This was beautiful. As a Black American woman in the manifestation community, the idea of us having manifested slavery never sat right with me. I fell into Neville's work in the beginning of 2015 and at that time all I had were the free PDF's online. No one was discussing this on RU-vid, Reddit, Instagram and definitely not TikTok. So I've seen the growth of this community, which has been great, however I agree with your sentiment that coaches these days have lost their efficacy & ingenuity of logic. Oftentimes I see coaches whom I initially felt drawn to because of their style/unique perspective, remain intellectually confined, which is heartbreaking for a community that is based on & thrives on evolution. P.s. I'm a recent sub of yours & I'm loving your content! Thank you!
And yes, I really loathe the channels who make light of stuff they have never even been through, or at least appreciate the weight of the pain of such a circumstance. Not even close. Thanks Genevieve ❤
Not even finished the video but I want to leave a comment - sometimes, things we see as "bad" from our point of view, actually aren't real! For a while I was manifesting an apology from my SP, then later I found out he had already sent a text apologizing months earlier, I just didn't see it because I had archived our conversation on whatsapp lollll, so like, I "manifested" the experience of not having an apology for months, when actually I had it the whole time.
6:00 This one was so important to me. when you’ve grown up gaslit and told things *were* your fault or made to feel there was something wrong with you inherently…. And then when break ups or situations confirm that and you *heard* that those words from other people, not assumptions, it’s hard!!! even though inherently I tried to be the opposing voice for myself and I know that we’re all perfect as is and there’s nothing wrong with us. It’s really hard when you actually hear the opposite of what you know inside of you and that’s not to claim a victim role. It’s just truly head scratching, which brought me to this kind of content. but you, your words were so helpful made me emotional made me just finally able to drop a lot of the narrative to hear someone say no it’s not you. It’s actually not you. Thank you
I would also like to add that on our manifestation journey, having negative emotional reactions like anger and sadness can lead to breakthroughs in our 3D. For me, the key that unlocked the door to being with my SP was me reacting angrily to something inconsiderate that he said, which led to a whole conversation on our feelings for each other. When living in the state of the wish fulfilled, every emotion is an essential piece of the puzzle, and perfectly legitimate
This makes me realise I should make the grief of my relationship with my SP. Not because I don't believe things won't change, but because I've been denying and repressing my own feelings for months and it didn't get me anywhere nor did it help me to feel any better. I was afraid to face the pain of losing him, afraid to accept the 3D as it is now, and thus denying my own inner power. So for my own well-being I'll just accept things as they are, allow myself to feel the pain and the anger and trust myself knowing I'll end up where I want to be regardless of any circumstances, thought or feelings I can have.
I recently did a mushroom trip and a sea of devastating emotions came up about repeating bad circumstances that I had negative energy about again and again. I just cried for hours and felt very dark feelings and surrendered to that, because I couldn't hold on to it anymore. Now I feel lighter and different, especially realizing my "I AM" in my darkest moments, knowing that I felt through them like a mission was accomplished. It also felt like giving myself what I needed to feel in some way.
I love this! I see giving yourself over to this grief inside of you as an act of deep love and compassion and truly showing up for self. And imo that’s a greater gift you could receive than anything.
@@thefunkybassist9916 oh yes, I have been there myself and those difficult moments are when you really build that relationship with yourself and God. Really happy for you. I don’t think many people get to experience that.
I had a couple of interesting thoughts this past week. It is essentially all about regaining your power back as a creator isn't it i.e. realising you are the operant power. 1. Nothing outside of you has power over you including your feelings. Hence you can let them flow freely and be content in knowing you are safe. 2. Attachment is again giving away power. You are attached to something that you think has the capacity to alter your desire. Being detached isn't not caring, it's not worrying if the circumstance will steal your desire away from you. Just thought I'd share
This is exactly opposite of what she said. She said to process your emotions, and NOT rush to be the operant power or brush it aside like you're saying. A terrible thing happens like death and you're saying sit there and say "be content knowing you're safe" thats not it. Gaslighting yourself, and something I dont even think any of you believe it when shit hits the fan.
This one was very emotional for me. Made me realize how much I suppress my emotions. I always tell myself “these are first world problems, there’s real suffering in the world” it’s my way of invalidating myself. Thank you Genevieve for reminding us how important it is to validate every part of us and yet healthily observe ourselves.
