How Will Jae Raise His Kids | HDIGH Ep. #14 Highlight

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Happy Tuesday! The question of the day is “what is attachment theory?” Jae explores this topic and explains how the way you're treated growing up could affect your life in the long-run. Let’s analyze ourselves and figure out our attachment styles!
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@DIVEstudios 4 года назад

Listen to the FULL episode here: wavve.link/hdigh

@bangtanforever2148 4 года назад

Dear pd nim, next time please invite mark got7 to this jae’s podcast🥺❤️👉🏻👈🏻 i really waiting for it!

@nunyabidnezz7531 4 года назад

jae: *is a singer* also jae: "hmm, not sure if i want my kid to be a singer"

@melodienien8872 4 года назад

But like... he doesn't want his kid to be pressured to do something and maybe that's hard if they choose the same career path ... at least that's what I'd think ^^

@AprilsPunk 4 года назад

I figured it was more like, I know what it's like to be a singer, I don't want that for you kinda vibe

@sylvias6666 4 года назад

my mum works is the music industry and she always tells me not to go into it lmao

@xDAnnanas 4 года назад

i actually think its probably not uncommon for singers/idols not to want their kids to become singers/idols, taeyeon has said something similar before. it's probably because they know what it's like and they don't want their kids to go through it as well

@ejyhui 4 года назад

lay also said in a chinese interview that he didn’t want his children to become idols, especially if he had a daughter

@yoshikaankem6958 4 года назад

I feel like Jae is gonna be that one really chill and intellectual dad that's lowkey embarrassing :)

@ivofspds 4 года назад

like tablo kind of? 😂

@gleaminggaze 4 года назад

lowkey?!

@user-rk1zq5fc3e 4 года назад

But in the past radio interview, he said he def won't be the friend-like kind parent. Otherwise it would be hard to discipline them.

@nadinelyshaa 4 года назад

his soulmate is so lucky :(

@amorescense 4 года назад

Sounds like my dad😂😂

@jaecola433 4 года назад

Jae : I want you to be happy, my future child Also jae: I don't want to waste my money Good dad ever

@forlucky8115 4 года назад

(╥﹏╥)

@Someday_Maybe-pn3th 4 года назад

Also Jae: Imma make my kids sleep outside

@ra7il4728 4 года назад

loll best dad

@slit1669 4 года назад

@@Someday_Maybe-pn3th BAHAHAH

@lorna4980 4 года назад

He's better than my imaginary dad :(

@ThePinkSweaterChannel 4 года назад

Jae last week: “Imma just let my kids sleep outside”

@woah3850 4 года назад

lol that's what I was thinking

@imaunyil5242 4 года назад

Trueeeeee

@nasyamiranda 4 года назад

Where he said that?

@elfpetalsforever6696 4 года назад

@@nasyamiranda last week podcast i think.. You can search dive studios clip

@nasyamiranda 4 года назад

@@elfpetalsforever6696 ohh,, ok thanks

@karrot2270 4 года назад

*edit: PLEASE WEAR A MASK GUYS FOR THE HEALTH OF EVERYONE* Jae's kid(s): "I wanna do _____!" Jae: no Jae's kid(s): **shows Jae this video** Jae:

@JemimaEman 4 года назад

I wonder what Jae will do🤔

@nadllyne 4 года назад

lol

@antiwidyanprastiwi7557 3 года назад

hahaha jae's speechless

@noorrashidahardi6052 3 года назад

Jae: 👁👄👁

@lindeouano1570 3 года назад

Oh my

@salmaalya8224 4 года назад

I agree with you jae, let's raise a kids together

@euphxriia6014 4 года назад

Lmfao

@cami641 4 года назад

LMAOOO

@yasminavanilla5187 4 года назад

HAHAHHAHA

@cheeseboogar 4 года назад

I am completely shook by your pfp. You look exactly like me and my brain can't process that

@JASMIN-oq2px 4 года назад

UNDERRATED COMMENT

@09littlesunshine 4 года назад

"Lose enough to let me go to sleepovers but tight enough that I'm not going to tell them where I'm really going" really felt that, my parents were the same :D

@SK-es9kf 4 года назад

that part got me cracking up xD

@luminana7713 4 года назад

I did not. I can't even visit my friends house for an hour WITH my parents there

@elnat7700 4 года назад

Saaame

@auriskawindyafadhilasakti50 4 года назад

Me too!!@@

@kariimnida3500 4 года назад

haha... I can relate a lot to Diane PD-nim. 🤣 🤣 😂

@hyuvk7681 4 года назад

“i don’t wanna waste my money” preach

@estherpedersen8686 4 года назад

can we just take a moment to appreciate producer diane?

