Love you guys!!!!

Men feel down too, it’s nice for them to feel appreciated & loved on even if they don’t make it seem like they need it .. deep down they do! ❤

Love how natural yall are.... Doesn't feel forced ❤❤❤❤❤❤

I’ve been married since 2019 been with my husband since 2017 & I can understand 100% it’s not easy specially when we are together 24/7 it’s like a roller coaster,marriages are not all unicorns and rainbows,we’re growing together,we are changing together,communication is key and most important of it Respect we need to respect each other and speak to each other like grown ups,like I told my husband we are two different people I will not always like what he likes and he won’t like what I like and just come together to an agreement,But I love this man with all my soul,and yes is important to show each other how much we care for each other,This video is so beautiful Dess may God continue blessing your beautiful family and thank you for being so real with us.🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

Living alone and far away from family friends will either makenyou or break you , thankfully for us it made us waaaay closer because we only had eachother to depend on, and there was nomore bad influence around us aka as toxic friends/family members , it does get lonely at times but i can say our relationship/marriage became so much stronger

Lill mans hair looks so cute. I can already see u 3 swimming in ur new pool having a blast ❤❤

I love how you cater to your husband! I do too, but I feel like I tend to forget sometimes so thank you for the reminder! You guys have an amazing marriage ❤ love to you all!! 💕

Des you’re a beautiful person inside and out 💖you made juju that day special! You are truly blessed! You have a beautiful family ! Your love 💕 is very strong 💪!

U2 are the best couple on youtube! Keep up the entertaining videos also!! Fan of Diggy and Doodle as well:)

The work you all put into your marriage shows! Love yall 🩷💙

I seen a quote that love is like a melody sometimes high sometimes low but always a beautiful song or something like that♥️♥️

I love you guys! You can see Julius energy has shifted for the better, he seems much happier now!

i love how real you are des! relationships arent for the weak. I have been in-love with my partner for 6 years. we have a son as well at a young age. Everyone goes through bumps just no one wants to talk about it. You both got this!!

love seeing you guys all thriving youre an amazing mommy !!!

The end KoKo said y’all not turning up without him 😂 he’s so handsome and grown eating that ice cream like a lil grown man I can’t 🥺😭❤️

Its not easy at all. We have been through some really hard times but fought through it. Going on 10 years now🎉 Its good to take an honest look and make changes in how you do things. Also i love that you guys are always real and didnt become show offs like a lot of the others

I love your RU-vid Channel and im so happy you Share this truth with us, thank you, we needed it! Love yall since the Start ❤

I love this family and Destiny to such a beautiful person inside out. Keep loving one another, put God first in your life and be blessed. I love how vulnerable you guys are , life has ups and downs and its refreshing to see you guys let us share everything with you

Love this! Thank you🌹 I know you guys have date nights/ spa days and wanted to share with you, there’s a new spa that just opened in North Texas- Worldsprings in The Colony!

i loved how raw this video was🥰

one of the best videos from J & D, our fav couple to watch..... Love you C❤

Marriage advice is always top tier approach it, hopefully that will be my next journey soon..... blessings to you and your beautiful family Des JuJu and CoCo...some flowers will look amazing in front those beautiful windows

If I don’t see y’all’s videos I become anxious, I just love you guys🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️ Des always looking her best🌺

He talks about it because he wants more of that lol he’s giving you hints des 😅 Love this! Keep spreading this wonderful advice and experiences! Bless you guys 🙏🏼

Glad to hear you guys are in a better place ❤ this vlog is very relatable! Koa is soo cute

Awhh so beautiful how she got emotional and open. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Love always win!

You guys are such beautiful people inside and out! My favorite RU-vid couple and I love how real and genuine you guys are! ♥️ May God continue to bless you guys and your family !

Thanks for being open. From one mom to another. Koa seems to be able to feed himself. You may want to let him go for it. I was the mom that hated messes but I think I fed them too long. Love y'all ❤️

Dayummmm DES that food looks DELICIOUS!!!!!!!! That was so sweet for doing that for ur husband! I’m glad u guys worked ur situation out, u guys love eachother so much and have a beautiful family together and u guys are young.. u guys should always communicate what’s on ur minds whether bad or good! He knows he has a beautiful wife just like u have a handsome husband so always talk when needed and show everyone that u guys GOT THIS!!!!! Best of love and light to u all! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

This video was so sweet. I love how you both are about eachother & your little family ❤ I also love seeing you cook more n more Des 😊

Girl you have me tearing up on a Monday afternoon alone in my car 😭 loved this video

I have been watching yall since the studio days. I love yall so much like truly! I remember that date night Des. You had said you all had hit a rough batch so you wanted Julius to know you were sorry and loved him still. ❤❤❤❤ I wish you both so a long lasting marriage. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

Destiny is such a beautiful person, both inside and out 💕

This was so cute, I'm so happy yall was able to stay strong Des your an amazing women and it shows that you love your family ❤️

Love yall so much. I been watching yall since day 1! Love all your content. Yall grown so much into the cutest little family ever!!