Thank you. As someone who has been through pretty much all the above and more, it has been incredibly difficult to work with the law while being subtly led to the underlying assumption that I really must hate myself a lot to have manifested all of this devastation and loss. In addition, devastating circumstances take an enormous toll on one's mental health which in turn makes getting into the right mental state to manifest all that more difficult. The vicious cycle becomes inescapable. You're right this is a crucial topic to address and it is so often flippantly disregarded. I appreciate your courage and enlightened take on this. I feel better knowing that using the law correctly simply means redefining the meaning I give to all of it as it relates to my concept of self. This is a shift I actually feel capable of, and adopting this take on the whole of it feels like welcome relief. This is my first comment ever, that's how much I appreciate this video.
Woah!! Just found you and this video TODAY, definitely what I needed to hear!!! I’m 37 with no kids and 3 degrees but got laid off due to budget cuts and in a “poverty”situation… it’s been humbling not that I needed it, I grew up below the poverty line for most of childhood. But the other teachers were making it seem like I caused this, I’ve been so stressed and confused to say the least.
You're the most empathic coach I have come across, thanks for acknowledging this issue I always thought something was wrong with me it literally hurt me to the point I broke down crying all the time. Miscarriage is not easy to handle knowing I manifested it somehow, this video truly helped a lot. Thank you for being kind♥️
I agree with this. I recently was very angry to the point I wanted to punch someone or throw something. I let myself feel that, I let the tears run, I let all thoughts of revenge just be there. I didnt judge them or myself. While going through it I wrote this short affirmation. I AM has my back no matter what and I then surrendered my thoughts and feelings to my I AM. I fell asleep and woke up light and refreshed. No longer feeling anything that I had before, with the understanding that I AM in my chosen realty and everything no matter how it seems is always working in my favor. That experience was beautiful and I needed that. So all that to say. Feel the emotions without attaching your identity to them. You are bigger and always will be ❤
honestly thank you so much for this video, i got cheated on by my ex and some other stuff went down that really ruined my confidence for a period, he is now happy with someone else… i however have been gaslighting myself that “i dont care” because other coaches have said “you created it, get over it” in other words… still doesn’t take away from needing to take some time out to feel my emotions… finally doing that now and knowing some how some way, i’ll feel better about myself soon and i will attract in a healthy relationship whenever it comes
I love watching and re-watching your videos. This morning, I said to myself Genevieve might have uploaded a new video but when I checked, there wasn't one and then I said to myself that it's okay she will upload one soon and i just went to get some coffee... came back, refreshed your channel and now I'm watching a new video from you. So this is manifesting in a nutshell 😅
I rewaly appreciate this video. I crashed my car last January and have been so reluctant to drive on busy roads ever since. Everyone wa fine but I think i have been blaming myself and making it mean I'll be a bad driver forever more. I want to get past this meaning so i can venture out more and feel safe and secure and in charge. I want to let go of the fear i have . I have an idea that how i had been before it definitely led up to it and i didnt teust my instincts that told me i shouldnt have went out that day. I have been giving myself a hard time over that. However it has shed light on how kucj i was showing up for myself and things have been changing for the better. But its the trust part and the actual feeling of dread that had been putting me off driving busier unknown places. I know ill getvthere and i appreciate videos like this. What you saif about emotions really reflects Dr David Hawkins work which i teaomate with. Thank you x
@@SunInSeptember man that sucks. I totalled my car too and it was absolutely my fault, at least that's what I've been telling myself. I've since heard quite a few reports of that particular interchange road being dodgy and I had only been driving for about four months at that point so it's been a combination. It was definitely a sign for me to prioritise and manage things better. The anxiety around going on busy roads is the most annoying part of it, mostly I am driving alright around my area. I think I probably just need to feel the fear and do it anyways. You absolutely will manifest a car! Mine was totalled as well and I had another car on a couple of months. That car got scraped by a bus while parked and they gave me £1400! (No where near that to pay for damage and I didn't even get it fixed because it didn't look that bad and was second hand car) we will move past this! I even recorded driving affirmations for my channel for other people too lol
I read something interesting recently in a Neville group I am in and think with other coaches that this is why they are jumping in the bandwagon with “circumstances don’t matter.” They stated as Neville was learning from Abdullah that Abdullah gave him no reprieve. Slammed the door on him, etc., you get my gist. That being said, this individual and many others follow that “tough love,” if you will, approach. I tried to make the point that those indeed were different times and what not, but these individuals were hell-bent on their assumptions (lol), and so I think that leaks into a lot of how coaches are. Love how you are! Resonates with me!