@nnnacy1159 4 года назад

I really like her hahhaha

@qarirahizzah 4 года назад

is she korean?

@kariimnida3500 4 года назад

@@qarirahizzah yes, she is. Diane Kang

@qarirahizzah 4 года назад

kari imnida aaa thankyou!

@dianneharrison7146 4 года назад

I love her and she is really pretty 😍

@weeekloud 4 года назад

take a shot everytime jae says *interestingggg*

@lania0637 4 года назад

whylime I’ll visit u in hospital if u visit me, too

@moonshine1024 4 года назад

whylime I don‘t think i could handle that XD

@riverzin666 4 года назад

And y'know Guy have the Paul McCartney's thing

@Amanda___ 4 года назад

I don't have any alcohol... Does apple juice count if I put it in a shot glass??

@filipa99 4 года назад

and when Diane says "like" 🥴

@yeonjunssexynostrils7915 4 года назад

Imagine if Jae was a lawyer/doctor/accountant/Businessman/millionaire

@noltran2843 4 года назад

We would have never gotten this.

@visakhakamandjaja8918 4 года назад

Tru

@noemicarlos6856 4 года назад

That is so wattpad

@jjongwol 4 года назад

he was once, at least in that wattpad i guess

@seokjinsjokethatnoonelaugh9314 4 года назад

if he was ever a doctor he would be like *bReAtHe iN aNd oUt oUt oF cOnTrOl*

@Bookcasecaroline 4 года назад

Everyone SHHHHHH he’s discussing how he’s going to raise our child

@elsastarck 4 года назад

I am so much telling jimin about this 😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈

@Bookcasecaroline 4 года назад

@@elsastarck nooooooo dont T_T

@Amanda___ 4 года назад

Pffft- wow lmao

@vwi5141 4 года назад

Well, he did say he was gonna let them sleep outside in the yard or smt-

@robynbrowne1277 4 года назад

I completely relate to Diane, I had a very lose chain growing up but I was very introverted so going out didn't interest me as much as it did other kids. So when I went to college I didn't have such a wild time as other kids did cause that lose chain teaches you that yes you have freedom but freedom takes responsibility

@jksonlycarrot7441 4 года назад

I just found my story in you :)

@username09876 4 года назад

SAME!

@BlankBlush 4 года назад

I’m the same too

@niki7961 4 года назад

1:19 All of us Asian kids feeling it on a spiritual level🤣

@davepavillar4150 4 года назад

Some things to ponder: It's a fact: Not only for Asian-American parents but also even for native Asian parents to "guide" you what kind of career you "have" to take. And I believe what Jae said. You can't really reach "that" goal if you know that you are not interested with it. And also, looks like PD Diane and I share a lot in common. Cheers to you!

@rudalihuidrom7401 4 года назад

Oh, eaJ, your future child is lucky to have you as dad.

@IsabelLee617 4 года назад

I really really really hope Jae can be a dad, but I’m so worried for him if he does become one... I think Day6 has a lot more international fans that are more open minded, but remember they are a Kpop band. Koreans are their target audience and I just don’t want another Chen situation...

