How Your Thoughts Can Destroy A Relationship | Lysa TerKeurst 

I can't express how much this is me and how this is exactly what I am stuggling with.

Dear lord I need this book. I suffer from crippling insecurities and a major destructive personality. Recently I realised that it might ruin my potential new relationship with the most patient and most understanding guy I have ever met before it even gets off the ground. This realisation has put me in a major depressive mood for the past two days.

The enemy has access to our thoughts. Reject evil thoughts and wrong thinking. Renew your mind by thinking about what God says in His Word.

Wow that' s deep. Philippians 4:8.

Welp. I "thought" I was the only one who thinks that way.

Definitely something I struggle with... And it doesn't help that I'm the most emotional person in the world/hyper sensitive. This video really helped

Wow what an eye opener!

I really needed this, there is someone in my life that is very important to me, and we have some issues to work out, but most of them are just my doubt caused by scenarios like she mentioned. Thank you for sharing this.

Loving the feedback so far! Glad I'm not the only one who does this ha. Also, don't sleep on the Unbound program if you are looking into college classes! Epic program! Check it here getunbound.org/jeff

The accuracy of this is too much! Great video.

I just need to say thank you for posting this, I've been battling with this and I know it puts pressures on people in our lives, and I'd love that this stop. but we shall know the truth and the truth makes us free!! thank you God soo very much!! ❤🌹👌

This is such an amazing message. Thank you so much for always posting honest and life giving content.

praise God! sometimes i just need to hear it straight up, from someoneni completely don't know! thank you God for this message!

Currently reading this book, ordered it after the first time you featured her. It is truly blessing me, thank you Lysa Terkeurst, will definitely be checking out your other books.

Thank you for being so open.

Thank you so much for remind us how we are and we don't want to believe in it. May God have mercy upon us and teach us to be a virtuous women for His glory! ❤️

I've been reading this book, it's a total blessing!

I'm glad I'm not the only one. Your wisdom is priceless

Thanks for your honesty and for being transparent. I can honestly say that I am dealing with that as well but as I continue/begin to seek to understand, all my thoughts gets slapped to the curve. lol

I bought her book not too long ago and It is an awesome book! At the end of almost every chapter I find myself crying reading the prayer at the end! I'm about halfway through and after every chapter so far, I know God is really dealing with my heart! Just thought I'd share :)

I'm so glad I'm not the only one who struggles with this. My thoughts can often ruin my entire day when I really am just fine!

I'm learning about this right now. It's all about perspective. A person will think the worst, and it turns out to be different.

totally relateable! This seemed to just happen to me where I thought one of my roommates was frustrated with me but she wasnt! Thanksfor putting this up!

This so true for me! I always haves these assumptions that the girl I'm talking to secretly does even like me, but is pretending to out of pity.

thanks for uploading this! this video was exactly what i needed today and has helped put my mind to ease

Such valuable insight and such a true and honest way of sharing it- thanks !

I love this. Opened a good dialog between my husband and I.

Wow! I think I've done this alot. Thank you for your honesty and sharing

Thank you! The truth has set me free!!!

U have basically just described my day to day life! Especially the marriage side, it is nice to know I am not the only one x

Such a great message and very true! Thank you for sharing! 😊

Awesome perspective! Such an eye opener!

I love this! Definitely something we all need to hear.

oh...my.....goodness! she just blew my mind! like a light switch just went off in my head! she was describing ME! thank u so much for the much needed slap in the face/reality check....thank u!

Thank you so much for this. God bless you guys. I'd love to watch more videos dealing with these kinds of topics.

Thank you, Lisa

You confronted my exact issue head one with your message. Thank you!!

Wow, deep, thank you so very much!

this is really great and I was actually pulled into what she had to say. such a good story and point

Wow!!!! Wow!!!! I love this message

Needed to hear this ! Thanks 🙏

wow what is weird is that I did that too! I had played out senerios of friends saying something and just yesterday I was having one and I stopped myself and said " Colorless, stop making situations that never happened because you are getting mad/sad over something that never happened."

Very True! Thanks

wow... just perfect. I needed to hear that.

Oh wow i do this i did not even realise! Thanks for this eye opener!

Love this!!

Wow this was awesome , so true how we can so easily come up with these scenarios in our minds and completely ruin a relationship !

So great! Thank you! 😇🙏🏻✨

Wow I definitely can relate and this was an eye opener!