Genevieve you’re so good! I love listening to you and so glad you started with RU-vid 🙏🏼 I’ve done one coach call with you and the self concept course and slowly my life is shifting. My SP is back ( he came back twice, but the first time I still was suppressing my emotions and just wanted him back to feel better - didn’t work 🤪😅 and after that I did the self concept course and decided to let it all go and that I was the most important person and how I felt was more important than SP money etc ) And I want everyone to know, it is so empowering to lay in all your “bad” emotions and just say to yourself “I am the most important person in my life” “I’m allowed to feel however I want to feel and I’m here for myself” Life becomes effortless when you allow yourself to feel however you feel, you become energized and happy ❤️ thank you Genevieve for such great guidance and I recommend the self concept course to everyone and to really listening to what she says because it’s the real deal, it’s what makes lasting changes in your life!
So happy for you!! Also happy to hear your SP is back again, I've been kinda feeling it's over with my SP because he already came back once... Anything is possible!
Yeah when I was affirming that everything in my life is perfect… my life completely turned all the way upside down. And it was near impossible to continue affirming. I was putting meaning on my feelings and thoughts as well. Then when I would tell my friend she would get mad that I wasn’t persisting with my affirmations. Ugh. I’m so glad that I’m not doing that shit anymore. Sooo toxic to manifest like that. Force is never the way.
Genevieve , you are exactly what most people need in the manifesting community honestly, since you have been there, you know exactly how it would feel (lost/sad/angry/embarrassed, you name it) even after you have come to the other side. thank you so much for your videos! To me, no matter how "negative/ugly/unwanted" those emotions are, they are still part of me and even though they might not feel that good at the moment, as a normal human being, those are just part of the full spectrum of feelings we get to experience in our lives. I don't really know how to put it but it just seems "unnatural" to me that a normal human being would feel so "high-vibe" ALL THE TIME, to me, what makes me regard myself as a "happy" person isn't the fact that I am so happy ALL THE TIME, but rather the fact that I can bounce back up quite quickly after fully acknowledging and going through the "negatives". The same goes with the "you are enough" concept in a way that we are enough not just because we got XYZ (even personality traits), but the fact that you know who you are, meaning that all the desires and wants are part of you, not some "goals" that are outside of you that are way too far fetch for you to get. When you know something is true about you, you won't even think about whether you are "qualified"/"capable" to "get/prove it", right? nothing is too "good" for you simply because nothing is bigger than yourself. :)
I really needed to hear this 🙏 To understand the difference between honoring the experience while also honing the manifestation practice--without blame in the process. Thank you for your honesty, and anger, in making the point. Super relatable.
Wow. Something about this video was truly transformative. I deeply appreciate the explanation and perspective and experience you’ve shared here. Please make more videos about the true power we hold through our authentic emotions despite hardship. More people need to understand this perspective. This understanding helps to overcome the superficiality of this (not your channel) manifestation community that unknowingly gaslights survivors and keeps them in a loop. Thank you for this recognition and mirroring. It is freeing.
Bravo!!!! Thank you for making this video!!! I will say I have been spiraling with this whole Law of Assumption-what I call "rules" that I keep hearing-so toxic! I was about to throw my hands up and say DONE! And then I came across this video and a couple of other ones that you did! I was like-this makes sense! It doesn't create bigger crevices in the wounds! I have been so angry lately at my SP and my life circumstances (major health issues, finances, housing, etc). I was like-what do you mean my 3D circumstances don't matter when I have chronic pain and want to scream because of it! Your videos have helped clear things up tremendously and I thank you! Many blessing and much peace!!!
I am so glad you posted this video. I was wondering how people manifest in devastation. I am in a situation on my job that the upper management has become very abusive and intimidating. The retaliation is rampant and it’s a state agency. The morale is bad. The solution I am hearing is that I need to find a new job. I love my job and I am not the only one who feels how bad it is. I have been trying to figure out what to manifest in this situation that won’t turn back on me. In a big meeting yesterday I finally shared with the people there the horrible situation and I also cried and told them that the employees need help and the CEO needs to go. I actually felt better after I cried and said the CEO needs to go. I still don’t know what “technique” to use to manifest this but I feel better about it. Thanks for sharing this information.