@anelie6320 4 года назад

I hope someday they'll realize that idols are humans too 😞

@yadiraa6994 4 года назад

Honestly Day6’s fans are more mature and they’ve been in kpop for the longest I don’t think it would be an issue in korea. And if they don’t accept it we international fans are GOING TO MAKE THEM ACCEPT IT WHETHER THEY LIKE IT OR NOT ☺️

@xfairyres 4 года назад

I hope because chen situation will slowly change kfans mindset

@shes_a_pandora148 4 года назад

I'm pretty sure MyDay won't be like that. MyDay is a bit different. I mean the reason we are stanning Day6 is because of their music, personalities, and "that connection" between them and MyDay. Not that kind of affection of having them to be like forever ours, I mean like those possessive actions? Well but Ikr what u're afraid of.. Let's hope that's not gonna happen!✌

@anisa3962 4 года назад

For real I don't really think they should be held accountable for wanting to be happy, it's sad that it needs to be spelled out that the fans should adjust to it and be mature enough to realize they can't control someone they claim to admire ? There is no pleasing everybody so idols should just do what they want.

@dayangazni7141 4 года назад

Jae's kids gonna be like him, for sure

@sahanahasyim6858 4 года назад

YUP WE GOT A NEW “INTERESTING” HERE

@sugarbabe6545 4 года назад

I started to imagine jae as a father and I'm crying I just want him to have a family and be happy :C

@landrewmountain 4 года назад

I swear I'm gonna cut all the parts where Jae's saying 'interesting', make a sort of ringtone and play it every time I'm talking to myself out loud. It's been more than a month since the real quarantine in my region began and I live alone, my family and friends are in another city. Except for texting, skyping (for work) and sometimes phoning I don't have other human interactions. So, myself has been a huge comfort. Also, podcasts create a feeling of not being alone. Usually talking to yourself is considered as a sign of mental illness, but I found an article that said it may be 'a sign of higher intelligence'. It's actually also a great topic to cover in the podcast. Anyway, I'm off to listen to the whole episode...

@hanshiba3074 4 года назад

yo, that's actually really interesting... i'm sorry that you haven't had people IRL to talk to, i wish you the best during quarantine!

@tagablue5459 4 года назад

Well, during our entire life the only person that is sure to stay with us is ourselves, so I don't see why talking to ourselves should be bad xD Anyway, stay strong during this difficult period :) !

@mialinard8237 4 года назад

Imagine that Jae's future child is someone who like idols or band like Day6, and want to buy the albums/merch But Jae just said : *I don't wanna waste my money*

@shreyashakya9863 3 года назад

No he meant it as "I don't wanna waste my money to make you study harder and become a genius that you are not" way Still,I got the pun n it was good XD

@kimgarrett9472 4 года назад

"my parents trying to mold me into this lawyer/doctor/accountant..." i felt that on a personal level

@yula6680 4 года назад

i love jae's mindset about parenting thing. we are so proud of you.

@SyeikhaAnnisa 4 года назад

From 4:17 to 4:25, Jae's "Mmm" is so satisfying. Diane must like talking with Jae because he's so attentive and responsive. I also see how Diane is very talkative when doing a podcast with Jae like she's not even on screen but she talks a lot. It shows how comfortable Jae is as a podcaster.

@jaecola433 4 года назад

I'm completely curious, who is gonna be your wife😂

@hildalarsson998 4 года назад

Dude Jae is the wife

@alexxx_1 4 года назад

Hilda larsson omg so true 😂

@novietaferliana29069 4 года назад

Saaaameee

@kei2231 4 года назад

Ofc me.

@eajpecial405 4 года назад

Whoever she is, she is very lucky to have Jae as her husband 😅

@strwbrrsncig6574 4 года назад

So.. it’s more like how did WE get here with Jae of day6 ft. Diane, the smart co-host! Hahahahahhaaha i love both of u🔥

@iiza28 4 года назад

the way jae genuinely listens to what other people say it's probably the most endearing thing about him

@noname-og2ns 4 года назад

watching this made me realize that jae is almost 30 (mind you that jae didnt act like his age thats why smtimes I forget how old he is) like hes at the perfect age to starts his own family... I will always pray for the best for him and for his future family💜

@notalwaysnormal 4 года назад

- when an asian kid graduates high school - parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, random elders you haven't even seen before: WHAT YOU GONNA BE NEXT TIME??? DOCTOR IS GOOD CHOICE! LAWYER IS GOOD CHOICE! ENGINEER IS GOOD CHOICE! ACCOUNTANT IS GOOD CHOICE! HAHHH?!?! YOU NO WANT BE THOSE? YOU WANT BE TEACHER/ARTIST/WRITER/SINGER!!!! HAIYAAAAA THAT JOB NO MONEY! NO GOOD NO GOOD! DOCTOR IS THE BEST JOB!