Put God First and the center of your marriage ✝️🙏 He will bless you abundantly and protect you always ♥️ I watched you guys both when you first started off your channel and Des was working at Hooters! I got mad love for you Dess and your family! Sending you Blessings girl ! 💜😘

I love you guys so much and the fact that we are growing up together is just beautiful...like I remember watching you guys in the small studio of juju and now like you I'm married with a baby boy..life is crazy 😅 thank you guys for all the videos you shared with us I get it it's your job! But you're doing it well 🥹🤍

Omg KOA is such a cute little boy. You both have a very special thing going on don’t ever let the little things get in the way of ruining that.

Sending positive energy your way, you guys deserve it all ❤

So happy for you guys! Love to see you guys happy. Such a beautiful family.

Des it doesnt matter how fancy the smile across his face you can tell he felt loved and special you are an extraordinary mother/ wife girly you are goals to me always remember the only way out the fire is through it TOGETHER

When she said “I’ll love you forever Julius. “ 😢 marriages really go through alot especially when you add a toddler into the mix. (My current situation) thank you for being so extremely valuable girl . We’re all human & we all go through our ups & downs. 🫶🏼💕

Love your videos & your family is so beautiful. I hope you know you both are doing an amazing job. I can only imagine moving & not having much support can be stressful. Just remember it’s the work you both put in & you can tell by your videos the 💞you have for each other shines through on videos just continue what you’re doing it’s working. Stay positive & strong 💞

Awww this is so thoughtful of her to do 🥹

The fact that I been watching you guys since the donut review in your studio to when des decided to quit hooters ❤ I love that u guys made it ❤

Y’all make me smile. So glad you all are thriving. I love that for y’all. 🫶🏽

Everything about this video is beautiful ❤❤❤ Your marriage is already blessed. Keep loving and communicating easily and may God keep your family in love always.🎉

Desssss your such a chef, you need to make a cook book! ❤

I love you guyssss, been a follower for a long time! You guys are such an inspiration love yall ❤❤❤❤❤❤

Glad to see y’all still rocking after all these years. Much love to y’all and baby Koa ❤🎉

Wow, I have never been so happy... the spark has rekindled for real🥺

Destiny you have a beautiful soul and I hope Julius sees this and appreciates it.

Life is hard but when you have love it’s worth fighting for. Make the choice every day

Sending you guys love!!! ❤️❤️❤️ love is not easy!!!

hey destiny Im around ur age and am starting to grow grey hairs too. Ive been plucking them out because I was not ready for this LOL but seeing you rock them so beautifully and confidently makes me feel better about mine!

Des still just as humble as it gets. lol she has been doing RU-vid for years and is still embarrassed by ppl possibly looking at her while doing a video. lol Don’t be embarrassed for doing your job Dess because them ppl still do their jobs everyday. Next time think of it as you are on FaceTime with us. Lol

Awwww omggg I love to see Julius being a handy man around the houses 😍😍😍 Quan would never 😆😆😆

Couples going through a rough every now and then, I’m glad y’all work it out 😊

I love y’all content and destiny that was really sweet what u did and the sharing just keep God first and many blessings to u both and your family and Julius don’t ever say that to your wife again in front of us that’s your business what y’all do behind closed doors! Other than that y’all such a vibe hey koi 💙💞💙

Without you saying you looking so fresh and beautiful when your videos pop up is and evidence of a loving and enjoying relationship with juju love watching you guys ❤

I’m so glad you guys worked it out old school way “fix it instead of throw it.

Your honor is such a good show 🔥

“That’s what I like to seee” 😭😂🤣🤣🤣 when you throws down the branch

Beautiful video! Love seeing good men appreciated.

I love how amazing y'all truly are ❤❤ seriously you both are so perfect for one another ❤❤ & I freaking love yalls love 😘😘 I'm so excited that I've been around since the beginning when y'all started YT Lets go 😊😊

I’ve been loving you guys for years. Such a cute couple and family ❤❤❤❤

Can you share the recipe for the shrimp thing you made?! It looks so good 😭😭

Love it ! Love YALL ! ❤

Also the big move will change a marriage big time! Stay strong ❤

Super cute vid. Since the bush is gone…you should add a fountain and lots of flowers!

Awe so happy for you both. Enjoyed your video. Everything takes work.. Blessings and love to you all.. ❤❤❤❤

I already hit a like before it starts. Des you’re so beautiful !!! ❤❤❤ & your hair looks flawless

You guys look so happy and in love ❤️❤️❤️❤️