Thanks for bringing this up! (New sub here.) Yeah I’ve been thinking about this because I’ve been very steadfast about maintaining a high vibrational state and watching my thoughts and words etc. and I have inevitably encountered some undesirable events and don’t exactly know what to do in those moments. I wouldn’t call them devastating at all but still. I found I was just not willing or able to just ignore what was happening. I found it was very necessary for me to stand up for myself and for another person in these situations, which meant acknowledging there was a problem. And that goes against the LOA belief that everything is already perfect. On another note I can see the perfection in those events as necessary for me to manifest what I need and want. It illicited some pushback from me. I had to speak up and complain (affirm lack) to my neighbor as well as to my mothers nursing home. But in both cases it resulted in getting what I want. 🤷🏻♀️ Make sense? So clearly we don’t need to just deny events but deal with them so we can get to where we want to be. Also, “contrast” is necessary as a stepping stone to manifest our desires. Sometimes we need to learn something to believe we are worthy of more.
Trying to manifest a health issue to go away. I listen to my doctors! There is nothing else they can do for me. It’s chronic. I don’t know what to do. I had a really bad coach who thought I was doing everything right and didn’t condemn anything I was doing but it’s been 8 months and no progress! Health always gets neglected in the manifestation community.
whenever I experience such things I tend to react big time, like breakdowns even, I have a hard time controlling my emotions and I eventually learned to just let them happen, and also currently learning to process them. But there's this one circumstance that's so devastating to me, that I literally didn't feel anything about it, like my mind went straight to detachment even if that thing that happened was so terrible, I don't know if thats just my minds way of coping with something so hurtful, but its like its numb, like I'm just tired of reacting when it comes to that, it's the feeling of I just can't be bothered anymore, it just feels a whole lot better to ignore it, however I still know that circumstance was terrible (it's very bad), it's technically very painful/hurtful, and normally I would feel devastation about it, but like I said, for some reason my mind went straight to ignoring this, I'm not even sure if it's just denial but I somehow feel better not reacting to it, would that still be genuine detachment?
I think this is a natural human reaction when the mind can’t quite cope with the reality. I was just confronted last night with my worst fears of 3D circumstances and in large part my reaction was just numbness. Letting myself sit with the raw emotion as I shift to my preferred state
I just lost my beloved grandmother after not having gone to visit her for 6 years (she's in one of those more complicated countries)...and this just comes up as I'm far from my relatives and alone in my grief.
Thank you for being real, I´m a new subscriber, my reality is changing as I write this. I read and search a lot, but your videos are answering a lot of my doubts and loopholes, thank you for your time, energy and free content🌺🌸
This is so heartfelt, genuine, comforting and soothing. So much beautiful wisdom and guidance here. Thank you always!!!!! You’re the best of the best! ❤
Yes i thought my life choices led me to exactly where i am, and really, i allowed others to be my focus. I wasnt making choices. I said to a friend that I'm afraid to make any move, because I'm afraid I'm going to bring more pain & struggle onto myself and those i am responsible for. Its not that i am afraid of work, or think that life should come without challenges; i want to participate and to be able to feel the fear and do it anyway; i want to be able to represent myself authentically. I know completing things is the only way I'll get momentum again. If it were just me, it would be less intimidating. I dont want my son to suffer because i dont know what I'm doing.
Ok, yes, I am on the right track, but where were you when I first started this journey lol jk ❤you are like the best coach out there. Seriously. There's nobody else like you out there. You are totally the smartest, empathetic, but minus any fluff, the most realistic channel who knows her stuff and teaches the truth. I can go on and on about you. Sending massive growth vibes to you❤❤❤
Agreed Re: projections /transference however while I find tremendous value in what you’ve shared Since I started listening, you clearly demonstrate a great deal of what we call counter transference: you project a lot of your stuff onto the community but here’s the thing before the witch trials come for me…lol As with all divine paradoxes Because if this, I trust you beyond your brilliance and contribution. But to be clear….you are well intentioned But most def projecting your stuff. My hope is you take this in someway this information as respect and love only but over the course of your videos I’ve noticed this, and yet, your truly remarkable so, it’s easy to see pass that.