@kated.5005 4 года назад

crazyrandomme ikr 😞 im getting closer to college and i still havent found a way to escape medicine school that my parnets want me to go to

@notalwaysnormal 4 года назад

@@kated.5005 😨 do you want to go to med school though? if you know that you won't enjoy/do well in med school, i think you really should tell ur parents!! maybe lay out all your reasons and tell them honestly that you won't feel happy in med school, and that even if you do graduate, your heart and abilities aren't in there, so there's no benefit there to you or anyone. they might not listen, but at least you can try, and it might help that you present a plan B or a compromise that is acceptable to both you and your parents and will reassure them that you know what to do with your future 😊 all the best, i hope you can work it out with your parents!

@kated.5005 4 года назад

crazyrandomme thanks, I’ll somehow work it out and convince them that i really want to do what i want

@largofetchie5296 4 года назад

main cause of my anxiety

@lsyteam6632 3 года назад

Going into med out of your own volition is maddening enough as it is. And forcing people into it just down straight 🤬🤬🤬 'What in the sane world did I get myself into?' is like a mantra every now and then. So, wish you best luck about coming in terms w/ ur family

@rayart3507 3 года назад

Imagine Jae's future child just looking at his dad's photos when he was a kpop star 👀👄👀

@lysanderh3625 4 года назад

I feel like Jae is going to be a great dad ; u ; like really understanding and open-minded but also really wise and protective ❤️

@jeonnie5271 4 года назад

so apparently jae's indirectly saying that he doesn't want his child to be a singer? hmmmm interesting,,,never thought of that before to be honest hahahh

@harshasaravanan4342 4 года назад

“loose enough to go to sleepovers but tight enough to not tell them where i’m going” producer diane is the funniest person on earth😂😂

@xariracha 4 года назад

"interesting" saga continues

@user-to5zt7re4j 4 года назад

he keep saying "interesting" and it's so interesting for me

@SyeikhaAnnisa 4 года назад

1:40 Dear Jae's future child, you must be proud seeing your dad right here giving you a message. Okay, I feel so emo. I'm curious as to what the future will unfold. Haaa. When Jae gets married one day and has one or more kids, I'll think back about this podcast for sure.

@susanneptune 3 года назад

"Tight enough that I’m not gonna tell them where I’m really going " 100% agree with that 🤣🤣🤣

@icepat31002 4 года назад

Praise DIVE Studios for giving Producer Diane a mic! Her thoughts are so interesting!

@kashaffatima1306 4 года назад

0:41 is the reason why i am always up for Jae's podcasts😂😂❤

@kerigankeas3099 4 года назад

I love how Jae includes Diane I’m his podcast. She always has such cool things to say and her laugh is adorable. I love and appreciate you Diane 💕

@noejeon 4 года назад

Its so good to see idols talking about their future children abt what they want, how they’re gonna be when the time comes

@eriee233 3 года назад

I am an introvert, still I can say I can have a conversation with Jae for hrs. He is so easy and comfortable to talk to

@auliapratiwi976 4 года назад

my weak heart is so soft when he is really looking like a grown up man rn cs talking about a future child. i'm gonna wait for those days to come.

@rriri.elleee 3 года назад

ikr jae is really gonna be a good father to our future kids ily baby ❤️

@theenaawwsomeness143 4 года назад

I love Jae’s personality! He speaks so true about just pretty much letting his future kids live life and enjoy what they like.

@RacheousMe 4 года назад

I just melted when he said he had been thinking about it for some years now 💖 I hope you find the one you want to build a family with soon 💖

@jhan5300 4 года назад

when it comes to parenting, i think the key element is communication. i grew up telling my mum everything without getting judgement in return, only understanding and (when needed) lecturing. talk to your kid about everything from their interests to yours, to what's right and wrong, problems, dilemmas, curiosities, even daily nothings. that way you develop both healthy authoritative boundaries that they're aware of and understand, as well as a tight friendship where you can actually share personal things with your parents.