This video is something I struggle with everyday of my life. I thought I was crazy. Thank god I am not the only one who thinks like this.

What she's describing is codependancy I like Christians talking about psychological emotional issues. It's really needed.

Thank u sister...u r not alone...I do this a lot..but it helps to no I'm not alone in these feelings...thank you and God Bless .......Debbie:-) :-) :-)

Loved it! Very informative! Thank you!

This is sooo good! I love Lysa! She's awesome!

man, I do this alot...thanks for sharing this vid.

I am so thankful that I'm not the only one

Wow so relatable! I act like I know everybody so well, when I really should just talk to that person

great info, thanks

What... This is my life. I didn't even know this was a thing. Thank you Jesus.

i couldn't agree more

I just read this in uninvited yesterday!!!

Meeeeeee Tooooo! I'm not alone. Awesome message.

isnt it also possible that those projections are of how we feel about/see ourselves??

Great video !!

Very Elightening

I love this

Love your videos, Jeff. Thank you for being an amazing man of God. My girlfriend and I thank you!

Hey you forgot to link her book! I was battling this last night again.. its been months of this going on..and its so hard to stop. thanks for this video

Wow, this is so me!

Oh no, I do this so much!

I was listening I promise but just want to say - love the chairs...

This was amazing! I can. relate to this subject so much, but I don't want it to be. I refuse to make assumptions about what people think of me. STOP, TRACI! STOP! You just never know what someone is thinking.

OMG I do this all the time with everyone I meet help me Jesus

Wow! I do this all the time with my boyfriend, my sisters, and friends. I'm glad to know I am not the only one. I get called on it all the time by my boyfriend, it's something I need to learn to stop.

This is what we psychologists like to call the fundamental attribution error☺👌🏻

Yup you thought way to ahead of yourself only thinking about yourself ...thats how complex the mind is...the mind can play tricks on you

I do the same thing except I believe that I’m right and I’ve been proven to be right in the past a lot. I believe God gives us discernment and we know certain things we perceive we pick up on peoples demeanor

This was an awesome video, i totally relate! However, what can I do about it if i do struggle with assigning perceptions to my family and friends?

AMEN

Lol, I know exactly what your saying this was good and helpful.

Wow! Nail on the head.

Wow, needed this. ❤️ it's so true! Lol 🙊

I gotta admit I've done similar in regard to assuming a persons feelings or thoughts. Gotta stop doing that because I've been wrong about that recently.

Literally dealed with this today and asked God to show me a sign

I use to do that.

Omg this is me

I love Lisa I'm so much like her

Thank you , LORD, for this. I wholly identify & understand.

Wow this is so me...

I am Gali, in the year 1980 I lost all my hopes, I became a thief and club dancer. At that time I heard about Christ, the Lord spoke with me though the Scripture. JOHN 14:6 “I AM THE WAY THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE NO MAN COMETH UNTO THE FATHER BUT BY ME.” I surrendered my life to Lord Jesus and confessed that He is the only Lord and died for my sins to deliver me from all my sins (Karma). When I totally surrendered my life to the Lord He has delivered me from evil spirits, which suffered me about 6 years. I became a new person in Christ. I love Bible so much and started memorizing the scriptures. By the grace of God I have memorized Five Thousand (5,000) Verses from the Holy Bible. Every week I also remember all the verses. Morning time I remember about 1500 verses for praise, worship and prayer. (Including 100 Psalms). This practice helps me to grow strong in the Lord and also to help others for the glory of the Lord. John 14:6 is my favorite verse; I preach this word to many unsaved people that they may find the peace in Jesus Christ because He is the Lord of all. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-GWViryWWch4.html

😩😩 I do this too !!! Father help me lol

Lisa. I wish you would help me. to get my problem with the same out!!

Got Dang. That is me. How do I make it stop?

I'm so guilty of doing this. Do u have more videos on this subject?

holla at your boy lol 😂😂😂

I do that too quite often 😕 but how do you know what your partner is actually thinking if they don't express it? 🤔🤔 I'm really frustrated trying to figure all out because he doesn't talk about his thoughts or feelings and every time I ask openly he just makes a joke and avoids the subject even though I've made it clear that I need to know what he actually thinks in order to stop trying to figure it out myself and -obviously- make exaggerated and negative assumptions based on (negative) past experience :((

Really interested in Lysa's book....but what's the title???? Not mentioned anywhere here....

Wow this is me. How do I stop this harmful habit?

How is this Surety name pronounced please?

This is me😞