Coaches are not has lighting but I definitely can understand why you see it that way. They are ill informed but you are projecting that reality into your content Great if you’re looking to save, but last time I checked we aren’t here to highlight BS beyond very simple acknowledgment. I get it; you’re appealing to those that are at a very low place. I’ve been there myself, far too often, and like me, you’re the one with the courage to rise up call bullshit, all good but it’s evident, given the pervasive theme/commentary throughout pretty much every EXCELLENT. Video you created your storyline. Bleeds through. Just the messenger who sees truly incredible talent. Your understanding of metaphysics call ability to not only convey, but, create a union with so many people with considerably different comprehension & capabilities in employing this info and diverse backgrounds is masterful.
Agreed with both comments above. Really enjoyed the earlier videos but a lot of those videos were more so “confirmation” of insights I had already come to understand so nothing was necessarily brand new for me but I still felt they were valuable. Lately though some of these videos feel like this incessant need to drop the seed of struggle or idea of 3rd parties, by constantly referencing that as an example rather then explaining the types of assumptions that create those things in the first place. Also I think folks want to understand your personal journey/story more. I feel like there hasn’t been much said on your own SP journey and how that worked out for you.
I would love to hear your perspective on revision, if you have any insights on how to use it in a healthy way and in which cases that would be a benefical technique
So even I had a coach who told me to ignore the circumstances, and pretend they don’t hurt me.. and persist in the new story. And I agree, that was BS. I also agree that we are not to blame ourselves.. but I am confused. If our SC is creating circumstances/realities.. then if it logical to believe that if I get better, if I heal my wounding, inner child stuff, I will create better. I hope you get what I am asking. Can you elaborate ?
Genevive can you make a video about having hope and dropping resistance while beginning manifestation? When I first started loa I had a lot of hope but after lots of failures and manifestations coming in and out, I really just want to focus on myself, but I’ve lost hope.
I think this makes a lot of sense but could you specifically talk about when an SP is emotionally abusive/manipulative/puts you down? Is there any hope for manifesting a healthy dynamic with such a person and is it even advisable? Wouldn't the past trauma always get in the way if that person does come back seemingly transformed and you decide to give them another chance? I think this topic would be important to be addressed in a separate video because for the past 3 years I tried my best to manifest the best version of someone who love bombed me in the beginning then started to put me down and now I suspect he was being manipulative. I went through a lot of trauma. Despite all my efforts working with a manifestation coach and all he kept showing up the same way. But I also know now I was trying to manifest him from a wounded place. I wonder if it would work if I manifested him from a more empowering place but am unsure I should take the chance and spend more time on this. I realized now I ended up using the Law to overlook his red flags because I thought I could manifest his lovely version. I think especially when it comes to abusive situations things get a little complicated with the Law. And the thing is that I'm not even 100% sure he was being consciously abusive or just unconsciously acting out of insecurity.
Thank you. The more I watch and listen to you ,the more I realize I am a manifestation moron. And I really thought, I am doing so well. 😂 Well, anyway, would you please be so kind and tell me/us the 101 of it , because I am so confused and helpless right now. That would be amazing. I really want myself to believe it really works. Thank you ❤
7:18 we never give up on ourselves, not about fixing myself 13:41 reclaim yourself from that circumstance and detach from the meaning you give it Manifestation community way too harsh on ppl manifesting “bad” stuff
...I do have a question I thought I'd pop here. I'd really like to work with this company, and they're very 'door shut' at the moment. Every time it comes into my head, I recognise the 'door shut' feeling and then shift to a new thought. But I'm still left with a feeling in my body, bit like dead wood, and the perception isn't really shifting. Do I sit with that feeling in my body and see what the raw emotion is?