@Key2998_ 4 года назад

Diane saying "But tight enough that I'm not going to tell them where I'm really going" is me when I'm in college bc i live far from my family at that time. 😂😂😂

@aidafarina1517 4 года назад

we would need full episode of HDIGH.. seeing Jae is completely different from only listening hahahaha his face expression and everything

@alexandrarodriguez483 4 года назад

Is it just me or I find Jae’s voice very soothing and easy to listen too, like calming in a sense.

@lai7555 4 года назад

I feel like jae is gonna be the kind of dad that tells his kids' classmates that he was a famous kpop star back in the day

@hawa4777 4 года назад

but when he said he wants to his child to be happy, i was like "aww" and went to "😶" when he said he doesnt want to waste his money. #asianparentscheck

@nikkisantos9920 4 года назад

i love how he listens to her intently, trying understand her, and relates to her. I LOVE JAE

@aneisap7517 4 года назад

Okay my mom found that balance between friend and parents so I'm thankful that I'm able to tell her anything. But also even though I was a straight A student if I said I think I failed an exam she would be say "As long as you know you tried your best its okay". That's the parent I wanna be to my children.

@patatreebhadra2532 4 года назад

0:42 omg this is too funny lol..... Jae being an awsmmm father figure

@nafsbintimarhaban4068 4 года назад

Jae said : it's so hard to raise a kids especially if they're like me. Bruh. You know yourself better Jae. 🤣

@kaylaluu5299 4 года назад

jae in 2015 : yelling at his kermits for not doing their homework

@antiwidyanprastiwi7557 3 года назад

hahaha it's so cute seeing jae talk about his child in future 💕

@JustWaiting4MyBias 4 года назад

Save this clip for Jae's future children

@fauziyhf9793 3 года назад

Feels like something in my womb nodding when he says "i want you to be happy, my future child" 🙏

@techsupportdepartment8896 4 года назад

jae’s child is gonna have an amazing dad and uncles

@dreamsleep4583 4 года назад

One happy tear went down when I heard Jae said "my future child" Like yeah Jae I know you will be a great dad :')

4 года назад

The way Jae said "interesting" is just too satisfying :)

@minamu6475 4 года назад

제형오빠 ‘interesting’ 넘 귀여운거 아닌가욤,,,ㅠㅠ

@gracellanovemberine5060 4 года назад

I hope oneday, my children have a dad like jae. The way his think about it so cool,

@Jasmine-qb1ut 4 года назад

Jae is going to be such a chill and fun dad omg

@ayezaali6009 4 года назад

I love Diane so much lol, their conversations make it all so much more interesting compared to one person talking

@laricelzyrabunao17 4 года назад

A total husband material. Stop messing with my heart Jae 😍😂🤣😭

@justine_the8 4 года назад

I WANT JAE TO BE MY DAD. FINALLY I CAN HAVE FREAKING FREEDOM

@mylittleproducer4028 4 года назад

i just love it when Jae start to talk about his future child...^^ i can't help myself to think that his children (well at least one of them) will might be similar to him from the way of thinking, habits, fashion styles, allergies and many more. i can't help myself to smile when i think of it. just imagine "little Jae".....he will be so cute..^^

@linusdays 4 года назад

I RELATE SO MUCH WITH DIANE, LIKE LITERALLY EVERYTHING SHE SAID!!! Loose enough to do fun stuff but know the limitation (or sometimes lie hsmdgdkaha). AHHH GOOD TO KNOW I'M NOT THE ONLY ONE 😭 Mom and Dad, i think u raised me well (except to the expectation u set to me tho 🤪)

@jemgerada3904 4 года назад

Jae's gonna be one of the best dad in the future 😭✊

@rozi_xx2434 4 года назад

Do you know what I realised Diane is such a cool person. She reminds me so much of my aunt which lives really far away from us. And the way she laughs is just such a beautiful sound in my ears idk why. Literally like my lovely aunt😂😂 love ya Diane

@dmy783 4 года назад

imagine day6 bringing their kids to the concert and we myday will go with our own kids too. that'll be so cute omg. i'm waiting for that day to come

@TertiaryQuota 4 года назад

I cant-

@TertiaryQuota 4 года назад

Lol they will be too old then when I do xD

@sunflowersun5976 4 года назад

4:06 THIS IS ME.. Idk why, but when i was little, my parents didn't tell me what to do. Sometimes it was good and other times i had a feeling that i need them to guild me. I think that made me learn a lot at an early age, made me know myself better and what's expected from me as a person. I had as you said to figure things out to make it all go well! I'm actually thankful to my parents cuz of that cuz im satisfied with myself and how i am :))

@tesspatterson3850 4 года назад

my parents are like not that strict, they don’t expect my futures to be one way or another as long as it’s not staying at home past the age of 18. idk why but i still ended up being a sneaky ass kid like escaping out the window, coming home late, not listening but then again my parents didn’t mind cuz i got high marks 😂😂😂 tbh they probably thought i cheated

@hanshiba3074 4 года назад

Growing up so far, I have had a really tight chain. It makes me realize that in college I need to make sure I stay on the right track. I don't even know what I want to do in life anymore...............

@dazhellebuena9965 4 года назад

Jae talking about his future child makes me soft

@ThePinkSweaterChannel 4 года назад

And the *interesting* saga continues

@samd3896 4 года назад

Jae's "innteresttinggg......" tho haha😆

@eleanorstell1173 4 года назад

Producer Diane's voice is so soothing and her laugh is kinda unique P.S i'm not in love with her I'm just in love with her voice

@Ahgg221 4 года назад

Imagine Jae at a kindergarten show and tell showing his dance skills!

@JustAMulti 3 года назад

Jae to his kids: "you can be a musician, actor, artist, whatever you want to be." Jae's future kids: "Dad I want to be a data analyst. " Jae: .......?

@penaruby 4 года назад

My parents never let me go to sleepovers when my friends invited me over “porque uno nunca sabe” (because one never knows) and “¿no tienes cama aquí?” (Do you not have a bed here?). Hence, why after all these years, I can honestly say that I don’t have a single friend that I still keep in touch with from my Elementary, middle and high school years. I have two close friends that I made at university though 😊

@Hell0Moonchild 4 года назад

Whoever edits these videos, thank you for the magical editing. It's amazing

@vyvooz 4 года назад

THE MOST IMPORTANT VIDEO ON THE INTERNET!!

@rachaeljoon 4 года назад

this clip really reflects on my current situation, like what jae said. My parents are really pushing me to study to become a doctor and im only a high school sophomore going to this prestigious selective enrollment school but so far i cant see myself striving for it, like im not interested but im scared ill bring shame if i dont pursue it. I really want Dianas situation where she tells herself how to do better without parents remarks because my mom hurts me with her comments about my school work

@euphxriia6014 4 года назад

Jae explaining how he is gonna be when a he's a dad is exactly how my dad is lol

@shelvyarahmatulirman2236 4 года назад

1:56 BABIE JAE

@teebzcuzwhynot6252 4 года назад

I wanna see Producer Diane She's so amazing. In my opinion, one of the best producers out there!

@junaegi4704 4 года назад

2:17 Jae: all computers away also Jae: protectively touches his laptop

@fengkas 4 года назад

interesting because I really want to know from Jae's perspective about raising a child

@sofydwiyanti5158 4 года назад

I love hear jae speaking, like i see mountain views. So fresh

@alxadoll 4 года назад

Hes gonna be the chill dad that i want

@JB-fh4yz 4 года назад

Jae everything you say is just funny to me HAHAHA you know those type of people that would make you laugh even by just seeing them, youre one of them

@glazedgrawl7368 4 года назад

jae just explaining "the kid do what they want" is legitimately my parents do on how they raising me

@vedauh 4 года назад

i feel like jae is going to be that one dad who, wants his child to be successful in their life no matter what path they take, and that he'd be proud of his chid (or children) for whatever they're passionate about