Can you make a video about karma ? I know that is not really linked to manifestation but I’ve suffered and possibly suffered a lot more because of manifestation laws in the hands of a completely psychopath ex who I kept thinking and visualising would change etc but that finally didn’t happen and I have given up but ever since I want justice and for him to atleast apologise genuinely . I think manifesting sps etc gives me more trauma than anything else. I will take a break and just meditate
Hello Geneviève. I hope this comment will make its way to you. I'm currently going through very tough circumstances with my sp, and I'm really shaken by strong emotions, which I know I really should really take all the time needed to process first. I wanted to join the January challenge but I'm considering your "manifesting your specific person" course. I wish could afford a 1:1 coaching so could guide me onward but my finances right now are certainly not optimal for the time being. (February will be better) which one do you think is better based on my case ? I'm really willing to entertain and create a new life and relationship dynamics, I'll put the work, I won't surrender on myself and my wishes. Thank you so much for everything you put out, I sincerely believe you are the best manifestation coach I've found, and I'm looking forward to grow and integrate your teachings as they're supposed to. Jonathan
What if nothing is working for 40 years & things only, always seem to get worse? Is it acceptable to exit life at this point? I'm leaning toward that.. I've had more than enough now
"Continue doing what you gotta do in the old story, It's okay to address that" confuses me because I don't know what it is that I need to be doing, and I don't know how to address it in 3d. I know it would be okay to, but I don't know how to "address it" in my situation. (extreme poverty) so everything has piled up for years, lost everything, and I'm just living in a fantasy land of manifestation I guess..really not sure how to merge manifestation with my current 3d money issues. There's nothing I can do in 3d. that's why I turned to manifestation, but then I guess I still have to do stuff in 3d that I'm not able/don't know how to do. confusing. keeps me stuck. don't want to be but this is my conundrum. maybe you can help. thanks
I just wanted to say I feel a lot of shame and guilt in the way I reacted. I forced my SP to talk to me and him and his friends see me as a psycho. At least that is how I feel. I just want to know that there is a way to manifest him back and if him and his friends will ever see me differently?
I agree with the above comment! Your perspective on this is everything. Change the way you’re seeing YOURSELF in this equation. Minimize the importance of whatever meaning you’ve attached to his friends. This could be an interesting opportunity to try revision (change the way you see/experience an event or circumstance) if you’re comfortable with it.
Hmm, if you were my friend irl & you opened up to me about this, my response would be: Psycho? Nah, they think you're passionate in an endearing way & really fearless & bold & free-spirited for not shying away from what you want (i.e. communication)... Seriously, you must be at least in some way like this because look at you! Being here, looking for support & answers on how to create the life you want when so many others would simply be embarressed & give up?... This is bold. Maybe the adjectives I used aren't quite the ones you'd like to describe yourself with, but you have to admit, something great & wonderful is there. Anyone's best traits can come out in "shadowy", less-than-helpful ways sometimes & I'm sure they can overlook a moment of blunder & see these amazing potential & qualities you are to master for what they are: Great, desirable, lovely, cool, inspiring. People come back around even after big scandals. You know why? Because we're not our mistakes & lowest points & the greatness will shine through, just like how the clouds cannot hide the sun for long. You focus on appreciating, owning & embodying your greatness that just came out wrong momentarily & worst case scenario, they can't help but to be impressed by how gracefully you trained yourself/your mindset out of whatever made you "psycho", you know? There's something so impressive about someone who gets back up & grows & if they are *sane, worth-your-time type of people*, they'll acknowledge that.😊 Btw, if you think you're not something because you identify with the opposite, well you can always be both. When we have mastery over both, we can choose to lead with one or the other as we wish. Good luck & I wish you a delightful time creating the life you desire!💖 P.S. Please don't assume mastering sth = needing to put a lot of time & effort. I didn't mean to imply you're not good enough or capable now. I see it more as... we are naturally leaning & growing into our potential & it'll feel more real, familiar & comfortable over time, so there will be less & less "blunders", but all of this is about *wanting* to master our potential without attachment to the idea of being a master (needing to master... needing to put in work). I just meant you are a perfectly fine & beautiful human who is realizing their power more & more, any sensible person will acknowledge this sooner or later & their lives will be better for it as it just means they are becoming more capable of accepting themselves & looking at their own mistakes with compassion & forgiveness & light-heartedness...
Hello, my ex and I have been through everything on this planet and he really is the avoidant type and I broke up with him because I just didn’t feel loved, but I am thinking now that it might have been that I am too anxiously attached and he is avoidant. He has currently been ghosting me for a week with no sign of life except posting on his story, although I have messaged him to see if he is alright. Do you think it is possible for me to manifest him to come back?
